thoughts and advice

she's been seeing this guy from work once a month or so for several month's now and I get a happy girl coming home to me afterwards and one time afterwards I was able lick her used cunt .He's been buying her sexy undies to wear and there's a Xmas party coming up which I cant go to I work shift's and he's buying her some seemed stockings to wear I want her to go with him so people she work's with can see what's going on between them you know the dancing and flirting and stuff but can I risk it in real life or is this a step to far. We all work in the same place and all my work collogues and friends think I'm a very alpha male type
any advice people

At work, it's best to keep a low profile on your sexual activitys. How's that old saying....?...... don't cuckolds brownie where you eat?
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Good advice. cuckold4one! Even though it is going on, steves_10 and you know about it, at least 'pretend' that you don't know...the average permister's opinion of someone else is directly related to his respectability, and in the eyes of the world unfortunately not understanding this phenomenom that we share, cuckolds are sissies and/or frustrated homosexuals...not true, but who can change public opinion? It is a stigmatism we live with, same as the one that just pre-supposes we have small dicks...in many cases I am actually bigger than my wife's bulls, but it is from the eating of the 'forbidden fruit' that the wife derives her pleasre, not only from the size of her lover's penis. What a greater world it would be if everyone was more educated!!

I think you've gotten some good advice here, steves_10. But this is a decision you need to make yourself and you are better placed to judge your relationship and workplace than us, so the best any of us can do is to help you think it through. As someone who lives publicly out as a cuck myself, I can tell you that their are tradeoffs. Yes it is hot, if offense is hot to you. But here is the most important thing to consider: HER.

-> The sexual thrill of it might make it worth the offense for you, but what about her? It might not be at all pleasant for her for her colleagues and co-workers to know. Women get a lot of bad labels and baggage for having multiple partners in our society - especially married women. Going public at work may:

A. Damage her reputation and make for strained relations with people she sees everyday.
B. Damage her career or advancement prospects, with long-term effects.
C. Get her in trouble. She is seeing a co-worker, which might be against company rules.
D. Take the fun out of it for her. The cucking is YOUR thrill, for her the little bit of sneaking around, the idea that what she is doing is illicit or naughty might be a big part of what she likes. Letting people in on it en masse could be a buzz *******.
E. Cost her the relationship. Maybe HE doesn't want to be out at work for many of the same reamisters. If it goes public and he feels there are negative consequences, he may cut his losses by dumping her. I don't see how that is something she'll want at all.
F. Cost her as your partner. Everything in A, B, and C might apply to you too. If your reputation is crippled by the incident that might, again, be a trade-off you are willing to make for your hard-on. But what about the impact on her if your future earnings potential is compromised?

As I said above, I am pretty much out to all and anon about being a cuckold. The only exception is my workplace. This is not to protect me, but rather to protect some of the value I bring to HER and to the marriage. Just because you don't provide her the sexual satisfaction doesn't mean your marriage doesn't provide her with a lot that she wants and values. As a cuck, you should be putting her happiness and well-being above your own gratification. I advise you to be very careful about endangering that and make sure that she and you are both fully eyes-open about the potentially big negative consequences before you take the step.

Good luck to both of you.

P.S. If you are really aching to go public, maybe you can come out to some of your old school buddies first. People who live distant and aren't really involved in your community or workplace. Their reactions are not really going to impact her life right now. Since they are your friends and support network, not hers, you will maximize your offense while minimizing her risks. Just a thought.
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thanks to those of you who replied and I fully understand the risks but the flirting was going to be mild as it was a Christmas party after all so the take could be blamed if you see my meaning
however things are not turning out so good anyway her bloke is now bringing his wife along even though my wife will be wearing underwear he has bought her but to happier things

she told me the other day an x of hers we will call him John contacted her they were a heavy item for 2 years about 8 years ago and she asked if she could go see him I of course said yes as what they had wasn't the sort of relationship we have in that he used her for sex and had her at his beck and call and this time she says I've got the power I asked her about the sex and what he was like and she said he's bigger than you and much bigger round and she smiled though out all this and even writing about I'm as hard as a rock is that wrong?

I'm not sure I've told you yet about the builder from work yet

if you've seen my other posts you can see I've got the best girl in the world

NOTHING WRONG, Steve_10!! If it turns you on, then it HAS to be a good thing! Funny thing, (and I wonder how many people have ever done this?) in trying to think of the HAPPIEST MOMENT of my ENTIRE LIFE I keep going back to the first night my wife and her lover both agreed to let me watch them...I got to lay on the bed next to them whispering sexy, approving encouragements into my wife's ear...that seemed to turn her on even more!...at the very moment I saw his cock going into her pussy I made a mental picture Kodak moment which STILL after about 15 years keeps coming back as my happiest memory of anything EVER!! Try it sometime and if your thoughts are of cuckolding, then there can be no arguments against this lifestyle!

well the trip to see her ex went well no action but she's gonna arrange a hotel met in the new year turns out he's married so at the moment going to his home is out shes asked him if he's still got the photos of her and if so can she have some copies to remind her of the good times me i just want to see his cock in her
he did try it on but she said no not yet seems she's keeping true to the i've got the power thing
Christmas party soon so hope there's something to tell even if its flirting
oh and to twist the knife a bit i've not had a shag for weeks but i've been practising getting to the point of cumming and then stopping i suppose its a little bit of denial quite like that leaking feeling
she's explained that she'd like new photos of there time together for her of course she told him about me but not that i really want to to have the big cock i cant give her

You know, I remember when being gay was just as maligned as cuckoldry is now. But when they started coming out of the closet, everything changed. Maybe it's time for the cucks of the world to unite! Make it acceptable.

CHRIS96: You are right...just like they have Gay Pride parades, cuckolds could do the same!!...I think if women were more aware just how many of us have these feelings it would be a lot easier for frustrated cuckys to convince their uptight wives that being cuckolded would be very welcome by them...instead as things are now, many wannabe's are left to just use thier imaginations as their wives won't hear of it!

good news all round the wife has been to see her ex twice now in one week they have gone to a local hotel each time and spent several hours together when she got home the first time i was allowed to lick her out although most of there juices had run into her knickers and it wasn't the same as where i get a really wet pussy to play with and the 2nd time i was a work all day so by the time i got back she had showered and was arelax in bed although she did tell me that everything went really well again and they both came together "just like the old days" seems like he's a keeper for a while and she has told me there will be photos and she will take our cam with her next time as well seems hes ok with that and i hope to add a few photos once i sort out the face blurring thing

funny thing happened whilst playing squash with her the other day i noted a couple of guys watching us out the corner of my eye and she stops playing and removes her t shift leaving her sports bra on show she then carried on as if nothing happened later in bed i mention this and she starts rubbing my dick and says "of course i was showing off baby i know it turns you on" gallons of cum from me and giggles from her

CHRIS96 & JUANITO- Yes, I agree. Time for a Cuckold Liberation Front!

Could you get her to bring the x home and do him in your bed,,, that could lead into something really great