baiout
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i'd say let her go it alone first to test the water
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slut345
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lol its over  Say goodbye to her |
SheDatesHeWaits
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There's a lot to be said for letting her play on her own, or getting started alone then having you join them later. First, it can be pretty intense for you. As enjoyable as watching can be, WAITING and NOT watching can be equally intense in different ways. Believe me... the imagination is MORE than capable of making up for what you're not actually seeing!
Giving them time alone to get familiar with each other can also be a plus. Often the other guy isn't totally comfortable with your presence at first, so letting them have time alone can make it less awkward when it comes time to stir in the third party (you).
However... having said that, trust and confidence are key. If you don't truly trust her 100%, then jealousy can rear its head in that situation. On the other hand if SHE isn't 100% committed to the relationship, then letting her have 1-on-1 time with another guy can result in a lot of alone time for you... after she takes off with him. Choose wisely!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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rdvrk
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Some wives like to have their husbands present, some don't. My wife and I started with me being there watching, but she soon found that it felt awkward and not sexy for her. Since then, she's always dated alone, which is fine with me.
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mred4682
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Are you saying she is going to stay with him for 10 days?.... OMG I must be reading that wrong.
I feel you need to do this as a couple. Alone time between the wife and her boyfriend only provides time for them to develop a relationship which will in some way or another effect your relationship with your wife.
However as you can tell from others responses, there are those that disagree.
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wippersnapper
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I would not want my wife to go away for 2 days, let alone 10 with a guy. In our experience, we started out as 3 of us together, with me watching and then taking part with the other guy and me pleasuring my wife together and separately. My wife felt comfortable with this arrangement, and any guy she went to bed with knew upfront that that is the way it would be. We did not ever have one objection, and we were with a lot of different guys.
In my opinion, excitement gets a little "slower" when two people are together for 7 years, as in your case with your girl friend. Sharing her with others is one way to keep a relationship exciting and intact. However, if you are allowing her to go away for days at a time with a guy who will surely show her a good time each and every time they are together, then I would worry that eventually she will "compare" those times with the ordinary times with you, and in most cases, we all know who she would prefer to be with.
Couples who allow that separation are usually married and therefore have that bond that is stronger to break than a couple who has no such committment to each other. In your case, I hope I am wrong, but by you allowing her to be alone all of that time instead of you being with her and him, will eventually end up less than satisfactory for you.
If your girlfriend really likes him, and he likes her, then she should be able to convince him that you should be part of the deal.
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mred4682
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Take a look at the number of couples that thought they would be fine and then the girl leaves for the other guy. You sound very sure of your situation, I hope your correct.
You say he is even talking about wanting to be rough with her, and she has never even met him?.... Yes that is pretty extreme to put it mildly. Crazy from my perspective, I hope she knows martial arts and can take care of herself. I wish you luck.
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mred4682
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Glad to hear she can take care of herself. Good Luck and be sure to enjoy yourself while she is with him.
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Johnnyangplay
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She...I mean he...is spending a whole 10 days in fantasy land. That should be fun!
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Nedcuck
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Talking about taking a deep dive!
My gf has done similar.
Tell us more about how things are going!!
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smallboy15
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We're doing this tonight We're brand new to this this is week 2. He's picking her up at a bar tonight. As soon as they arrive at his place she'll text me. I'm to take 15 minutes or so to arrive then they'll leave the door unlocked for me. I'm allowed to come in to whichever room they're in and watch quietly from the corner. I can watch until he cums then I'm to let myself out and go wait in the car. I am allowed to bring in a camera and video them (we agreed on this so I have video to watch because the next time I will NOT be invited). I am allowed to stroke myself while watching but cannot cum. I am allowed to cum in the car while I wait for the night to end, or I have the option of waiting until we get home. What an exciting day this is going to be! |
neukcpl
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great updates, wheres the pics?
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