Is spanking or punishment part of your cuck experience?

We are new to the site, thought that maybe asking and sharing might be a good way to say hello. Guess we are older than many on here, but we're non-fantasy real world people, and have lots of pics and movies to prove we do everything we we say. Just hesitant to share the pics because we're not as young and sexy as what we see posted in pics here!

We wondered how many others might use punishment or discipline in their cuck relationship? My lady (and I) enjoy a moment of punishment after a date and we are both curious whether others share "our style". She punishes more after dates alone, but even after dates were I am present in the bedroom I usually end up with a red bottom even before the cum is cleared from her pussy. Is there anybody else out there like us?

When my girlfriend goes out for a sex date alone, I have to help get her ready and dressed, pack an overnight bag for her, get date takes/snacks prepared for her to take, and generally prepare her for a comfortable evening in a hotel with a man we've found together on the net. She always takes a small camera bag with her for pics and (if he's willing) small movies of her fun so I load fresh tape and clear the memory card in the still camera. I have to make sure the hotel room is arranged, the car gassed and clean for her, fresh lingerie selected, and listen to her tell me about the date she has planned and the hopes she has. She loves to tease me by telling me she will offer them her asshole and that she hopes they'll take it (drives me crazy!). Then I have to walk her to the car and wish her well as she leaves.

She texts me on cell phone when she gets there, then again sometime during the evening to just tease me (more like *** at times). Once with a semi-regular boyfriend she texted me "he took my ass once and is about to do it again" and I thought I'd frigging melt on the floor. She will always text again when she is on her way home, whether it be an hour or a night later. I'm usually a near basket case by then, no matter how long it was.

When she gets home she usually takes no more than a couple of minutes to settle in, then she will describe in detail what she did, what he did, and how much she liked or disliked (it happens) the date. If she was able to take pics or movies I have to immediately copy them to the PC for her to look at. Soon as they are done she'll look at them and start to get all worked up again, then she tends to get aggressive. All leading up to what I know is coming next. She'll tell me to strip naked and get ready for a spanking.

Sometimes its just over her knee. Short, hard and to the point. Other times I have to bend over for a belt whipping. All depends on how worked up she is or how much she enjoyed her lover. After the date during which she sent the text message I mentioned above, she took a belt to my ass like I'd never had. Sometimes she won't say much at all - just light my butt on fire. Other times - like that one belt whipping, she'll tell me how good he was and how she demanded that I let her see him again. After the spanking we'll relax and sit together and talk about her date, then she will have me service her for at least one cum before we go to bed or get on with the day.

The spankings seem to "clear the air" of any jealousy or emotional issues she or I might have. For her she says it makes her feel dominant and that she enjoys controlling me, punishing any bad feelings out of me and her. For me its a real emotional release. I don't cry or anything, I just accept her punishment and by doing it I feel better after. No jealousy, no bad feelings, no lingering emotions which (we think) might harm what we have together.

How close to others' experiences are we? Is there anyone else who uses discipline in their cuck relationship?

Guest,
I suppose it all depends on how far one wants to stretch (or "spice up") the basic cuckold relationship. Permisterally, I (love to) see cuckolding as one of the many facets (quite possibly the most intriguing one) of female domination. In this context (and, again, this is very permisteral), I find the idea of submitting to punishment at the hands of your wife/girlfriend (and even her lovers) deliciously humiliating and very, very exciting.

No flame is intended 'guest' but I was confused over what in your post applied to us. She makes the choice, I said nothing about fluff/cleanup or bi play, nothing about cross dressing. So aside from your mention of spanking being a component for some, I didn't see the reamister to mention much of the rest.

Guess we'll have to agree to disagree about the "what cuckolding is about" in that to us - and many we have met - whether or not the wife has sex with her cuck is not the defining point of the relationship. Certainly its a core for some, but not a blanket thing for all I don't think.

Like I said - not meant as a flame at you or anything. Just don't agree.

I have wondered this myself. The last time she cucked me (bar pick-up at a hotel), I cleaned her, but while my crotch was still sticky from my little spontaneous spurt, I was still hard. She saw this and told me to bend over one of the chairs in the room. She then spanked me bare-handed in front of the bull, ridiculing my little penis, how inadequate I was and how if I were a real man, she wouldn't have to resort to fucking other men.

By the 20th whack, i had shot off again down the back of the chair. She slid her dress on (nothing else but shoes) and walked out with the bull, saying she'd be back with another "real" man and expected to see me in that position again, unless I grew a cock before she got back. The bull got a big laugh out of that last line.
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We've had spanking in our relationship much longer than cuckolding. I've always been spanked for masturbating, procrastinating, attitude, etc. She rarely gets spanked, usually for something more extreme, and even then, she rarely gets it on the bare. She, however, always bares me unless it's a warning smack in public. Hand, hairbrush, paddle, cane, switch, she's used them all.
Now that we are cuckolding, she uses it to emphasize my place when I begin to get too bold. She likes me subservient.

my wife typically spanks me after dates with her regular b/f. i agree it clears the air of jealousy and contributes to her dominant feelings. on occasion i've been paddled after being told/allowed to jack off this is especially painful and humiliating. anyone else go through this, any suggestions for good ways to deal with it(i hate it, but am reminded "bitches take it")

My wife and I are just the opposite, when she returns home from her dates she want me to spank her and tell her how bad she is for being a naughty slut.

Different strokes for different folks, as it should be. This wonderful world is turning as it should.