How Long Have You Been Involved in Your Cuckolding Relationship?

Anyone reading my forum topic 'Wives introducing their husbands to cuckolding' will know that I have been cuckolding my hubby for few months now. Following a conversation with hubby last night I was wondering how long have people on here been in a cuckolding relationship.

Has it just been a short sexual phase that you have gone through?

Has it been a long term relationship that has lasted a number of years?

Or has it lasted the whole of your relationship so far?

It would be interesting to see your responses.

Thanks
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Married for 28 years shes been cuckolding me for 4 with me knowing almost since our wedding day before i knew

Two and a half years. Married for almost 8 years

one and a half years, 23 married. my wife said it took me a long time to convince her. pretty sure i couldn't stop her now.
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Interesting responses.............The reamister I asked is that when we were chatting about things last night hubby gave me the impression that he thought it was a passing phase and that a couple of years from now I won't want to do it. Permisterally, I can see me still cuckolding him well into my 50's!

My wife's been through phases, and still does. The need comes and goes, and when it comes, she spreads joy all round

fun_gall, and how did you respond to hubby when he said his cuckolding would be a passing phase of yours?

My question is: where is the line between cucking and good old fashioned adultery? You experienced cucks out there: do you experience pain or joy when your wife is out getting royally, repeatedly, and passionately fucked by some other guy she's currently all hot for? My wife and I (married 6.25 years now) have slowly discussed the cuckold concept for about 2 years now, but only in the last 3 months has she found men (and now, one in particular) she craves to be fucked by. Causes me a lot of pain, and I'm not really "included" in the fun (other than driving her to the train station to go off to be with him for the weekend). If she dominated/humiliated me, I'd at least get my rocks off on it, but as it is, all I get is hearing, in ever-increasing shocking detail, how he pounded her and falls more and more in love with her. So, I'm feeling less a cuck than just an old-fashioned suffering bastard being cheated on by his wife. Any thoughts, suggestions, comforts, admonitions, or ideas will be gratefully read.

We have been together 12 years. I've had sex with other men during all 12 years. My partner has been aware of it for the last 10 years, and has been my cuck for all those 10 years. Our relationship has slowly developed in that time.

I have to say though, since I was recently introduced to this site by my sissy, the 'sex' life we have has been re-ignited. We've already shared one new experience, and that was mainly due to me getting really turned on by reading some of the 'Cuckold Captions' posts. I love those captions - reading them gives me loads of ideas of what to say and do to my sissy!!!

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So far we only do it in my fantasies. She doesn't really like to even verbally play the game.

I agree with mred4682, you need to talk to your wife and express your needs. These things don't always work out first time. I felt excluded when Stacey first took a lover, even though this had been at my instigation.I don't think it was deliberate. We were both feeling our way into new territory.
Second time round, Stacey has been careful to meet my needs as well as those of her own and her lover's, although there are always going to be points of disagreement, particularly about the pace of developments('going public' for example).There's a big difference between cuckolding fantasies and cuckold reality!

I didn't say anything because I didn't know how he might respond if I told him otherwise.

I can take a good guess!! LOL

You have raised a good point there Max. If a wife is commiting adultery then her husband is a cuckold whether he knows about it or not. From the sound of it you are not enjoying being cuckolded and you should really talk to your wife about it. If she needs to have sex with other men then she should really be trying to accommodate your needs as well.

As with Macca we are feeling away into new territory and I have to be very aware of my hubby's needs as well as my own. Fortunately I have an experienced lover who is gently easing both hubby and I into new areas.

Within two months of getting together she started cuckolding me and telling me all the details afterwards. She liked young energetic studs. We lasted together just over 2 years in this situation. Finally, after ruining me financially in that space of time, she left me for someone younger than her, tall and athletic with much more money than I ever could hope to have. Sometimes I wonder what kept me with her and the answer I always come-up with is that I must have enjoyed the stinging, bitter-sweet emotional pain of those mental pictures. I am an addisted voyeur.

Thanks much to SheDatesHeWaits, mred, macca, and fun_gall for your kind and thoughtful responses. Yes, I think my wife isn't being considerate to me in this, focussing soley on her pleasure in being with her hunk, whom apparently is outrageously good and pleasurable to her (their first meeting, he apparently actually fucked her all night long, and they went to bed at 7:00am). It's been very very painful for me, and I know I'm about to encounter a very painful weekend of her being with him Thursday through Sunday. I guess one question I have for those in similar situations is: how does one deal with the pain? I can't think straight, can't work, can't move when I even imagine her with him. I wish it could be all light and sexy and fun, like it sounds like it is for the rest of you. But I'm deeply in love with her, and it tears me up that she gives him her body fully, while she withholds from me.
--Cuck In Pain

14 years together, been cuckolded for about 12 of those years, went about 3 years once with her having no boyfriend but that was just circumstance in that there weren't any suitable candidates about, a bit of a dry patch if you like....she usually has one on the go, often two and for about 18 months once 3 regulars.....just one at the moment who she has been with about 15/18 months,,,,

Tony

Max, We have been doing actually D/s femdom cucking for a year or so. It is NOT always light and fun. In BDSM lingo cucking is in fact edge play and can be very dangerous emotionally. We have in fact had some very bad times with my emotions and cucking.

My honest suggestion to you, all fantasy play aside, is that you need to talk to your wife about how you feel and how hurt you are. COnsider counseling if you can afford it. If your wife blows off your concerns you had better consider marriage counseling if you want to save your marriage. Married folks have a certain obligation to care for their spouses and see to their well being. IMO, this is even more so in an alternitive lifestyle marriage. Communication is the key to a happy and successful marriage.

The two of you need to decide how you will be invovled and what it will take for you to deal with how you feel. I am not saying that she should stop playing, but rather she should devise some way to include you. While cucking is physical adultry, the true crime in the marraige is emotional adulty. That is a tough one to recover from.

Been with my wife for 16 years she never stopped fucking guys even when we met. I found out and enjoyed her playing and since then she has cucked me. We both get so much from this relationship and we never want to stop.

My Wife has been an escort for 5 years and has cuckolded me ever since.

married 17 yrs cuckolded 7 yrs this marriage First marriage married 2 year cuckolded 1 yr and 11 months....

My wife began cuckolding me (with my encouragement,) about two years before our wedding 12 years ago. So in that sense it has lasted 14 years. On the other hand, although we have identified as cuckolders for all that time, there have been long periods during which it was not acted upon. My wife would have a lover for a while and then when it ended would sometimes go for a year or more before finding another. There were periods in which she dated multiple guys and periods in which she was exclusive with one, and periods in which she was just open in case the opportunity presented itself. In our experience, the opportunity does not present itself for a nice married girl as often as fiction would suggest.

No doubt it would have been different if my wife was consistently aggressive about finding lovers, but she is by disposition the pursued and not the hunter. She flirts, (doesn't everybody) but she is not forward, and most men in our social sphere are afraid to put the moves too hard on a married woman. There have been periods during which she placed ads or focused on seducing a guy she found interesting. But she finds such activity to be work rather than fun, and there have also been long spells during which she has felt too busy with other aspects of life to bother with lovers. (Truth be told, my wife is a naturally low-libido permister. She enjoys sex [a lot], and can get into sprees on it, but it isn't the constant obsession it is for some people [like me.] I think this fact has shaped our sex life and relationship at least as much as cuckolding.)

For my wife, cuckolding is simply a fact of our marriage. It is about the fact that she is free to fuck whoever she wants, whenever she wants and I am not. Whether she does or not is entirely up to her. Any thrill I get from it is secondary and derivative and not a driver in what happens. (Of course, our relationship is sexualized in ways beyond the cuckolding, but that s another thing.) But in terms of actual fucking by her; it comes and it goes - but it is always assumed it will happen when things are right.
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My wife never really stopped seeing other guys when we started dating, so she's been doing it for 18 months longer than we've been married. She used to have girls night out or just go dancing without me because of my work hours and frequent work related travel, but slowly changed to just disappearing for a few hours, staying late at work, or going shopping and coming back with very little or no merchandise. She never tells me anything about what she does, and won't if I ask.
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