Cuckold...or not?

DonnaH
and soon you should "allow" him to find the big hard cocks for you to play with and then "order" him to clean both of you while wearing sexy lingerie and a cage to keep his clitty restrained and frustrated.

Ms. Donna,
Your husband more than likely loves it and needs you to make her expose her tiny penis / sissy clitty in front of your friends, and is lucky you do it, as well as share and express your desire to be a whore for black men, and real men she knows as a sissy she cannot ever come close to competing with.

In my case when I was still married, my ex used to enjoy both male and female lovers, and now lives married to a woman as that woman's husband, thousands of miles away.

I knew I couldn't compete with her studs, and certainly, not any woman when it came to pleasuring another woman. As a sissy /sub /cuck, important to both know and feel how out of the competition and defeated permanently I was and how your spouse is and shall turn out to be. Each time I was left frustrated and saw cummy panities on the floor or in the laundry I had to wash, it was reconfirmed.

For many sissies here, the more femmed we become, the more freedom and power she has, and the more moved away from the false pretense of maleness tried and failed to portray as we are and are forever confirming.

Not only should you oblige, as you are the one in charge here, but also, have you gotten Chrissy to kneel down and beg you to go out and enjoy yourself? Has Chrissy written you any love notes begging you to enjoy yourself and stating how much better for all it would be if you did? Pleasing yourself and pleasing Chrissy too, sounds like a win/win.

As someone with a less than full package, I affirm my status, as I am best covered in panties, tinkling lady-like, and moving away from fake maleness attempts. I do wonder what deeper conversations you'll have with Chrissy over time, and what hidden sub fantasies Chrissy has and where your fantasies will go as you move along the road?

Wishing you the best happiness and fulfillment,
sissy cindy

suntzumister
Yes, I agree with you so much. I've had cock cages on my mind for a while now, which is surprising because until recently i didn't know anything about them. But after reading some of the comments i couldn't help being interested-now i'm really warming to the idea of fitting my husband with a cock cage. i've even checked them out on the internet-there are so many different types, i didn't know they were so popular. i think the most important thing is to get the correct size, Chris can only just make 4 inches fully erect so a small size would be suitable for him. it would be good, my flower and i don't often bother with clothes at home and although i won't allow my husband to touch he can still see us naked-as you can imagine, he gets very excited and often tosses off. If i put him in a cage we wouldn't have to put up with that any more, i would be in complete control and he would have to rely on me unlocking him before he could stroke his penis. some cages have spikes and start to bite as soon as the cock begins to get hard-perhaps that is too cruel but i think Chris should be punished when he has sexy thoughts about his flower. Obviously i don't know how painful a cock cage can be, i can only imagine, would love to hear from anyone with experience of being locked in chastity. my sister said it's a good idea-Vicky said i should let Chris wear his cage and watch me being fucked by black boyfriends and then make him clean up. If he does a good job with his tongue on my cunt and ass and swallows every drop of cum i can unlock him to let him toss off then lock his penis in again until his next cleaning up duty. Of course if he doesn't do a good job and leaves some of my lovers cream he won't be unlocked and he won't get to play with his cock. I was going to give the key to Vicky but i don't think she would ever unlock him and poor Chris would never get his penis free again! I'm going to order the cage tomorrow, Chris doesn't know anything about it, he is going to have such a shock! I don't know what his reaction will be when i lock his cock inside for the first time, i'm sure he will hate it but he will just have to get used to it-if he doesn't want any pain he will have to stop having dirty thoughts and make sure he pleases me and my black lovers, that's not unreamisterable, is it? I can't wait to show off my husband in his cock cage when my girlfriends come round, it will be good fun and i know they will love it. I think all cucks should have a cock cage, it makes good sense, don't you think?
Love Donna xxx

DonnaH
i think that this will make your cuck so much more attentive to you. you should get the smallest size and use spacers to make it a perfect fit. it should constrain his clitty as soon as it starts to become aroused. and the use of spikes, particularly in the presence of your flower is totally appropriate. a cuck must learn how to control his arousal and the sharp pin-pricks will do perfectly. in addition it will provide you and your flower many hours of pleasure as you tease him and watch his frustration and resulting pain as he casts his eyes on your beautiful bodies. showing him off in such a state to your other lady friends will increase his offense. you might try having him paraded in front of them, sometimes blindfolded so that he does not know who is looking at his useless penis. and you might later consider loaning him out to your sister and other relatives on those nights and weekends you wish to be totally alone with a real man.

suntzumister
Thank you for your help, I appreciate that. I'm sure you're right and we will have lots of fun when i lock my husband's little penis in his cage and I'm sure Chris will enjoy being in chastity as well in his strange way.
Love Donna xxx

DonnaH
thank you Mistress DonnaH. you honor me with your response and closing. i am pleased that i have been able to assist you in the establishment of your right and righteous position with your cuckold husband. hopefully you might be able to share stories of your adventures. i hope that you find it as enjoyable as has my Mistress/Wife.

I have given a lot of thought about putting my husband in chastity but i'm still not convinced it would be a good idea. Chris is such a sweet guy and he will do anything for me-how can i complain about a husband who encourages me to fuck with other men, I think I'm a very lucky girl. I agree he should be punished for having dirty thoughts and getting erections when he sees us naked but putting him in a cock-cage seems much too extreme. Anyway, Jessica is to blame as well, now she is older she has turned into such a show-off, loves to tease and make her dad horny! Of course he is not allowed to touch, i don't mind him seeing her naked but that's as far as it goes, he can look but not touch. I don't really think Chris is a cuckold, just a nice guy with a tiny penis-he might be a bit girlie but he's not gay. He doesn't get any sex, his only enjoyment is masturbating but if i put him in a cock-cage he wouldn't even be able to do that-I might be a slut but I'm not a bitch. It doesn't seem right that the black men around here can put their big cocks about and have their choice of white women and girls to fuck while little guys like Chris get nothing-surely it's the black men who should be restrained not the other way around, it seems unfair, don't you think? Of course my sister said i should put my husband in chastity but Vicky thinks that all white men should have a cock-cage, she will only spread her legs for blacks!

I did meet some of my sister's friends but it wasn't quite what i expected. When Vicky moved into her new apartment she threw a small party for her friends. As you can imagine, there were quite a lot of blacks but also her white friends and couples, a nice mixture really. Vicky told me to dress slutty so i wore a very short tight skirt, heels, the lot. I know I looked sexy, i could tell the black guys liked what they saw. They are so different to white men, not at all shy and they were soon flirting and coming on to me, even though i was with my husband. After a while i felt so horny and i was soon dancing with one of the sexy black men-if you can call it dancing, just swaying to the music really. He held me so close, kissing and touching, his hands were all over me. i knew Chris would be watching and getting turned on, he likes to see his wife having fun with blacks. Then after a while the guy took my hand and led me towards a bedroom. As i passed Chris I kissed him on the cheek and said 'I won't be long'. I felt so very naughty, my husband had to wait while i went to the bedroom with a black guy i had only just met-I didn't even know his name! I'm sure he got an extra thrill taking me away from my husband to fuck me like that. It was such good fun and i was very excited. Vicky was right, black men are so much better, not only bigger but much more adventurous as well-he made me come so many times, I just seemed to lose control. But that was just the beginning, after that I went into the bedroom with others, I'm not sure how many, maybe four or more, the last time i remember having two black men together-it's wonderful having one but two black men playing with me together was just incredible, definitely the best sex i have ever had, they didn't leave a hole untouched! My sister was right, she always said that once i get the taste for black cock i won't want anything else. Of course, everyone could see what i was doing, they must have thought i was such a whore, i come with my husband and then spend most of the time playing around having fun with blacks and going into the bedroom with them. But I didn't care, i was having such a good time-it was only afterwards that i felt a little ashamed. But it wasn't really my fault, the black men wouldn't leave me alone, they kept taking me into the bedroom and i just couldn't resist. Even Vicky said she felt a little sorry for Chris, she kept telling him 'Donna won't be long'-she didn't know what else to say. But when we left Chris couldn't wait to hear all about it, what the men were like, how big they were and exactly what they did to me. In the taxi i had to keep wiping myself, Chris was so excited to see the men's cream seeping and running down my thighs-but i wouldn't let him touch, just look. Now I am desperate for more black cock, I have been invited to some more parties but i won't be taking my husband next time.

I love the idea of introducing a black man or men into my marriage. Two of my friends have already done that, it seems to be becoming more and more popular, especially in London. Susan told me it works really well. Her husband wasn't happy about the arrangement at first but he couldn't refuse, he didn't want to lose his wife and now he shares her with her black boyfriend. She said it would be good for me. Of course it would have to be a guy i knew fairly well and i would make sure we all got along together. I think the old wife and husband marriage is so dull and boring and most women need two or more men to keep them happy. Naturally Chris would still be my husband and carry on what he does now but my black 'husband' would share my bed and take care of all my sexual needs. I wouldn't object to our friends knowing about it, i would even like to have two wedding rings to show off. It seems an ideal arrangement, Chris doesn't get any sex now so it wouldn't be any different for him-in fact he would have more opportunities to watch me having sex so he would be better off. He could even clean me and my black husband up after sex, I'm sure he would enjoy licking and swallowing all the cum, he's that sort of guy. The more i think about it the more i like the idea, some of my friends are already doing it and i'm sure it will soon happen for me as well.
Love to hear what you think about that, also do you think i should lock my husband in a cock-cage, I'm still not sure.

Love Donna xxx

Donna, you're suck a good slut for black cock! It sounds like a very exciting idea you have, but don't limit yourself to just one BBC as a second husband. Stay single to all blacks and enjoy several.

I would LOVE to see some photo's of your cock hungry body........
Cuck who loves a creampie.

cuckold4one
Yes, I think you're right-it is a good idea in theory but I'm sure I wouldn't be satisfied with just one black man as my second husband, perhaps I'm just too greedy! I do like the idea of being a white slut for black men, it's such fun. I'm a little jealous of my sister, Vicky only spreads her legs for blacks and now I want to do the same.
Love Donna xxx

Donna,

First, thanks for updating, very good to hear that you were pleased with what the black males did to you. As a white male wannabe cuck i am very happty for your and hope that you will continue to enjoy sex with the black males that are best able to please you, you deserve only the best.

Second, your husband is by definition a cuckold; he is a married man who accepts that his wife has sex with other men. You could even argue that he is somewhat of an extreme cuckold; he is exposed to a large number of people at your sisters party and everyone can see that you fuck a sequence of black men while he fully accepts it. Further he accepts that he is not allowed to have sex with you or to touch you, but demonstrates a great interest when you tell him what happened when you allowed the black males to do whatever they wanted to you. I do not argue when you say that he is a good husband, he is probably the best cuck-husband you can hope for. He will help raise your ******** and I am sure you can train him to take care of a lot of things around the house so you can devote more time to your black lovers. But don't try to pretend he is not a cuckold, he definitely is. Also, you are claiming the right to fuck whoever you want in front of your husband and friends so you are definetely a cuckoldress. Just accept it and enhoy it, I for one would like to express my admiration and acceptance of what you are doing.

Third, my assessment is that it is not cruel to put your husband in chastity, maybe you can argue that the really cruel thing is for you not to do it!! A marriage should in my opinion include some kind of commitment. Traditionally, it meant mutual exclusivity access to the married partners sex organs. In cuckold marriages it is different. I would argue that you should demonstrate your love and commitment to your married partner by demanding that he wears a chastity device and that you will hold the key.

The first thing you should do is ask yous husband not to wank off for three days, tell him if he does not you will have a surprise for him on the third day.

On the third day;

I think you should sit down with your cuck hubby;

You should demand he gets nude.
You should play a little with his dick, but not let him cum.
Tease him, then stop and ask him if he likes it.
Tease him some more. Then:

1) Tell him that you love him and want to make sure that the two of you stay married.
2) Tell him that you have decided that from now on, you will mostly fuck blacks and you will continue to refuse to fuck him since he is not able to satisfy you sexually.
3) Tell him that you want to own him, he is and will be your husband, and therefore you have decided that you want to put him in a chastity device. Tell him again that you love him and that this is an opportunity for him to demonstrate his love and devotion to you.
4) Tell him that if he agress to this, you will also start to train him to be a good pussy licker and that he will mostly do this after one of your lovers has filled you up. When he has pleased you, you will decide if he will be allowed to masturbate and if he does not please you; you will deny him this privilege.

If you follow these steps, I think there is a good chance he will plead with you to put him in chastity. Then a new set of opportunities will open up for you.

Sincerely
elina

Two very exciting things have happened since my last posting. I have just brought my first black man home-I didn't really plan it but i couldn't resist Brian, he is such a gorgeous guy. I phoned home first to make sure everything was ok, i didn't want Brian to see Jessica in her usual state of undress! but it went really well, i could see that Chris was impressed, he is desperate to see me fucking with black men-but not this time, maybe later. And i know that Jessica liked him, i'm sure she has a thing for black men just like me! But then we went straight into the bedroom, he didn't come to meet my family, he was more interested in fucking me! He certainly did that, my sister told me what to expect but i was still very surprised-i think you could say he is heavy-hung! I couldn't keep my hands or my mouth off his lovely cock and balls, definitely the biggest i have ever had! He gave me such a wonderful time, it seemed to go on for ever, the deepest any man has ever been in my cunt and ass, i don't know how many times i came. I know black men are heavy creamers but when he emptied his huge balls and spurted in me and over me he left me in such a mess, but i wasn't complaining! Vicky always said when i get the taste for black cock i will want more, she is so right. I've had guys away from home but it's so much more exciting and intimate having a man fucking me at home in my own bed-it makes me feel so naughty. When Brian left he gave me a long lingering kiss at the door-I'm not sure if anyone was watching but i don't care any more, i know my neighbours talk about me and call me nasty names but they will have to get used to seeing me with black men. I know Brian will be back for more and i want to have a string of black boyfriends just like my sister. I think it's nice when a married white woman gives pleasure to blacks and i'm not ashamed. At least i don't have to cheat any more, Chris likes having a slut wife and he encourages me. Just hope my dad doesn't find out what i am doing-he would be shocked to know his little girl is spreading her legs for blacks.

The other thing to happen is my husband is now in a cock-cage. The funny thing is I didn't have a lot to do with it. my sister always said that 'Christine's' tiny cock is no good to anyone and should be restrained. i think she got tired of me hesitating and not sure what to do so she took control. Vicky got his cock-cage and Jessica and i watched as she locked Chris's little 4-inch penis inside. he seemed to think she was playing at first but he soon realised she was serious-she told him he would have to get used to long periods in chastity. She said he would be expected to use his tongue to clean me and my black boyfriends up after sex-he must do a good job and swallow every drop of spunk and only after doing that a number of times would she even think of unlocking him to let him stroke his cock. Chris always wanted to watch me having sex and i'm sure he will love to lick me clean but surely it won't be much fun for him in a cock-cage. But Vicky said i shouldn't feel sorry for him, cucks enjoy being restrained, that's how they get their kicks. So many people have told me that-i still don't get it but I'll take her word for it. I haven't shown him off to my friends yet, i know they will find it very amusing. Jessica is used to teasing her dad, I don't mind him looking at us naked but of course he is not allowed to touch. I told her she shouldn't show off so much now but I know she will, Jessica can be such a naughty girl-but perhaps he should be punished for having dirty thoughts about her-he won't get an erection any more and he certainly won't be tossing off in front of us-if he can't masturbate he is going to get so frustrated! Vicky even told Chris that if he does a good job cleaning up for me and my boyfriends she might want him to do the same for her. He is very excited, i know he thinks Vicky is sexy and he would love to lick her cunt and ass. But i can't help feeling a little sorry for him, he told me that night times are not nice-but i'm sure he will get used to it, he will just have to stop having sexy thoughts. Anyway it's not my fault he has a little boy's prick, i can't do anything about that. Vicky doesn't trust me, she thinks i'm too soft so she is keeping the key and now my sister is in complete control of my husband's penis! He will have to please both of us with his tongue to have any hope of stroking his cock again!
Love Donna xxx

You're such a slut!!

Keep up the good work baby!
Cuck who loves a creampie.

cuckold4one
Thank you for your kind words, I take that as a compliment.
Love Donna xxx

Believe me Donna, when you're called a slut, it's the highest possible compliment! I've sent you a pm. xxx

cuckold4one kennyboy
DonnaH
Yes, I do like to be called a slut as long as it's said in the right way. My girlfriends often call me a slut or a whore but that's done in a friendly and humorous way. And of course i like it when men call me dirty names, especially during sex But I also know that some people who are jealous of me and don't like what i do call me a slut in a nasty way just to insult and put me down-naturally i don't like that.
I remember when my sister and I were teenagers our dad used the word a lot. He was quite strict and wouldn't let us dress too sexy-he always told us that only sluts wore skirts that short. But teenagers never do what their parents want and Vicky and I were no different. we always kept our sexy things at a friends house and when we went out at weekends I would choose one of my very short skirts together with my high-heels and makeup-sometimes i would even go without panties! It was very exciting, even then I loved showing off and teasing men and especially as i knew dad didn't approve. Then when we were a little older he did his best to keep us away from black boys-he was always telling us that only sluts went with black men and of course married white women who fucked blacks were the dirtiest whores of all. But instead of putting us off he just seemed to make it more attractive. I'm sure we would have tried black cock anyway but because our dad kept telling us how bad it was we wanted to do it even more. Vicky was first to go black and I have followed her, now we only spread our legs for black men. My mum is fine about me having fun with blacks but my dad would have such a shock if he found out. But he doesn't know that he helped to turn his pretty girls into black cock whores!
Love Donna xxx

Donna, you definitely made the right move when you went black. I've spoken to you before about this, you have to listen to me darling. Your husband is a prime candidate to be put into chastity, he NEEDS to be caged! It will make your marriage so much stronger babe, you will call the shots, hubby will be your clean-up boy and your Bulls fluffer. Straddle his face and get one of your black studs to fuck you in that position, you're right there for when he's cum in you, just sit on the cucks face, give him a real treat!
I'm still loving your posts, keep them coming! xxx

Married white women who can't resist black men with their big cocks and balls are just sluts and dirty whores. They love to spread their legs for blacks but refuse sex with their white husbands.

Donna, sluts have so much more fun than the prudes.
It's one of the highest complements a cuck or bull can give to a woman who has a healthy sexual appetite.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

Well said cuckold4one - exactly right!

I do enjoy being a white slut and giving pleasure to black men and as I'm married it's even more exciting and such good fun. My sister always said that once i get the taste for black cock i wouldn't want anything else. What I would really like is to be the centre of attention of a group of horny young blacks, to be played with and fucked by them all. It hasn't happened yet but I'm sure it will, probably at one of Vicky's parties, I'm so looking forward to that!
Love Donna xxx

You'll LOVE it when it happens. My wife did!

The part I enjoyed the most was licking all that sweet cream from her well fucked, black cock hungry pussy.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

What a wonderful weekend. The kids were staying with friends so it was the ideal opportunity. My sister brought two gorgeous black men round and we had such fun. I know that when Vicky picks a man or men for me i won't be disappointed, she has a number of sexy black boyfriends. The guys were magnificent, such muscular bodies and big cocks and balls and they know exactly how to excite us, much different to white men - now I will only spread my legs for blacks, just like my sister.
Vicky let my husband watch us being played with naked but it must have been agony for Chris in his cock-cage with his penis restrained. But he is getting better at his cleaning-up duties, he's lucky to be able to lick me clean and also use his tongue on my sister's cunt and ass, I know how much he likes Vicky and he certainly does his best to please us both.
One of the guys even called a couple of friends to come over and we had four lovely black men to pleasure us. I just love to feel a nice black cock sliding deep into my cunt and ass, there really is nothing better. Most of the time I wasn't sure who was doing what to me, I have never been fucked so much and in so many different positions. They made us come so many times and filled all my holes with their cream, even my mouth, it was so very exciting.
Now I can't wait for next week - the kids know I like to entertain my black boyfriends at weekends so they have to stay with friends.
As for my husband, Chris always wanted to watch me fucking with blacks but of course he didn't expect to be in a cock-cage! I'm sure he must be very frustrated but my sister has the key and Chris knows that Vicky won't unlock him so it will be some time before he gets to stroke his little penis again! He will just have to make do with swallowing my boyfriend's cum and if he's lucky sucking some black cock. But he's such a sweet husband, he really does love me but he knows I can't resist when black men play with me and tease me with their big cocks and balls, then I can't help spreading my legs for them!
Love Donna xxx

You're doing well Donna, keep getting your Hot cunt and arse filled to the max with iron hard BBC, you know it's what we all want for you, and you do too! xxx

Married white women who fuck with blacks are just sluts. you and your sister give all white women a bad name. You might be pretty and sexy but you are still a whore. When you fuck black men you don't care about their wives as long as you get what you want, a big black cock. You even treat your husband badly, the poor guy is not allowed to touch you but you enjoy black men playing with you naked. now you degrade him even more with a cock cage. You should be ashamed to wear your wedding ring, you dirty whore.

Not sure why you are on a cuckolding site??? Your views are your views, but her husband is aware and it suits them both, so perhaps you ought to tone it down a bit . . .

jxAz5k4S
Instead of calling me names and a***ing me perhaps you should be more angry with the black men who tease and pester me. Just because I'm an attractive and sexy white woman they won't leave me alone. Vicky and I go to black clubs and pubs, I like to dress sexy with very short skirts so it's easy for them to touch and play with me. But even when I say no they still carry on and they know exactly how to get my panties off - I just can't resist when they show me their big cocks and balls.

So true Donna,all the black men I ever met have been pussy hounds,they never give up..I imagine there are shy or average black men out there but havnt met them..I work out very hard to look good and I want to show off..Was chunky in my 20's so I love being admired,think you should just go girl,there allways nay sayers just forget them enjoy yourself Donna.

Linda38DD
Thank you Linda. You are so right, all the black men I meet are only interested in white cunt and ass and they're not satisfied until they get it. But I'm not complaining about that, it's such good fun, I just love big black cock and I can't help myself. At least my husband knows what I do, he likes having a slut wife and even encourages me to spread my legs and give pleasure to blacks. But I think white men get jealous when they see blacks playing with me and some of them call me names. But that just turns me on and then I can't resist behaving like a white whore and letting everyone see the black men kissing, touching and fingering me just to make them even more angry. Perhaps it's not the sort of thing a married woman with kids should be doing but I can't help being a naughty girl and it's such fun!
Love Donna xxx

Donna, never mind what one Jack Ass has to say.

You're enjoying the lust of the black cock and your hubby is onboard with your needs.
I see NO harm or wrong doings in any of what you're into.

Keep on enjoying yourself and having fun!

ps..... sure would LOVE to see a photo of your HOT pussy!
Cuck who loves a creampie.