Quoting: Deepelmdesciple
ProfessorB, if the bull, for some strange reamister, wanted to tell people what had happened, he could. However, he's an employee for the same company, and definitely further down the ladder. Not to mention the fact that he's very involved in the sexual relationship himself. Actually, max3210 couldnt stop his wife and the bull even if he wanted to. So in the worst case scenario it would end with both of them being fired for nothing more than having a relationship with another colleague, and they would both be embarrassed (which is the main reamister the bull would never say anything). On the other hand, if it did get out, the bull in his lower position could end up jobless for fucking a boss's wife, and max3210 might be embarrassed, but it could definitely be spun in his favor. Anyway, the point is of course, that when it comes to sex, if any outsiders find out, everyone involved in the sexual affair loses to some extent. It's like going to the clinic to get a case of herpes checked out and seeing someone you know. That permister isn't going to say anything, because they'd have to explain why they were there in the first place lol.
I get that, and to some extent that's why we feel as safe as we do in our identities. The only people who matter that could verify who were are would have to explain why they were here in the first place. However, I suppose my question would best be asked before the beginning of such a situation. My wife and I keep our sex lives EXTREMELY far away from our daily life. I just have a harder time understanding why others would not do the same. Rationally, I can understand the extra thrill. It adds lots of admittedly exciting elements. Fear would keep me from ever entering into such a situation, though...
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