Anyone in a situation where it went too far

We have well defined limits even thought there arent many, but was chatting with a guy who said his 1st wife went beyond the rules they set up and he had her bags packed for her before she got home from a date. Anyone have any similar stories.

If either side is going to set limits then they both need to stick to them or it all turns to sh1t.

This guy came round to have my wife's long sexy sharp-nailed fingers milk him dry while she blindfolded him. She ended up taking him to her bed.

I have spoken to a few people about this on a swingers board and there seem to be 2 areas where is has come up.
1. The rule is no interracial and the wife brought home a black guy.
2. Limit to sex acts and it goes passed that. ie no anal and wife has anal without permission.

I don't think you're really thinking this through...

Don't put arbitrary (non health and safety related) rules on the table that limit your wife's fun. If the sole purpose behind a rule is to prevent your own anxiety, then maybe you shouldn't be letting your wife play with other people at all.

ninto

Completely Agree.
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I think everyone has hangups depending on background.
My wife doesnt want me cumming in another woman (not health related, she just thinks its romantic)
I dont want my wife doing anal (because she wont do it with me, lol)

We had a game about intentionally setting silly rules we knew what we would break to make it naughty, but guy I am referencing had some hardline rules that I didnt think were hard to follow.

Take someone's wife on a hot date. Rules between a husband and wife have no bearing whatsoever on rules in the wife's extramarital relations. She always sets her own rules when and as she'll see fit. This applies to each of us.
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Saw the vid of him kissing his way up her thighs whilst she stood with one booted foot up on the foot of the bed (it's on youcuck), very horny indeed!

Where does she meet her subs and bulls; online?

Not sure if this falls into the category of being 'in a situation where it went too far' if everyone involved is totally on board and agreeable. For more than 3 years, my spouse, her Ex-Husband, and I kept egging each other on and constantly escalating the rhetoric for me to become a eunuch. The games kept getting more and more intense, the CBT more severe, and the desire for all of us kept getting more real until we all convinced ourselves that there was room for only one Real Man in our marriage and the right thing for me was to get castrated. Six months later my spouse sniped my right testicle cord and her Ex sniped my left side. My spouse and her Ex are very pleased with the results as am I. Sometimes I look back and think that maybe we went too far but then I rationalize the benefits which far outweigh the cons. But even after 14 years of no erections, no orgasms, no sexual desire, and a shriveled unrecognizable wiener, I still occasionally get a ping of jealousy when I see my spouse getting fucked by her Ex with His attractive Manly and strong erect Cock with His large potent low hanging balls. That's why He's the Real Man in our marriage and I'm the married eunuch.



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Sometimes a man discovers his lack of sexual prowess very fast when he sees and hears his wife or gf respond to her lover. Deep down he knows that regardless of what she says, she'll never stop if he asks OR demands. Kind of like thinking that you have many friends but knowing how much your feelings would be hurt if you suddenly needed to borrow $1,000 cash and actually had to ask one to lend it. So I guess that any sex situation where the husband ends up with less than 100% of his woman and must share control of her with another man might be considered "too far" by some folk.

In your case, two crushed cords provided the perfect 'fix'. First it adjusted your attitude to allow you to accept, appreciate and enjoy the steady diet of domineering Full Bitch she continuously feeds you. Second it frees you to openly express your excitation from adoring the strong masculine presence of her lover without shame. You can submit yourself to a Real Man from safely behind the skirt of your Strict Wife. That simple procedure enabled wife and lover to fit you into their lives as the happy bitch that you are today.

I agree that your situation didn't go too far. It became much more livable for all three parties and everyone is extremely satisfied with the outcome!
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I'm with the school of thought of not putting any limits on my wife. I want her to play and be safe, so letting me know where she is just about covers my rules. Otherwise I want her to enjoy it as much as she can without me harping over everything and ruining it for her. We both get what we want and she feels comfortable and confident telling me everything.

That does NOT alleviate the angst or jealousy but I'd much rather know and keep her than to push her away or have her shut down.

I never set ANY rules, it was more exciting for me, seeing how far she would go. I would often ask her to bring home pictures, but no limits on what she could do. I often would dare her to do something, then sit back as she took the bait. She on the other had would set rules for me. When she would find a guy she really liked, I could only fuck her with a condom, while he got bareback. She would say "My pussy belongs to him now". If you get to the point of being a total cuck, you no longer have the rights to set rules on her. Where she always has the rights to set rules for you.

Very true! An inch becomes a mile pretty fast!
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My wife set our first rule, that we always tell the other what we are doing at all times. No secrets. She then broke her own rule, but when I caught her she confessed and to my knowledge, never broke that rule again. Other than that, we always made sure that we were in agreement before we tried anything new.

My problem is things could never go far enough. At first I just wanted a one time MFM. Once did it, I wanted to do it again. Next I wanted her to go on a date, while I waited at home. After that happened, I always wanted to up it another notch. Was always seeking the next level of angst and ***********. She continued to do crazier and crazier things. Again it was never enough. I often dared her to take it to the next level, and she always did. I even told her there was no way she could cheat behind my back, because I would find out. She ended up having a 6 month affair behind my back, before bragging how she banged him for months, and I had no idea. He even banged her in my bed. The excitement of going to next level made me so horny. She would do wilder things each time. Banging two brothers, banging a ****** and ***, banging total strangers, you name it. She always ramped up the *********** each month. Making me wear her lovers used condom, pouring a used condom on my bed and pillow, ******* me to ***** in the sticky mess. But no matter what she did, I was always wanting to take it up another notch. There was nothing that could make me fill fulfilled tottaly. I wanted her to get knocked up so I could feel the *********** of raising another mans baby. So she made me wear condoms, or jack off, so if it happened we would know it was his. This only made me want her to take more cocks and sperm in her. She left no stone unturned when it came to cuckold ***********. Including getting knocked up, and giving me another mans ***** to raise. So when it comes to breaking the rules, we broke every one of them. And God it was exciting, nasty, dirty, naughty! What an awesome ride it's been!

ninto
Actually no. This is an agreement for both parties. Yes for the wife to have fun, but also the husband. This is for both people even the *********** some couples perform. In the end it is the husband and wife and the "bull" "lover" or whatever is simply the means to an end. Having certain guidelines whatever they are is perfectly fine and expected.

The only time a guy has ever went to far was when they met he told my wife to suck him till he cums, which she gladly did but then she told him that even though she does enjoy sucking cocks that he would have to fuck her as well. So after the 3rd or 4th time of my wife meeting up with him and the only action was her sucking him off, she said she would not be coming back. I know this is probably not what you were looking for, but that is the only time someone had pushed any kind of boundaries with her.

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I disagree with any one who doesn't take care of health and safety as a priority before engaging in "games"
We can all only enjoy the fun we enjoy if all is safe and trust worthy.
We should all know this rule firmly and whole heartedly.

Smitty
I like the way you think smitty!
I wish my ex wife would've been like yours! You're a lucky man!
marc-br549

we had a lot of red lines, but my wife slowly stepped over all the lines, we even agreed that in our bedroom she would be only with me, but now she regularly ****** there with her lover, and I ***** in the ********* room

Congratulation for your caged pic Leprikonius333

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We are an older couple and I realize that I am a total cuckold. Her current lover is of similar age to us. I am a bit concerned that things are going too far mainly because of an article I read on another cuckold site. We have no rules for her but I felt there was an underlying assumption that dates are for sex only, maybe after a meal. Now they do occasional concerts and shopping excursions together or just watch movies at his place as well, sometimes with no sex. Until I read the article suggesting that this could be dangerous I quite enjoyed her having a boyfriend. She says that there is no way she could ever have any romantic interest in him other than having fun which makes her feel naughty. I tend to agree with what she says but now I am wondering if I am being duped.
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Aside from the actual physical sex that a wife enjoys with her lover/Bull etc at least a part of the cuckold marriage arrangement is that the Bull gradually moves further and further into the relationship of the husband and wife. It isn't all non stop sex, there are other pursuits that the lovers enjoy, so called 'normal' activities. bear in mind that he is taking over your duties which include sex but also include the more day to day activities. It doesn't have to end up with you being totally eased out of the marriage, you're there to support her, so do your job. In any case, it's fairly rare for a Hotwife to keep the same Bull for as long or longer than the average marriage lasts. Bulls come and go (no pun intended) and get replaced in time, you're still there supporting her in her lifestyle choice.

I encouraged my ex wife to take a lover because it was turning me on. Unfortunatly she fel in love with him and asked for divorce...
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pat87 I think that's a risk we all take and should face before we start down this road. I told my wife before I watched her drive off to go fuck another man that I love her and don't ever want to lose her and I believe she feels the same but it's one of those things that can't be completely controlled. For now she seems to live me more than ever and has really bought into the idea that she is happier now because she doesn't have to choose. She can have lovers and a husband. She sees the big picture. But I also know that a guy could come along and make her fall in love and then we'd have a situation on our hands. I trust her as much as it is reasonable under the circumstances. Having said that, the only rules we have are no close friends or family involved or knowing about our lifestyle. She loves her boyfriends to fuck her bareback and to cum in her pussy and I do too. It's the ultimate. Also, any kind of kinky sex that isn't part of our sex life is encouraged. I love thinking about her giving another man sexual pleasure in ways she doesn't do for me. Besides, most hotwives who have been convinced to live the lifestyle are going to do what they want once they form an outside relationship regardless of what hubby wants. And I'd prefer she knows she's free to make her own choices so that she's honest with me about her affairs. That's how we stay close, by talking about and sharing her adventures.

Here is where you must put your foot down. She is testing you. It is time for you to grow a pair and both of you to talk and make some serious decisions. Otherwise, this is often the way the ship can sail on a marriage! Unless shopping excursions, concert going and chilling with Netflix type dates without sex are no longer considered "romantic get togethers" nowadays............. Just sayin'.
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No rules from my side as long our marriage doesn't suffer.
I promised not having sex with other women as long as she doesn't permit it.
Instead, she made me bi. It was her dream.

She is free to do what she wants to do at any happening.
The happening will decide because you never know what carries her away.

Example:
Once she was fucked very painful. I asked her to stop that guy but she said "No, no, let him go on".
Only once again, I asked her the same. Yes, you can imagine, again the same answer.
I ASKED HER NEVER EVER AGAIN.

In our fantasy (compiled in a story) she has a BF for whom she has no limits at all.
Anal sex, which is very rare with me, became common.
She loved this story, in which she is his slut, very much.

I guess you could say the cuckolding went too far in my case as my wife ultimately left me for a neighbour just 2 doors along from us, but the writing had been on the wall long before that, though I was blissfully unaware by all accounts.

We originally had just 2 ground rules. One was that she'd always use condoms. Debbie had had an hysterectomy at 29, so pregnancy wasn't an issue, just the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. Rule two was that she wouldn't do it with anyone I knew, so I wouldn't be able to put a face to the name when she told me about her exploits later. Although this worked fine at first, in 2009 she received a Facebook friends request from an ex-work colleague of mine, Mick. Soon they were messaging each other and texting all day every day and inevitably Mick started chatting Debbie up. I say inevitably as when we worked together he was a bit of a ladies man and always on the look out for a new pussy to fuck. Debbie lapped it up and told me that she'd always fancied him and that he'd actually asked her out when we worked together some 11 years before. She'd been tempted, but declined his advances.

Now was different though, and I had suggested and encouraged her since to get some cock elsewhere if she wanted as long as she came home and told me all about it. She'd been with 2 younger guys and I loved knowing she was getting extra cock now and then. She clearly enjoyed it too and it had definitely improved our sex-life. So when Debbie said she felt she was getting herself into something she couldn't get out off - or didn't want to - I found myself agreeing to her dating Mick.

After a few false starts, eventually Debbie went to his house one Sunday afternoon and came home minus her panties, but with a red, puffy, well-used pussy and Mick's cum still oozing out of her and trickling down her thigh, so both ground rules went that same day. I thought Mick had only fucked her once more after that, but since me and him became friends on Facebook I have learnt that she was seeing him regularly for sex for the next 2-3 years, even taking her away for a week's holiday when I thought she was away with someone else entirely!

Mick was also unaware that I knew him and Debbie had ever had sex, so we have had some very interesting online chats about her. She'd told me that she'd told him that we had "an arrangement", but that wasn't the case apparently. As far as Mick was concerned he'd finally succeeded in getting an ex-workmate's wife into bed, one that had been high on his "to do" list for years, so he was very pleased with himself, though said he did feel a bit guilty as he knew me, but pussy was pussy and if Debbie wanted his cock he was more than happy to oblige.

I've enjoyed chatting to him about Debbie, both of us learning things we didn't know before. I made sure I thanked him for fucking my wife for me and he said that he was glad to have been of service. I must admit though, I was quite disappointed to be told that he didn't rate Debbie as particularly good in bed. He'd had her younger sister already and she was the better shag by all accounts.

Neither of us can work out why Debbie became so secretive. She had my permission to fuck whoever she wanted, but chose not to tell me stuff anymore. I learnt too from a mate of hers that when she used to go and visit her at weekends, Debbie would actually be at her mate's step-dad's. He was more complimentary apparently, saying she gave great blow-jobs and was a really good fuck. When her mate said, "What about Pete?", Debbie's reply was, "What Pete don't know won't hurt him." Strange, considering I loved her doing it. Maybe she got off on it more by not having to tell me. Guess I'll never know now.

Mick has moved away now, but we still chat occasionally online. Having seen photos of my new girlfriend, he has suggested we go and visit this coming summer. Yes, he wants her next!
Peter C