On the road to becoming my Wife's slave

I have been following the activity on this site for a while and have decided that it is time for me to start my own thread. First a bit of background.

Right from puberty, I have allways felt that Females are the stronger sex and admired women who turned their husbands into their slaves and cuckolded them with other lovers. As a Teenager, I would by Penthouse as much for the potential storries about Female Dominants taking charge of their hsubands as for th e pictures of beautiful girls. I was always shy and never told anyone about my desires.

After I married and we had youngren, I once forgot to clean the history of the webbrowser and my wife found the site of a Professional Female Dominant, she didn't tell me untill sometime later and then told me She was shocked because this was "so far away from what She was".

Some years I discovered the Elise Sutton Female Domination site. There is a section on there titled something like "How to find a dominant Lady"; When I opened it, one of the first sentences essentially tells the male reader that if he is married, he is probably allready living with a latent dominant Lady. I started to follow the advice fromt the Elise Sutton site and took a more submissive role with my wife, trying to please Her, immediately doing whatever She told me to, telling Her She was my queen and that I really liked to serve Her, making sure I would allways lick my wife to orgasm before even thinking og entering Her when we had sex.

Eventually, I showed my Wife the Elise Sutton site. My Wife was still very hestiant but I insisted that my highest wish was to serve Her, pamper Her, that sex from now on should be about Her pleasure. Reluctantly my Wife starting reading the two first books by Lady Sutton; "Female Domination" and "The Femdom Experience". Or rather, I could make Her read this if I asked to please give Her a foot massage, then placing these books next to where She would be seated. For a submissive mail, beeing nude on your knees in front of the Lady you dream of serving as a slave, kissing and massaging Her feet while She reads these texts created by a Lady wanting to stimulate other Ladies to take control of their marriage and turning their husbands into a submissive slave is extremely erotic. At the end of these massages, My Wife would allways permit me to lick Her Pussy until She orgasmed. I could tell by Her wetness that She enjoyed Herself when reading these texts. At one time in particular, I had massaged and kissed Her feet for a very long time, I was getting impatient and tried to kiss my way up to Her pussy to lick Her. I then felt my wife place one of Her feet on my shoulder and push me back down towards the other foot. I suspect, but don't know, that She was reading about a Lady who had married a male virgin (significantly younger than herself), denied him for the duration of the marriage while She herself had taken other lovers. My wife was extremely wet and eager to have me lick Her this time when She eventually allowed me to worship Her pussy.

In the beginning, my wife would normally allow me intercourse after I had licked Her. As I insisted that She neede to look at sex as something that was for Her Pleasure and that She had no obligation to ensure that I was satisfied, She started to sometime tell me that I would not be allowed any release on that day.

Over the years we have been making slow but steady progress. But the day to day life with jobs and kids does not leave the amount of time or freedom to pursue this lifestyle that would be ideal. This has been mostly two steps forward and one step back. Progress with lots of breaks in between. Up till this week, I have always been the pushy one. This week for the first time, my Wife is actually starting to take charge sometimes more than I care for, and become pushy in Her demands. I think we may be at a breaktrhough and hope that this thread can stimulate me to continue to move in the right direction by submitting to my Wife and encouraging Her to take charge of me and turn me into a slave and Her cucckold.

More to follow.
elina

Sometime last fall, I drafted a slave contract using My Wifes and my name and suggested She read it while I was aggain massaging Her feet. The contract is a modified version of what is printed as a template in the book "The Femdom Experience" by Elise Sutton.

The contract reads as follows:

Marriage Contract

The following agreement has today been duly signed by XXXX, born ZZZZZZ, hereafter referred to as "Her Female Highness Lady Beate" or "Mistress Beate" and YYYYY, born QQQQQQ, hereafter referred to as "slave" or "elina". This agreement expands the rights and obligations of the parties in the marriage between said parties enacted in PPPPPP on MM NNN YYYY.

The parties agree that we will be much happier as a couple and have a much better relationship if and when Her Female Highness Lady Beate assumes Her rightful place as the Dominant Lady and the Rightful Ruler of our relationship and house.

The basic goal for the further development of our relationship is that elina shall be made to learn that he can only achieve true happiness through experiencing that Her Female Highness Lady Beate's achieves satisfaction and happiness from his surrender and devotion to his Mistress. Her Female Highness Lady Beate shall have the opportunity to develop Her latent dominant sides that are a natural part of all superior Females and to experience that by actively disciplining and training elina as Her slave, enpowering his complete surrender and devotion to Her, She is achieving grater happiness than any She has ever experienced before.

As we accept that our relationship will be in continuous development, both parties recognize that all clauses in this contract may not be practiced by Her Female Highness Lady Beate from day 1. elina accepts that he is fully bound by any clause in this contract from the moment Her Female Highness Lady Beate informs him about Her decision to effectuate that particular clause.

Furthermore, as Her Female Highness Lady Beate develops as a Dominant and becomes more aware of Her needs and desires, it is to be expected that She may want to change or expand the boundaries of this agreement. elina hereby accepts that for as long as the changes of scope in his presentation desired by Her Female Highness Lady Beate is within the scope of a Marriage based on Female Domination and the principles of Female Superiority, and as long as Lady Beate retains Her ownership of elina as Her slave, elina will not have any right to oppose the wishes of his Mistress and he shall therefore with no undue delay sign any modified contract that Her Female Highness Lady Beate presents to him. elina has no rights whatsoever to demand changes to the contract but has to adapt to his Mistress needs and desires and live as Her property and slave.

Part I: Rights and obligations of slave elina

i, elina, commit myself to adhere to the following conditions as of when my Mistress and Owner, Her Female Highness Lady Beate decides:

1. I fully commit to the principle of Female Superiority. I therefore agree to take on the role of the submissive in our marriage. I am convinced that the natural place of the Female in any Marriage is as the Dominant ruler and owner of Her slave husband. I firmly believe that the natural order of society at large will be that Women assume dominant positions that will enable them to rule society in general, and all men in particular. I promise to do my best to contribute to this evolution. I believe males should develop their understanding and acceptance that we are to look upon ourselves as servants to women in general and as a slave to the Lady each of us has been fortunate to marry. I undertake to threat any Lady with the respect She deserves and to obey each Woman within the framework in each case judged as proper by Her Female Highness Lady Beate.

2. I agree to obey my wife and to submit to her full authority. Her word is law in our marriage and I will obey her every word. I agree to submit to the following conditions:

a. I surrender over to her all of my earthly possessions. From the day Mistress Beate informs me that She has decided to take control of our joint means, I own nothing and my wife owns everything. I will assist Her in transferring all my possessions so they become legally Hers.

b. I agree to work for my wife and all that I earn financially belongs to her. From the day decided by Mistress Beate, I will arrange for my salary to be directly transferred to Her bank account. She may use my earnings any way that she pleases.

c. I agree to do all chores and tasks that she assigns to me.

d. I surrender all free time to her. I no longer have any free time but my wife owns all of my time. She will delegate to me how I may use my time.

e. I surrender my body to her. She owns my body and thus she owns my sex life. I agree to waive all of my rights to sexual gratification. I accept that I will wear any chastity device Mistress Beate may decide is appropriate for me. I accept her judgment and her authority over if, when, and how I may receive sexual release.

f. I agree that sex is for the female's pleasure, thus I will sexually satisfy my wife whenever and however she requests it. I also understand that while I must stay monogamous in our marriage, my Wife has the right to have sexual relations with anyone that she so desires. Her Female Highness Lady Beate's sexual satisfaction is of paramount importance to me and to our marriage. I therefore commit myself to encourage and support any activity She may undertake to establish relationship to and achieve sexual satisfaction from Her future lovers and also from Her cuckolding of me.

g. I accept that I have no right to openly share information on the nature of our FemDom marriage to anyone unless prior consent has been granted by Mistress Beate. I accept that Her Female Highness Lady Beate has the right to inform friends and lovers about my status as Her slave in our marriage. If asked by Mistress friends or lovers, I will duly confirm what Mistress is telling and demonstrate my servitude to Her. I will submit and obey Her friends and lovers to the extent She finds appropriate.

h. I realize that in order to fulfill my potential, I must live a disciplined life. Therefore, I consent to regular discipline sessions that my wife will utilize to train, teach and guide me. The particulars of the discipline sessions will be totally up to my wife's discretion.

i. Above all, I agree to love, cherish, honor and obey my Wife for now and forever

Part II: Rights and obligations of Her Female Highness Lady Beate

I, Lady Beate, declares that it is my intention, in capacity of a Superior Female, to gradually assume my rightful role as my submissive husband Elina's Dominant Mistress and owner. I consider that taking complete ownership over Elina as a slave and all of his possessions is a natural expansion of the rights granted Me by Elina when he married Me.

It is Elina who has introduced me to the concepts of Female Superiority, Female Dominance and the practicing of the Wife to demand Her husbands presentation as Her slave. Elina has begged me to make him My slave, he therefore has no rights whatsoever to resist me as I gradually introduce these concepts as natural parts of our marriage.

Therefore, as a superior female, I Lady Beate, agree to take on the role of the dominant partner in this marriage. I will hold my husband to all the terms and conditions of this contract. I will love, nurture and cherish him.

3. In addition to ensuring that my husband lives up to his agreement in this contract, I agree to the following:

a. Because sex is for the woman's pleasure in our marriage, I will deny my husband sexual release most of the time. I believe that a denied husband is an obedient husband. I may allow him sexual relief on rare occasions for biological reamisters. I will determine if, when, and how his sexual release will occur.

b. I will not tolerate masturbation by my husband so if I ever see any evidence that my husband cannot control himself, I will require that he wear a chastity device. I will control and monitor his sexual orgasms.

c. I will discipline my husband to guarantee obedience but I will balance the discipline with love and nurturing. I believe that love and discipline go hand and hand.

d. As a liberated wife, I believe that I have the right to have other lovers if I should so choose. I may or may not ever exercise this right but if I do decide to exercise this right, I will use this to strengthen my marriage. I will keep my slave informed about all of my sexual activities and make sure that he accepts and shares the joy and pleasures I may receive from this. In this contract, my husband has consented to my right to have other lovers, thus if I ever exercise this right it will not be cheating or infidelity but rather a part of our consenting lifestyle and sexuality.

e. I believe that how I conduct my role in my marriage reflects my belief and attitude about society and the roles of females and males. Therefore, I will require that my husband perform the majority of the household chores and be my domestic servant, as a sign to society that the husband is to be in presentation to the wife.

f. I will demand obedience from my husband and I will require his presentation. I will rule my husband with love.

Husbands signature: Wife's signature:

I, ____________________, I, _______________________,
being of sound mind agree to all being of sound mind agree to all
of the terms in this contract. of the terms in this contract.
I enter into this agreement willingly
and confirm that I have begged Her
Female Highness Lady Beate to
enact and enpower this contract

ZZZZZ ..................... ZZZZZ.......................


........................... ...........................
elina

When my Wife had read the conract while I kissed and massaged Her feet, being on my knees naked in front of me, I looked up at Her and expected Her to again tell me, as She had done nuerous times before, that I needed to calm down and not let my fantasies run ahead of me.

In stead She looked at me an said; "It would be wonderful if we could implement this".

I was actually scared. There is a saying in Femdom: "Be careful what you wish for young man, you might actually get it". I retracted for a while, not really pursuing this in full. My wife did not push. Things calmed down for a while.

Later for our progress the latest couple of weeks.
elina

To make it short;

I think the three most signficant things that has happened this week is:

My Wife appear to have taken control of the key to my CB6000S chastity device, She lets me out to clean myself and have allowed me to get out to clean myself on two occasions. I am still getting used to wearing the device for longer periods of time so Mistress has allowed me two days off (not concequitive). Mistress now controls my orgasms.

Mistress has started giving instructions for how I am expected to spend my time. I am no longer allowed free time to read newspapers and take tea after dinner. I perform whatever tasks Mistress prioritizes.

I had been chaste for a long period of time and Mistress decided to allow me a release on Thursday last week. However, She did not ride me as She has usually done lately, in stead after I had licked Her to orgasm, She showed a wicked smile on Her face and placed Her right foot underneath my balls. She then told me I would be allowed to stimulate myself untill I came by rubbing my disk along Her foot. I spurted very quickly. After having cleande up, Mistress asked if I was locked ug again. I asked for permission for one day off since I still felt sore after wearing the device for three days in a row and She again smiled and allowed me that, telling me to lock myself up again the day after.

So I am now back in the cage.
I need to go, I need to start working on the projects Mistress has assigned for me today.
elina

You are making excellent progress towards your goal. I shall be happy to continue helping in your training towards becoming a dominated cuckold husband. It is my avowed aim to fuck your wife, as you already know.

A very good start Elina. Our own cuckold life exists with more concentration on the cuckoldry and less on the domination but hopefully as she demeans you she may decide more that she needs a real man to satisfy her...

I'll keep on reading and will show mrs two later...

mr two

Ok very good Elina..

I use to believe in some prcepts in a cuckoold or femdom relaionships.. . 1.Submissive to female authority . 2. Obediance training.
3.Female body worship.
4.Service to mistress.
5.Tease,Denial & offense.
6.Male chastity &Orgasm control.
7.Corperal Control.
8.Stapon Training.
9.Femization.
10.Cuckolding.
Not sure about femization but got them from a Femdom site and they seem to fit. Then again maybe not.

Thanks Ken, MrTwo and Lady Linda.

Lady Linda first,
Yes those are very much the principles I believe in, I also happen to think that feminization may be the least important.

Also, to elaborate on Master Ken's message. I have been communicating with him over PMs for the past weeks. I have alse sent Master Ken a picture of my wife in a bikini. Master Ken has declared that he has a strong desire to become My Wife's bull and that he would like to dominate me together with Mistress. I find my wife extremely sexy and attractive, She is a fullbodied woman with big, all natural tits and a shapely behind. The fact that She has to keep me chaste in order to train me to assume my proper place as Her slave should not prevent Her from getting all the sex She is entitled to. However, as I have told Master Ken, it is entirely up to my Wife to decide if, when and with whom She cuckolds me. When the time is ripe, I will inform Mistress that She has an admirerer and the rest will then be up to Her.

When I had finnished one of the tasks Mistress assigned me to yesterday, I put my arms around Her and thanked Her for taking control of me. As I felt Her beuatiful round ass, She purred and I asked if we could please discuss my shortcomings and needs for improvement that night. Mistress indicated that it might be a good idea.

Last night after the kids were in bed, Mistress informed me that She was very tired from a thorough workout She made that day and also that we had to much food and wine for dinner so She was not in the mood for sex. I asked Her if perhaps my servicing Her would not make Her relax and relax better. Eventually, She decided on a foot massage. I was nude on my knees wearing only the CB6000S, Mistress was on Her bed, fully clothed except for removing Her socks. She was reading an ordinary book, nothing to do with Femdom as I massaged Her. When I was done, She sat up, smiled to me and said: "Have you noted how much more we are getting done around here after I reduced the time you are allowed to decide what to do?" I confirmed and Mistress informed me that we would continue with this.

I had laid out Her paddle and the two wips. She asked me, "do you sometimes find it difficult to remember who is the boss around here?" I said yes. Mistress asked me to turn around a little and then picked up Her riding crop. She gave me the five hardest strokes I have ever received as I thanked Her for each hit. For the first time ever She whipped me hard enough for me to want it to stop. I had red stripes on my ass when I looked myself in the mirror afterwards. I think this is very good, my Wife the good girl who some years ago told me that Femal Domination was the furhtest thing for Her now keeps me locked up and whips me harder every time She does so. Most important was the cute smile on Her face as She asked me to turn around so She could whip me.

Today, I will find the opportunity to thank Her and tell Her how this makes me want to submit more to Her, I will ask Her to please whip me even harder to ensure that I do remember who is the boss.

Going back to Linda's list. The first thing that needs to happen is that my wife is absolutely confident She is the boss and that I will submitt to Her. I think I am getting close to the point where I empress upon Her that it is entirely up to Her if She wants to take a lover, my only objective is to make Her happy.
elina

You're on the roght path and your wife is progressing welll, just don't get in a hurry and push it. Always keep in mind she's the one that's in control and needs to be. If you try to push her into something too soon, she be hesitent and you may lose ground on what you've already achieved. I wish you the best, please keep us informed.

Elina, I continue to be both amazed and pleased by your progress. Of even greater impact is the way your wife is slipping into her role as the domme in your marriage so easily. She is born for this, it's just taken her a long time to realise it. I wonder if as you were being given your stripes, did your caged cock attempt to harden? There is a very fine line between domination and sexual desire. I believe Lady Beate knows exactly just how close to come to that line. She is training you so well, I'm impressed! I'll pm you.

Thank you Kinky69 and Ken.

Kinky, yes I know from experience that I need to be patient and not push to Hard, I have made the mistake of trying to push to hard many times before. However yesterday, after I had worked on things around the house most of the day, I aksed Mistress if I could please of any service to Her. She just said "No", I would just like to read before going to relax tonight. And then She added; "and you must not start to take off here, just get used to the fact that there will not be anything happening every day". So I think the only thing for me to do now is to try to serve and obey Her more and more submissively to further encourage Her to become more dominant.

Ken, yes my Wife now seems to have accepted that Her natural place is as my Dominant Mistress. I will await your PM sir.
elina

Since I last posted an update to my story, things have been a bit on and off. Her Superior Female Highness Lady Beate is sometimes showing an increased desire to control me, and it seems She is gradually finding it more and more easy to act as if She knows She is superior to me, orders me around, telling me when She is not pleased with me.

She is also becoming more and more willing to use Her paddle and whips on me to the extent that it actually hurts. On the other hand, there can sometimes also be days and weeks when no mention is made of how our relationship is evolving. When it comes to sex, it is very clear that Mistress now knows and expects me to know that sex is for Her pleasure only. She has completely stopped acting like She has anything like a bad conscience if She does not allow me to cum after I have been permitted to worship Her delicious pussy. I have now not been permitted to cum for more than a month. On the other hand is isn't actively pushing me to wear the chastity device, this still only happens when I suggest I should put it on.

i meanwhile have been struggling big time, wavering in my faith and sometimes questioning if I really want to go through with this. I have re-read some of the female-written literature I find most enlightening about Mistress-slave relationships to more fully understand what I have to do to become a good slave to my Wife and Mistress. This is really just excuses, I know what I need to do, I admit to look for excuses. I realize that the critical aspect for me to develop into the slave Her Female Highness Lady Beate deserves is to truly embrace my real position in this world and start to threat my Wife as well as other Ladies with the respect they deserve. On the one hand I want this, I need it, I crave it and I know this. On the other hand, when I am thinking about this and my Wife clearly sometimes threats me like I am a second class citizen, I am again reminded about the saying "careful what you wish for little man, you may actually get it". In particular when at my birthday recently, I was permitted to provide a foot massage to Mistress while nude kneeling before Her. As usual it is wonderful to lick Her and the emotions going through when I lick Her. I usually fantasize about Her having sex with other males and me being told to lick Her to clean the cum from Her lover. As I experience Mistress shaking in an orgasm clearly enjoying me serving Her is invaluable to me. Since it was my birthday, I expected Mistress to climb on top of me afterwards to allow me to climax inside of Her.

Instead She said, well since it is your birthday, you will be permitted to cum. She then used Her Foot to grind against my dicklett and I quickly came on Her foot. She then instructed me to wipe it up in the towel that had been under Her Feet as I was massaging Her. Mistress then whipped me, enough to make it hurt. Since then I have been wandering if She has decided not to allow my dick inside Her wonderful pussy again. I miss this, it is so good to be inside Mistress pussy with my dick. So what am I doing, encouraging my Wife to dominate me, providing Her with the suggested contract that was posted earlier on this thread.

At one point I was so sure that I would try to get out of this, I wanted to talk to my Wife and ask Her if we could please just recognize that this would not work for us that I masturbated. Off course this made me less submissive for several days. Then after a few days, I again start craving the dominance of my Wife. I realize that my dick may actually never be allowed inside a pussy ever again. It is scary. On the other hand, the more I think about it, the experience of this confident bossy Lady, even arrogant in a sexy way, denying me entry to Her pussy, clearly demonstrating that She now knows that it is entirely up to Her if and how I am permitted to cum, not even giving a hint of considering letting me inside Her on my birthday, is in some sense even more fulfilling. I admire this Lady, my Wife growing as a dominant. I realized there is no way back.

Today, I asked Mistress if I could please be allowed to lick Her pussy tonight, Mistress granted me permission. As usual I was waiting nude, on my knees when Mistress entered Her bedroom. Before starting the massage, I apologized to Mistress Beate for not making a consistent and strong effort to demonstrate my subservience to Her and thus preventing us from getting into a proper Mistress – slave relationship. I told Mistress about the hesitations and fears that had been bothering me lately, but also told Her that I had now overcome these and wanted to submit to Her and for Her to make me Her slave. I also suggested that I would be pleased if She could please help me by regularly demonstrating that She considered me to be nothing more than Her slave. In particular that when She was whipping me, if She could please inform me about anything She was displeased with and wanted me to change.

Mistress seemed quite pleased with this. She gave me the hardest whipping I have ever received till now. Starting with the paddle, later when using the riding crop She sternly told me that I needed to work on my attitude since She had on several occasions registered body language showing that I was not respecting Her opinions. The lashes with the riding crop at this time were strong enough for me to wish Her to stop. I said nothing, submitting like a good slave, continued thanking Her for each stroke, until She stopped on Her own. I also suggested to Mistress, that even if it was now quite some time since the last time I had cum, that since our wedding celebration is coming up, it would be inappropriate for me to cum today and that I wished She would consider this for our anniversary, also saying that I of course recognized it would be entirely up to Her if She would allow me this privilege.

I then provided Mistress with a foot massage. While I was doing this, She was reading some of the material that I have printed for Her from the Elise Sutton Predominant site. I don't know what Mistress was reading, but it was clear that She was enjoying Herself because She had had this sexy, self-confident laughter, while refusing to tell me what made Her laugh. After licking Mistress to orgasm, She pushed me away and down, I thanked Her for the privilege of licking Her. Mistress always used to thank me after I had serviced Her orally, but She has stopped doing this. I asked if I could please be permitted to kiss Her wonderful ass. She said "No, you have to do as I tell you to". I told Her that I had expected that She would permit me intercourse at my Birthday, and that at the time the fact that She did not was a disappointment to me. I asked her if this meant that She had decided that I would never be permitted inside of Her again; She just looked at me with a self confident downward looking glance, touching Her wonderful big titties, and said; "Maybe". I think the time is fast approaching the point where I should raise the issue of cuckolding. The fact that Mistress Beate seems to be coming to the point that She will not bother fucking me should absolutely not prevent Her from enjoying sex the way She deserves.

I feel that Mistress is growing more confident in the role of the dominant and is starting to enjoy putting me in my proper place. I then asked Mistress if I could please lock myself away in the CB6000S and if She would please take control of the key. Mistress granted this wish. As I am writing this, my ass still hurts from the very deserved beating that I received today, my dick is straining in the cage, but cannot get out. I feel owned by my wonderful Wife and very grateful to Her. I now crave Her to humiliate me and put me in my place.

I recognize that what I have to do now is as Mistress has told me to, work on my attitude. I realize that the proper attitude is as defined by some dominant Ladies I have a high respect for;

Mental conditioning.

Now is the time for the slave to truly embrace his real position in the world:
1) Fully accept that he is below any female and demonstrating this through polite and submissive behavior
2) Viewing himself as nothing but a servant to his Mistress and any other Permister Mistress decides. Clearly threat all Ladies as Superior beings.
3) Demonstrate truly submissive behavior towards your partner,
this will help you come across as honest when you ask Her to dominate you.

Be patient but persistent with your Mistress.
Now is the time to step up the discussion of the relationship with your Mistress.

I feel gratitude for being married to such a wonderful Superior Lady. I hope I will find the strength to carry through with this over the next weeks and months until Her Superior Female Highness Lady Beate have truly embraced the lifestyle to the extent that I will no longer have a choice because she will not accept anything but my complete presentation.
elina

It would seem that what you have longed for all this time is slowly starting to happen, at last! You are accepting that you must be a lot more subservient to your wife, she is a lot more confident in her use of discipline and orgasm denial with you, which is excellent news, and you have surrendered the key to your chastity device to her.
She is undoubtedly a woman with strong needs and desires, she will not be able to survive without regular fucking, so she is moving ever nearer to the point where she takes a suitable lover as your replacement. I hope she chooses well, and she derives much satisfaction from a fresh, new cock powering it's way deep into her body. I believe she is very close to the point where she takes the decision to not allow you access to her any more with your dicklet, she will only accept real, dominant men from here on.

Thank you for this comment Ken.

I believe you are right and I will encourage Mistress to find a lover so that Her needs will be met in full.

Sincerely
Elina
elina

You know where I am - I'm more than ready to help you both take that first step. Her to becoming the cuckoldress you've always yearned for, you to becoming the cuck you know you are.

Today for the first time I suggested to my Wife that She should take a lover.

This morning I snuggled up to Her in bed, spooning Her, caressing Her shoulders as I usually do on SUnday morning. Also as usual, Lady Bete reacted by pressing Her body against mine, clearly enjoying the caressment. Also a usual I asked if I could please be allowed to lick Her, I was told that perhaps tonight.

I then asked if She would also consider wipping me and told me that I felt it was necessary for Her to become more strict and whip me untill I was clearly not enjoying it any more. She told me that She might do this.

Tonight after the kids were put to bed I was permitted to provide Lady Beate with a foot massage. I had placed the whips on the bed together with the binder that contains all of the material I have printed for Her from the Elise Sutton site as well as our marriage contract.

I asked Her to please show me who was the boss in the relationship and suggested that maybe we should start with me reading the paragraphs in the Marriage contract and asking Her to implement these points while She was wipping me. (the marriage contract is shown in an earlier post in this thread). She asked specifically what clauses I had in mind. I told Her all clauses, but maybe we could focus on the fact that She is entitled to take ownership of all our financial assets, that all the money I make should be paid into Her bankaccount, that I should obey Her, that I should only cum when She instructs me to, and that She is entitled to take lover.

"And when should I find the time to take a lover?" She asked with a smile. This response is different from Her typical reaction when I have carefully hinted on this before, it seems that Mistress now actually would like to cuckold me and it is more a matter of finding a practical way to accomplish this. I became rock hard and almost shot my load as I answered that there was always opportunities, but that I felt that the first step was that we should agree that this is what She deserved.

I was then instructed to massage Her feet. As I finished, Mistress looked at me with a stern look, took the paddle and pointed to Her loins. I assumed my position and She started spanking me. The spanking went on for somewhat longer than what is normal and She then instructed me to assume my position on the floor while She picked up Her riding crop. I was then given the most severe whipping I have received so far. As She put the whip aside, She told me that my ass was very red. I can still feel a little of the sting as I sit typing this but recognize that this is nothing compared to what most slaves that are owned by a Mistress will have to endure. "You have to improve your attitude" She told me.

I thanked Her and told Her that She was very beautiful and that I had particularly admired Her yesterday as we were out because She had a very nice dress and looked very sexy. Again I told Her that She deserved to take a lover, this time there was no objection what so ever. I told Her that a Mistress Slave relationship was about the slave submitting and being humiliated by the Mistress and expressed that She would start to consider Her opportunities. She gave me a coy smile before permitting me to lick Her.

Mistress always enjoys this and I love to look at the expression in Her face as I am doing this for Her. Her orgasm was somewhat more intense this time. She then lifted my face, looked me in the eyes and after a little while told me that She knew it was a long time since I was last permitted to cum, but there would be no opportunity for me today as I did not deserve it. I thanked Her and told Her that sex was to be for Her pleasure and that She did not get what She deserved. Again no explicit anwer, more a quit understanding that She agreed. I was permitted to hug Her when She rose, I felt Her wonderfull ass as I was thinking that maybe soon, another male, a man She has selected as Her lover, will be permitted to do this to Her before he fucks Her the way I am rarely permitted to anymore.

We said goodnight and I was sent to another room to *****. It will be interesting to see how this evolves further.
elina

Wow. It sounds like you are both doing everything right and progressing slowly but surely. I'm looking forward to reading your posts even more when your wife finally takes a lover. Good luck to you both.

Would love an update.

Me too, it'sbeen ten months...I really hope this continued.

It sounds like you are on your way! Congratulations!!!

How about a pic of your beautiful wife???
HIT1969