Dealing with Everyday Fights - CuckoldPlace.com

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During everyday fights that get heated how do you prevent yourself from mentioning anything about the fact that your wife gets to have sex with another man besides yourself in your fight?

I_A_S_P

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Realize that wifey's permisteral sex life is none of your business. It is a non-negotiable aspect of your relationship with her. When wifey takes a lover, he gets the sweetheart side of her permisterality. You get the Bitch. It comes with the territory.
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bpop

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If you have a desire to attack her with it, then you perhaps have some resent over her having sex with guys.

If you want her to keep relaxing with guys, you probably would not want to bring that up as a negative thing. If you just can't stop yourself, then ask yourself how you really feel about it.

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JUANITO

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THAT WOULD BE SOOOOO WRONG TO THROW ANYTHING OUT THERE DURING AN ARGUMENT ABOUT HER LOVERS! If you are truly into cuckolding, that part of the relationship is not to EVER be resented by you, but rather you should welcome the fact that she has made you her cuckold hubby. You should always consider your hott wife as your Queen, to be loved by you and to be allowed extra marital sex. NEVER under any circumstances should you feel resentful that she takes on lovers...rather than that, you should feel priviledged and grateful to her for making you her cuckold hubby. I am sure that many a cuckold marriage that has failed and ended up in divorce has been because the hubby still had some deep resentment about the wifey taking on other cocks. Being a desirable woman's cuckold husband should be looked at as a priviledge and a blessing that many men wish for and amost as many never can accomplish

bareinpa

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bpop makes a very good point in this other post. He says in reference to dealing with the angst
"promise yourself that you will keep it to yourself for a couple of days. Just do whatever it takes to hold it inside and not have a meltdown."

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slemx

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JUANITO:

I agree 100%!
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FantMstr

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A slightly different spin on it. IF you do bring it up negatively in fights, then perhaps you need to look at the cuckold part of your relationship. Do you really want it?

browning

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Wow you can really tell who's real and who's fake one piece of advice never ever bring up her extra sex during a fight you will have just turned a argument into ww3 fights are fights if your lashing out just to win the fight cuckold or not get yourself a lawyer cause your dooming your relationship.

fender412002

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Our sex life is off limits during fights. She has done it in the past on one occasion trying to make me out to be some kind of perv (I mean i am but no more than anyone else!). After the fight I called her on it and pointed out several things I could have said to her that i didn't. When she realized this, she agreed not to bring it up in fights again and hasn't.
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bpop

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fender412002:

After the fight I called her on it and pointed out several things I could have said to her that i didn't. When she realized this, she agreed not to bring it up in fights again and hasn't.

I have to say, that's a very enlightened attitude coming from her. Many people might say that they won't bring it up during a fight, but it takes a special permister to live up to it.

xoxoxo

Christine