Where can a newly wedded woman meet men in day to day life?

Dear All

She is close to make me a cuckold. We have talked about this a lot, and it look like she is ready. Of course, to go through with this, she will have to meet the right guy...

She is a shy woman and a 'good girl', and have not been thinking about cassual sex ever in her life. Nor has she had many such cassual one night stands. She is sometimes too 'good' to be true

But when we are in bed having sex, and talk about all this: she becomes the horney little 'slut' who wil do anyting to please her man. Including making him (me) a cuckold. Beside, as she say (in bed): it could really be exchiting to live out my slutty life. Finally (she is 40)

Places we/she will not look:
- Internet (she feel not comfortable with this option)
- Bars (we live in a small city, and we want to keep all this a secret)
- Office/work (for the same reamisters as the bars)

I have proposed some options:
- Massage studio
- Re-start her yoga activities - go to classes/courses
- During holidays (we have this one hotel we keep coming back to all the time - there in the bar/on the beach)
- Go to the swimming hall (a flirting sexy woman in bikini may always be asked for a coffee after swimming)

please share thoughts and experience. And please, you vulls here: PM to us will not be answered (see first point above...

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A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Keep us updated please and good luck

You must be so happy being on the verge of becoming a cuckold. I have a couple of suggestions ... that she joins a gym ... and also dance club. Good luck with it all.

Thanks Nick

A dance club...that's a great idea...some slow dance maybe...or Tango?

You have positive expreience with such clubs?

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A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Yes some experience. I don't dance but my wife does. I take her to clubs where there is dancing and sit back as guys ask her up, hold her close and chat with her. By the time we get home, I can hardly wait to get inside her. I am waiting patiently for her to cuck me ... I think it is just a matter of when, not if

Thanks again Nick

In your case, I guess your wife knows about your desires?

Sounds great. It's a good way to start. She will feel the interesst from other guys. She will feel the warm bodies, and the rythem. And (maybe best of all if we/you areopen about it all)...she will see the reaction from you/me...

I will ask her tomorrow...thanks
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Yes, my wife knows I want her to enjoy other men. She also wears an anklet as a symbol of this.

My wife also has a gym membership and guys there have hit on her. One even asked if I was a cuckold.

The Health Club sound like a great place for her to meet guys...she can confide in any potential partners that her husband is ok with her taking on other men and that he encourages it.

Definitely dance club. Most have lesmisters followed by what's called freestyle. The women can ask any man to dance. This would make it easier for your wife to pick the men she likes and engage with them quickly.

I would recommend salsa and jive (sometimes advertised as Ceroc). Salsa is the more intimate. Another very intimate style is 'blues' dancing. Very close contact and slow sensuous movement.

Salsa and Ceroc regularly hold massive weekend events at various Pontins holiday centres. Non stop dancing and fucking. If your wife gets in with a group and goes to one of them she will come home sore and puffy. Either someone in her group will fuck her or there will be literally hundreds of men there who will.

And has the added value of discretion. Telling friends and family that she is off to a dancing weekend is an easy explanation when she is off for a weekend of lust with her bull/boyfriend.

Trust me. I am talking from experience. My wife had good service from two boyfriends she met at dancing. She also went to the weekend events with one. They were booked in to a double room and slept together from the Friday night until Monday morning as a couple. They had morning, afternoon, evening and night-time sex.

Good luck

Syncro

hmmm clubs are takesen jackasses that can cause problems down the road gym is a good place less chance disease and tend to be in better shape. small steps she will gain confidence then be prepared

Seems like a common theme of gym or dance.

Browning has a good point. If its going to be dance, I would suggest a dance lesmisters. The gym is also a great idea. She might have to try different times and days to find the right guys.

i also suggest the gym as a good place for your wife to meet friends.

My wife joined a gym about 3 years ago and that's where this lifestyle started for us. We had talked about her being a slut and cheating, mainly as dirty talk during foreplay, since we married in our early 20's, before I even knew what a hot wife or cuckold was. After about 10 years of marriage, i told her i was OK with her playing with others, and that i would enjoy it. of course she was concerned that I wanted to cheat and she was concerned i was testing her. After a long while and lots of pillow talk and fantasy play, she realized I was sincere. But, she was still not ready to do something like that for real. She always said, 'i love the fantasy, but don't think i could ever do it for real." And I was always supportive and also kinda relieved but always wished she would be a naughty slut behind my back or with my knowledge. in the mean time, we have had 2 kids, and my wife of course put on baby weight and got chubby around the middle. She was having a hard time losing the weight, was feeling depressed about it, feeling low self-esteem. She was now in her late 30s. So we discussed it and we joined a gym together since I was getting older and flabby too. I worked out for a month or so, and got lazy. My wife enjoyed it and stuck with it. She lost some weight, got fitter, and started to feel a lot better about herself as she fit into old clothes she thought she would never wear again. We started having sex more and more, and our dirty talk almost always centered around her being a cheating slut wife. I reassured her that it was my fantasy that she play with other guys, and she reassured me that it was just a fantasy.

One Saturday afternoon, while we were eating a healthy salad after her work out, she told me this muscle head guy got on the elliptical machine next to her and started chatting with her. I believe she told me this because she was feeling guilty about chatting with the guy, and speaking about it openly and innocently with me made her feel less guilty. When she told me, I felt a pit in my stomach, and I got hard. But, I just giggled and told her it is natural for guys to want to talk to her. I told her you can't blame a guy for trying to chat up a beautiful woman and I left it at that. I banked the little tidbit and immediately figured i would bring it up during our next foreplay session.

Long story short: We gradually got to a place where she was ready to play, and she has had a couple of good experiences from the gym. So, I definitely think that is a superior place for a woman who is ready to play. Much better than a dance club with takess and loudmouths.

She has had a lot of luck at the gym. New guys constantly joining and she has met most of her dates this way.
jamie

You've had some really good advice on this thread so far. I'm replying er, very, late but if you still need ideas, are there any ex boyfriends who she could meet up with again? The first time that my wife "cucked me" it was with her ex fiancée. The biggest advantage is that she will already know her ex and feel comfortable with him.

Hope that helps, and the best of luck.

Deryck
"We reveal ourselves through the language that we use."

thanks all....any more suggestons?

The holiday thing is the most likely for her I think (she is scared cuckolds brownieless thinking about anyone we know should ever get to know...)
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

We did the internet - and the clubs. Finding men on the net is not so bad. The genuine ones will give you their phone numbers and send face pics so you can see if they are ok. They need to remember that you have as much to lose as they do if anyone is indiscreet - it's in the interests of both parties to keep quiet. With the clubs we have done as Nick described above - I watched as she got chatted up, took them on the dance floor and watched as they danced close. Watching as they kiss for the first time is amazing. A club is also a good palce to arrange a first meet with someone you have talked to online - that's how we met with our first guy. After I watched them dancing and takeing for a couple of hours, my wife came over to me and told me to go outside and and hail a taxi for us all to go home. I sat in the front, they were in the back together...