Finally might happen :)

I've been seeing my gf for 4 months now, and I have told her about how hot it would be to see her with another guy. She told me that she is open to it and said for me to find guys for her. I did some searching on the net and couldn't really find anyone of substance, then again I wasn't putting much effort into the search.

Anyways, we were talking one time and she was telling me about an ex friend with benefits she was seeing. I told her that it would be pretty hot for her to "play" with him again. She didn't like the idea and said no.

So fast forward to today, she texts me and tells me that "Btw I found a friend that we can "play" and do stuff with". It's basically her ex FWB that we talked about before. Apperently he's been wanting to do stuff with her and texts her, but she told him no because she's with me.

I ask her a few questions and basically tell her that we should do it. I was suggesting a hotel, but she was already one step ahead of me and said his place will be available the weekend of the 21st (loving how she already arranged a date, good slut lol).

So as far as I know it's a good. I will be able to watch, and participate if I want to. Will update things here.

Btw my GF is cute, 24, 5"2, petite, 108 pounds :P

Are you ready to clean up that mess she will have between her legs?

I'm ready, but not sure if it will happen this time. Probably not, more likely condom will be used, but maybe he will blow his load on her ass or pussy, we will see

Maybe get her some new clothes or definitely help her get ready!

Ill watch/help her dress sexy for sure. I want her to wear heels and stockings, no panties :P

So she has been texting her friend, and apperently he is pretty nervous about the situation. Anything we can do to make him more comfortable?

Are you thinking about sucking him to hardness as they sit and cuddle ?

Nope not at all, not gay here.

lavalamp777
He might be uncomfortable with the domination aspect of it. I'd bring some beer and get him to look at it as you watching Her have fun versus you being humiliated/dominated. She can help set the mood better than anyone...

I suggest you talk to him beforehand; maybe the two of you could go out for coffee or a beer or something. Not only will this put him at ease, but it is a way for you to 'claim' the situation, so he enters it understanding she is your partner, even though she's having sexual experiences that include both of you.

Now, for the event. Definitely spend some solid time preping her. Ask her if you can wash her, shave her pussy, pick out her outfit, pick her heels, eat her pussy off and on while she's getting primped. This anticipation will be as exciting as the event itself - draw it out and enjoy it. And I can tell you from experience, it is incredibly hot to watch your wife with another guy. So hot...
darslangly

He may in fact be uncomfortable, but bringing beer could turn out to be a bad idea. If he has some weird ideas about what the situation will be like, holy water could just make him that much more of a problem to deal with.

Also, while the decision really is hers, I have to question her choice of this guy. There was a reamister why she initially said "no" regarding him as a choice. For her to do a 180 degree turn is a strange turn of events, in my opinion. Any ideas why? Have you talked about that with her?

Good luck and xoxoxo,

Christine

That's a really good question, I will ask her. At first I know when I bought it up she said she was uncomfortable and felt weird about doing it with someone she knew. I know that they still remained friends and texted/chatted online while we were dating. She told me he still wanted to do stuff with her and she told him no because she was seeing me. He promised to be a good boy and not bring up sex. She knows that I want to see her with another guy, and she was chatting to him one day and told him about a threesome.

Ill talk to her and find out more info.

And I definitely would love to see her get ready, eat her out, watch her get fucked, and eat her out/fuck her afterwards :P

So it didn't happen this weekend. My and gf hit a rough patch this week, not to mention she was busy saturday and wouldn't even have the energy to go after she was done her errands. I'm patient though and Ill wait it out :P

Thanks for the update.

lava you should also bring up the idea of her denying you or controlling your orgasms. it helps them get into the dom mode. believe me - worked in 2 relationships

Looks like it will be a while before it can happen. GF has a family member that is very ill and this just isn't the right time. Will be a while longer, but will update.

GF is out of country till the 13th.

Before she left though, we had sort of a mini arguement and in the convo, the FWB she has came up. She said that when me and her started dating, and she told him, he got angry and sad because he wanted her all to himself. He didn't want to date her, but he just wanted her to be only his FWB, and no one else.

I didn't make much of it when she said it, but, I was thinking about the idea over the last 2 days and it's pretty hot. I will first wait until her and him play with me being there, and once things go good, I will propose the idea to her of her being "his" again.

I find it really hot :P dunno why lol

What do you guys think? Any advice?