Anyone in a situation where it went too far

You've always been straight with Debbie. You were too good! She's always basically run her own agenda. "What Pete don't know wont hurt him" translates into "What Pete don't know won't hurt me. It's none of his business." in girl talk. If you, me or any other guy hires a PI to track the whereabouts of our women, we'd be floored by the difference in her recital of events compared to the hard evidence produced by the PI! Girls tell us what they want us to hear. We believe it. Until we get fucked and have to realize the true situation. It comes with the territory. Sh1t like that can happen to any one of us.


I'm very happy to find that you have a new girlfriend! I hope that things work out well for your new relationship. You've been fucked up since Debbie split. I trust that you will establish a strong bond with her and think twice before trying to stuff her into another man's bed!

Good luck!
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I_A_S_P

Thank you for your comments. I've been checking back here for ages hoping someone would reply!

I don't regret persuading and encouraging Debbie to get involved in the cuckold lifestyle, it was an exciting time and I'd do it all again. Can't help thinking that she would have cheated on me anyway - if she already hadn't - and as I found myself aroused by that prospect it seemed reasonable to let my wife go out and get the extra cock she must have needed and reap the benefits when she got home and told me all about it. I assume being expected to reveal all to her husband lost its appeal and it became more exciting for her not to tell me.

My new girlfriend is an entirely different kettle of fish, like chalk and cheese, though I must admit I do have cuckold fantasy scenarios that involve her. I don't think it's something that ever leaves you. I'm sure she would be horrified at any suggestion that she should be fucked by someone else and run a mile, so I'm going to leave my fantasy right where it is!
Peter C

The answer I was hoping to hear!
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I am in that situation right now actually. She didn't just take it too far, she took it REALLY too far.

My sex drive died this past year and hers was on fire so long story short, she met a guy she wanted to be a bull. Well since I couldn't even get horny, it wasn't really a cuck thing (he didn't want to do typical bull stuff anyways). I didn't want her to "suffer", so I said keep seeing him and be happy. Well, while she was pushing me to get my issue fixed (low-t), she was falling in love with him in a monogamous way. When the testosterone therapy worked and she filled me in on all the kinky, hot, cool stuff they were doing - it blew my mind. Then she said she wanted to be poly. Then she admitted I wasn't primary. So basically, I was completely replaced. She wants to stay married, but doesn't want anything to change. I find this guy to be a spouse poacher, a game playing snake and she won't see it. We're on the final stages of saving our marriage. It doesn't look good.

Be careful what you wish for, or let happen.

insatiable381
My wife does not allow me to have any sex since we were married 15 years ago. While she openly has boyfriends. One she spent our wedding night with her while I was home alone. I have to be virtuous at all times and my only sex is with me going down on her and sometimes she will allow me to jerk off after in my room properly restrain including a but plug etc. I ***** in a small separate bedroom while she and her friends ***** in the master. She has never work sonde our marriage. I work six days a week and she just enjoys life *****s in till 12 noon while I'm up at 5 to clean the house and do her laundry clean her car prepare her food for the day. About 5 nights a week she will go out with her like minded girl friends or boy friends. I stay home and do the endless list of chores and will get a doggy bag for dinner serve in a dog bowl at her feet when she returns with her friends. I am very submissive to her and her friends my paycheck is direct deposit into her account and she gives me a small allowance so I can buy her gifts to show my devotion and total ********** to her.

Having a clear initial understanding of both your and your wife's objectives and limits is critical. But you can't set boundaries/limits that you pledge to "never go beyond." We've found that our boundaries get pushed out all the time -- it's sort of natural growth. Saying "never ever" is unrealistic and can cause problems if you want one thing and your wife refuses to consider it just because when you started you drew a line somewhere (or vice versa).

Things change. When we got going we were among the younger couples. Now it seems like white couples are starting way earlier and are a lot more relaxed about the taboo, or even being outed to friends or family. Younger couples are also inclined to be more "flexible" sexually.

We hope this healthy trend continues!