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Hello...my gf and I (in our early 40's) like to talk dirty while having sex. When having sex we have discussed being watched by a group of men while her and I have sex...leading to guys touching themselves and eventually coming closer. Before it was just looking...now in our dirty talk she is allowed to take them in her mouth. She has strong orgasm when we talk like this. Is the only fantasy dirty talk or something she might really be open to??? This is a sincere post and your feedback is appreciated. Thanks

From my experience, I would seriously just do it. If you are both aware that it's just sex and doesn't mean that one permister is not enough to satisfy the other, then just do it.

After a 13 year relationship, 10 years of marriage, my wife has only just, and I mean last Saturday 27th November, had a mmf 3sum with me and a much younger fit guy from her work.
She's slept with him a few times over the last few months with my permission (except the first time when she cheated), and it has been my mission to gt him involved in a 3sum as that has been a 25 year fantasy of mine.

The 3 hours we spent in our living room was the most amazing of my entire life. Seeing my wife being passionate, taking control so things happened in a way that kept her comfortable, and extremely sexual with me and the other guy was just fantastic.
Next time it will happen with slightly less holy water involved (not that any of us were overly takes) and the other guy may not have as much stage fright. Remember he'd just met the husband of the woman he'd been shagging 2 hours before we had the 3sum.

Anyway, that's my advice from permisteral experience. Maybe let your wife have a couple of dates that go as far as you both put limits and let things develop. Go at a pace that suits you both and one thing my wife said made the 3sum amazing was that I wasn't acting like a porn director. It was very natural and extremely erotic.

Hope you get to enjoy yourselves.

sounds great...but I don't believe there to be a specific "guy" to involve. Also, it does not seem wise to live out our fantasy with someone we/she knows...seems better suited for a stranger. But how and where do we find the right guy that want's to get involved in the situation? I would think many men if approached would think mfm is a bi sexual situation....and I have no interest in bi...but all the same it seems it would spook many guys. Can't really go to a bar/club and have her try to pick up a guy and say my husband wants to watch....can you? I also am not sure if this is something she really wants or is she just teasing my sexual fantasy in the bedroom through imagination only?

It's all permisteral of course. The more planning you do, i.e. where do we go to find someone, ow do we convince them etc, the more difficult and disappointed you'll end up probably.

I guarantee if you go to a bar, as a couple, and get chatting to a guy and drift on to the subject of him coming home with you there won't be too much resistance. It's a long slow road from discussion, through to the cold light of day and actually acting on a fantasy.

MMF 3sum and bi sexuality I'd disagree with. I don't find men attractive at all. I find the ecsatcy my wife went through, while she came in my mouth as the other guy sucked her swollen nipples and kissed her, extremely erotic. Pulling her ass cheek to one side while she was on all 4s on the coffee table and he was pounding her pussy and seeing his cock sliding deeper inside her than I could ever go was the peak of the evening. It was totally amazing and can't wait for it to happen again.

I left our living room and watched my wife suck him while he sat in the chair, she stared up in to his eyes rolling her tongue round his cock and got him hard, through the open door from a couple of metres away. It was all great. If you were local to me, which I am sure you're not, I'd love to watch you and come over for a touch, stroke and maybe join in. There'll be lonty of takers if you do decide to go through with it.

Try checking out a local swing club that is single male friendly. This can give you both the chance to look around, see how others play and either just be a voyer for the evening or find someone interesting to go play with.

Make sure you select an on premis club to visit. As for us... we prefer local BBC night parties, or hooking up with a guy we already know and play at home.

Best wishes to you.... have fun and enjoy the ride!
Cuck who loves a creampie.

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I think the best way to find that out would be to ask her.

Ask her when you're not in a sexual situation, just when you're sitting around talking.

bpop makes a good point...in the heat of passion anything's possible, but if you can maintain the subject at an adult level once the heat of the moment has passed it will be a true test of how serious she might be about actually going through with it. Chances are if you take the whole matter cautiously you will eventually end up in a great cuckold type of relationship that will enhance both your love and sex lives.