Prefer masturbating to having sex?

My gf and i also refer to me getting off (with her permission of course) as "relieving myself"

I do what most other wimps, sissies and nerds on this site do best, play with myself. My wife knows I'm submissive and bi. She lets me beat off to my hearts content. I sometimes sit naked at the computer stroking away while she reads the paper or talks on the phone. It is humiliating which means its totally appropriate for a wimp cocksucker like me.

My latest hot wife likes to deny her husband a climax for extended periods, although she keeps him highly aroused. She stopped allowing him sex with her over 2 yrs ago.

We have him watch us, and if she's in a good mood, he gets to wank in front of us, as we humiliate him. He doesn't know till the last second if she will allow him to cum. Um...he seems to really enjoy the whole thing.

My wife didn't allow me sex with her for 8 years now ! She just allows me to wank while she tells me about her lovers.... And i must admit I love it. I usually come within 2 minutes
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Masturbation is much more comfortable for me. Erections are difficult for me during intercourse. My wife is slowly alowing another man to "service" her. I watched the two of them kissing for the first time , this past Friday!

I'm not a cuck, but often fantasize about sharing my wife. I do love to masturbate, but still prefer sex...don't see that changing!

I prefer sex, However I've never seen the woman I care about sucking someone else or fucking someone else while i get to stroke my cock. If i had that experience, i think i would probably take that over sex. There is just something so hot about the woman you love being a complete slut for another man, and not caring if you know or not

Well I don't have much of a choice now. I am pretty much relegated to hand humping. It is humiliating, but I get a submissive charge out of it. My gf hasn't had sex with me in about 6 months and hasn't given me a handjob (how I usually would get off) in over a month. In the past sex was the rare treat and handjobs were the norm. Now I think jerking off is the norm and handjobs are the treat.

Oh the life of a slave!

My wife is the dominant one in our marriage. In all aspects of our relationship, she is the "husband" and I am the "wife". Therefore it feels psychologically too weird for me to slip into "dominant" mode and be the one actively penetrating her, while she takes the "passive" role, at least with me. The only sex I get is being fucked with her strap-on, and licking her pussy. I'm forbidden to masturbate, although I sometimes play with myself when I'm really turned on, although I never allow myself to orgasm. The orgasm from my penis is never as good as the orgasm from being fucked, so my wife prefers to save my orgasms for that. Sometimes she'll make me masturbate for her, as a punishment, knowing that I will find it unsatisfying.

I know my wife prefers me masturbating then to having sex with her. She loves to watch me jerk off as she watches porn and thinks of her boyfriends cock She says she especially loves the slapping sound my hands and dick make.

I must admit that i love to jerk off when I am allowed. I wear a CB 6000 24/7 and am allowed out every 3-5 days. I can control my orgasms with masturbation but once I enter her sweet hot pussy I know that The cum will start shooting in about 70 seconds.
Happiness is being cuckolded and kept under lock and key by my beautiful wife.

Right hand or left. That's the only decision about sex that I can make.

Glad to see this thread is still going.

I commented first on page 2. NOw for an update:

My Gf and i had been having occassional sex, but she knws of my fantasies, and they are now HER fantasies too! (Though still not reality.)

Whenever we did have sex, we would talk and fantasise, and teh more she tells me of how much better her (imaginery) lover is, the more turned on i get, and the sooner i shoot. Additionally, we had been focusing on HER orgasm, and often after she cums, with dildo or tongue, she would then make it a point to turn over and leve me high and dry, without orgasm! We both are turned on by this, so we made it a game-- she has to have 5 orgasms before i can have one. So far, we have stuck to it.

Moreover-- as a result, i am so concentrated on HER that my little dicklet only gets half hard, and when I do cum, it is always way too wucik-- she makes sure to tease me about botht things, whcih only ensures that i cum too quick and never get properly hard.

THe result now is, her New Year's Resolution was to stop having penetrative sex with me--that's right-- i am no longer allowed to enter her pussy at all! And she has stuck to this so far (nearly 2 months!). i Really like it so far, too-- i fuck her with a dildo, and she tells me how much better it is than my little dicklet, and sure enough, she does orgasm every time! And she makes sure i do not have an orgasm until she has had 5 times as many.

Sounds mad, but it's totaly true! i Wonder how long we will keep it up. She is currently looking for a BF, but so far no luck...

Keep us updated Tinycock! any pics of your wife to share?

I love this thread! Don't die. -- An update from me

Still penetrationless haven't had sex since Oct 08. Since then I have had 3 BJs and maybe about 20 handjobs. I get my gf off solely with my tongue, which I truly love. I drip as I lick her hot pussy.

I still cum a lot, but as is obvious from above almost always with my hand. For Christmas I was allowed to take my time and jerk off slow with my gf's feet in my face. Wanking and kissing her feet was so hot and I had a huge orgasm.

For the new year we are playing a new game wherein each day I accrue one point so 365 pts in the year and with that I can "buy" her affections. 10 pts for a HJ, 20 for a BJ and 40 for sex. Whenever I redeem I lose my remaining pts so if I had 27 and got a BJ I would go back to 0 not 7.

Sounds like a good deal, but I am sure it won't work out so well as she can charge for "extras". For example last night I got a repeat of Christmas but it cost me my first 3 points of the year...so I am sure she will find ways to minimize her involvement with my little dicklet!

Cheers!

I very much like sex but I prefer masturbating, thinking about how my wife fucking with other guys

I enjoy both. I love to have sex with my wife but also love masterbating to the thought of her getting fucked by a boyfriend. We only have sex once per week or less. I dont think I would give up either one but I think I would enjoy (for a while anyway) having less sex, maybe once or twice per month, while she enjoys more, maybe two or more times per week, with a boyfriend. The thought of that really turns me on for some reamister.

My wife broke up with long-term boyfriend over the holidays. It's an amicable parting, both agree they want to stay friends, maybe even FWB, but not in a serious relationship any more.

I asked her if she was going to be looking for someone new, and she said that she doesn't want to jump back into dating again right now, but instead, to stay single (except for me, of course) for a while while she figures out what she wants next. I told her that, as always, whatever she wants to do, she has my complete support and love.

It's been several years since she's had sex with me. She's happy to get naked in bed with me and tell me about her sex life while I get off, but that's about it (occasionally, she'll get herself off at the same time, but mostly she does that in private).

I asked her whether she was maybe interested in doing stuff with me again if there was no one else around. She said she'd get back to me about that, but that she was willing to consider any suggestions I had. I was pretty thrilled, but held back any expectations.

A few days later, when we got into bed, she said she'd like to continue our discussion about her relationship with me. She said (as she's said before) that she loves me a lot, but that she doesn't feel sexually attracted to me, and sees me more as a live-in friend than as a potential lover. We both have known and acknowledged this for a long time, so no surprises. We also both know that that doesn't go both ways- I'm still very sexually attracted to her, although I have always been more excited by her having sex with other men than by her having sex with me.

That said, she said she was open to hearing what I thought about sex between us. I told her I would be really really happy to do anything with her she wanted, and wouldn't want her to do anything that was uncomfortable for her. She said good, because she definitely wasn't interested in having intercourse with me. I offered her that I'd be happy to get her off however she likes, without any reciprocation, and that I know how much she likes getting eaten out. She said she'd be willing to try it and see whether it felt too weird or not.

I was a little apprehensive about how to approach her after so long, but she took the initiative, spreading her legs and guiding my head down to her pussy. I needed no more encouragement, and started gently and slowly giving her head, just the way she likes it. It felt really weird to be doing something so intimate with her after so long, but it was wonderful too. The smell and taste of her pussy and ass were really intense- kind of overpowering, but very exciting, too. She came within a few minutes, and gently pushed me off.

I asked her if it was okay, and she smiled and said she thought this would work out just fine until she had someone else in her life. She kissed me, and then rolled over and pretty soon I heard her snoring. I had a painfully stiff erection, but I wanted to savor the moment, so I just cuddled up to her, and eventually fell arelax curled around her body.

We've done this before going to relax several times since then. So, still no sex for me, but definitely a change!

Masturbation for me. Leave the fucking to the black men who know how to do it and do it well. If I was given a choice to get some pussy, and I ain't had none in three years, or beat off I would rather watch a real man fuck her and I would beat off for their entertainment. Black guys just like to get pussy.

I have always preferred to watch my wife get fucked rather than attempt to fuck her myself!

You guys have a great topic going here. I've been reading and following for a while and I'm finally compelled to comment. When I was single and in my early to mid twenties, I felt like JUANITO. I felt sorry for the denied hubby and was always surprised by married women that denied their husband access to their pussy. I was very confident that I would never deny my Man sex. I no longer feel that way. But then I couldn't have known that I would end up marrying a spouse that is much less than a Real Man. I can't speak for many situations where hubby is cut-off, but in the Cuckold Lifestyle, cutting-off the cuckold is a natural progression. From the very beginning of our marriage my spouse got me interested in cuckolding. Of course 21 years ago, we had no idea what the word cuckold meant. It all started innocently enough. He was still a virgin at 29 and asked me if I minded if we waited a while for sex because he was nervous and scared. I most certainly was no virgin at 26, having had my cherry popped in tenth grade and staying very sexually active ever since. At his age, I was surprised that he was a virgin but thought that it was kind of cool to be married to this guy, then to postpone sex, and keep him a virgin for a few months into our marriage. I thought that it would be rather unique. Little did I know back then that he would remain a virgin. So, no sex on our honeymoon and no consummated marriage. Then he started asking me to tell him about all of the men that I have had sex with. I happily obliged. It became terribly obvious that my stories really made him excited and he would want to masturbate. He always asked me to describe their cocks in great detail. So many of his questions and his interest involved the guy's cock. My awkward initial reaction was that my husband was a homosexual. At the time it seemed to all add up... he never had sex with a woman, still a virgin, was scared to have sex with me... it all made sense to me. So I thought to myself, what the hell, let's experiment because it may be interesting.

Every time he masturbated, I made sure that he only had gay magazines, gay videos, or my detailed description of a guy that had fucked me. I shocked myself when I realized that I really enjoyed the power that I was having over him. I was actually enjoying his transformation from a seemingly straight man into a wimpy sissy faggot homo. He was actually becoming attracted to Men and the sight of a naked Man really turned him on. I found myself getting very excited by the thought of my spouse being a homosexual when we found ourselves carrying on conversations about Men like a couple of girlfriends. I then started to experiment with ruined orgasms. I guess it was a natural progression into my power over him. He started to find pleasure in the ruined orgasms to the point that he looked forward to ruining his own orgasms when he had the chance... even if I wasn't there. Go figure! We both enjoyed it and after just 4 years of marriage, he had 3 subscriptions to gay publications, was an active member in 2 local gay groups, attended virtually all of the local gay pride marches and rallies, had a gay best buddy, and he only had gay friends. To this day I am not quite sure if I turned him into a homosexual or if I just brought out his natural homosexuality. But, it doesn't matter. We're happily married and that's what's important.

It was right about that time that we agreed that he had no business thinking that he would ever get the chance to have sex with me or any other female. We agreed that my sex life would never be part of our marriage. He readily and happily agreed and thanked me. He admitted that he would be absolutely mortified if he ever had to have intercourse with a woman. My sister knows about our lifestyle. She once asked him (he was about 41 at the time) what he considered to be the most frightening thing to him. He thought for about 2 seconds and he blurted out confidently, "The absolutely most scariest thing to me is the thought of seeing a woman's repulsive puss and being powerd to have intercourse with it, scares the hell out of me and makes me sweat!" My sister looked at me and I nodded in confirmation. She and I had one hell of a good laugh.

So I can tell all of you with absolute certainty that my spouse clearly prefers masturbation to actually having sex with a female. After all that, I now question if he even counts in this pole considering he has never had sex with a female... well whatever, if he did I am confident that he still would prefer masturbation. Furthermore, I have had correspondence with a number of cuckolding wives over the years and I would have to conclude that most (all?) true cuckolds really do not want to have intercourse with their wives. They seem to all know their place as the beta male and recognize that an Alpha Male is needed to fill the Man-of-the-House role in his marriage. Many also seem to share the need to suck the Masterful Cock of the Real Man. It is always incredibly cool to hear a husband admit to his wife that he wishes to willingly and totally gives up sexual intercourse with her so that she can exclusive spread her legs for Real Men while the cuckold no longer gets any pussy, no sex... his new sex life is nothing but the love he gets from the palm of his hand (if he's lucky). PRICELESS!!!!!

Let's hear from some other cuckolds and be honest. Would you prefer to have intercourse with your wife or would you be more comfortable masturbating and having a Real Man replace you in the bedroom.

I don't consider the way I currently get off to be masturbation, but I think most people would, and I wouldn't trade it for anything.

I haven't penetrated a woman, in any orifice, for years. Also, for years now my only orgasms have been when riding the hard plastic cock of my husband - an inflatable male doll. (OK, to be fair, I have had a few with him in my mouth instead.) I generally stroke myself to get off, so most people would call it masturbation. I call it fucking, because this is what sex is for me now.

And honestly, I wouldn't be willing to pass-up one session with my beloved blow-up stud in return for even unlimited pussy again. It isn't that I don't want to know the experience of pussy again. It is that stroking off with my lover's cock buried all the way in my ass is so so right and perfect for me that I prefer it, and him, to any other sensation or lover there is.
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I have not had sex with my wife in over 4 months. She does not even care that we do not fuck anymore. She took on a steady lover anout 6 months ago and since then she no onger really cares. Shes Ukrainian and has very light skin which her black lover really likes.

I wank every day- I am too small to satisfy my wife and can't get or stay hard long. Her black lovers spoiled it for me- she calls me chopped liver-

I love the offense of being denied pussy and powerd to use my hand. I orally service my girlfriend and love it and then she lets me cum using my own hand. If I'm good she'll let me kiss her feet or touch my balls with her toes or fingers. I love it and she loves how little work she has to put into keeping me sexually satisfied.

It has been 43 months since I have had my wife's (or any) pussy. Her hung black boyfriend satisfies her better than I ever did. I masturbate every day. My little dick doesn't deserve pussy. I am glad she gets great sex without me.

We tried experimenting with me giving her oral last winter, but it didn't last long. I offered to give her head whenever she wanted, with no reciprocation. She took me up on it at first, but then less frequently, and stopped altogether after a month, so it's back to no sex at all other than masturbation for me. She lets me see her naked, but that's all I get. It's enough for me, but it's not working all that well for her, which is why she's looking for someone new.