My Personal Journey Toward Creating a Hotwife

I watched the video and thought it to be very hot. Thats whats nice about amataure vids...they are more into real emotion. Don't get me wrong, I still like the pro stuff, but the amataure stuff comes with reality. I would definately bookmark that one. You can even search youcuck for "amataure interracial", and get all kinds of good stuff.

I think by far my favorite vids are the Holly ones. If she does not freak out about the above video, sometime down the road she might like these.

http://www.youcuck.com/videos/slut-wife-gets-creampied-by-bbc-2/

http://www.youcuck.com/videos/slut-wife-gets-creampied-by-bbc-1/

You have made all the right decisions so far...so keep up doing what you think is best.

Good luck.

Hi Ted,
I see why you're nervous about putting pics online, if she really doesn't like the idea, maybe it's best to leave it. The only thing I can think of is do you know of any websites that tend to have women similar to your wife on? (I don't look up much porn, but I understand you can get websites that specialize in 'MILF' for example). Maybe show her such a site and see if she says anything nice about the women on there, and then point out that she is as attractive or more than any of those women and would she like to put a picture on?

You know her best so don't go there if you think that'd upset her, you don't want her thinking you've just been on the net looking at other women. I think that's the danger of you leaving a link for her to find as well, she might misunderstand why you like it. Why not show he video link to her and tell her that you fantasize that it's her in the video?

I don't think Took and I would be a good web audience! Took only likes porn with me in it (or someone who looks like me, so he can imagine I'm the one fucking the guy in the video). I don't watch a lot of porn and I've never seen anything 'live' as such - I wouldn't know what to do (I think I'd be more nervous than her, lol!). If she's ok with someone other than you watching, it might be an idea to find someone (or a couple) who's done that kind of thing before so he/they feel confident with what they're doing and can maybe take charge of the situation and guide her as to what to do.

Maybe someone else on here has some experience of this?

Mrs Took x

Hi Ted, My wife has just started opening herself up to these new experiences too.
The way I approached it was I wrote her a letter pretty much detailing what I would like to see and/or do with her (as a couple) and it worked very well for us.

The theme I wrote the letter was as a new thread post on this site - it actually was going to be but I couldn't sort out my membership on time so I just made it more permisteral and added relationship/emotional details that I wouldn't have posted publicly.

You could say it was pretty much similar to your thread here except it was more detailed with what I liked and wanted sexually from our relationship, how much I loved and respected her and what I hoped to achieve from us both being happy and satisfied in our physical and emotional needs.
No pressure of course and boundary's respected - but I kind of begged her to drop some of the boundaries - and at least to give it a chance of success.

I stayed pretty mild as far as what I wanted - didn't mention creampies for example as I was just trying to introduce her to the idea of change and acceptance, hoping that once she took the first tentative step, she would see it wasn't such a big deal...

I verbally told her I was going to post it to this site, as it has many like minded members, but ended up emailing it to her (due to computer issues) at a time that she had at least a full day spare (longer would be better - going away for a night/weekend with the boys soon?) so she could think and follow up on it by reading some stuff on here.

There was obviously a direction to this site so she could see I wasn't the only fruitcake
Over a week later I had need to look at her laptop (wasn't snooping) and this site was in the most visited archive of google chrome so she was trying.

The night after giving her the letter I took the laptop to bed and showed her a couple of kinda relevant threads/posts from here (this one is one of them) so she could see the progress being made by some couples - and also so she could also see how much some people wanted this to happen for them and the anguish of it 'never happening' - and how much they loved their wives.

Sorry to ramble again, but it really worked for me...maybe I was lucky and she was just ready, but your lady sounds like she is also coming around. Once the first step goes well (whatever it is she will do) and excites her, she will trust your judgement more and give it a go!

My beautiful wife is now letting me photograph her and post publicly - which was her only non negotiable boundary 4 weeks ago (all due to the trust thing) - not to mention she's getting turned on at the thought of giving me a creampie to clean - I wasn't into them either, but it just happened and she seems to really get off on the thought so I'll do it for her no problems. Give and take - I'll just have to learn to enjoy it I guess lol.

The best thing - she loves me more than she has in years. She can't walk past without a light touch or a kiss or a smile and I'm stoked!

P.S My thoughts - I think if your wife makes a forward step - like thinking she might take a lover if you're not there/in the room - take it!
Maybe let her know it is not your ideal scenario, but you support her and her wants and needs from this lifestyle too. Also hard to find a guy that suits your wifes taste etc AND willing to let her husband watch him fuck her - my wifes new lover has no idea yet about cuckolding as it will probably scare him off?

My 2 cents worth. I look forward to reading more about you guys...sorry to hijack your thread.

iwmwtcm - You're probably right. Making her think that I'm doing it behind her back is definitely a bad thing. I'll just have to hope the right moment pops up!

Allen - Those are great vids! The second one didn't seem quite as amateurish though.

took - You too make a great point about the video. I told her today that when I read the stories that we share, I imagine it's her in the story. That didn't get much of a reaction, but that's better than a bad reaction, right?

Homerman - I noticed that you haven't updated your thread in quite a few days, but I hope you're still around. While I liked your idea about the letter. I just think for me permisterally, that's a bit bold. If I did that she would begin to feel pressured and that always has bad results. I'm hoping to accomplish what you've accomplished with the letter and this sight, through the stories that we share. She's got to be seeing the central theme (wives taking on huge cocks), and she can decide what she likes that goes along with it. Obviously, she knows if there are tons of these stories on the internet, that's it's not just five creepy guys who think that it's hot. I have to add though, that I'm flattered you showed this thread to your wife. Please don't apologize so much. I really liked what you had to say and feel that you improved the quality of the thread by posting.

Nothing mind blowing happened this weekend, but there are some things worth mentioning. Unfortunately I need to get my ass to bed as we're supposed to get up and run tomorrow. I'll be back soon.

Saturday July 17

Saturday I picked out The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! to read to my wife. I was working her pussy with TOM. It had been a week since we'd had sex, so she came so hard she cried!

I slid myself in and ordered my wife to talk dirty to me. She said "do you want a story about three girls, or three guys?" Feigning innocence I responded "what do you mean?" "Do you want me to tell you about three guys, or three girls?" I smiled and said "well I definitely don't want to hear a story about three guys!" She laughed and said "no really, what turns you on more, me with three guys or you with three girls?"

At this point I immediately thought about this thread. Someone (can't remember who), specifically told me to make sure I reassure her that I'm not into being with other girls and it's just about her. I really didn't think that was important for us since I've always focused on her being with another guy through stories and role-play, etc. Apparently I was wrong.

"You with three guys," I moaned while sliding in and out of her stretched out pussy. "Liar," she quickly responded. I seized the opportunity and made the most of it. I told her that she was the only one I wanted to be with for the rest of my life. I told her everything about her (sexual and non-sexual) that I really loved while sliding my cock in and out of her. I told her that I wanted to see her fucked by big cocks because I know how much she loves her big toys, and how hard she comes during stories about slutty wives who take on multiple guys with big cocks.

Next thing I know we're cumming together! It wasn't her biggest orgasm, but she doesn't often cum twice. Nor does she often cum from penetration of my penis. It was really a great experience.

Monday July 19

I had several stories bookmarked, many of which I had not read all the way through. I asked her to pick one out while I made our dinner. She picked The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!. Of course, she had started reading The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!, but realized that part way through Cocaine use is introduced. That's not something that either of us are into at all.

So I begin reading the story and working her pussy with her dildo and the sleeve. Sometimes she prefers more compact, circular motions, but this time I slowly built up in-and-out strokes. She was loving it! It wasn't long at all before she was coming hard.

I did make a mistake this time. As I've discussed, she's gotten to the point where she can handle girth, so long as there's plenty of lube. Length is a different story as it takes her time to warm up to that. Last time we used the dildo, I waited for her to tell me "more." This time I didn't do that and it ended up hurting her a bit.

Thankfully, I didn't hurt her too much to let me fuck her stretched-out, sloppy pussy. As I'm sliding in and out of her well stretched pussy, I decide to get her a start on some dirty talking. I said, "I was talking to Aaron (the big-dicked character from 'Cum Loving Wife') and he said he has a HUGE cock, but can't seem to find a girl with a tight pussy. I told him that was funny because my wife has a tight pussy and really wants a huge cock. He said that he didn't believe me, so I told him that I would prove it to him. Tell me how much you wanna fuck Aaron and what you want to do with him."

She started with something like "his cock is so big that it gives my g-spot nowhere to go." She talked about how much she liked it big, and how she wanted me to do different things to her while he was fucking her. Before long we're both cumming very hard. I love it when she dirty talks herself into an orgasm. It doesn't happen often, but when it does it's amazing!

Thanks for the update Ted!
Always nice to read your posts.

Good to hear you two are havin' fun!

Thanks for the update mate! Sounds like you are definitely making progress

lol this a cool thread ul get where u want to be then ul be struggling to stop her, once her minds open your not in control at all.she will be.

Thanks for the update Ted.

Sounds like you are getting closer!

Have you figured out how and what in your own mind yet for when "it" happens?

LesM - Thanks for the encouragement! I love positive posters.

zara_z - The loss of control is what makes me sometimes think that I should be cool with just fantasizing about it. When we had our talk in the long car ride, every time I had an opinion different from hers, she would push just a little bit and I would just give in for the sake of keeping the fantasy going. At the same time, thinking about the loss of control is making me very hard right now.

Homerman - I appreciate everything that you have to say. As far as a timeline, it's ultimately all going to be happening on her schedule, so I try not to worry about it.

I have the same mixed feelings too mate. One feeling always cancels out the others though...a hard cock lol.

Also her pushing a little shows she is interested and thinking about it - and maybe even becoming a little more slutty...which works for me...dirty girl!

Monday July 26

It had been a week since we last had sex and my wife was sick. I made dinner, we ate and were watching TV when out of nowhere she said "let's have sexy time."

I mentioned that I wanted to read her the story of The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!. She said she wanted to hear a story about a girl with multiple guys. I said this story didn't have that, but I thought she would like it.

I gave her a little bit of foreplay, kissing and caressing and licking her body. I got her T.O.M. and started the story. She liked the story so much, she grabbed it out of my hand and started reading it herself.

When she got to the part where it described in great detail the interaction between Tracy's tight pussy and Bill's huge cock, I could tell my wife was about to have a crying orgasm. However, instead of just letting it go she decided to keep reading. She read the rest of the story, and then I reread to her the part she liked so well. She didn't regain that orgasm. She told me next time to not let her start reading.

I put my cock in her well stretched pussy and I asked her what she liked about the story. She said that she liked how bold the wife was, and she also liked that the husband motioned for her to start fucking him. We kept up the dirty talk from there and I seem to remember thinking that we were being especially dirty. The truth is that I was on such a high that I don't remember. We both came. Hers wasn't a crying orgasm, but she did need a brief breather afterward. Mine was very intense, but very short, even for a guy's orgasm. My big toe curled up and cramped in the curled up position.

That night I woke up at 4am horny as hell. I start spooning my wife and telling her that I had a dream like the story we read, but it was her. At first she was pretty unresponsive. I understand that's normal at 4am so instead of making her mad I decide to roll over and try to get back to relax. At that point she decided she was horny too.

She had mentioned a story, but I didn't want to turn the lights on so I said that I would improvise. I started talking about her on a webcam. Almost immediately she said "can you have him come over and bring a friend." She was not messing around.

I tried improvising a story while fingering her. I don't remember what I said, but it definitely wasn't working. She told me she wanted me inside her. I got inside and I asked her if she liked my story. She said it wasn't as good as the ones we find online. Fair enough I suppose. I like that she was honest.

After a while of me in her she started getting sore. I started touching myself while playing with her ample breasts. I said "tell me about your fantasies." She started with "it's me and you and two guys." I said "that's your fantasy?!?" She said it was. As soon as she got to the part where she described the pleasure she got from being entered by a large member, I came. Then several minutes later, when we were getting ready to go back to relax, she reiterated, "two guys and you is my fantasy."

Random notes:

1. Part of the reamister why I think she says that two guys and me is her fantasy is because she frequently brings up DP. I find this very odd since she doesn't do anal, and only likes brief and occasional surface stimulation on her backdoor.

2. She hasn't brought up other girls in our fantasies in quite a while. In fact the last time I joked with her about the neighbor she informed me that was "never" going to happen.

You have a very exciting journey going on here. Can you imagine the look on your wifes face the first time she experiences another man...and you are there to see it. You are living the high life my friend.

This is getting hotter and hotter.

It sounds like your wife is really enjoying this hotwife/cuckold fantasy sex situation now.
I think maybe she's fantasizing about doing things she doesn't necessarily physically like now (or previously), because she is semi committed and loves the thought of being the slutty wife...being desired, being shared and being naughty?

I think sex and stimulation is at least 90% mental. If you let your inhibitions relax in your mind, you will find that things that were previously abhorrent or at least turn off's, now become enjoyable as they make up part of the fantasy/picture/game whatever it is we call it.

I would certainly be searching for a couple of really good DP stories to read to her.
I would also take the step of buying a small vibrating butt plug while she is in this frame of mind. They come in such small sizes they couldn't possibly be uncomfortable and when they are vibrating will just cause stimulation to her back door.

When you get to the part of the story where one of the guys (say Jeff) penetrates her ass you can gently stimulate her ass with the plug while asking her if she can feel Jeff's cock. "Do you want him to fuck you" etc

If she says 'yes' you can gently work it in while reading and turn on the vibrations. Hopefully it will then stay there buzzing away on its own as you continue as normal...

It would be great if you could get to the point of fucking her while she had the plug in...

Allen - That look is exactly the reamister I want to do it! That's also why I don't think I could let it happen without being present.

Homerman - Being a consultant for a sex toy company, my wife gets a great discount on some very small butt plugs. I've suggested trying one, hell I even offered to try it myself if she would try it too. I let the issue go such a long time ago that I'm not really that much into anal anymore. However, maybe now would be a good time to try to bring it up tactfully.

Hman also brings up another good point about stories. I would like to ask anybody following this thread to feel free to suggest a story. Wouldn't it be hot to say "I picked out the story that got that couple off for the night"?

Wow, I can't believe I forgot your wife worked in the sex toy industry DOH!

Hopefully you are able to work on the butt plug angle...it would be so hot getting to that next step!

I wish my wife was into anal...but alas I'm pretty sure that's not to be..

Some stories for you and your wife:

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I haven't read any of these...but I hope you enjoy...or rather that you and your wife enjoy them.

Homerman - keep reading re: the butt plug.

Allen - I bookmarked the third story down. I'll be sure and let you know if we use it!


Well, I'll start with the bad news...

Two weeks ago, we had an amazing session. A couple hours later she said "you're ok with the fact that we're never going to REALLY do any of that stuff, right?" I tried to keep my composure without her seeing how much my heart sank with hearing that question. I said that if she ever wanted to try it, I would be open to discussion about it. She just said that it would be too permanent, and once it was done, it could never be undone and she didn't like that. I mentioned that she didn't want to try a bigger toy, but now that she has, she really loves it. That obviously didn't change her mind and that was pretty much the whole conversation. Later that night we went out with friends and had some takes. She came home horny. She kept talking about getting a buttplug, because of the one in "Cum Loving Wife," although I would later discover that she had no recollection of that whatsoever. I used her toy until she came. I slipped inside her. I couldn't reach orgasm. I was too focused on the earlier discussion. Does that mean I have a fetish?

Monday, we were having sex. She got hers from T.O.M. I was in her trying to get mine. I asked her to talk dirty for me. She started talking about her with another girl. I asked her to tell me about her with a big one. As she was getting to the part where she had him lie down and she straddled his big cock and slowly eased herself down onto it, she was making "that face." Seeing that look on her face made me cum HARD. She could tell it was exceptionally strong for me. She started laughing and said "you really wanna' see you wife taking a big cock. You'd really be jealous though, right?" I could tell by the way she asked, what she wanted to hear. And let's face it, right after a huge orgasm, the last thing I want to do is have some philosophical discussion, so I just said "I guess so."


The good news...

On Monday we were having sex and she started talking about buttplugs again. I asked her if she remembered talking about them the previous Saturday (as in 9 days ago, things have been VERY slow lately). She said that her friend recommended that she try it. I ended up getting about 2 inches of my finger in her backdoor while working her with T.O.M. She loved it! I think she may actually be serious about trying the buttplug. I'm not going to push the issue AT ALL. If my wife ends up liking the buttstuff, I'm going to get this friend of hers the greatest Xmas present EVER!

"you're ok with the fact that we're never going to REALLY do any of that stuff, right?"

Just keep in mind that for some women, "Never" means "not now, and I don't want to talk about it again until I bring it up."

Never say never...right? Well, for some its going to be the "never" situation. For some "never" is well...as bpop said...now now, but it if things were to allign just right...she will.

My wife went from "I will never cuckold you...stop asking" to cuckolding me...and now back to "I don't think I could ever do it again". I take the second one as, well...if things were "just right" again...then maybe.

I know how strong that urge/want is. I am right here with you on this.

The bad news...

bpop - I should've read this before I decided to talk to my wife about what had happened on Monday. I told her that she made me feel really uncomfortable about the fantasy. She actually started crying and said that she never wanted to do it because it's cheating. She said she's just afraid that I'm going to look for somebody else who does want to do that. Of course I assured her that I would never do that.

The good news...

Later the same day as the aforementioned discussion, we had sex. I was using T.O.M. with the sleeve (which I recently measured is close to 6.5" in diameter). I started talking to her about "Aaron" and his huge cock. I stopped for a moment and she begged me "please keep talking about Aaron!"

Allen - On Sunday night I read my wife your "Wife Watcher" story and she loved it. Although she didn't make it very far into the story before she came.

Butt-plug update! I have been very cool about this. I haven't mentioned it at all, and even when she mentions it, I act only slightly interested. Anyway, she got it yesterday. She asked me to hold it (in the packaging) and look at it last night. I said "that's nice," and put it away. I'm going to make her be the one who says that she's ready to use it, but on the inside I'm bursting with excitement.

The weird news...

My wife just likes to talk, so I don't take anything she says once too seriously. She said that she wants to get a strap-on and dominate me. I told her that I was ok with her dominating, but I don't think I'm into having my butt penetrated. I'm curious if this will come up again.

Ted,

Nice buttplug. You may have to take one for the team and let her fuck you with a strap on. If you want her to try stuff for you, you need to at least try out what she wants to do. If you don't want to do it again after that, that's ok. Just be sure you use plenty of lube.

Once, about a year ago, my prudish wife and I were in bed and I had brought in her vibrator, a vibe very similar to The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!. After getting her off with it, she started rubbing my cock with the vibrating shaft, which felt pretty good. I told her to rub my balls with it while she stroked my cock, so she positioned herself so that she was sitting between my legs while I was laid back on the bed. My cock and balls were well lubricated, as we always use lots of lube when she strokes me off. She then started rubbing it up and down against my ass, which really felt good, so I spread my legs further open for her.

But then, if I wasn't shocked enough that timid her was actually doing this, she started pressing the thing hard against me, trying to shove it in. I was taken aback a bit, but at the same time was extremely turned on by this. Slowly and with a bit more lube, she began to fuck my ass with the vibrating cock, all while rubbing my cock & balls with her other hand, until I blew my load all over my chest and her hand.

I gotta admit, as soon as I came, I had to get that cock out of me, as it actually was starting to hurt a bit, and I was walking funny for the next hour. We haven't repeated that event since, but if we were, I'd want to try it with a smaller vibe or butt plug. We definitely started out too big.

I've tried to do some anal play with her, she'll let me rub her ass, but won't let me put anything in it.

Oh, Ted, you posted a link to this story, The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!, a while ago, on another forum. I just read it and wow, what a fucking turn on that was!

Thanks!

Hey Ted, I think fotomatt might have a good point about taking one for the team! If you're asking your wife to stretch her comfort zone to accommodate something you really want, then it might be in your interest to show that you're willing to do the same. Having said that, if you're sure you'll hate it, then don't do it - try to persuade her in a different direction, because nothing is fun if it isn't fun for both of you, and she will feel terrible afterwards if you really didn't like it.

Also I wouldn't be too disenheartened about her saying it'll never really happen. I'm sure I must have said that to Took a few times at the beginning. The fact is, she likes the idea enough that you both can fantasize about it together when you're intimate, and that's no small victory! I hope you're enjoying this stage of the journey - some cuckold wannabes never even get this far, you're doing great and I'm sure there's even better to come.

Mrs Took x

Hi Ted,
I've been following your story and hope things keep moving forward for you. I can tell you that my wife also said she would never have sex with another man - said she didn't need to, that I was enough for her and she was more than happy with our sex life. She finally relented just over 12 months ago and decided to meet a man that we made contact with through this site. She has now met up with him a few more times and is in fact going to his city for three nights at the end of this week. She is loving it and is becoming more and more a cuckoldress rather than a hotwife.

Anyway, the actual reamister I was posting is that I find The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!a really good story site. I was looking there today and came across this series which I thought may be of interest to you - The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!

Hpefully those links work - first time I've put links in any of my posts

drpool, I forgot all about that story site. glad you posted it.

Ted...anything new?

Ted,
Relax, man. Anal sex feels great! Use lots of lube, read up on how best to do it on the internet, and enjoy yourself!

My wife and I were just talking about this last night. She is going to fuck my ass with her strapon again soon!

Yep, I can agree with that...