So very close

Ron, I agree with Peter, your already getting cucked, and if not yet you will whether you want it or not. If your going to do it, then do it! Quit putting it off, it will only make things worse. I was in your shoes, only I was getting cucked and didn't know it. So I was blind sided by it. I never thought she would cheat on me. We went thru a rough time there, but I realized how much I loved her and how much I didn't want to loose her. I knew how much she loves me, and I knew I wasn't satisfying her, and she would have never done it if I'd been taking care of her. So, I set her down one morning, and we had a long talk. It was akward, but worth it. I just kept tell her that I just wanted her to be happy and if she was honest with me I would be cool with whatever she did. I left for work hoping she wouldn't act on it, but she did, that day. I thought I would be pissed and hurt, but amazingly, I got so excited, I couldn't wait to get home to her and have been that way everytime since. If I'd only known, we would have been doing this along time ago.

I was lucky, she didn't meet some guy and fall for him. She only wanted the sex as I think is the deal with your wife. I think being open about everything and talking about it afterwards helps her keep her feeling at bay, and keep it as a sex only thing. This way there's no flirting and chasing. Everyone knows the deal. They hook up, they fuck, she comes home. It's made our relationship 10 time better. We no longer have that pressure hanging over us.

Good luck and can't wait to hear how it works out.

Thanks very much peter and dcuck. Those were some of the most insightful posts I have ever got from this site. Its tough to tell on here what's reality or fantasy, but ur words speak to me. I don't want to be cheated on and want my wife to feel she has to sneak around. That would damage our relationship as there could be no trust if she's out currently fucking either an ex lover, her boss, stranger or whomever. I'm sure I would probably just get over it and accept it but I'd rather lay it down now and let her know its okay and that I not only approve of her infedility but I encourage it.

She is an amazing fuck. She will do it all and her goal is to achieve orgasm. She's not a size queen as she prefers her slightly bigger than my cock toy to her big thick one. She's also repulsed by blacks which I'm indifferent about her fucking, it wouldn't matter. Without ever having met her you guys called it out, she just wants to get fucked the way she deserves.

Were going out tonight and we may go over another couples house that's going to have someonw there she flirts with regularly. I think if it plays out I will nudge her towards this goal. Ill keep it updated if something pops up.

BTW nothing came up of the hickies. She ****** early and I just woke her up and fucked her, without inspecting or bringing up those marks further. Maybe tonight though...

Thanks to all who have been following my thread. This is a wonderful community.
Ronald Curry

I don't want to push you into anything. But there is an extreme excitement with cheating. But there is an extreme guilt with it to. I know, I've cheated on just about every women I've had except my current wife. I know the feeling, it's addictive. That's why I say if you think she' already doing it, then step up before it goes too far. My wife has talked about the excitement and how she misses it, but the guilt was so bad that me knowing outways the excitement.

This is my opinion, from my experiences. Please don't let me push into something your not ready for.

But, I'm sooo angst for the updates!!!!

How'd the date turn out?

Nothing happened on that date but there has been some suspicious activity on my wifes part.

First, she went out "dancing" last Tuesday and did not return home until very late. The place she went to was having a ladies night and is pretty much a club like atmosphere and is known as a place to pick up women. She claims to have gone out with a friend who is an older woman who also has youngren and a day job. Not sure how this other woman is able to go out late and be at work at 8am. Makes me wonder what's really going on.

The other aspect is her particular fascination with this couple from her work. First, the man let's call him Jack goes out of his way to bring my wife coffee or other beverages while they are at work. She also wanted to go over their house on Saturday and help them move which was odd to me because this is a time that her and I spend tgether as our lives are hectic. Why would she pass up this limited time with one another. The other woman is bisexual from what I understand and has now gone back to cock and is now living with "Jack." I'm begining to suspect that she is possibly involved with this couple.

My wife and I also always communicate via text all the time. The frequency has gone down drastically. There's hardly anymore conversations and small talk. I did receive an "I love you" the other day so I could just be paranoid but I will check the number of messages she sends and receives and if its still high or higher than normal than I may be an unknowning cuck. Which is not where I want to be.

Tonight we are going out. We will have a long drive home (about 45 mins). I think I am just going to probe her for some info. I just don't know how to go about it. If I ask her if she's cheating on me shell only get mad probably deny it and if she hasn't ill appear insecure. But I just also want to get it out in the air the comment she made about me not fucking her good enough, I'm hoping this will allow her to open up and tell me what step we should take next.
Ronald Curry

Nothing happened on that date but there has been some suspicious activity on my wifes part.

First, she went out "dancing" last Tuesday and did not return home until very late. The place she went to was having a ladies night and is pretty much a club like atmosphere and is known as a place to pick up women. She claims to have gone out with a friend who is an older woman who also has youngren and a day job. Not sure how this other woman is able to go out late and be at work at 8am. Makes me wonder what's really going on.

The other aspect is her particular fascination with this couple from her work. First, the man let's call him Jack goes out of his way to bring my wife coffee or other beverages while they are at work. She also wanted to go over their house on Saturday and help them move which was odd to me because this is a time that her and I spend tgether as our lives are hectic. Why would she pass up this limited time with one another. The other woman is bisexual from what I understand and has now gone back to cock and is now living with "Jack." I'm begining to suspect that she is possibly involved with this couple.

My wife and I also always communicate via text all the time. The frequency has gone down drastically. There's hardly anymore conversations and small talk. I did receive an "I love you" the other day so I could just be paranoid but I will check the number of messages she sends and receives and if its still high or higher than normal than I may be an unknowning cuck. Which is not where I want to be.

Tonight we are going out. We will have a long drive home (about 45 mins). I think I am just going to probe her for some info. I just don't know how to go about it. If I ask her if she's cheating on me shell only get mad probably deny it and if she hasn't ill appear insecure. But I just also want to get it out in the air the comment she made about me not fucking her good enough, I'm hoping this will allow her to open up and tell me what step we should take next.
Ronald Curry

Looking forward to the update.

I hope she is open with you. It will be so much more fun if you can do it together!

It will probably be too late now for me to give advice on this, but I'll hark back to my previous post. Don't accuse her of anything. Be submissive and say that you are worried that you are letting her down. Tell her that her comment about you not fucking her good has been playing on your mind and that you'd agree to anything that would improve your wife's sex-life. I'd say that her being satisfied in bed is important to you and that if I am not up to it, then I wouldn't blame her if she looked elsewhere for sex. She may be aware of your cuckold fetish, but say that you have fantasised about her with another man, that the prospect arouses you and that if she wanted to take a lover, you would 100% approve and accept it.
Peter C