just cucked him and want some help

Hi everyone,

My husband pushed me for the last two years to be with another man. I didn't really give it much thought at first because I do love him. Four months ago I took my hubby with me to my fifteen year high school reunion. (for those who can't do the math, yes I'm 33) I ran into a particular man that I had a crush on in my school days. He looked even better than I remembered. My husband encouraged me to go talk to him and told me to have fun. He said he was going to the car to call home and check on our kids on the cell phone. I could be long winded here but let me summarize a little. I did talk to Matt and it was great to catch up. I do not have a crush on him but boy does he ever light a fire in my belly. Oh, and I knew he was 'equipped'. Girls talk and he dated a friend of mine when we were in school. I agreed to meet him for lunch. We met many times for lunch and an occasional take over the last three months. I didn't tell my husband about the meetings. I didn't want to get his hopes up and wasn't sure I could go through with it. It felt so wonderful and exciting to be bad! Three weeks ago I finally did it. My husband was gone for two nights fishing with his brother. I left the kids with my lady and met Matt. Matt just got divorced and I made sure he understood that I just wanted some fun. I swear it was the best sex of my life! We stayed in a nice hotel and he took me three times that night. I had only been with two other men before I got married and none were as big as matt. Matt's probably around eight inches and thick. My husband is under 5 inches and average thick at best. Thats never been a problem for me but my god what a difference.
When my husband came home on Sunday night I didn't say anything. The following night we were fooling around and he told me how excited he had been thinking about me relaxing with someone else while he was out fishing even if it was just a dream. I dropped the bomb on him and he dropped a load in me. He couldn't hear enough about the details. He was so impressed and supportive. I must admit that even with all of the encouragement I had from him to do it, I was nervous about telling him. Now he wants more. And I'm happy to do it. He was fucking me and all I could think about was how inferior his penis is to Matt's. And telling him about it only made him hotter.
So, now I ask for the advice. What are other great ways to humiliate him sexually without destroying him psychologically? I do love him and have no desire to be without him, but I would much rather screw a man with more in his pants and he seems to appreciate that and enjoy it too.
Any ideas would be appreciated.

Rachel

Psychologically there are pillars that hold up who we are (our ego). Midori speaks about this in some of her offense play workshops. She's BDSM oriented but her advice is great for anyone getting into this kind of play. Notice how I call it play.

Anyway, find out what is real taboo to humiliate him about before going at it. The trick is to be able to knock down all the walls of who he is without disturbing the pillars that hold his "ego" up.

I'm a bit larger than average so it's hard to see 5" as being that big. When we look for other men 9" and up is what we are searching for.

Some ways to humiliate:

For me, I like it when I am compared to a larger cock and told how much bigger he is than me. Made to fuck her after she's been fucked is a good way to demonstrate the size difference.

Denial is good too. You can ask your husband if it's OK to try this:
After one of your fuck sessions with Matt, go home to your husband and tell him it's useless to fuck you now and give him a handjob instead. Or make him do it while you recount your sex with a "real man".

When I initiate sex my fiance will say things like "with that? What's in it for me?" and will do things like read a book, (a boring text book) while I fuck her. She will turn and say "are you done yet?" or "Are you in?".

We enjoy large dildos too. Sometime I will use a toy on her instead of me. And again, either I can be made to masturbate or fuck her after.

We have regular sex and make love at times too. She still loves me and enjoys regular sex but she knows I get off on the offense and she is starting to enjoy it too.

My fiance has yet to fuck someone without me there. She knows she can do it but She is worried about liking it too much. She is also worried that I will become incidental in our sex lives. Even though I have told her this is OK with me as long as we are both happy, she doesn't have faith I will like it in the end. So I may relay to my fiance, I ask you: What gives you faith that you will remain with your husband?
Vancouver BC, Canada

thanks for the thoughts Dick Diva

to answer, I know I will stay with my husband because I love him. Sex with Matt, or anyone else for that matter is just pure lust; albeit mindblowing. But in the end its just natural lust. My husband is my rock in all other facets of life. He is a wonderful man and provider and I never would have done any of this without his encouragement and support. In fact, if he wanted me to, I would stop. But he doesn't and I'm glad because its wonderfull

Has your husband asked for offense? Does he want it or is this your idea? Not all cucks are into heavy offense. I like some but I don't need much of it. I want my wife satisfied. That is enough for me and her. The fact that his beautiful wife is out humping another man and she is now hot for a bigger dick is quite a huniliation on its own merit

rachel76
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yes he likes it but I'm not all that good at it. He has told me straight out that the offense is the biggest sexual turn on for him. The comparrimister and knowing that I am pleased get him going. I just don't want to wreck his psyche outside of the bedroom.

Tell him how much you love it that he wants to see you satisfied with a more fulfilling cock than his "littlel thing". But you don't want him to stop loving you. So as proof you want him to eat you after every time someone else fucks you and fills your married pussy with cum. As he's eating you tell him how much more fulfilling your lovers cock was and how good it feels to have him sucking your lovers cum out of your well stretched pussy.

He told me he wants me to keep seeing Matt for sex. He even cancelled plans for this weekend to watch the kids so I can meet Matt for a date. He knows I am going to have sex. You think I should come home right away afterwards and let him see the results?

Rachel,

Let him bathe you, let him dress you. Talk about you plans and what you would like Matt to do to you. Come home at your leisure and let him sniff, lick and have sloppy seconds and then dear girl, orgasm with him. It does work wonders and drive his psyche wild with passion and love.

Mistress C

orgasm with my husband you mean? I'm serious. Is that what you are saying? I'm not questioning it just would like to know how it works wonders.

also, I have been tooling around this site while waiting for people to give me some hints. Seems like a lot of men like my husband have this fetish. Do you guys that get off on this stuff really enjoy seeing another man's semen leaking out of your wife? or relaxing in the wet spot after your wife and another man fuck in your bed?

I'm not knocking it. I'm actually getting a bit wet thinking about the idea. I just wonder why its so powerfull a turn on?

rachel76

Yea, I wonder too where the kink comes from and why it's such a turn on. If i try to hard to figure it out I might wreck the kink for myself. It doesn't hurt us so I will leave it to that

I have been thinking about what it really is that turns me on about cuckolding and I have discovered I am just as turned on by knowing the other man [Bull] has had a great orgasm fucking my fiance as well. Knowing another mans cock has driven into her hard like a uncontrolable piston of sexual instinct with his cock expanding and balls contracting until he finally shoots his load as he pushes it deep into her is a huge turn on.

For me it's more about knowing he shoved his big cock deep into her and shot. Seeing his cock and balls contracting as his seed shoots into her is what I like. For me, the "cream pie" is just a result and evidence of what took place.

Another offense you might try: I would like it if the other man didn't know I know - if he thought he was banging a wife without the husband's knowledge and thought I was being cheated on. It would be even better if he knew me outside of their sexual liaimisters too. The offense there is subtle but strong. It also keeps the husband and wife together in their play. They have something between them the Bull doesn't know.

If you are cruising this site you'll see a lot of the men on here post images of their wifes naked which means they may be into Candaulism.

"Candaulism is a paraphilia, consisting in the masochistic and/or sadistic pleasure in which the husband exposes his wife" -http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candaulism
Vancouver BC, Canada

So, what is it when the wife Makes the husband post pictures of himself? Just plain old offense? Maybe I should do that too. Maybe I should get a picture of my husband's stubby little penis and post it on here for others to make fun of. I suppose it would be better to put it right next to a picture of Matt's big dick, but I'm not sure I'm ready to ask Matt to give me a picture of his dick so I can post it online. Also, Matt knows I'm married and like I said in the original post he understands this is purely fun and physical for me. He and my husband do not know each other though. And Matt does not know that my husband knows about us, much less that he is okay with it. Is that important?

Rachel: You are a naughty girl.

Sounds great! Include the heading, "This is why he's a cuckold"
Vancouver BC, Canada

I'm learning mickey6432. And I must say its been getting more and more exciting as I (we) go along. I feel like I am re awakening. I really kind of put my sex drive on hold when my kids were young. As my husband slowly and consistently kept driving us to this arena I sort of found the excitement that he was driving at. We have a great relationship and I appreciate all of the above advice to communicate. Believe me we have and do. We are both well aware of the line that we crossed. Notice I said We again. Yes, my husband wants this and I have, rather quickly, warmed to it. It took running into Matt to push me over the edge but now we (my husband and I) need to figure out the details.

and by that I mean I need to figure out how to give him what he needs. I get to have tremendous sex with a man with a real dick. He wants the offense of it. Also the comparimister because he knows his penis is smaller. I always thought it was average but he and to a great extent my cruising in this forum, have convinced me that his sub five inch pecker is truly 'small'. So, I am learning to re enpower that thought. Thats sort of the ideas I was looking for when I originally posted the note. I've gotten a lot more and I'm appreciative.

Hi Rachel,

for your relationship I think it is better femdom- cuckold dynamic, not a bull-cuckold, since I think your hubby is not bi, so better the counsel of Mistress C, you could read also the post about Kathi.

https://www.cuckoldplace.com/index.php?action=vthread&forum=9&topic=112 02&page=0#11

if you want you could also contact me, [email protected], I have a book to help.

Rachel,

The simple reminder that his cock is small and unsatisfying to you is enough for now. Don't give him anymore than he can handle but do push his limits. Believe me if he wants more offense and being humiliated turns him on, he will let you know what else he wants.

Does he want orgasm denial? If so then deny him.

I don't believe in orgasm denial. Orgasms remind boys that they are truly boys and women control how pleasureable orgasms can be.

An example is when I come home from a date with a lover my boy is waiting to hear all about the pleasure I enjoyed. How big was his cock? How many times did I cum? Not his business really but I tell him most of the details, at least the ones that will humiliate him and get him rock hard.

He is not small like your hubby, over seven inches long and thick. If I am in the mood, I let him fuck me last. He calls it sloppy seconds but in reality it is usually fourths or fifths. His whole body rocks when he cums inside of me knowing his cock is coated with another man's cum and I always do remind him how much better my other lover was compared to him.

What I am saying is that you or maybe not you but I maintain an intimate relationship with my hubby. He may cum in my pussy, hand or on my feet but it is still an intimate loving relationship.

You have a great opportunity to enjoy sex like never in your life before. You have a loving family and the security you want. Now you can have all the cock you want because he wants you to be pleased......but include him. Do it an enjoy yourself and don't be afraid to ask what his needs are.

You will be surprised to find out that his greatest pleasure in life is seeing you pleasured.


Enjoy,

Mistress C.

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Mistress C

Well said

rachel76

So let's see a picture of his tiny little dick that even a fellow cuck could help humiliate.
Vancouver BC, Canada

okay guys, I'm gonna get a picture. I looked for the camera last night but my husband lent it to his sister. He is going to get it back this weekend. I told him what I was going to do and he popped a little boner. It was cute. And a little pathetic. You know it was funny that those were my first two thoughts because six months ago I would have only had the 'cute' thought at seeing his erection. Its amazing how quickly I am learning. Anyway, I should have some pictures for you by the end of the weekend.

I just had to share this one. I just got off the phone with Matt. We were making plans for our 'date' tomorrow night. He thinks my husband is going fishing with his brother again. The part I had to share though is that I was supposed to call Matt an hour ago and I told my husband to go outside and handwash my car so that I could have some privacy with Matt. The poor dear is still out there and I can see him out the window with a little tent in his pants cleaning my car windows. The man has been a cuck for a mere three weeks and its like I'm meeting a whole new side of my husband I never knew.

why do so few people actually interact and talk back? This posting has been viewed over 25 hundred times and only ten percent of you have any opinion? Less than that actually because half of the responses are me talking back to those who do have something to say. What would make this more interesting and get more responses? You'd think that truthfull and honest conversation would do it. Not enough? are most of the people on here just fetish freaks cruisin for porn? you people are ruining my vibe.

Rachel

Hi Rachel,



Your story is very interesting, erotic, and just plain fun to read. I'd actually love to see you post some pics of yourself.

Dan

Rachel,

I agree with Danj. Most are searching for porn. I come here to read about different cuckold lifestyles. The varities seem endless but the theme remains the same. Hot wife with a wimp for a husband that can't or won't take care of his lady's needs.

My relationship is D/s. Femdom. Mistress/slave....whatever you wish to call it. We live the BDSM lifestyle 24/7 and I have my own dungeon and I will admit that my bed is my throne where I am worshiped by boys and men.

Tune out the number of responses that you have recieved in this forum and tune into your husband. Keep his cock hard and guessing and you will have so much fun.

Mistress C.

Mistress C,

You are one of the few people that keeps answering me and I really appreciate it. I think I could learn a lot from you. I'm not quite sure I would want to go as far as having a dungeon, but you obviously know the ins and outs. Thanks again for all the suggestions and believe me they are appreciated. I am confident that I can find my way with this but like I've said, I never really gave 'kink' much thought before. I was especially 'vanilla' after my kids were born. I think I got stuck in a mommy role and ignored my sexual self. I like all the suggestions. Even the weird ones from the 'porn surfers'

Rachel

Danj

Thank you for your comment. I was telling DickDiva that I am going to put a picture of my husband's penis on here for others to comment on. I suppose pictures of myself would probably draw more of the porn crowd but if they will entice some feedback then I may be willing to do that. Also, I appreciate the way you speak to me. That is, not like a whore. I appreciate your desires too. If you really want me to take a picture of myself I think I would be willing to do it. Have to wait till my hubby gets our camera back this weekend but post an e-mail and I'll make sure you get one for being nice.

Rachel

Rachel,

I do enjoy the kinkier side of life and I have never been vanilla. As I said, enjoy yourself and you will find what works for you and your newly cucked hubby. Push his limits but do not use them.

Have fun,

Mistress C.

Mistress C.

Hi Rachel,

You're very welcome. I'm a pretty big believer in treating women with respect. And, thanks I'd love to receive some pics of you. I'll be following your story for sure, and will try to give you feedback when I can!

Dan

Rachel,

I think Mistress C is the best you can have, I like her and so I could be biased, but I feel she is an experienced Domme, if your hubby is like me and I think so, he loves you and he is craving to serve you, so her replies are better than the ones by a milliom wankers.