Prefer masturbating to having sex?

Wanking is my only sexual release wife has total stopped me touching her, her lover send her home worn out and used in all hole. Still i have many way to wank my self off

I masturbate almost every weekday, sometimes weekends.

I have had 3 hand jobs since this year. Actually she gets tired after a few strokes and I usually finish the job.

I love my wife and am glad she stoops to occasionally allowing me to touch her and jerk off.

yes i too am the same.

It was not my wish to go without sex..............it came from a session with one of her

I am the same the last time was the 5.3.2010.

When I was nearly there Leanne told me to pull out and that it would be a long time to my next fuck...of course I pulled out and had a amzing fuck...

I did not realise at that time she was serious.

As the week before we had a session with one of her lovers. During that session we somehow got on to me fucking her and we both agreed in the what i thought at the time was "the heat of the moment" for not to have sex with her.

Little did I appreciate how serious she was............Leanne is always telling me cuckolds do not have sex with there wives.

I struggle big time at the begining....I thought of having a affair of getting with men to at least feel my cock in something hot and wet...thought of getting with hookers which i have done in the past, But the money it costs..the time it takes...the lack of "feeling".

I now masturbate 3- 4 times a day to my memories of Leannes dates and activities i have watched, Also the caption photos on here, stories and movies.

It has been a long journey but i feel i am "getting" use to it....although the fustration is huge. Which I know excites Leanne.

IT also excites her to say No to me and be "owned" by other men.

I cannot believe my innocent wife has turned/turning into such a amazing cuckoldress/slut { i luv the word slut not in the negative but positive way}

I now have a Blonde {was a red head but at the request of one of her lovers went blonde} slut/cuckoldress wife that will not allow me to have sexual relations with her...{she has 2 lovers at the moment}

So as they say careful what you wish for!!!!!!!!!!!!

Noel

Yeah I'm in the club as a compulsive masturbator. Over time my wife even noticed that I'd rather jerk-off than fuck her pussy and she now brings it up all the time during sex to verbally humiliate and degrade me....which further reinpowers my desire to masturbate.

She just loves being fucked and fantasizes about double-penetration and sucking while being fucked. The problem is that my cock just doesn't get her off anymore, it takes quite a bit more stimulation than that so my cock gets used to fill her mouth while she's vigorously fucking a large dildo and watching porn until she gets off. Most of the time I'm really just there as a "prop".

After she gets off she used to ask me whether I wanted to fuck her pussy or my hand, but over time we've both realized that my lame attempts at fucking her pussy aren't wortht the effort.
So for the last several months she just starts cleaning up and tells me to get my lube and kleenex and get busy.

It's hard to describe how incredible it feels to jerk-off and be kept on the edge of orgasm with my tongue buried deep in my beautiful wife's asshole. All while she's telling me how much of a pathetic loser I am to want to jerk off when a willing woman and hot pussy is right there that millions of men would pay to fuck.

It's pretty clear why masturbation is "sex" for the submissive male.

I think that's one reamister I became interested in hotwives and cuckolding. We both know my masturbation doesn't really turn her on and I'd still love to see her completely sexually satisfied as much as I am.

I think this summer will make it 4 years since I've had intercourse with my wife (or any other woman). Masturbation all the way for me. I do get to serve orally and such, but actual intercourse is out of the question. It makes me sad sometimes, but given the choice I'd opt to give her oral or lick her feet or service a bull any day of the week. If I wanted it bad enough, there's nothing at all stopping me from being with a high-priced hooker, but I've never chosen to do that. I'm happy with my chosen lifestyle.

Hey, that's the whole point, right? I know most people would hate to be in my shoes, but I'd rather have what I have than a regular relationship with sex. Just wish she could find the right guy now...

i have not had sex with a Woman in two years now. my GF feeds me creampies on occasion and i have to relax on a futon on the floor in the little 3rd bedroom of my house (now Her house). i cook, i clean, i give Her money. She exploits, uses, humilates and teases me. i love Her! i cannot resist Her, i tell you! If she did not lock me up in my CB-2000 i would masturbate 5 times a day ... she knows this is not good for me as i am not as devoted if i can cum as often as i want. As Her birthday present to me She had "pussy whipped wanker" tattooed right above my lil diclet. She is so generous!

I Have not had sex with my wife for over a year now, i prefer masturbating i am a compulsive masterbator i wank off at least 4 times per day. I Enjoy being cut off and denied.
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You guys have a great topic going here. I've been reading and following for a while and I'm finally compelled to comment. When I was single and in my early to mid twenties I felt sorry for the denied hubby and was always surprised by married women that denied their husband access to their pussy. I was very confident that I would never deny my Man sex. I no longer feel that way. But then I couldn't have known that I would end up marrying a spouse that is much less than a Real Man. I can't speak for many situations where hubby is cut-off, but in the Cuckold Lifestyle, cutting-off the cuckold is a natural progression. From the very beginning of our marriage my spouse got me interested in cuckolding. Of course 21 years ago, we had no idea what the word cuckold meant. It all started innocently enough. He was still a virgin at 29 and asked me if I minded if we waited a while for sex because he was nervous and scared. I most certainly was no virgin at 26, having had my cherry popped in tenth grade and staying very sexually active ever since. At his age, I was surprised that he was a virgin but thought that it was kind of cool to be married to this guy, then to postpone sex, and keep him a virgin for a few months into our marriage. I thought that it would be rather unique. Little did I know back then that he would remain a virgin. So, no sex on our honeymoon and no consummated marriage. Then he started asking me to tell him about all of the men that I have had sex with. I happily obliged. It became terribly obvious that my stories really made him excited and he would want to masturbate. He always asked me to describe their cocks in great detail. So many of his questions and his interest involved the guy's cock. My awkward initial reaction was that my husband was a homosexual. At the time it seemed to all add up... he never had sex with a woman, still a virgin, was scared to have sex with me... it all made sense to me. So I thought to myself, what the hell, let's experiment because it may be interesting.

Every time he masturbated, I made sure that he only had gay magazines, gay videos, or my detailed description of a guy that had fucked me. I shocked myself when I realized that I really enjoyed the power that I was having over him. I was actually enjoying his transformation from a seemingly straight man into a wimpy sissy faggot homo. He was actually becoming attracted to Men and the sight of a naked Man really turned him on. I found myself getting very excited by the thought of my spouse being a homosexual when we found ourselves carrying on conversations about Men like a couple of girlfriends. I then started to experiment with ruined orgasms. I guess it was a natural progression into my power over him. He started to find pleasure in the ruined orgasms to the point that he looked forward to ruining his own orgasms when he had the chance... even if I wasn't there. Go figure! We both enjoyed it and after just 4 years of marriage, he had 3 subscriptions to gay publications, was an active member in 2 local gay groups, attended virtually all of the local gay pride marches and rallies, had a gay best buddy, and he only had gay friends. To this day I am not quite sure if I turned him into a homosexual or if I just brought out his natural homosexuality. But, it doesn't matter. We're happily married and that's what's important.

It was right about that time that we agreed that he had no business thinking that he would ever get the chance to have sex with me or any other female. We agreed that my sex life would never be part of our marriage. He readily and happily agreed and thanked me. He admitted that he would be absolutely mortified if he ever had to have intercourse with a woman. My sister knows about our lifestyle. She once asked him (he was about 41 at the time) what he considered to be the most frightening thing to him. He thought for about 2 seconds and he blurted out confidently, "The absolutely most scariest thing to me is the thought of seeing a woman's repulsive puss and being powerd to have intercourse with it, scares the hell out of me and makes me sweat!" My sister looked at me and I nodded in confirmation. She and I had one hell of a good laugh.

So I can tell all of you with absolute certainty that my spouse clearly prefers masturbation to actually having sex with a female. However, I now question if he could even be considered in the survey poll considering he has never had sex with a female to actually be able to make a valid comparimister between intercourse and masturbation... well whatever, if he ever had experienced intercourse I am VERY confident that he still would prefer masturbation (probably even more so). Furthermore, I have had correspondence with a number of cuckolding wives over the years and I would have to conclude that most (all?) true cuckolds really do not want to have intercourse with their wives. They seem to all know their place as the beta male and recognize that an Alpha Male is needed to fill the Man-of-the-House role in his marriage. Many also seem to share the need to suck the Masterful Cock of the Real Man. It is always incredibly cool to hear a husband admit to his wife that he wishes to willingly and totally gives up sexual intercourse with her so that she can exclusive spread her legs for Real Men while the cuckold no longer gets any pussy, no sex... his new sex life is nothing but the love he gets from the palm of his hand (if he's lucky). PRICELESS!!!!!

I loved being together sexually with my wife, but as cuckold I felt it was my place to have it taken away from me for being a sissy submissive wimp husband. I do not deserve to be allowed such an honor with such a beautiful sexy woman. For my wife to be unfaithful to me and at the same time totally refuse me entrance to her beautiful body makes me feel used, worthless, wimpy and unmanly.
As a cuckoldress I only hope that she loves the psychological use and hurt that I can feel at times and that she enjoys her control.
I hope that she revells in the knowledge that she is behaving "unreamisterably" and that she continues to dominate me and take advantage of my weakness and desire for her.
She has cuckolded me now for close to 9 years and has recently become pregnant with one of her lovers.
I know my place is on my knees at her feet and ready to take any and all use she can come up with both physical and psychological as she taunts me as a wank myself.

CUCKOLD HUBBIES SHOULD BE COMPLETELY AND TOTALLY DENIED SEX. TOO BAD FOR THEM. The ironic thing is that they enjoy being denied.

That was more or less what my wife did to me. I was not a virgin and we started as a conventional straight couple. At first it was a fetish scene turn-on - role-playing that she was "turning me." The thing is, it took. As in your husband's case we still cannot say for certain that I was "trained" into it or liberated something deep, but my own belief is I was turned. I was never afraid of being gay, I just didn't think I was. I was so very attracted to women (still am) and really not attracted to men at all (that has changed). What got me going was the offense and presentation of it. But over time things changed. I still find women attractive, but when I think of sex now, it is men I think of and it is rare that when I look at women I suddenly think of her sexually, but I do with guys. (I am more likely to reflect on her clothes and demeanor in a non-sexual, she's attractive, or a generic, sexy-but-not-lustful way.) Honestly, I never thought her efforts to turn me could work (I would have backed out, probably) but I was surprised. Like you two, we now have a happy, almost perfect marriage.

Good luck to you.
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Just clarifying: I prefer masturbating while my wife gets fucked by her blk bull. This way, both of us make the most of it!

Masturbation is better. My wife does not like my cock in her so we are both happier when I jack off.

When I think about this more this is almost a false question or at least depends on one's definitions. I think for most of us cucks out there jerking off [u]is[/u] sex. When my gf wants sex from me I know it means I am to go down on her. Afterwards my sex is with my hand. She watches sometimes, sometimes she doesn't. If I'm lucky I kiss her foot or she'll touch my balls as I jerk. So its not really just masturbation, she is in the room with me and we had sex, its just that she didn't touch my penis...that's all and for us that's the way it is supposed to be.

All i am allowed to do is wank off now. It's been that way for the last couple of years, since my GF started seeing other men for Her sexual pleasure. She keeps me in a CB-3000 a lot of the time, so my wanking is on her terms only. Once a year on my birthday She will give me a mercy handjob and usually i will cum within two minutes from any contact with Her. She has one BF who likes to have me suck his cock before fucking Her and another who lets me watch them screw from the corner. i love to wank! i would do it all the time if i could! She has made me wank in front of other people which is very humiliating and gives me larger loads to spurt. i love Her!

I now for myself masturbation is a lot better. I am so thin, pussy does not wrap around my penis enough. Also I feel like I am letting a woman down with me size, so mentally it is better not to feel like I am disappointing someone.

It's been three weeks since my cock entered my wife's most magnificent pussy...What she has done for me, though, is break out the hand lotion and jack me off twice...Now...I love the feel of her pussy, and the fact that I cum almost as soon as I stick it in, really doesn't do it for her....She told me it's not worth the mess it makes...Gets me horny typing it...The most confounding part of my marriage is the fact that my wife is so naturally dominant, has dominated me in small ways, but refuses to accept the ultimate role, all the while carrying it out in an informal way...drives me nuts.

I wrote out a cuckold contract for her several months ago...a month long trial, if you will...Basically, I had to do absolutely all household duties, foot rubs and back massages were a given...SHE LOVED IT...But, when it was over, and she had the option to renew or alter the contract to be more beneficial for her, she refused. Said she wasn't interested.

I think she is afraid to take control for some reamister. So strange.

Had sex with my gf last night. Went down on her like crazy. She had a huge orgasm and then I begged her for basically anything. She was having none of it, but I laid it on her hard. She relented and stuck her foot out and I was allowed to jerk while her foot was pressed against my cock. It felt like heaven and I was so humiliated that its what I've been reduced to. As I was begging she even said "but you get lucky with your hand every time we have sex!" so hot!

I have not had sex with my wife for over six months since I cant stay hard to penetrate her - but I masturbate for hours every day (mostly reading posts on this site) and cum several times fantasizing how she gets penetrated by a Bull with a big cock.
So clearly, I prefer masturbating over sex - question is only whether I am unable to perform for her because I masturbate too much or whether I am a born masturbator who should not have married in the first place?

Masturbation is the only way to fly for all you cucks. None of you are worth a fuck! I just love telling hubby in front of my lover or lady friend that hubby’s sex partner is the palm of his hand. Lol. The poor boy has NO idea what to do with a pussy. It’s simply amazing what years of jacking off to gay porn will do to a married male. I successfully helped turn him into a flaming queer.

Cuckolds prefer masturbation to actually having penetrative sex with the women that they married. Go figure… they know that they need a REAL MAN to replace them in the bedroom and assume the husbandly duties in the marriage. No pussy for no cuckold!

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I always prefer masturbation because I know I'm so crap at fucking my wife....just no pleasure in it for her. Her black lover is just a bit bigger than me..i think...

Jacking is better for me. She has a lover and this works best for us.
jamie

yes i enjoy jerking off way more,sex is just to hard and to much pressure,i leave that for my wifes lovers

Masturbating while your young wife or gf gets banged by a hung black guy is certainly a big thrill. The growing anxiety, adding to the insecurity one feels when this situation is new, makes your adhrenaline climb high. That's the kind of pleasure I like the most. Also, when one's wife or gf is finally turned into a total bitch for a black guy and they try to share special pleasures in unusual places like desert beaches or inside cars can be very exciting, allowing hubby to a great solitary orgasm.

mwfslutforbm

I agree. Our hand is our pussy. The only ones that should be carrying on a normal sex life in the traditional sense is the females and the real men. I love thinking about the females being able to have regular sex while I don't get to. It's a turn on for me knowing that they are sexually satisfied after being freshly fucked and then they think about me not ever getting any and then laugh about it.

I was married for a while but we hardly ever fucked. And before I got married I had only been with 5 different women and all 5 were just one time fucks so I am very inexperienced sexually anyway. If you just count my 5 times that I fucked as my main sexual experience then I have maybe 5 minutes of experience.

The females must be able to detect that inexperience because I have tried many times to get some pussy but I was always turned down. It is hard to gain any sexual experience when you are not allowed any pussy. So I don't even try to get any pussy any more. That's the way it should be for many white boys anyway.

<< females must be able to detect that inexperience because I have tried many times to get some pussy but I was always turned down >>

Yes, it is very true that women can detect a lack of experience. Actually, it may be more that they can detect a lack of confidence (which is the result of that inexperience).

But that's a whole 'nother topic.