When did you fully realize you were a cuckold?

That's an enquiry about cuckoldry, aiming at determining the exact moment and feelings when someone (finally) has fully understood he had become a cuck. Some possibilities are listed below:
1 - When you saw her smiling at him at the club, party or elsewhere
2 - When he first touched her ass, tighs or tits
3 - When they first kissed
4 - When they got naked, preparing to make love
5 - When he got into her pussy for the first time
6 - When you heard her moaning
7 - When he started cumming inside her
8 - When you saw the guy's cum oozing out of her pussy, staining the sheets
9 - When they kissed goodbye after having sex for hours
10 - When he promissed (or when she begged him) to come back soon

('he' and 'him', in the possibilities above, refer to the guy who's seduced her in front of her husband or boyfriend)

hm.. may be i should to move this topic to other sub-forum?

For me I think it was the moaning but honestly I like it all

The first time she offered me his cock to suck and I didn't hesitate to do it.

for me it was truley a gut feeling. She was deployed over seas and told me in a letter about a special friend she met, liked and had a fling with. After that initial letter, she continued to gush about everything he was to her, a friend, someone to comfort her, listen to her, make her feel better when she was down and laugh, she said he really understood her and he was very special. I knew she fell in love with him and I was a cuckold. Upon returning my wife told me everything after making me put on her panties, lingeris while stroking my hard little cock through the silky lingerie, I came when she said that she misses him, loves him and wished she stayed there with him. That point it was real, I came dressed like a sissy while my wife told me of the man she fell in love with and was sorry she returned to a little faggot like me,,,,
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

i have been with my Wife since we were in high school. She cuckolded me long before i KNEW i was a cuckold by cheating on me and denying that anything was going on - meanwhile half the school was aware of her activities.

The first time i knew i was a cuckold i returned early from a business trip. i arrived home about 2 pm on a Sunday and the house was empty. As i went upstairs i just had a feeling in my gut that something was up. i put my bags in the bedroom and noticed the bedsheets. We had a waterbed at the time and if anyone has ever had sex on a waterbed you know that the sheets bunch up around your knees when you are trying to get traction for hard fucking. The sheets had that look but i still was not too worried - we never made the bed anyway. As i grabbed some of the covers that were falling onto the floor and threw them on the bed i saw it - the torn corner from a condom wrapper. My Wife (Girlfriend at that time) was on the pill so we did not use condoms on those rare occassions She let me have sex with Her so i knew it was not from us. i immediately went looking for more evidence. It didn't take long. i looked in the bathroom waste basket and there it was under a tissue. The used condom. Of course the rest of the wrapper was also in there but when you are staring at a tied off used condom the wrapper is rather insignificant.

i immediately started to get dizzy and the room started to spin (such a sissy reaction). i paced the room trying to think. Finally i just had to face the fact that my Girlfriend had cheated on me. i went back to the waste basket and i fished out the used condom. i held it up and looked at the substantial load captured inside - it was thick and white. My mind continued to race but all i could think about was that my Girlfriend had spread her legs wide and allowed another man to enter her wet pussy. He had then fucked Her good and used Her soft pussy to milk His load from His balls. The images of them in our bed filled my pathetic head.

As i sat by myself on our bed i tried to think about who could have been the lucky man to bed my Girlfriend. i was later able to confirm that my Girlfriend's lover was a Man She met at work who had been pursuing Her for several months. He was hispanic and muscular. i knew He was trying to bed my Girlfriend and had done my best "angry boyfriend" impression to try and scare Him away. i could only imagine His smug feeling of victory as He knelt between my girlfriend's spread legs, looking at the sexy wet folds of Her pussy just before He pushed His way into Her - and of course it all happened in our bed. i was certain that He purposely left the condom for me to find it so i would know He had won and made me a cuckold. i could only imagine Him bragging to their co-workers about how He beded my girl.

When my Wife came home i confronted her. She deinied it at first but it is hard to explain a used condom and She eventually admitted Her infidelity and the identity of Her lover. She also admitted that when i arrived home they were out at the movies (i still know the name of the movie they were at and the misterg they considered "their misterg"). She told me that He had come over the night before and they had gone to a bar. She brought him to our home and He spent the night. She admitted they had sex twice that night and once the following morning (the condom i found). i had allowed my Girlfriend's female friend to move into a spare room in our house when she lost her apartment - my Girlfriend had borrowed all three condoms from her Girlfriend. i did what i thought a real man was supposed to do - i yelled and screamed and threatened to leave Her. But of course i didn't and it was then that my Wife realized i never would leave Her regardless of Her infidelity. i think She always knew i was not a real man but this just showed Her how much use i was willing to take just to be a part of Her life.

ok, moved to the "basic cuckold"

Tks for the feedback. I guess in my case the first time they kissed in public did the trick. After this, it all seemed to be just the normal consequences of that primary input. It was in a club in Aruba, during a summer trip on our vacations. Guy was black, that's probably why Erika just has sex with them since that time.

I was cuckold by many girlfriends.
I did not know or understand at the time.
When he did her in the bed next to me, while they ignored me, I did not know. Thought it was just a rough patch we were going through.
When I was told to move to the spare room and denied sex, i did not know.
When she quit seeing me, and started seeing someone else, but invited me along to ride in the back of car like a little kid, I did not know.

Years later, after being cucked by many girlfriends I finally found out about cuckolds. I realized that was me.

About 5 years ago when my wife stopped having sex with me I realized.
I am a cuckold.

Did you feel sorry about that - or did you engage in that kind of life with enthusiasm?

At first I was frustrated and pressured her for hand jobs and begged her to let me eat her pussy.
Today I am just happy that she still loves me, holds me and occassionally will let me jerk off or if she is horny finger or eat her.

My first cuckold experience was in college, when I learned my white gf had had occasional sex with a black guy from the football team. He did not know she and I had already been together for some months, and plainly spat on my face he had her suck his dick and fucked her in his car the previous week. I recalled her telling me she had a flu and could not go out with me that weekend, and I just believed her. When I tried to clarify the matter with her, she told me: 'Get a life! I go out with whoever I want, and I fuck whoever I wish!'. That was the end of our short romance, of course. Later she apologized and we still dated for some more months. That's when she uncovered the details in bed, saying I was so much shorter and 'unsexier' than Derrick. When I asked why she decided to restart with me even so, she said she was teasing me and confessed he had just wanted to use her that way on a one night stand.

Even though I suspected I di not fully understand until she sat me down and told me that she'd fucked with another man.

I knew something was up when I was around 14-15. My high school sweetheart told me about a rumor that a girl she knew had gotten gang-banged at a party. The story was told in a "ew gross, what kind of girl would want to do that" sort of way ... but oof. It turned me on bigtime.

As I got older, I got into swinging. I had a lot of great times and enjoyed a lot of other guy's wives. But the part I looked forward to, the part that gave me that special tug in the belly, was watching my wife take on other guy. It seemed really odd to me as we got ready to go to a party, that I was getting a bigger charge out of watching my wife dress up slutty for other men who would soon be fucking her than the prospect of having sex with lots of different women.

We've slowed down a lot because of a foot problem my wife endures (and she just got an operation, so when it heals, who knows!) but my fantasy endures.
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Then, in all these cases mentioned here, does the fact of being or not consented make any difference in becoming a cuckold? I mean ... if it's consented, is she being 'unfaithful'? (from the definition of a cuckold as a man whose wife or gf is unfaithful)

Another question: Does the fact that a guy has been cuckolded on a 'it's just this once, honey' basis makes him a lesser cuck?

It was when I came home to this

It was when I came home to this

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Shit, man ... she has actually cuckolded you - that can be seen clearly!!!

hot thread i will add mine when i get a mintue, keep it up

25 years ago, after 3 years marriage with my (now ex-) wife, I understood that the flirting she was into with some of my firends when they visited us, really runed me on. When they sometimes visited, she was wearing short and open shirts which made the guys eyes glow...

I did not tell her about my exhitement for this, but I think she understood. When they left, I just ripped of her cloths and fucked her hard

She was a innocent and shy girl, and I do not think she did this deliberately...

Some years later, she asked me about my horneyness after these visits, and aboout the same time, I started to get very interessted in her sexual past.

I admitted that the looks on my friend eyes did get me horney. She asked if I was jealous, and I told her no: just proud of having such a sexy wife. This made her grow, and made her a lot more bold

She told me all about her former lovers (7 off). After 1-2 years of sexy memories, and more revealing cloths with my friends, she one day stated: My love, I have no more to tell. You know everything now. I can start making up more stories for you, or maybe you would like me to start fuck other men and tell you after. I remeber this was said on a late Friday afternoon. We spent the weekend in bed, and talked and fucked till Monday morning

On thing that really got me off that weekend was my question to her: Do you have a candidate? She answered that her former boyfriend had been calling her a lot lately (she talked a lot about him during the 'talking sessions...he had a very big cock she repeatedly told me)...and that he missed all the good sex with her

During that weekend, I admitted that it would be a great turn on if she started to fuck him again. She agreed (a little too easy?) and started the following week

This carried on for a year or so. After, she got tired of him (to much demands and calling) and started to look for another lover. During the reminding of our marriage, she fucked some 50 guys

I do not know exactly when I really realized that I wanted her to fuck other, but at this time I had no idea about the term Cuckold. There was no internet, or other sources for information. And we had no idea that several couples lived this way.

For you younger guys here: think about this...we took the decissioon to go ahead without any information, guiding, nothing. We did it only because we found it very sexy

So for me, asome years into my marriage, I understood that I really turned on by my wife fucking other guys

As I have written in other posts, I had a lot of lovers too (she did not know about this, and basically, the hunting was more exhiting then the sex...for me...the real hornyness was together with my wife after her sex)

Now, I have a gf and I really want her to start the same
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In my particular case, when Erika kissed this black boyfriend in Aruba I must confess I felt very jealous because it was our first go at this kind of lifestyle and we had promissed each other not to get too involved with the third part - which she did, to the point of still being visited by him or flying regularly to Aruba to see him. However, she pointed out that allowing me to watch them was a privilege I should not underestimate. She could break our marriage and live with him in Oranjestad (capital of Aruba) or anywhere else in the world - she told me one night when she got angry at me because of my still being jealous. I must say that being able to watch them turns me on even more than actually having sex with my young wife, who now denies me sex. The problem is when I cannot travel with her or when she decides to be alone with her lover, for some unspoken reamister. Also, the feeling that I'm losing her gradually ...

i was watching a brittany oconnell porno film; this was about 15 years ago. some black guy was fucking her real good. then i realized that brittany bore an amazing likeness to my much younger wife. then i realized it turned me on to watch my wife fucking another man. then i experimented with the fantasy and it got better and better. it was easy for me to imagine that brittany "was" my wife! then i gradually introduced my wife into the role play of a cuckold wannabe and we have fun doing it. she is now real close to fucking other guys. just needs the right guy at the right place and time.

I guess for most hubbies and boyfriends the full realization of being cuckolded gets to their neurones when they hear their wives or gfs moaning under the body of other guys. Watching them kissing also has this effect, for most hubbies and boyfriends.

At a party.
But I missed the alarm bell.

When the hours at work became longer and longer, when the buisness trips became more frequent, when there was a rush to buy new lingerie before such trips.

When I saw the stae of her lingerie after the trips

Oh and because we hadn't had sex for three years lol

when she came home and told me that she'd been f***ed by the guy she'd arranged to meet and told me all the details.

I knew for sure when my girlfriend explained to me the reamister I didn't need to worry about birth control while fucking her a few minutes earlier was because she was already pregnant by someone else. I didn't even know the word cuckold then, but whatever it was, I was hooked right then.
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