Can a man be both a Cuck and a Bull?

I challange anyone with a master in phycology to comment
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I would say something about relative emotional attachments involved, but my wife is at least capable of disconnecting sex and love as me, if not more so. I have actual experience in the realm of swinging, but she doesn't. However, I at least developed some degree of rapport and friendship with my partners, whereas she has people she does not even remember the name of.
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Whaoo Professor....that's hot...and so slutty....I would love my gf to tell me stories about men she fucked but forgot the name of....as if she just fucked someone because she was horney just there and then....

She has admitted to have 7 men before me....now she had corrected the number to 10-12....I wonder how many it really is....

Hopefully, a bunch of guys she do not even remeber the names of
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I don't know about that Juanito. My lady LOVES to watch me at play with anyone. It turns her on as much as my watching her turns me on.

To us its more about finding a turn on in each others pleasure. Love watching her be fucked... I have watched her with others more than she has watched me, but the reaction has been the same. One time at first it made her real uncomfortable when she watched me in bed with a girlfriend - just like there were one or two uncomfortable times for me. But when the mood and partner is there we each gain extreme pleasure from watching the other fuck.

So maybe its not as rare as you feel. Everyone's different, its just works well for us.

IndianaCuck

You are in deed a lucky man.

some years ago, I had a gf who were bi. We were more fuck friends than a real couple, and she had gf's from time to time in bed. When they got tierd of 'a lick and a nothing' she used to call me

Three times, with three different gf's, she came to my flat. Two times, we spent the whole weekend fucking. Incredibale times

And (my point here): she actually got turned on watching me fucking her gf's. So maybe you are right? Some women also get turned on

But: I tend to agree with Juanito: Its rear
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She was never huge on the whole getting to know people part of sex. She would meet them at a party, have fun, and that was that. My wife still has somewhere around 14-15 guys under her belt, but I'm still in the lead. She feels like she has to compete...
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Thats hot in the sence that she is not into the sex thing tha the people hin...akes her just a little more sexy/slutty


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She has a French expression. "Y a pas du mal de se faire du bien." There is no harm in pleasure. And that's what they are to her. Pleasure. She sees nothing wrong with that, and neither do I. That's why I think someone can be both cuck and bull. They're just both different forms of pleasure. There is nothing that says they can't be mixed, and why try to restrain pleasure? It's one of the closest things to an unstoppable power in the universe as exists today. Most things are done in it's pursuit, in one form or another.
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i like this philosophy

we are pleassure junkies....no more no less....and as long as both parties in a couple agree in this, life is great

Being fre about it all is excellent
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It truly is. It still gets under my skin when I'm in chat and I post my wife for people to see, and they get upset at me when I compliment their wives. Apparently, because I post my wife, I lose all right to like theirs. Since I'm not an over agressive bull, I don't get the privelage of commenting. Why do people have to so rigidly define these things?
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Professor

There are a lot of BS on this site as well. For some people here you are not a cuckold unless:

1) your wife totally dominates you
2) you eat cum
3) your wife denies you sex
4) you are locked up
5) you have a little dick
6) you are white
7) your wife only fuck black guys
8) everubody knows about your life style
9) other things that are too extreme for any normal people

...and sometimes these people is all a smirk if you say that: 'well yes, I do like that my gf/wife fucks other guys, and yes, I get a kick out of it' BUT

1) I do not eat cum
2) Well, yes in fact, I have a big cock
3) No, I do not want my lady, freinds and co-workers to know
4) I do actually like other women,, and yes I must admit, I fuck them sometimes too
5) No, I don't want my gf/wife being exposed as a whore
6) I actually have sex with my gf/wife upto several times a day

Cuckolding for me is the 'cucky angst' while it is happening, and the closeness and horneyness after. The fact that other men have her, and she comes back. To me. Tell me she had great sex, but that's all. Tell me she loves only me.

For you Professor, I understand its a bit different. And I am fully ok with that. I am sure you have your kicks, just as hard and wonderful as I have mine.

We are pleasure junkies, and we live our lifes in order to get kicks. I love kicks. Feeling the kick-down of my BMW in 140 km/h is one of them. Going to a big band consert an other. Geeting a cod fish of 12-15 kilo on my fiching rod a third. Enjoying a Blue Lable Whiskey while listening to Pink Floyd a fourth. Having sex as I like on other one. And having my girlfriend back from her lover (s) ... perfect

So who is to define all this?

You have a beautiful woman Professor. And so have I. Great body. Sexy as hell. Yoga entusiast, and thus ready for most positions in bed. So, you and me set standards that most here may not reach. When you expose her, they envy you. And since they have seen your woman, its hard for them to believe that your compliments are true

And also, knowing your more intelligent answers here (compared to most) they are probably looking for 'real cuckold comments' like

1) you should lock yourself up for this woman
2) do you eat cream pies from that pussy?
3) she would look sexy with 4 negros pounding her
4) I would put my huge cock and ripp up that large floppy cunt
5) Does she look at you when you lick your lady in laws cunt?

And all the other extremes

Lets keep this site readable for us 'normal guys that just enjoys life'
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I will not post pic's of my gf here, but there is one model that looks like her in many ways. So, just for you to have an idea....
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I agree with this. For me, it's that when she unlocks her more primal sexuality with others, she then brings it back. I get the benefits of it. It's not that I'm unable to satisfy her, or that I have a small penis, or anything else. It's just that I get a different kind of passion out of her that isn't normally in our relationship. I get to have my cake and eat it, too!
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Further proof of the duality possible? I just actually had sexual contact with my wife! I put the photos up in our thread, it's in my profile.
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Primal sexuality....I did not think of this, but you are so true...very sexy this phrase...primal sexuality....the basis, the natural, the sex just because she needs it, the lust and ability to act....great...thanks
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No more comments?

The rest of the men here are only cucks, or bulls?
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

My former secretary keeps calling me. She wants to go out of town with me. She tells all the time about this nice hotel room she knows about, with a circular bed, and that she wants to have me in it

I will take her there

At the same time, my gf keeps teasing me about meeting a guy. Just to try out my fantasy

The latter is really my fantasy, but my former secretary is a horney long legged beauty

Paradox?
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This would be me as well.

I have a date with my former secretary tonight

The only way I would not go is if my gf tells me she has a date, and I must stay home waiting for her

(by the way: my gf would go crazy if she knew about the date)...
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Honestly i dont see how you can truly feel like both. I would think you would feel like one or the other naturally. Playing the other one would be more of a fantasy

Well, I think all have different angles on this as well as all other things in life...

But for me, both roles are exchiting....maybe it is also a matter of what mood one is on at one particulare moment? And the intencity of the relation?

Thanks for comments

Any more views on this topic?
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I agree with many points by Norwegian, ProfessorB and others.

I am a cuckold...but what level is where each individual is different.

I love the dirtyness and pure sexuality of my wife meeting another guy for sex and then coming home to me..to show me and to share her passion with me.

It is a dirty mixture of voyeurism and taboo, with a healthy dose of always loving the slutty girls thrown in.

I would love to see her hook up with a guy with a big cock and to participate in threesomes or even GB's.
But is it to humiliate me that he has a bigger cock than me - no, absolutely not. Her dalliances are with lovers, not bulls. I'm afraid we'd clash if that was the case.
I can satisfy my wife with what I have, I just like the thought of her craving more...the slut thing again.

I will eat a creampie for her benefit, but also maybe from some deep down sense of 'wrongness' which has also been a part of my sexual fantasies.
Also doing something like that, which is so different to my 'normal' permisterality may also help my wife let go even more and encourage her do dirtier things for me..cuckolds brownie anyone can just have normal sex.

I am still however the dominant one in our relationship and so far have mostly dictated (not in an aggressive way) the direction we are heading and how I would like it to go. I would and do however defer to her wishes as well, so where does that leave me lol.

I very much like women and if it wouldn't upset my wife or I was not married, I would certainly be sexually active with as many as I could.

I would most definitely like to be the bull in someone else's relationship and have had fantasies about this, but given the option of being a cuckold only, would rather be a cuckold and drop the bull fantasy rather than have neither.
Funny, while I have feelings/fantasy's of being a 'Bull' in another relationship, I wouldn't consider having a bull in mine - but want to see and be part of my wife getting fucked by other men?

I am kind of mulling over a plan to maybe visit Thailand in the future and enlist the services of an attractive ladyboy to see if I could have both my cake and eat it too? Again, this would be totally dictated by my wife's opinion, but I am hoping it is 'kinky enough' for her to get horny over it. I am sure she could be bi with the right lady so this could be a 'dirty' way to achieve a compromise
After being there, quite a few of them are the most attractive 'lady's' in the whole place, but again I'm not 100% sure if I could convince myself it was a pretty girl who liked anal sex and 'perform'...but at least I could watch my wife being serviced I guess and have a fantastic holiday to boot?

Whew another long rambling post, but yes you can be a bull and a cuckold, no questions about it - they are just labels after all.

Interesting topic, and I do believe it's certainly possible to play both roles. Nothing is more erotic to me than to imagine my busty, sexy brunette wife taking a lover who fucks her well and regularly. That said, I am not looking to be verbally humiliated, and any thoughts of "cleanup" I find repulsive. Also, there is no black angle to this, I imagine her with a muscular, white, successful professional bull with a big cock. And my cock is big actually, about 7.5" and thick, and I'm sure I could use it well on a sexy young deprived wife and drive her crazy with it. Which leads me to my flip side - playing the bull. I certainly do imagine that also and it's a very erotic fantasy.

I stay on one side of the line, but I do permisterally know many cucks that from time to time act like a bull.

Emotions, beliefs, physical attraction, and relationship physiology constantly evolves, NO?

I'm actually almost in that situation.

I created my account here many years back when I was in another relationship and only wanted to be a cuckold.

Now I'm in a new relationship and we've discussed the possibility of her cuckolding me.

But at the same time I have a slut that I'm using from time to time (my girlfriend knows about her, they have met and like each other) and plan to continue using her when I feel like.

It gets a bit confusing at times, but it is quite possible and doable.

I met a woman in a bar yesterday. we drank a little and talked....after some time, about sex too

She was newly divorced, and told a bit about her relation to her ex. She said she got tierd of him, also sexually. She started some years back to fuck other guys, and after some years, she stopped fucking her hubby. Not because she especially wanted too, but he got lazy and fat. She never told her hubby about these fuck buddies

She was laughing a lot when I told her about cuckolding. We discussed this also. She was a bit shocked at first and did not believe that men could have a decire to know about their wifes having sex with other men. Later in the conversation, she was trilled and amazed

She asked me if I would mind that my woman had other men. I told/lied her "that I would not mind much but that it would not be a great thing for me" (its a small town, and I do not want to come out of that closet)

Somehow, she must have spotted my need for cover. She started to ask if "a man like that" ("a cuck"I corrected her) would get off of knowing about lovers that their wifes had before he met here too...(?) I said "I guess so"...

She told me that she know who my gf is, and that she (my gf) was very active before I met her (not exactly what me gf have told me ... LOL)

She continued and told stories about my gf...in this conversation my gf appared as a regular slut....and I got (of course) very hard. The woman surprised me by suddenly touching me...she felt my big hard dick under the table. She started to laugh

The end of the conversation....she told me that all the tallking had made her totally horney too

She blew me in the dark street behind the bar beofre we parted. A perfect ending of a horney night....

I am a cuck to my gf....but I agreed to meet this woman againg tonight for a good fuck (and of course, I want to know all secrets about my gf....I know she will tell me....because it will make me hard for this woman...and this is what SHE needs)

Still a cuck to my gf...now a bull for this woman (?)
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Permisterally, I think that if you are totally devoted to your girlfriend, you can not be a bull to anyone else. Part of the cuckold experience is that she is getting 'extra' sex while you remain either chaste or sexually devoted to only her.

My wife & I started out as swingers, as others on this site have. However, after several years of having sex with many other women, I discovered that my wife was the best! Perhaps it was because I am in love with her, or perhaps I am luck enough to have married a lady that really knows what she is doing, I don't know.

I do know that as a result, I devoted myself totally to her about six years ago or so. She did not stop having sex with other men and from time to time involves me with them as well. Yes, I had a few bi-sexual encounters (oral only), as well as a few times with her using a strap-on on me (which is great!)

However, these last few years she has started taking a medication that has all but destroyed her sex drive. She has maintained a few lovers on the side, but even sees them on only rare occasions and sex with me has nearly stopped. She feels bad about it, but simply has very little desire. I work night shift and when she is in the mood I am not home.

She has told me that the door is always open for me to find someone on the side as well, but so far I have resisted. I am very serious about my devotion to her. She allows me to masturbate as often as I like and chastity is not brought up, although we dabred with it in the past.

So, yes, by definition I am a cuckold who is sexually frustrated most of the time, even though I have the option of finding a girlfriend.

At this time, I would rather be sexually frustrated than brake my vow to her.

That's great....I mean, if it works for you

I do not think that being devoted to a woman mean that a men would not fuck some one else from time to time....however, you express TOTAL devotion....and then, yes I agree...if you are totally devoted, you would not fuck other women
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Interesting tread Norwegian. Thanks for pointing it out to me.