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I think you have homosexual tendencies and probably have since you were a teenager. I suggest you discuss it with your wife and see if she would let you have a homosexual experience to see if this is where you want to go

I suspect cuckolding provides a convenient outlet for men who have latent gay tendencies. It's not for every cuck, but if that's your thing then don't suppress it. Like brainbox said, be honest with your wife and see where it leads.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

It's not unusual for a lot of cucks, I accept not everyone of them, to engage in what is considered as homosexual acts (cock sucking being the most common of them). Some cucks have to be encouraged, others do it because they want to for a variety of reasons. I can only talk about it from the standpoint of my fuck buddy's husband and me. He sucks cock as good as she does, but he needed training to perfect his technique. Keep an open mind about it, and like PC said, discuss it with your wife, get her input, then go out and do it if that's what you both want. Ask her Bull first though, he may not want another man sucking his cock.

Has anyone experienced a correlation between the cuckold husband's decreased sexual access to his wife and an increased desire for homosexual activity? For those cuckold husbands that begin to experiment and find enjoyment with gay porn, sub_mission to Men, cock worship, cum eating, etc., do you believe that is it all related to humilialion and nothing more? For the married cucks that ultimately become sexually exited by homosexuality, what do you suppose is the reason for your shift from straight to gay? I know that not ALL cucks are homosexuals! I get that. However, there is some percentage of cuckold husbands that fantasize and/or actually prefer Cock over pussy. For those cuck hubbies, what is it that caused you to loose desire to penetrate your wife's pussy while being drawn to taking a Man's Cock into your mouth? Especially want to hear from hubbies like me, where cocksucking has become their ONLY form of sex and your orgasms occur while making love to a Man's Cock. Where you only fantasize about Cock and you get erections while looking at a Men.


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I have had little sexual activity with my wife - for many years. It's a psychological fear or her part.
Regardless of that reason, I have been on a path that led me to be gay, and yes I think it's been a desire on my part to seek ***********. Before I engaged in gay activity, I pursued cross dressing, mainly lingerie. I then pursued professional dominatricies for cross dressing and golden showers. I then pursued sex with men mainly through M4M massage and bath houses. I crave a submissive role and have become a very enthusiastic cock sucker. I now enjoy looking at cocks, but that developed over many years. The drive throughout had been to seek ***********.
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The ***** word deleted was h-u-m-i-l-i-a-t-i-o-n. That is what I've been seeking and what has driven me.
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i fear you are too anxious and fearful of being branded as gay. i started as straight as any male. when my Mistress and i entered into a a sharing style i remained totally straight. however as i began to witness my Mistress experiencing greater pleasure from real men i started to pay more attention to their cocks. she noticed this and began to encourage me to get closer to them as they were fuking her. then it was to touch the real man's cock and finally to taking it into my mouth to make them hard for her. she also gave me a pair of her panties to wear and i have to admit that i enjoyed the feeling, perhaps too much. now i still enjoy the sight of a my wife's body and get hard if not in my cage. i also am more comfortable dressing in frilly lingerie and women's clothing. i submit to and exist to serve, pleasure and entertain my Mistress and her real male lovers. i enjoy the taste of cum and will take it from her oussy or directly from her big cock lovers. and when i have been a good sissy i love the feeling of being allowed to ejaculate whether at her hand, gazing on her body, witnessing/listening to their passion or when ordered to submit to a real man

Life is too short , i have had urges for 40 yrs plus ! I am married for the second time , and after 10 yrs together i statred to talking about fantasies . What i wanted to see , participate in , try . Etc . Well i have been looking at other men in showers since i played jr high football. I would look lust , go home and jack off . I wanted so bad to suck cock,taste it . I would get all worked up , aroused get on floor throw my legs up over shoulders ,but never could finish ! After year of this my wife has helped me get over that , but getting me to swallow my own load. What a rush after she snowballed me ! Omg i got aroused again ,was so hot . Well thru the years she has helped me find men to service , one was her ' stud ' , wonderful lover for her . I like for her to have a younger virile man . I have come to realize that i love to be a cock sucker , i like the feel of a man in me , i can feel so submissive when i have cock in me ( yes even have been taken by men ) , love that feeling . I have been on search for a Local to service , just got back from one that i have talked to and it seemed he was another one to tease and never show . Well he advertised 9 '' , and wanted 'adult fun '. Well we finally met up , chatted in a private area . When i looked away for a minute , i looked back at him !!! THERE HANGING OUT WAS this Fucking monster i loked and did a double take he smiled said well you want this ?? In a questioning voice. I was so enthralled with that monster , ( why is it that a 5'5'' 145 # smaller guy is endowed with that ?? So i had no problem reaching down getting that beauty in my hand . So i did take him and i worked that cock till i hear his breath quicken and he moaned and said ' swallow it all' !!Needless to say that something he did not have to say ( but i love to be talked to like a dirty cock sucker [ in the corner of barn was a hog , that just loved myshow ] . My wife knows and she is fine with her husband being a panty wearing cock sucker . Just go suck cock , do what you enjoy . Any body want to chat ?? I will give you email address but you ask for it . Thanks disciplinedpet

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My ex-wife never had me in chastity. Our marriage probably would have lasted longer if she had. I have had bi tendencies all my life, but it was an ex gf that did it for me. She didn't turn me gay, but opened the door wide to my bisexual side. She had me in chastity and only let me out if I would suck off one of her gay friends. It went on like that for the better part of a year. The only time I got to cum was when I was sucking cock. As most of us who have been in chastity will tell you, you'll do just about anything to have an orgasm. I really didn't mind. It was nice to be encouraged.
Talk to your wife, and good luck!

When a cuckold hubby becomes pussy-free and is permanently cut-off, homosexuality seems to be a natural progression. There is nothing wrong with being a married cuckold and being gay. There is something special about being married to a women and enjoying a loving relationship with her while sex is no longer part of the marriage. My spouse's ex-husband is the Real Man in our marriage. He always will be.

I have always thought that if you enjoy being a cuckold and like me cleaning up when her pussy is full of cum from other guys, is because I think I have bi tendencies, or maybe more gay, who knows, my wife is training me with a dildo for my first time with a guy, whenever it happens, if it every happens and I cum very fast

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Gay and straight is not a toggle switch. You are still the person you were before with the same sexuality, you are just getting into something new. It is like developing the taste for a certain cuisine, or getting into a particular hobby. Imagine, for instance, that you something caught your fancy in ballroom dancing or French cooking. You get excited by it and your imagination starts up. You start to explore it, reading about it, going out to see it, maybe taking lessons. With each experience or investment of time and energy you might find that your enthusiasm is stoked or fizzles. If stoked, you do more or go deeper. If fizzled, your interest wanders. Sometimes people get so into something, they discover a lifelong passion for it.

I recommend you explore your interest rather than worrying about labels and categories that are all just social conveniences anyway. That you are not embarrassed is healthy, (though pretty unusual in my experience) and it should make it easier for you to keep your wife in the loop (which is both wise and right).

To the question of whether it is related to cuckolding, the short answer is that no one knows. I have often heard the anecdotal observation of overlap between bi/gay curiosity and cuckold and similar kinks. Several plausible folk hypothesis have been advanced about a connection. But there is no rigorous evidence (peer reviewed research, etc.) I know of that even establishes that there is an overlap, let alone an explanation of it.

That said, the folk theories fall into two broad categories:

1) The idea that some use cuckolding as a way to come to grips with their homosexual impulses. For instance, that some men come to cuckolding as a way to vicariously satisfy their desire to have sex with another man; or that the emasculating thrill of cuckolding is a way for some to cope with the conflict they feel between their ideas of masculinity and their gay fantasies; or that their core erotic script is actually a for-ced bi/gay scenario and the cuckolding is just window-dressing to give the female some plausible benefit; etc.

2) The idea that "gayness" is used by some as a way to stoke their social taboo emasculation kink - just as cuckolding is. For instance, a guy who is into humil-iation and seeks out the emasculation thrill of being cuckolded by "his woman," may get a similar thrill from performing the "degree-dation" of submitting to gay sex. Just as they might get a similar "loss of status" thrill from being feminized, reduced to a domestic or an a-n-i-m-a-l, or just being deferential to races, genders, classes, or individuals seen as "inferior." Following that logic, a guy could use cuckolding as a kind of "gateway" fantasy or role play into scenarios they find even more taboo (such as other men.)

It may well be that none or all of these ideas - shot through with ideology and assumption - have something to them. I offer them in case any resonate with you.

Here are some old threads that have similar discussions:

https://www.cuckoldplace.com/34_76521_1.html
https://www.cuckoldplace.com/34_78561_1.html

My own experiences in sexual reorientation were linked to, but not triggered (I think) by the cuckolding. It may not be of interest to you. If it is, a couple of threads where I've recounted parts of it are:

https://www.cuckoldplace.com/28_85628_1.html
https://www.cuckoldplace.com/34_70847_1.html
https://www.cuckoldplace.com/28_66228_2.html
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