Prefer masturbating to having sex?

I pretty much strictly masterbate now. I haven't had sex in years and probably won't for awhile. It helps cement the feeling of me being a beta male when jerking off thinking of my girl with real alpha males.

I think masturbation is a great form of sex with a dominant wife/gf. When I'm wanking for my wife I feel a great sense of connection and intimacy with her. When she lets me kiss her feet or plays with my nipples while I'm wanking it truly makes me feel owned and loved and I have huge orgasms. So I think for some of us masturbation can be wonderful, affirming of our place and so right!

I haven't had sex with my GF for two years now. She only lets me jack off once in a while if I'm extra good or buy her something nice. I love her sooo much! One of her regular lovers makes me suck his cock and give him a good rimming when he comes over. Then he fucks her shoots his jizm all over her tits or in her wet cunt. If I beg her good enough she'll let me lick it all up. Sometimesthey'll make me lay in the tub and they will both piss on me. Sometimes my lil diclet will spurt my useless cummies when that happens. Life is good.

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I'd prefer to masturbate on her; she loves the hotness and I love the taste. At least I will...

Currently i prefer
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Masturbation is the only way to fly for a sissy cuckold. I personal find pussy to be quite disgusting. Just looking at a picture of one is a total turn-off. I'll only look at the picture if there is a gorgeous Cock in the same picture. My wife knows that she can gross me out by just flashing her puss in my direction. Leave that puss stuff to the Real Men that know how to deal with it. Jerking off is the best sex!

Being a straight, dominant cuck I definitely prefer pussy to masturbating. Having said that, we normally refrain from sex with each other prior to her going on an upcoming date. During those times I'll sometimes masturbate while she lays next to me and taunts me about the things she might do with her date. She loves to push the limits at times like that... teasing me with the possibility that she might decide to spend the night with him... or let him take her ass... or let him share her with a friend, etc. Those orgasms can be more intense than during actual sex.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

No true cuckold should be allowed to have sex. And masturbating should be a privilege that only good cuckolds should be allowed.

A cuckold is a man whose wife has sex with someone outside the marriage, that's all. The definition doesn't say that a cuckold cannot have sex. Many cucks DO have sex. In fact most do. My wife and I have a LOT of sex... and the more she fucks around the hotter our sex is.

So don't assume that your opinion is shared by other cuckolds, or that you set the rules for other couples.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

This is one person's opinion and thank goodness we are all allowed to have our options. I personally share this opinion and my spouse and I practice this. However, I'm not saying that it's for every married cuckold couple.

That's what's great about the Cuckolding Lifestyle, there are no set boundaries. Couples can choose their own level of adventure. Personally, I much prefer to exclusively play with my weenie and to jerk-off like an adolescent boy instead of attempting sex with my spouse or any female. My spouse is really OK with me not wanting to have sex with her and her ex-husband obviously encourages my masturbation-only sex life.

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For those cuck hubbies that truly prefer to masturbate over having sex with your wife, what is it that caused you to loose desire to penetrate your wife's pussy? Why do you experience more sexual pleasure with playing with yourself and jerking-off then having intercourse with your spouse? Especially want to hear from the hubbies like me, where playing with yourself is your ONLY form of sex.


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We both enjoy the denial. She sees how horny it makes me which in turn makes her hornier and reassures her that I fully support her sexual activities outside of the marriage

She finds it exciting to be able to save herself for another man without losing her husband. So she can honestly tell the bull that only his dick has been in her (at least for the duration of their dating) When I am occasionally allowed in, she makes sure I ejaculate outside. This reduces the intensity of my orgasm and again she takes pleasure in knowing that only a strange man's semen is between her lips. When this does happen, its because she simply wants a dick and he is not around. And then again, the conversation is ALWAYS about the his size and what he does to her.

At times, I have made the conversation about us and love and assurance and support. Just so she doesnt think I no longer care about the marriage. But her answers go like this: " I do love you but I like you being a husband that understands that I cannot be faithful " Perhaps she is touching base on the reassurance; but those words make me cum (but no matter how much she loves me; my cum goes on the outside)

prefer masturbating. no pressure, my own rhytm, and iam denied for more than 8 yrs now.
femmed hubby by wife who is interested in cuckolding (she likes the idea)

Ever since I was a youngster to this very day, I have always preferred to play with myself. I've never really had much of an interest in pussy and I always found it rather boring. That's probably why my spouse and I don't have sex. She prefers me jerking off also. She says that I have no clue what to do with pussy ... and I always agree with my spouse!


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cuck must be permitted to masturbate only with 2 fingers like women, as the BULL is masturbating with the pussy of his wife

I am kindo of kinked out by coming on the sheets. I go down on her...she acts like she doesnt care that i am down there...i ask her if she just wants me to come on the sheets instead of sticking it in...she says no...come in your hand..she doesnt want the sheets dirty...and i come in my hand like a good boy. it makes me come so hard..its so submissive. I like it a lot. i rarely come inside her.

the lowest you can fall is when your release can only be with a strange male Partner - provided you are not gay yourself - and you look him into the face while you´re masturbating and finally cumming...this guy will be gay ... while you are not...or as i had to perform:Stay at a nude beach where gays are looking for loose contact and eye a man twice your own age...while in the nude, stare at him while you put a round plastic ring into your mouth Holding it open for his use and walk into the bushes with him following you...
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Playing with myself and masturbation IS sex for me. My spouse and I agreed that I would be pussy-free during our marriage. She knew that I was awkward at sex with women and was uncomfortable with vaginal contact. I love my spouse and we are the absolute best of friends. We truly believe that we are perfect soulmates. It's just that pussy was never my thing. She knows that I would much prefer to go furniture shopping together than to go anywhere near her uncovered exposed puss. Now, you show me a picture of a guy's Cock and it's a much different story. She knows that I sucked a lot of Cock before we met and that the true meaning of sex to me is orally pleasing a Real Man. It works well for us because her ex-husband continues to take care of all of her sexual needs just as he has since they began dating many years ago. He's always loved the arraignment and so have we.


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Being a wanna be Cuck, I enjoy masturbating. I rarely get to enter my wife's pussy, my choice. I will please her orally, then tell her I'll wait. The past couple times she jerked me off later that night with no other sex.
This is just as enjoyable to me. Saving her goods for someone else

It has evolved into masturbation as my preference since becoming a cuck early in our marriage. I usually cum by rubbing my little dick on her feet while licking her pussy. She prefers penetration be for men only.
A happy toe sucking cuckold!

What is wrong with that? You and your wife choose to satisfy your sexual urges in a manner enjoyable to both! You do not need PIV to have sex. The sex you describe is as sexy as any two people can be! I consider you and your wife just as sexy as if you were both in a 3-way!


Again, what is wrong with that? Both of you are sexually satisfying each other! You are communicating sex! Sex is what your wife and yourself consider to be a mutual sexual gratification. I feel that you are a sexy couple enjoying each other.

Every couple has a right to share their sex as they deem pleasurable for themselves only! It is nobody's business but their own!

It seems that countless couples are living sexy lives but consider themselves in "sexless marriages" because of lack of PIV sex for any reas0n. Bullsh1t!

If you and your wife are sexually pleasing each other, you are just as sexy and sexual as any two other human beings can possibly be!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

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My wife and her lover have recently "discovered" the Cock Hero series of videos (search on your usual search engine if you don't know what I mean). Now when I am allowed out of my chastity cage and permitted to masturbate for thei amusement I have to watch and follow the beat in whatever Cock Hero video they choose. If I don't follow the rules (simply put stroke to the beat and don't look away from the "action" on the screen) then I am punished (usually with his belt or leather soled slipper) and locked up without an orgasm. If I can last until the end of the video without cumming then my wife has said I can fuck her.....fat chance! I've never lasted more than about 10 mins and these vids are often 40+ mins long!! If it isn't humiliating enough having to wank in front of them, I now have my stroking controlled by the beat of the video. Yes I suppose I am lucky in that I get to cum but when you're not in control the pleasure is diminished, the cum is ****** out of you and as my wife and her lover laugh at me trying so hard not to cum, the *********** is extreme.

I prefere masturbating. Now I am a cuckold wonnabee. In My First marriage I was a real cuckold. But My Second wife is Not in the cuckold Lifestyle. She is very dominant. The Last penetration was 7 years ago. I please her with my tongue. But i am allowed It very rarely. When My behavier was not good enough, there is no licking. So I can wait 1 year or more for the allowness to lick her. This is the only sex to My wife i can have. When she had enough orgasms and is satisfied I am allowed to jerk on her feet. I am masturbating the hole time by myself alown, thinking about cuckoldry and seeing cuckold-sites in the Internet.

Many cuckolds are like you are! They prefer to jerk off. If the wife offers anything hubby wants, he would ask for a hand job. Most cuckold wives master the art of giving an incredible hand job. She'll know how to parlay a super hj, tissue paper clean up and some arousing conversation while doing it into getting her own way! Every time!

I guess that the majority of cuckolds are happy to cheerfully pump their wads into tissues. They prefer to fantasize while other, sexually superior men excitedly pump their loads into the hungry, willing cunt of a cuck's wife. Yet everybody winds up satisfied!

It may sound weird but it sure works extremely well for many people!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

I agree that a true cuckold is by definition a Masturbator - but, I think a good cuckold does not discard his jizz into tissues, but he masturbates to get another feeding of cum......... moreover, I have read that some of the elements in the ejaculate help to feminize the cuck, too.........

Jerking-off is way better than intercourse. Pussy is so very overrated. I guess some Men know what to do with it and they enjoy putting their Cocks in a puss hole. I never really learned to fuck and I have a pretty small weenie.

Never really had much use or interest in all of the male hype about a wet slimy hole between a girls legs. Jerking-off has served me very well for the past 50 years.

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love jerking off

I LOVE pussy! But my only option these days is to jerk off like a demon. My wife gives me no sex at all.
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Still masturbating but trying to hold off some. I noticed that the longer I wait the more I leak precum. I really enjoy the taste. I got a handjob from the wife last night and after no release in 3 weeks it felt great. She got satisfied orally so all was happy.

Last Friday night, my wife had a new lover take her pussy. He's a 20 yo. black stud who fucked her really good and filled her pussy with his seed. I watched from the hallway, then entered our bedroom and cleaned his black cock first, then my wife's creampie.

After she was all nice and clean, I tried to fuck her, but she stopped me and said it was his pussy now. She ordered me to jerkoff and cum on her pussy, but told me I would be cleaning that up as well.
The whole time I was stroking my cock, she was telling me that her pussy is only for black cock now.

So far..... she's held true to her words......
Cuck who loves a creampie.