Wife wants to play when I am on a business trip

well I am back home now.. just finished an amazing welcum home fuck session... it was very intense.

Even though she didn't get to do him while I was away, the buzz it created worked pretty much the same.

Now we are talking through the details for next week... i am all full of anxiety again thinking about her alone in our bedroom with him while I am in my class.

I really want to video tape their fuck session.. but she is reluctant about that. I wonder how many anxious husbands have done Google searches on spy cams with the goal of capturing every moment... I have an infrared camera I can use, but its a little obvious in a darkened room - the leds glow in the dark. Not sure if I should just level with her fuck buddy and ask him if you minds the camera in there.

Level with the guy- he will probably put on a good show for you-
if not- the LEDS can be darkened with some tape, and the camera put in place without anyone knowing.....

Yeah.. That's the best thing to do. I actually set up my IR camera and tested it.. works nicely, but it's pretty obvious its there.

Sadly my wife is objecting to the video surveillance idea.. In the end, she will probably choose to not record anything and just whisper details in my ear later when I reclaim her.

Maybe that will be more sexy.. I just wanted to capture her first solo flight for our later enjoyment. I guess she thinks keeping it as her memory may be more fun..

I had that problem with my -ex, too.
I want to record the "first time" because it is such a great event- she doesn't want it, because it is a private event.
Maybe a voice-activated recorder hidden in the room could at least give you the sounds of the first night?
A recording of the bed creaking, and her moaning, would "take you there" almost as good as a video-
and it would be less obvious.

hey johnny108,

Sorry to hear she's your ex now..

I have had the same thought about recording the sounds. Thats a lot easier because you disguise the recorder. I tried yesterday with an iTouch.. but the damn voice recorder app is so sucky you can't anything unless you talk right into it.


I guess the point of cucking is experiencing the pleasure/pain combination... And imagining the whole thing is probably more exciting.. I just want to be a fly on the wall..

Man, this whole things is an exercise in frustration!

You would think that putting your beautiful, sexy, blonde, blue-eyed, 115 lb wife on a silver platter for a single guy would make the guy jump for joy.

What is with these dudes??? He is coming up with excuses why he can't come over tonight.. we have arranged for my wife to be alone with him and have the whole house to herself.

I gotta think if I was in his shoes I would jump at the chance..

Am I alone is getting frustrated with this? Does everyone struggle to get a willing, good looking, compatible guy to actually show up?

Yeah- I had the same problem, too.
Found it easier to "recruit" guys from our circle of friends and co-workers. Have lunch and dinner with the single guys, then if the wife likes him, let her take him out to dinner alone- you do this by making your own excuse as to why you cannot be there- so your wife comes alone, and meets him for dinner and takes, and now your wife can control what happens with the evening (you might have to hang out in another bar for a while- getting texts while she uses the bathroom, so they can use your place if they want to.)
When you are first starting, it can be incredibly frustrating!
(and- my wife is now an -ex because of the army, not because of the swinging- so don't start getting second thoughts because of me!)

My wife often takes lovers to our marital bed while im away, sometimes she may let me listen in on the phone while she is being used or text me what she is up to but sometimes she either wait till i get home to tell me or does not tell me at all and i find out other ways, wet patches in the bed, my robe worn, different razor left in the bathroom, if i question her on this she quite angerily tells me to mind my own business (which i love) this can be most erotic and frustration as when i go away she make sure im caged and does a thourough inspection on my return.

Although to be totally honest i dont go away that often anymore and before now have had to spend the night at a mates house so she could have the house to herself, usually i make out we have had a row and i need somewhere to hide for a day or 2 all the time getting texts or voicemail from her that drives me insane.

But hey i would not have it any other way.

Trouble is, the invite to fuck another guy's wife with his permission sounds too good to be true [i.e. some kind of trap], and meeting up, talking, shaking hands and so on to prove all's cool kind of *******s the mood.

I know. I played the bull once and spent the whole time waiting for something to go horribly wrong