Help Decide My Sexual Denial

I'm going to beg my wife to sexually deny me and restrict me to masturbation until at least 1/1/14 (She already denies me most of the time... but I do sometimes get handjobs and the like) .

The question is should there be the hope of "treats" (she gets me off somehow) over the next 7 months or should it be complete denial. I leave it to you!

Comments and alternative ideas are welcome!

For true denial you should be caged the whole time to prevent any unsupervised release. From there it is up to your wife. I would say set up coupons you can earn from her. If she milks you then a couple of those. 2 coupons allowing you to jack off. 2-3 coupons that she will give you a hand job. Maybe only 1 for actual sex. Give yourself the hope of release but leave it up to her if and when you get it.

Caged is required.
Ruined orgasm should be fine for your health once a month...

She shouldn't give you anything, and ideally you should be caged for the duration. I was denied one time for several months with masturbation allowed any time I wanted, so it wasn't bad at all. I would have preferred to have been locked for an indefinite time with no release date, totally at my wife's mercy. I was disappointed I didn't make it a whole year with no pussy. From 10-1-2010 to 2-6-2012, I fucked my wife only once, on 8-9-2011, making that the longest period of virtually no sex, since the one fuck lasted about 10 seconds from start to finish as I started cumming on the first stroke. I couldn't help it after denial for so long, and the next time at the end was the same way, cumming on the first stroke again.

With any real luck, your wife will decide to make your denial permanent. I know it sounds bad, but I would love it myself.
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nippyc

I should have added to my last post my wife hasn't given me a blow job to completion since 1983, and the few very short ones I've had since never last more than about 20 seconds. I only get one of those about once every 5 years or so, but I don't miss them at all and never ask for them. You don't need them and shouldn't expect one ever, either, especially after 3 years without.
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I once read a blog by a cuckoldress who had sex once a year with her cuck. She said she did it, "... so he'd remember what he's missing." I find that even more devilish than total denial!

@keith knife - that's so hot. Which cuckoldress? Do you have a link to the blog?

@hando How often does your wife cuckold you?

@nippyc What is the upshot, will she deny you?

She said yes! She thinks it will be a blast and told me she'd do her best to make me regret it! When I offered that she might want to tease me with a blowjob at some point she laughed that off... think that is definitely out of the cards, but I think the other treats are still possible.

We had amazing sex afterwards... me licking her of course... she had one of her strongest orgasms in months! Afterwards she had me jerk off and I sprayed everywhere, so excited I'm gonna be her pussy slave!

Please keep voting!

Well done nippy. I'm happy for you. Remind me, are you a cuckold?

@slavecuckwannabe -- not a cuck, probably will never happen, but who knows maybe someday. My wife has always preferred oral, so the arrangement works well and will be very satisfying, so to speak, for her. She has plenty of dildos should she want penetration as well...

After a certain period of denial - for her as well she might start to crave cock! You never know!

slavecuckwannabe

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nippyc

Please keep us informed on your denial. I'm very happy she has consented to keeping you chaste! You should have a great time with it.
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hando

will do! I do enjoy chastity. Have always had trouble with the fit. Bought a bird locked recently so we will see if that is more comfortable. Sounds like you have alot of experience with denial. What's ur sex life currently.

others please vote! So many views so few votes. Hoping to have an obvious winner and then I'll present it to my wife. help a brother out!

I think total denial might just make you drift apart...she should throw you a bone once in a while!...maybe give a little pussy for birthdays, anniversaries, etc or at least let you eat her. The rest of the time you can be allowed to jack off to watching her with her lover, or having her tell you all the intricate little sexual details of her encounters with her bulls! Maybe even let you clean up her cream pies!

My wife wants to know the result of this poll Saturday... so please vote

and seriously guys... only masturbation is leading?! Total denial is hot, but absolutely nothing until 1/1/14? Please give me a chance at something! Pretty please...

nippyc

I don't think you should have anything, including masturbation. After all, it's only a little over six months. It'll change your life in ways your wife will love.
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I was going to vote that she deny you completely but maybe give you a handjob for Christmas - but since that's only a week before your goal date I guess I'll have to suggest complete denial!

(P.S. Do you really think any of us kinksters would vote any other way? :->)

Best luck, make sure you "thank" her properly!

kwazzee

kwazzee
Thank you for your vote, unfortunately I forgot to update, but when I broached 1/1/14 with her she said she didn't want that to be the "for sure" date so she reserved the right to extend it 3 months to 4/1/14... oh well, so christmas might not be days before...

nippy

After rereading your first post it seems you will be able to masturbate any time you want.. correct? If that's the case we definitely think you should be denied her pussy completely!

According to my Mistress (we've been married 14yrs), you should be fully caged and only allowed to masturbate as a "special treat" for exceptionally good behavior (above and beyond expected responsibilities ie. surprise romantic dinner, trips, gifts).

She also insists that you need to be caged at all times, as men WILL cheat if given a spare unsupervised moment!

I'm very blessed, my Mistress believes in daily teasing and monthly milking which is awesome!

Thanks for sharing, you're a lucky guy enjoy!

kwazzee

I agree with those suggesting complete denial. Was this your wife's idea or yours nippy?

I voted for humping Her feet. Not sure if you should be allowed to cum. NOT! Edge three times then back into the CB.

Enjoy

Timmy, thanks for the vote!

Slavecuckwannabe -- I suggested it to my wife, but for some time our sex had largely revolved around me sucking her pussy for all I'm worth... so not a huge change, just making things a little bit more strict for my little guy!

nippyc

Best advice is to let wifey call all the shots and administer your sexual denial HER way! Explain to her that you feel most excited when she controls your penis very strictly. There is nobody on earth that can keep your manhood on the shortest leash and get the most pleasure from doing it than her. She won't need any help. She knows exactly what to do!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

nippyc

What has your wife decided?
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Update:

Told my wife the results, she took them in and told me I'd find out what she decided in time... so looks like it'll be a surprise

Thanks for your responses, just about 50 and I think there are two clear favorites. Here is my fantasy...

Update on me, actually been locked in a birdlocked since Sunday, she hinted I would get release last night (I've never been in a belt more than 24 hours, but found that I can actually relax in the birdlocked!).

Anyways last night... I thought she might release me before bed last night, but the wife literally said. "Oops, I forgot about it, it's so easy to forget about!" and then she said she doesn't think I'll be "getting any action" today either and told me to "mentally masturbate on that". I was floored, definitely took a little while for my penis to calm down so I could get to relax!

I also got a pair of custom boxers that say "No sex, I jerk off" on the front and "small dick" on the back. She told me they were very cute and looked good on me :

Sounds like she has you figured out. If she rewards you by resolutely holding to her decision, the only "action" you'll be "getting" henceforth will only be from "mental masturbation"!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

If this is what you really want

You should thank her for the time you have spent with out an erection, as it shows you belong to her.

Then fall to your knees and tell her it is HER RIGHT to keep you as her pet, and every day with out freedom, so you will know for the rest of your life who you belong to.