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cfinch

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I've been interested in this lifestyle for a while now. I had an ex who enjoyed domination etc. She would've jumped at the chance to partake in this lifestyle. My current girlfriend however is a bit more conservative when it comes to sex life. And i have no idea how to introduce her even to the notion of Cuckolding me. Anyone else been in a similar situation? Any advice would be helpful.
Berserker

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I'm not a cuck, but I've dealt with enough cuck couples to give you a bit of advice.

A lot of wives and girlfriends are initially skeptical due to a fear of loss. Specifically, they fear that this might be a fluke fantasy of yours that you have not given signicant though about applying to a real life situation. You might find the idea of it arousing, but if they go ahead and carry it out they might fear that in the actual situation you'll react differently than you think and might up losing respect for them, even resenting them. This is indeed something you need to carefully consider.

She needs assurances that you will love her more, not less, if you decide to go through with this. Further, you can decide to take it one step at the time. Tell her to doll her self up and go out with her friends, or alone if she feers being judged by them. Her goal is to kiss some guy she finds attractive, not relaxing with him, just a bit of a pash. Then she can come home after and you can talk about the experience and how you feel about it. That way she can ease into it, seeing that you can emotionally handle it and she'll allow herself to enjoy it more.

It is important throughout this phase that she sees that your relationship stays as strong as ever, so she can be sure you are not just using her to fulfill some "twisted fantasy".
kcdk

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Berserker, your advice rings true. It sounds like you're describing what I understand my girlfriend's feelings to be on the subject! Permisterally I could use some advice myself
JUANITO

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Gentle and gradual breaking her in is the key word. Your reassuring her at every step of the way is of the utmost importance. She must feel that she is pleasing you by acting slutty, and she must have no fear whatsoever of loosing you in the process. When she goes out to flirt with other guys be sure to tell her how beautiful she looks and how you would love to be there to watch some guy dancing close to her and grabbing her ass in the process....if possible you should try to also be there and give her the freedom to act as slutty as she wants...make sure you let her know how much that would totally turn you on and how you would love her for doing it for you. When "graduation" (when she actually fucks him) night comes it will be the most critical time...once she's been fucked you have to ravish her, eat her alive, and let her know how you now find her more desirable than ever, just because she went and fucked some guy for you. When she is sure of the erotic effect that her actions have on you and your relationship with her she will be sure to open up and let herself go. The more you encourage her the more slutty she will become for you. Good luck and enjoy the ride!
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