Not sure if I should be careful what I wish for

I had made a couple of joking comments to my wife last November about her relaxing with another guy as long as I knew about it, the thought had actually started to turn me on. She was horrified and offended so the topic died. But to my shock she approached me in March and asked me if I was serious when I had told her I didn't mind her being with another guy. I cautiously said yes and she proceeded to tell me about a relationship she had been having with a guy from her work.
Apparently they had gotten to be good friends but it went to the point of sexual e-mails and at one point she told me he put his hand on his crotch when he had a hard on telling her "this is what you do to me". (she said that was why she had come home one day and fucked me silly out of the blue, because she needed a release from the experience). She said that the reamister she told me was that she knew it was getting to the point where she felt it would be inevitable they would have sex and she would feel too guilty if I didn't know.
I told her once again that as long as I knew and I could be there it was ok and to pursue it. After a few weeks she finally told him about my interest in seeing them together. She told me he was upset that I knew about them and was worried that I would somehow try to blackmail him or ruin his professional or family life (he is married). In the course of the conversation he told her that he had wanted to have sex with her for some time (I had already figured that and am pretty sure my wife did as well).
So fast forward to today, he doesn't like the idea of me being there so my wife is getting a hotel room this weekend where they will meet. I have been going through a whole spectrum of emotions from extreme jealousy, to extremely turned on, to guilty. The build up has been one of the greatest rushes of my life and I'm a little nervous about how I will feel when I know that some other guy is fucking my wife at that moment.

all those emotions will intensify when she is there with him and u will be jerking off constantly and looking at the clock all the time.
everything in life is free

yes, sometimes knowing what she will be up to and imagining it can be a greater rush for you at times.Ive been there and the mind is a powerful organ!
But i did get to hear then watch her as thats what i wanted from the arrangement.
tell her you want a creampie or a full condom brought back.
the man is a twat so you make sure you get what you want,ive been there and be careful it doesnt turn into an affair.

EnglishMark
"careful it doesnt turn into an affair. " pRETTY MUCH CONTROLLED BY THE HOT WIFE.

norm3209

Since you already told your wife it was ok only if you were there and the other guy freaked, yet they are still meeting it sounds like you have lost a say anyway. This situation started out without your knowledge, without your participation and when you speak up it is continuing in a direction you didn't really want.

In my opinion, and there are others that disagree with me, this is a very dangerous way to proceed. Cuckolding can build a marriage if both parties talk and agree to everything, unfortunately she did her own thing without you then you guys talked and she is doing what she wants anyway. That would be fine if you were ok with that, but since it sounds like you’re not, this is a recipe for disaster.

Sure you’re turned on like crazy, but what most guys don't realize is how intense things are when it happens. It will literally be the most overwhelming experience of your life. If you’re not there your mind will drive you absolutely nuts and your emotions will skyrocket. That might be ok if you were ok with the situation, but it doesn't sound to me like you are. My advice is to put your foot down now and stop it, unless you are there. Otherwise I suspect you will have problems.

Your other option is to follow the recommendations of those on here that say that anyway she has sex with another guy is a good way. They also recommend you wear panties, and become a total sissy, eating cum, sucking cock being a wimp and in many many cases losing your wife to one of her bulls.

I am in an absolutely wonderful cuckold relationship with my wife and it is better than anything I've ever experienced. But it started and continues on communication and agreement by both of us. If one or the other of us doesn't agree on something, it doesn't happen. My recommendation is for you to ALWAYS be there and if the other guy doesn't agree, dump him, otherwise you better spend a LONG time making sure your ok with this, because once it happens, it will be too late and your emotions will be going crazy.

Unfortunately it sounds like it is already too late. She already has VERY strong emotions for this guy because they have been flirting and seeing each other for months. I am amazed they haven’t already done it. It is also so risky for her to play with someone she works with. How in the world will they ever break it off? Or if they do how will she feal still having to see him on a daily basis? I'm so sorry, and I hope like crazy I'm wrong and things will be ok.

Good Luck!!!

Wow, as I read your post, it sounded as though you were paraphrasing what I've been going through. There are a lot of similarities (see "Now that she's started..." in the Stories Forum).

Without knowing your whole story, it sounds like your wife was against the idea until she found someone that she was interested in. Actually, it sounds more like the typical story of coworkers who have an affair, only in this case she doesn't have to hide it from you. Since you don't specify how much input you've had with the situation or how much communication has gone on between you and your wife, it is hard to tell how troubling this is. If you have both agreed that it will work the way you described without harming your relationship, then I hope all goes well. Hopefully you and she can find a way for everyone to get something out of this even if you can't be there, whether it is her describing all the events for you or taking pictures or video to share with you.

I look forward to hearing your telling what goes on this weekend. Next weekend will be the first time for us and I am experiencing all of the feelings you mentioned.... arousal, fear, a little sadness at having started something that has such risks involved.

If the relationship is intact, cucking will give you nothing to worry about. If there are problems, then....

No problems with relationship, in fact when she first told me about the two of them the experiance brought us closer together and we ended up having the best sex of our lives that night

norm3209


Exactly. That is what my cuck couples most often relate. The sensuality of all of this is extreme...

norm3209
Well.... then....
I'm glad I was wrong. It sounded from your post to me that she was cheating on you at first and then you wanted something different and she still did whatever she wanted without your input.

I kind of figured I went off the deep end with my warnings, I usually do, thats why I asked nooo, to comment. They really are in almost the same situation.

I truely hope everything works out well for your guys. It will be the most intense night of your life by far!!!! It will rock your world. Enjoy it.

It's good to hear a different point of view to help make decisions, in all honesty if I related the ENTIRE story the truth of the matter is that I more or less guided the entire situation. As for right now though it's looking like it may not happen tomorrow, so now I'll have to deal with the anticipation for who knows how much longer. I'm gonna go crazy wondering for so long what the experience is going to be like for both of us.

I would suggest that you be completely supportive of your wife while you wait for her to cuckold you. Tell her how beautiful she is and how lucky her new lover will be. Tell her that she deserves to enjoy herself and that no matter what happens you want to stay married to her forever. I think you both will enjoy this. All the crazy mixed-up emotions will make you feel more sexually alive than you ever have. I'd also suggest that you don't have an orgasm until after she has cuckolded you. Maybe even tell her that. It might turn her on to tease you while you anticipate her cuckolding you. Good luck and thanks for sharing. I'm anxious to hear what happens.

Wife decided to keep the hotel room she reserved and went to spend the afternoon in town and maybe still meet up with her friend. Knowing it might actually happen tonight is driving me wild with anticipation, it's taking a lot of restraint to keep from texting her every couple of minutes to see what's going on. Knowing events are in motion and there's nothing I can do anymore makes me feel more powerless than I have ever felt but at the same time I want he to feel another guy's cock inside of her. I'm seeing that it's the extreme conflict of emotions that makes this experience so intense.

She just sent me a text, he's meeting her in her room tonight. My God I don't know what to think. I really never thought this would ever really happen. It's so hot, but cuckolds brownie it's just unreal.

It sounds like you've had two different kinds of torment today... first, not knowing if anything was going to happen, and second, now knowing that something is going to happen.

Best of luck getting through tonight. Hopefully she gives you some good updates as the events unfold and you have a great time catching up tomorrow.

Didn't happen, not going to happen....it's just a fantasy that's going to have to rest up on a shelf for good. I guess it was fun while it lasted.

What happen then?

not happened yet....but you have planted the seed....it may take a few years but your wife knows....how old is she? how long have you been married?
New at this

My case was almost identical to yours. The first time my wife called me after work one Friday evening to tell me she was going out with him and not to expect her until the wee hours I thought my head would explode!!

I knew they were going to dinner first and then to his place (he was single). I kept looking at the clock trying to figure what would be happening at that moment. I placed them in his bedroom around 11:30 pm and it turned out my guess was very close. By midnight he had carried her from the sofa into the bedroom and it all began!! While home waiting for her until about 3:30 am I had jerked off MANY TIMES!!

Eventually things got better and I got to experience being there with her as she took on other guys...that first night, however, still lives on in my memory...when she finally got home I wanted to ravish her!! I ate that pussy like never before! You have no idea what a trip you are embarking on!!! All in all I would not trade the experience for anything!!

ENJOY, as I am sure you will!!! Once she has done this you wife will become twice as attractive and desirable to you. My love for my wife grew 10 fold after that night...the honesty was just so real I would not have traded her for anything...I felt I was the luckiest guy alive to have an uninhibited hott wife like her! I still feel that way, and each time she takes on another guy I appreciate her more. She keeps me so turned on, all I have to do is think about one of her encounters and I have a suddent hard-on! What a woman!!

My wife initially said "sounds interesting, would be fun, but I could NEVER actually DO it." We talked about it countless times. Years passed. When she changed her mind, she literally woke me up in the middle of the night to tell me she'd thought about it for a long time and wanted to act on it as soon as possible. I think the words that shook me awake were... "I've decided to fuck this guy... are you awake NOW?" She had someone in mind, and was so excited to be able to share with me the fact that she had this attraction and urge. Things got interesting fast, too...
Be the different drummer.

I recently found that getting what you wish for can be a bitch...The wife and I discussed this several years ago. She seemed receptive but reluctant. I pushed the issue and her away. It was my fault to push, but she really should've let me know that the idea didn't really set well with her. Finally, a week ago, I caught her having an affair. And as angry as I was over the betrayel, and excited over the cuckolding, the fact that she lied to me burned deep when all that could've been avoided. She explained that she thought that I did not love her and wanted her to move on...In hindsight, I can see why she believed this as I can tend to become detached...Character flaw for me I suppose. At any rate, I love her dearly and do not want to lose her. Now I have to make up for some of the things I handled very poorly.

horntoad
I'm so sorry to hear about her affair. You may have been partly to blame, but don't take all of the blame.

Cuckolding does NOT have to include cheating!!! So many couples end up where your at, and I'm so sorry when they do. The ONLY way for it to work is to be VERY VERY close to start with and talk everything out extensively and agree to everything and I believe do everything together.

At this point you need to do everything you can to be close to your wife. I suggest you not even bring up cuckolding for a long time, until you two are very very close again. I feel for you man.

^ mred4682, thanks for the kind sentiment...Yes, ultimately she cheated and it was wrong, but I hold my share of blame. This may work out for the best as we seem to be mending fences, but it was a very painful event in our lives for sure.

I have not and will not give up this fantasy, as it is really who I am...I may have to hold it close forever more, though. To be continued!!!

That night I last posted here I was frustrated because my wife's b/f was being flaky and my wife said nothing would likely ever happen. The other day she told me they had planned to meet in town again (she will stay overnight) but it might not be a 100% sure thing. I decided to remain skeptical until I suggested to her that she do a role play thing where she wouldn't let me touch or even kiss her, for her to tell me she was saving herself for tomorrow. To my shock she has done just that. I'm starting to think that all she needs is for the "first time' to break the ice for her to become comfortable with the lifestyle. I know I'm going to be ripped apart tomorrow night waiting to know what happened, and I'm starting to look forward to that more than before. My wife is hot and the thought of her riding her friend's cock is really turning me on. Who knows, she might just be teasing me through the entire thing waiting for her own time to tell me that she has been fucking her friend all along which is a possibility that has crossed my mind. I have realized that, ether way, things have progressed further than I expected. It still may take a while if things don't pan out tomorrow but I now believe it will happen.

Here's a pic of my wife BTW...(sorry have to hide the face for now)

She just sent me a text telling me that she just fucked her friend. I can't believe how turned on I am right now, she even let him fill her pussy with his cum. I'm really besides myself right now.

I asked for details and she told me I had to wait....If I'm lucky she said she might act it out with me tomorrow.

It's a mix between gut wrenching, extremely turned on, and very happy for her and her friend Anna. things seem a bit surreal right now

I know she does, the only reamister I wasn't there is because circumstances didn't allow for it, I know I will be able to eventually though. I know for a fact that she would not have done this if I didn't approve.

BTW any comments on my wife's pic? She'd ******* me if she knew I posted it....I think it'll take some time before she would actually agree to me doing that.