My Personal Journey Toward Creating a Hotwife

any more progress or advancements?
phredd2003

phredd2003 - Like I said, I'm going to let her do any serious advancements like that. This kind of thing has to be done at her pace. She must feel that it's just as much or more for her than for me. I do appreciate you asking about the progress:

She just recently had her period and we don't usually do much that week. Just before her period we started playing around. I brought up Aaron while talking dirty to her. She made a big dramatic stop of all action! "Tonight I just want you!" she exclaimed. I was quite turned off. I told her that if she didn't want to bring other people into our play that night, she should have just made one little comment and put an end to it and it would have been no big deal. Making a big dramatic gesture of the whole thing was a complete buzz*******.

Then shortly after her period we began to play. Almost right off the bat she brought Aaron into our dirty talk. Then she brought in her bisexual friend who lives far away. She started off with her friend riding her face while Aaron was fucking her. Then she wanted me to fuck her friend while Aaron was fucking her. I played along. Truthfully, I do find her friend attractive and she knows that. However, I really don't want to play with any women other than my wife. I just hope this isn't a test to see if my fantasy is really about giving myself an excuse to be with another woman. Don't get me wrong. Fantasizing together about me being with her cute, curvy friend isn't something I can't go along with. I'm certainly not disgusted by it. I just hope these are all steps in the right direction.

I am with you Ted, I really don't have much interest in being the one relaxing with someone else. Don't get me wrong, I still see attractive women and am curious, but ultimately I just want to watch her have sex.

I have also had my wife make abrupt comments, leading to *******ing the mood, but then again, some of my comments have not always been well recieved. Oh well, as long as things turn out in the long run, the bumps along the way are just part of the journey.

Great to see your updates.

Allen - glad to see you're still following through what feels like a regression.

Our sex life has been a bit slow lately. When things have been happening, my wife has been cumming very hard talking about me doing things with her bi friend. The last time this type of talk enared her to cum once while I was fingering her and then again while I was fucking her. The time before I think she had a multiple orgasm where she literally wept, but I'm not sure she knows what a multiple orgasm is. She had never had a single orgasm before she met me. Maybe I'm confused about what a multiple orgasm is. I'll have to look it up.

I suppose that if it got to that point, I'd be willing to have sex with another woman if she would agree to have sex with another man. She would have to go first though.

Another potential compromise is we've talked about her getting fucked by a huge strap-on that her friend is wearing. Maybe that could be a compromise?...

I still think getting her to have sex with the hot bi girlfriend is the way to go to get her started to having sex with others, and you don't have to have sex with the girlfriend, just with your girl. You could have the friend do her with a strap on and get her loosend up for you, you can do her, and the bi girlfriend can go down on her to clean her up. hell, just watching them would be awesome- don't overthink it, invite the bi girlfriend over for takes and a porno-
phredd2003

Ted: The ups and downs of a relationship...we all have them. My wife and I have been on the slow side of things as well.

However, at least your wife is willing to play with someone else...even if it is with another woman. That could be a lot of fun. Maybe they could take turns dominating you? Cuckolded via lesbian experience...could be fun. Think of the nasty talk they could have tward you.

This might just be the chance of opening a door leading to your wife cuckolding you with a guy. Ultimately...who knows. I think she will eventually cuckold you, but its just not easy to predict when, where, why, how...etc.

I will continue to follow your progress, fast or slow.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and your wife. Don't forget to baste her turkey.

Haven't heard anything in a while...any updates?

Sorry it's been a while. Things have been very slow. First things first, I'll respond to the last few posts.

phredd2003 - Well, I've mentioned it before, but I certainly can't expect everyone to remember every detail. The bi friend is flaky and lives about 600 miles away. It's just not going to happen. I'll get into that later. Also, my wife doesn't like porn at all. That's also not going to change. However, I agree about a girl first possibly being the gateway. This will also come up again soon.

Allen - I really do appreciate the support. And speaking of Thanksgiving, we did have a quicky at her parents' house on Thanksgiving day when no one else was home. The sad part is that is as dangerous as our sex has gotten. I don't think she got a lot out of it because she was so concerned about the bedspread

Hawthorne34 - Thanks for asking, they should be up here soon.

Thursday December 30

Honestly, it was so hot for me that afterward I was thinking about trying to get on here and post all about it just so I wouldn't forget the details. Unfortunately I've forgotten all the details. I'm going to do my best to post what I remember. If I put it in quotes, that means that it's very close to an exact quote.

She had cum so hard on her T.O.M. that she cried. Sometimes orgasms make her well up, this time she flat out wept! Once the tears were dried, it was my turn. I slid in with the ease that usually comes with some lube and her having had her vibrator opening things up. I begin slowly sliding in and out:

Me: "You can be honest with me (this is my way of letting her know this isn't an "in character" conversation). Would you want to try being with a girl?"

Her: "Wouldn't that make me a lesbian?"
I'm not sure if she was looking for reassurance here, or what...

Me: "Not if you're doing it for ME."

Her: "That's true. Is it weird if I want to?"

Me: "No honey, lots of women do it."

Her: "It's just that they have the same equipment and everything, I'd like to see what it's like. Plus I'd like to be able to finger a pussy from the angle that you do... It can't be 'Steph,' though."
This is actually a great thing. She's acknowledging that a real world interaction would have to be with someone from outside of our close-knit friends and family.

Me: "Oh, I know. If you're going to do a girl, you have to do a guy just to make it even."
I said this smiling as if to acknowledge that it was a less-than-smooth segue.

Her: "Oh to make it even (she chuckled). I really want to see you with a girl. I want to watch you in action and be able to watch you enjoying yourself."

Me: "That's why I want to see you with another man. You're the sexy woman I've ever seen. I want to be able to watch you from angles that I normally can't see. I want to see you getting pleasure in different ways than what you get from me."
At this point I can tell I must be saying something right. She closes her eyes, tilts back her head and starts moaning.

Her: "But what if I like it?"

Me: "It's sex honey. You're supposed to like it."

Her (moaning): "I just imagine you there telling me it's ok!"

I came HARD! I wasn't supposed to cum in her. She is on antibiotics which can screw up birth control.

Her: "We're not going to be able to do anything we talked about if you're going to do that!"
Again, acknowledging the possibility of real world play, especially AFTER sex, is huge.

We spent the rest of the evening talking about how good the sex was!

I hope the format of that last post was digestible.

Sunday January 2

I don't remember all the details exactly. It wasn't nearly as intense as the last post. I'll just give you some of the highlights:

After some foreplay and some fingering, we decided to try her new toy, the The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!. After a few minutes she had a noticeable look of dissatisfaction.

Me: "What's wrong, honey?"

Her: "I don't think it's reaching my G-spot, or something."

Me: "Do you want me to get your T.O.M.?"

Her: "Yeah, I guess its true what they say. Once you go big you can't go back."

After hearing that sentence I was in shock with pleasure. I was so shocked that I couldn't even comment on it. In retrospect I wish I would've thrown something out there like "do you realize that's the hottest thing you've ever said to me?" Oh well, nothing I can do about it now.

Once I got T.O.M. in her (quite easily I might add), she asked me to tell her about the "Cum Loving Wife" from memory. (To refresh your memory "Cum Loving Wife" is the story we found online that we both love. It's about a wife who brings home 5 guys from the bar and fucks them while the husband makes dinner. The biggest of the men is a character named Aaron. Aaron has become a regular in our dirty talk.) She was cumming in no time at all!

Damn Ted, I got hard reading your account of your/your wifes interactions. You really have the potential to have the best of all worlds. Keep doing what you are doing...and I am sure you will be back here soon telling how you are now a cuckold.

Allen - Thank you for your response and encouragement.

I'm curious. Do you think the lack of responses is due to the length of time between posts, or lack of content in the most recent posts? Just wondering. As long as you're reading, I'll keep posting. Hell, I may even continue posting if you stop, hahaha!

Any time Ted. Lack of responses, well it is somewhat likely due to length between posts, but then again if you don't have anything to post...what are going to do. I think content is important to keep things going. If you are posting even just little things about you and your wife I think people keep on looking back waiting for that big moment. But then again, being creatures of "instant gratification"...for some unless you have the constant blow by blow content, pictures, videos...etc...some lose interest. Let us not foreget that many jack off to this content and unless they can...they move on.

As for me, I love reading your posts, iwmwtcm's posts, and many others. I like the realism of them, knowing that you and some of the others are just that...real. I will keep reading your thread, commenting, and hope to someday read that your wife cuckolded you. I can also say that you, as well as a few others stuck by me when things were up, and now...while they are down. I do think my wife will do it again, its just got to be the right man, and the right time. I am working on it...as I know you are doing what you can with your wife.

Thanks for the update Ted

Ted:

I just read your postings,(don't know how I overlooked this for sooooo long), and wanted to say that I have enjoyed your seeding in the garden of lust! I hope to hear about a good harvest of sloppy seconds.

Thanks for all of your efforts and postings on this story. I'm pulling for you and would love to hear about the day it finally happend.

Good luck!
Cuck who loves a creampie.

Allen - Hang in there. It'll happen!

Hawthorne34 - Thanks for reading and posting!

cuckold4one - Very well said. I appreciate the support!

Good thread. Like the way it's told. I feel like I am in the same position as you Tedd. One day all goes well and the next the whole idea is not good and a mood*******er. Hope you guys can work something out. For me I think it will never happen in the sence I want it to happen. My wife however starts working now as a callgirl. In a way it's a form of cuckolding but without me being there or getting pics or clips since the privacy of clients needs to be respected.

mixcouple - Thanks for the complement on my blogging

Lately our sex life has been very slow. She keeps wanting to talk about seeing me with another girl because that other girl could be as dirty as I want her to be. Does that make sense? She used to love "Cum Loving Wife" imagining herself as the female lead. Now she wants me to be one of the guys and some other girl the center of attention. Clearly we're moving in the wrong direction and I'm not sure where to go from here.

So she wants to be a dominant couple? Or just see you dom the other girl?
I might be a good idea to tell her "lets do this with this other girl." The way your wife wants you to, but then suggest that its "my turn". "I want you to be the girl at the center of attention, and I want to see you taken by another man...me being the sub to both of you" Once you get the ball rolling, she may like one scenario vs the other...hopefully the cuckold one. But even with what she wants, if you are able to get what you want, it might have to be one of those situations where you two "switch" roles to satisfy each others fantasies.

Either way, you have yourself one lovely naughty wife.

Ted-
Really? your hot wife wants to talk about you screwing some dirty slut and her watching and you're having trouble with this? Why don't you try going with that understanding that's what turns her on, and that's what's important. Maybe you could improvise and tell her you would want her to "clean up" the other slut after you were done with her, see how she reacts-might love it. Then you do your wife and have the dirty slut clean HER up. Maybe (probably) she even has a slut girlfriend of hers in mind to try this with, you should SO explore this with her. If it breaks the icejam with her and she actually does it and likes it, maybe she will reciprocate to make you happy and let you get a guy to do her. Be flexible, have an imagination, it's not all about you- you will receive your happiness by giving her hers!
phredd2003

Hi Ted, I would say to go with her fantasies, anything that takes you away from the normal sex-life has got to be good...

She may want to see you gettiing with another woman before you can convince her it is ok for her to do it...

mr two

Hi Ted,
Some very good reading... Totally hot! keep up the good work, work at your pace, pace yourself, you'll get there before you know it. I really enjoy reading your posts.

Allen - I don't think that dom or sub has a whole lot to do with it. I think she just wants to see me with another woman. If I understand correctly, you're suggesting I work at a compromise with one of each and that's what I'm hoping for.

phredd2003 - I know it's hard to believe. I'm just a very loyal guy. I cheated on a gf in the past. It was kinda' a revenge thing because she had cheated on me. It was very embarrassing. I'd fantasized about fucking this girl for years and when it came "go" time I could barely get it up!

twohorny - You're right, but that would be extremely difficult. Women who want to play with a couple are difficult to come by to begin with. I've never been a ladies man either, so that doesn't help. I think if we agreed we had to try a girl first, we'd never get to the point of finding a guy.

qtbass - Thanks for reading and commenting!

Sunday January 30th

Yesterday was very exciting! Due to her new birth control causing her to have a two week period, and then getting sick, we hadn't had sex in about 3 weeks! Yesterday she woke up feeling much better and was quickly ready for sex.

We quickly started reminiscing about the long car trip this summer and the conversation we had then. Yesterday's conversation went something like this:

Her: "What did I say to you on that ride?"

Me: "You told me that you wanted to include Steph in our fantasies. You said if you told her we fantasized about her she would think it was hot."

Her: *Giggle* "Yeah. I think we should try a guy and a girl... Separately."

Me: "Which one do you want to try first?"

Her: "A guy."

Me: "You said that you'd like to do a guy who has a big one. You wanted to be his dirty little secret."

Her: "Can he be married?"

Me: "Do you want him to be?"

Her: "Yeah."

Me: "Lots of married men would love to make you their dirty little secret! Every man's dream is to have a beautiful blond with big tits and a tight pussy on the side."

Her: "Where would we meet him?"

Me: "You said you wanted to meet him in a club."

Her: "Yeah. We can pick him out and I will do a size check."

Me: "You need to make sure he's nice and big for you?"

Her: "Yeah, put a finger in me."

I put a finger in her. She asked me to talk about how dirty I want her to be. I started talking about the guy sliding in slowly and me watching her face. She stopped me.

Her: "Tell me about what you would want to see me do in a porno. Maybe start with a blindfold and handcuffs."

Me: "I have you blindfolded and handcuffed. We're in the sixty-nine position. I'm licking your clit. He slides his huge cock into you while I'm licking your clit."

Her: "Oh God yeah! That's it!"

At this point she is laying face down while I'm fingering her with two fingers.

Me: "Tell him how much you like his big dick!"

Her: "Oh God, I love your big dick!"

Me: "He starts telling you what a filthy fucking slut you are. He starts slapping your ass (I slapped it a few times HARD). He starts to pull your hair."

After a few more HARD slaps and some hair pulling she had an orgasm, although not as big as some.

I did want to add a little tidbit:

Saturday we were watching one of her training videos for Pure Romance. They said that only 10% of women can have a g-spot orgasm from penile intercourse. My wife looked at me and said "see honey, only 10%."

I said "you've had one with me haven't you?"

"No," she said shyly. That means she's faked some orgasms over the years. I was a little miffed at the dishonesty, so I let it go.

***********

Sunday after sex I was helping her put in all her orders for PR. She had won some free product and were discussing what to get.

Me: "You might not have had an orgasm from my penis, but you've had an orgasm from..."

Her: "Other man's penises!" *Grinning*

Me: "I was going to say dildos, but yeah."

Anyway, the end result is that we ordered a length extension. We agreed I'm going to try doing her with the length extension and the girth enhancer at the same time. I'll let you know how it goes!

Ted,
Just wanted to say that I love your posts. She sounds like she's very close to cuckolding you and youre doing it together out of true love. I think this could be very exciting to both of you and really enhance your marriage.

I recently introduced a large dildo to my wife. She enjoyed it but not as much as your wife does. I am going to use it on her more often and give her permission to use it alone while I am at work. I hope she will become somewhat adicted to the fullness.

I think it is interesting that she wants to see you with another woman. I suggested adding a woman to our sexlife and my wife got really jealous and kinda freaked out. I only suggested it because she really like lesbian porn. I think this may be a good way for you to start. I have read where a lot of couples start out swinging and then end up in a purely cuckold relationship.

I know you said your wife doesnt like porn. But there are some lesbian porn out there that is very romantic and beautiful.. I can give you a few titles if you are interested.

iwmwtcm - Thanks for the feedback and positivity! Big things are very touch and go with my wife. Sometimes she loves it. Other times it makes her extremely uncomfortable. The more "active" we are, the more receptive she is to size. We haven't been that active lately.

The porn thing simply isn't going to happen. I wish it would, but it's not.

Great update Ted! The sex talk is always a turn on...now to just get it done for real
I know, easier said than done.

I have used an extension/girth enhancer, a cyberskin one.
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I love the sex talk between you two, its very erotic/sexy, and gives me ideas to play with my wife. Thanks.

Everything you said was true, but that last part sums it up very well!

Allen - How did it go? Not to be a one-upper, but ours is supposed to add 2 inches. We got it on Tuesday but she seems to be nervous about it. Here's the link, although the website isn't as good about giving sizes and details as the physical catalog.

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Wednesday Feb 2nd

So we slowly start fooling around. Eventually I'm playing with her pussy with my fingers while sliding my cock around the small area between the frontdoor and the backdoor. We do a little talking about how she likes being stimulated in both the front and the back. After a while she gets tired of the backdoor stuff, so I'm just fingering her while caressing the rest of her body with my other hand. Before long I can tell she's enjoying it but still looking for more.

"Do you want me to get out the hot massager?" She giggles as if she wants something but I'm going to have to guess it and that's not it.

"Do you want more lube?" Same giggle.

"Do you want your T.O.M.?" Same giggle followed by a seductive "yeah."

I lube up the toy and slide it in with little resistance. In no time at all we had both the clitoral stimulator and the rotating/vibrating g-spot stimulator on full blast. I could tell she was definitely enjoying it, but she wasn't making any of the facial expressions or body language that she does when she's close to cumming.

"Tell me a story," she softly demands. I start very similar to the last scenario:


I can tell she is getting very close, but needs something else to get her over the edge.

"Then you start begging him to cum inside your little pussy. You want that hot cum shot hard and deep inside you. He slams all the way into you one last time and you can feel him shooting that load inside your hot little pussy." I found the right button. She was flailing her arms trying grab onto the bed. Turning her head back and forth. No tears, but a successful orgasm no doubt.

Side note: After a big orgasm she does this cute thing where she falls into a daze for 20-30 seconds. Then she'll look coherent just long enough to sputter out a sentence or two, then go back into a daze. This is repeated several times.

As usual, it's now my turn. I slide right in and tell her how good it feels after her toy opens her up.

She asks if I want her to continue my story or start a new one. I told her if she knew where to take mine she could keep going.

"After he cums all over my pussy I have you go down on me. You notice how stretched out I am and you love it. You start cleaning up that sloppy mess and then you kiss me so I can taste it. It tastes AMAZING! Then you slide yourself in and you love how stretched out my pussy is..."

She went on to say more. Something about him playing with her nipples and her loving the multiple stimulation, but at that point it was a formality. I was in la-la land and moments away from a mind-blowing orgasm.

It was crazy because we've talked a bit about cum play and done a bit of it also. However, I've never brought up anything about cleaning up her pussy before. I think it came up in a literotica story we found and she wasn't into it. I'm not sure if she got caught up in the moment, or is more savvy on PC than I thought or what...