How to get my Milf going - Need Advice

sokkerlord

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I'm a good looking, in shape man in his 30's and have been dating a very attractive lady in her 40's for over 3 years. (Pic attached) My cock isn't gigantic but it's not small by any means. I'm just over 8" and it's thick. She LOVES my cock and I can make her cum whenever we have sex...either from penetration, oral, or my fingers.

Here's my issue:
I have a very strong fantasy about watching my woman play with or fuck another man. I ask her to tell me about other cocks she's had and she tells me about how big they were but she's very quick to add in how they never made her cum like mine does. I know she's not lying because I know all about her previous men (only 4 others) and I know that they didn't care about making her cum.

So now I am trying to get her to open up to the idea of playing with another man...either with me there or not....possibly in our hot tub. She's of the opinion that I shouldn't want that. That I should want her all to myself.

I guess what I'm looking for is help explaining to her why I want this. I've been blunt with her and told her exactly what I want...but again, she thinks that I should want her for myself.

Any advice or help is appreciated.

Bull_in_NH

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try rollplaying that with your cock or a dildo as another mans and dont break roll after awhile then bring it up again and will most likly she will act diferintly

SheDatesHeWaits

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Quoting: sokkerlord

She's of the opinion that I shouldn't want that. That I should want her all to myself.

sokker... that's very common. You need to remember that women are taught from the beginning that monogamy is "right"... that each should want only the other, etc. It takes time to unravel that learning process, and patience is the absolute key.

You're on the right track. Be honest. Share your feelings and welcome hers. From that, begin to build a dialogue about the subject slowly. Buy some vids that include MFM play. DO NOT use vids of hardcore cuck play, etc. You'll give her a case of what I call "Shock and Aweful"... she'll find it repulsive and ban the idea altogether. But good quality MFM vids, pillow talk, fantasizing together, even roleplay... all will help her expand her thinking beyond just you and her. Patience! Follow her lead. Don't push or it will blow up and backfire.

Also... timing is very important. Most women become more receptive to the idea of others after the relationship has matured. Early on, they feel it should be about you and her... so give it some time. Good luck.
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sokkerlord

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Thanks to you both for the advice. Bull - I might try to work that in with the understanding that as PalmCoastCpl said "take it slow and don't push"

I think the MFM vids are a GREAT idea. We've seen a few MFM scenes before....so it wouldn't be a huge stretch. I'll just slowly incorporate more into our library.

I guess it's just good then to keep talking, taking it slow, and being patient. Thanks again for the advice and well wishes.

Any other advice is greatly appreciated!

fukinwives

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Invite me over for dinner a few times and before you know it she'll be sucking my cock for me while I tell you what a good little cocksucking slut she is.
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hotlkins

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My wife get's wet when she notices other guys looking her way, but that's as far as she'll go. She also get's turned on when guys at work flirt with her, but again, that's as far as it goes. I think if a guy knew it was alright with me, to seduce my wife, he'll be up her skirt in a matter of days. Talk to her, get to know her, and before long she'll asking me if it'll be ok to go on a date. Who knows where it goes from there.

sokkerlord

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I have told her how much I love when others look at her and I even ask her how many times she gets hit on during her work day. I've even had her go to work in a dress w/ out panties. I think you might be right though....if I let others know that I'm cool w/ it then that might give her a little bit of encouragement. I've read on other postings that it's probably best to start with strangers when we're out of town. We were in AZ last week and she actually got naked in a hot tub.....lot of encouragement and pleading from me...but she did. She had a lot to take which probably helped.