have i found her out ?

i recently found out that my wife has been txtin another guy for about 2 months now as i found a txt on her phone ,she has said that hes just a freind that she met through her g/f when they was out one nite ,do u think she has been fucking him as she defends him when i ask about him ? also she was txtin a workmate for a week after going out with her friend for a few takes and seen him out ,she told me that it stopped after a week as she thought it was wrong ,but he never mentioned it ? im i a cuck in the making or as it allready happened ??????

Come on you know the answer - she has already been fu'cked!

She's definately taking some extra cock. My ex wife was doing similar things, going out with friends, making new friends. I found a few notes written on napkins and things, but never realized what was going on until I came home early one night and found her fucking two guys in our bed. When she realized that she had been caught, she just smiled, with cum dripping from her mouth, and said "you always wanted a little whore for a wife, now you have one"

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How is your relationship going overall? Sex regularlly? Does the relationship have the mutual give and take, etc?

It may be exciting and fun if being a cuck turns you on but you ARE being played bro...think about it. If it wasn't her who sent it then don't you think she would be frantically trying to find out who did?

Basically this whole cuckold thing is suppose to be a trust deal and fun for everyone. But I got the feeling that some guys adopt the fetish of being a cuckold to deal with the fact that they have NO control of the relationship...it's not their fault and it dosn't have much to do with being the Omega-Male/low testosterone wimp. I feel it has alot more to do with being in love and desperate to keep the relationship going, and mentally turning themselves on at the idea of being a cuckold because being a cuckold is litterally saying "My wife fucks other men and I'm cool with it". Unfortunately the reality of the situation is, "My wife dosn't love me enough to be faithfull, nor respect me enough to fess up, or care about me enough to avoid breaking my heart and destroying our trust." I mean being cheated on by someone you love and trust is 2nd to having a loved one die suddenly...in both cases they experience the exact same stages of grief. I think it's only natural to WANT to get stuck in the 'denial' stage by saying "I'm cool with it, infact it turns me on!" and postpone the inevideble end of the relationship.

I know this because in my first long-term relationship it happend to me when I was in my 20's. I ignored all the red flags that I should bail. Over and over again she would do things, not overt mind you, but just cuckolds brownie that makes you say "Something is NOT right here..." and gives you that sick to the stomach feeling. Sex stoped 100% also...and real blatant stuff that if I had a camera crew following me the audience would be screaming "WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?" I even had text message incidences so while none of them were as blatant as what you told us I can still relate to some degree...
EVERY single time I confronted her she would follow a pattern...She would DENY, then either BLAME ME for something, usually CHANGING the topic, then complain how she was the VICTIM because nobody loves he, bad past relationships, bad familiy life, yadda yadda yadda. NEVER taking responsibility. And I ATE IT ALL UP. Sure there was the logical part of me that knew this was f'ed up and wrong and she was full of it, but I kept giving her more chances because I wanted it to work out so bad because I loved her so much and kept saying to myself "Well it COULD be a coincidence, if I were in her shoes I'd want her to give me a second chance if it was infact a big missunderstanding." And durring this time I was going through my own hell, and found a tiny amount of release by looking up cuckold stuff online. But when the computer turned off I always felt like crap again.

It wasn't untill I had physical evidence in the form of an email I hacked did I know for sure when she gave the SAME misterg and dance all the other times. It's then I knew that I've been cheated on not just that last time but every other time prior and left her.


BTW, don't confront her any more. If she is the type ( and I never knew women could be like this until one pulled this on me ), she will deny, deny, deny, and deny, NO MATTER WHAT. God knows why they do this. If I love or hate the permister I'm with it dosn't matter, its a question of YOUR character to fess up...some chicks character is very weak I guess. It's a really easy thing for Narcassistic women to do since they lack empathy and there are ALOT of them out there i.e. my ex I just told you about. Let the evidence build up to the point where YOU can make the difinitive decision to stay or leave. Otherwise she is just going to keep raising her guard everytime you confront her and you end up looking like the jealous boyfriend type to everyone else, to the point where people say "I don't blame her for cheating on that a-hole" when the truth does finally come out.