Wives introducing their husbands to cuckolding

Hi Guys

Just thought I would give you all an update. First of all apologies for not posting before now but things got busy when I got back from my holiday in September. I guess the news you have all been waiting for is that I am pregnant, 3 months apparently. I don't know who the man is. There is a chance it could be Danny's or Malcolm's but I am pretty sure that I got pregnant in the US which means it is either Sylvester's are one of the guys I was gangbanged by on my last weekend.

Hubby is quite excited by the fact that it is someone else's baby and I am very happy also. I am still seeing Danny and he is happy with the situation.

Anyway, if anyone is interested in hearing more let know.

Well I'm happy indeed to be the first one tot say "Congrtatulations" on be a "mum to be"! And it is great that hubby is excited as well.

And I for one would love to hear more.

Hi Fun Gal,

Happy to hear from You again, and also congratulations to You from me.

Of course i am interested in hearing from You! i have been waiting for so long now to hear from You again!

Congratulations!. Have you decided who will be the surrogate man?. Hubby, Danny or Malcom. Do you see any conflict choosing hubby?. In a few years
your young might realize hubby isn't the man. I wish you and your young the best. I mention it as I really didn't know my biological man. It has been some what of void in my life. Maybe it's made me a prev as I enjoy this site. LOL

Congratulations!

I'd love to hear more about your trip to the states and how the "separation" thing is going.

fun_gall
Merry Christmas fun-gall and hubby.
Are Danny and or Malcom spending the the holiday with you and Hubby?.
Seems a good time for additional offense, as it is a hubby and wife holiday.
We looking forward to updates, including blow by low accounts of your "dates. I'm sure I speak for all readers of your posts.

Yes, fun_gall, please fill us in on the details of the conception activities, and the current activities.

Thanks for the update fun_gall

fun_gall

I think many people will be interested in Hubby's point of view.
I want to thank you for sharing your life style with us.

I/We have been reading with some interest, I might add, to this ongoing thread about wives introducing their husbands into this lifestyle.

This is really our second posting on CuckoldPlace.com. We have been holding back and listening rather than jumping in a fray that we are unfamiliar with.

I must say fun_gall has captured our attention every time she enters here. Her posts ususally generates some discussion between myself and my live-in submissive who I refer to as beta. (For a beta submissive)

For me, I had boyfriends before meeting beta at a swingers/bdsm party. and while we grew closer over time (the past 4 yrs.) I still wanted the touch of my old boyfriends.

I found out that the more I took from him the more I received. I guess it's one of the ironic benefits of this kind of lifestyle.

It started out slowly enough, like going out and shooting pool with my boyfriends, like I had once done, to eventually spending the night out, to just having one of them come over in the daytime for an afternoon delight.

In contrast, I would "dress" only for my boyfriends wearing bras, panties, garters and jewelry that they really liked. beta had to provide a special drawer in his dresser for my cashe of sexy lingere. He never gets to see me in anything provacative, at all.

I have recently purchased a beautiful wedding dress from The Ukraine, and all the matching corsets, stockings, shoes and jewelry so we can act out a Wedding Ceremony with a traditional cuckold theme.

beta has always been aware when I was going out.

I made it painfully obvious for him. I always go out on his birthday as a "special treat" for him. He never knows if I am staying out all night or coming home early with my lover. It makes for a very interesting life.

Since we made "this shift" to this particular lifestyle, I could not be happier.
I have a live-in that is TOTALLY dedicated to me. I function in complete transparency. He has never been in such a state of suspended anticipation for such a long period of time.

I the truest sense, this is probably not Cuckolding. I prefer to call it Erotic Sharing. There is no resentment. There are no drama scenes. I have great life with beta AND my boyfriends. He must work to please me. My boyfriends get to take me out to eat, to the movies and the Blues Bars. (they get all the advantages) Oddly, none of us dance. (I always chuckle about women who go out dancing....some of us don't because we can't)

I just thought it was time to come for us.

VABeach, do you have sex with beta?

Dear dblue1,

Without offending an entire groups political sensitivities........It depends on what the definition of "Sex" is. You'll have to excuse me while I stop the laughing, but sometimes I can't help but enjoy a giggle or two in light of what we have been treated to in the past, as being a standard to which we conduct ourselves........EVEN HERE!

Really, the simple answer is that beta has no real sex with me anymore.

About 4 yrs. ago, anal was withdrawn, partly because I did not enjoy it, and partly because it was a logical first step in taking away things he enjoyed.

About 3 years ago, I made beta start wearing "raincoats" before entering me, vaginally. Then the variety of positions were eliminated. I no longer mounted him, no longer assumed "on all fours" position and so on.

As of today, and when I really need him, I only lay on my back. I never raise my hips or roll my legs back. My legs are firmly fixed against the mattress so the depth of penetration is much less than what I give to my boyfriends.

As of the past 60 days or so, I have him layer two "raincoats" over himself so he feels very little.

For the past 2 yrs, I have not performed any oral sex on him. That is reserved, again, for my boyfriends.

His begging and lamenting of what used to be, are rewarding alone. But his devotion to me has increased, dramatically. He seems to be more captured and captivated than I ever could imagine. And, I am incredibly clean for my lovers. They like that. I like that.

Actually, we do have a very sexually charged relationship. It runs though almost every aspect of our day-to-day routine.

About once month (and that depends) I tape a small bullet vibrator to the head of his latex covered penis and turn it on. I roll over, pull up the covers, and let the well-placed, well-charged, bullet do it's job. I am not emotionally connected to his release and it leaves him with nothing but a gooey, if not, completely unsatisfying, mess to deal with.

It's not sex, I guess......IT'S BETTER THAN THAT!

I Hope (Arkansas) that answers your question. LOL

~Savannah

Looking back at the original intent of this thread, I thought I might let you all know how we actually started this aspect of our relationship.

For about 6 months after we started seeing each other I, more or less, took control over our lives both in the vanilla and bdsm worlds. It was not difficult. Our decision was mutually arrived at, though good, well thought out communication, a reflection of how poorly our previous attempts at relationships had gone (We had both been married) and great sex life.

We were, constantly, at each others bodies. And anywhere was OK..........Parties, elevators, kitchen, shower, beach, boats and so on, were often used as an excuse to satisfy our desires. Clothes were not a problem. Sometimes we would just have sex with them on. It really made no difference to us.

However, We had a relationship that was "a mile wide but only and inch deep." We both wanted more. beta noticed that being gagged, tied, bound and flogged at a party was fun but the anticipation of the event, lasted longer, was more intense, and focused his attention on me rather than himself. We found a way to make our lives deeper......much deeper.

I think we all know that watching your girlfriend, wife or Domme' get ready for a night time of activity is much more erotic, lasts longer than the actual sex in the bedroom. It's the mental that makes this lifestyle so pleasurable and painful.......All at the same time.

I had/have two very good friends, that are boys. They were in my life before beta. I hated the idea of not seeing them again. So did beta. He thought it was silly that two grown-ups should, arbitrarily, abandon otherwise, perfectly good relationships because they are "screwing each other's lights out."

So now, with that said, I have three men that are waiting for me. (All the time) They can't wait to see me, want to know what I'm wearing, where can they take me and so on. They can hardly contain themselves. They are full of anticipation (among other things) and of what the night might bring. Their libidos are stretched to the bursting point.

I could not give any more sex to beta so, taking it away was the best logical conclusion we could come up with. Since he could not provide the sex I wanted (I hate to say needed, but I do love it) I had two more-than-able and more-than-willing boyfriends, who thought it was a great way for us to go. They would provide the very thing that beta was not allowed to have. They couldn't wait for the next time they could go out with me. And neither could I. beta went into a constant state of heightened awareness, sensitivity, caring, and domestic behavior any woman would appreciate.

Since we were all "on the same page," it was easy to juggle such a multi-faceted relationship. Yes, I know, it sounds more like polyamory, and I guess it is, in a more defined sense. We all know each other and we all like each other. Everybody is getting what they need and want with only good side effects. For me, it is the best of a couple of worlds. I do not spend anytime trying to patch someone's ego or feelings. I spend my time enjoying my boyfriends and submissive while tormenting beta, endlessly.

My two boyfriends call, sometimes, to just say, "Hello," and, sometimes, to tell me they can't wait to see me again. WHAT'S A GIRL TO DO? Those calls makes the condo feel about 5 degrees warmer each time they do that. I have developed a "conditioned response," that is difficult to describe but is undeniably felt. It's a little electric and delivers a small squirt of moisture at the best possible spot.

I make sure beta knows this is happening to my body.
I make sure he "overhears" our phone calls, and sees the emails. He lives a ***d life, all day every day.

I am sure that we don't fit to the exact definition of a cuckold relationship. But it's not quite "poly'" either.

This is what works for us.

~Savannah

VaBeachCouple: This should be in a thread of its own.

amazing stories vabeachcouple

Dear imnpmpimwc3,

I am am sorry for breaking in here. My intention was not disrupt your group.

But you/you all were the closest I could find to our situation. I/we felt closer here than anywhere else when we decided to share our experience. I do feel bad in that we do not reflect this lifestyle that is apparent in the all the previous posts.

I have meant no disrespect.

~Savannah

I love what you are writing VanBeachCouple. Keep it coming!

fun_gall
New Year greetings: fun-gal, Danny, Malcom and Hubby.
At this stage of Hubby's cucking, do you feel he is manly?.
Quoting fun-gals post of 9 Oct 2007 17:20:18
"He is manly enough and I want to keep him that way."
All of the 86,000 viewers of this thread appreciate your candor in
your updates.
Thank You!!

Dear subserv,

Thank you for the nice comment.

I do wonder though, how many couples are more like us? Not really a cuckold relationship and not really poly. I still like the term erotic sharing.

I think, for the most part, both the man and woman, husband and wife, domme' and sub are willing partners.

The husband really revels in the offense of his wife with another man. The wife knows the pleasure outside a stereotypical relationship. They both arrive at a pleasure point along different avenues. At any time, one party could call, "Yellow" or "Red," and the cuckolding or wife sharing would stop. (I should think)

Yes, I "power" beta to accept ideas, relationships, isolation, and offense in all it's forms but he can always call a "safe word." He has not done so in 4 yrs but the option is always there.

I believe, for the most part, and for the benefit of both parties (not to mention safety) everyone really does know whats going on. WE still adhere to safe, sane and consensual in this lifestyle as if it were BDSM.

There are many, I think, that blend all this together (BDSM, cuckoldry, and polyamory) into a very enjoyable, erotic stew that is far more popular than most people think.

While beta and myself are no bell weather, we believe we are very average in almost everything, and there are probably a fair number just like us. (Or very similar, anyway)

~Savannah

Hope you all had a good holiday and hope you all have a great new year.
Thanks for the responses and to VaBeachCouple in particular. It is nice to see others sharing their experiences.

Just to let you all know what is happing. I am still seeing Danny and Malcolm. Malcolm is not as regular as he has other commitments as well as a young family. We did manage to get together for a threesome over Christmas and he and Danny gave me a good seeing too. I was pretty well knackered and sore next morning but it was well worth it. Hubby came into the bedroom a few times during the night to give us all a good clean up…………yes I have managed to get him to take another man’s cock in his mouth regularly now and he loves the taste of me on them.

Danny is a pretty regular visitor now and he has met some of my family. They know that we are an item now and know about my pregnancy. My Dad is very cool towards me but Mum is okay with things. In fact I think she might have a thing about black guys herself! They all cannot understand why Hubby is still living in the same house as us but we have told him that he is happy with things the way they are.

I am still in contact with Sylvester as well. He wants to come over at the end of the month to spend a few weeks with me. Hubby loves the idea but Danny is not so hot on it. I am sure that I will be able to sweet talk him round once I am certain that Sylvester will come though.

As for Hubby, he is loving every minute of it. He has to wear a condom most of the time because he leaks so much with excitement! He likes to undress both of us for bed at night and he always makes sure that I have something sexy to wear for Danny. I like him to get Danny nice and hard for me with his mouth. It really gets me horny watching him! I have also recently got Danny to masturbate hubby as well. I used to do it while he stood at the side of the bed after Danny and I had fucked and he had cleaned us both up, but one night I placed Danny’s hand around hubby’s cock and we jointly wanked him for a while before I took my hand away. Danny was happy to continue and it was good watching hubby cum at the hand of another man. Danny likes to tell him how much he enjoyed shagging me while he does it and this makes hubby cum very quickly!

So that is my little update. If any of you have any questions please fire away and I look forward to being in touch again soon.

xxxxx

Hello Fun Gal,

Every time i hear from You again i think it is just greatv what You are doing!

My question is how things are on Your hubbies side of the family. How do they react on the situation?

I am also wondering whether it isn't time that Your hubby gets some black cock himself from behind. Wouldn't You like to see that happen?

xxxxx

fun_gall
"Quoting fun-gal" from 23 Jan 2008 12:43:43
"As for future plans, Bill and I want to get him to eat creampies as well as things like taking Bill’s cock in his mouth after he has fucked me and getting him hard again. And of course, I would also love to see Bill fuck his ass."
You have creampies and cocksucking sorted, is ass fucking by Danny or Macolm
next?. It seems most of your goals have been met. Good show!. Did you meet
any resistance from Danny or Malcom when you insisted Hubby clean
their cocks.
Thanks for sharing.

Do people still think you and your husband are separated?

So Savannah what about doing all that do your husband do you enjoy? What does it do for you and how does it mke him feel that you like? How do you want him to feel when you do things like make the sex not very pleasurable for him and just use a bullet on his penis head? I notice you use the word *** a lot as well and just wondering what thinking of it in those terms does for you and how you want to make him feel.

And fun_gal, Im curious how far you want to take this with your hubby. It sounds like you greatly desire him to become slowly less relevent in the larger part of your life. Sort of like you are taking the intimacy away from him. I would really like to know what thats doing for you as well. Sort of like you are changing and in most cases taking away his "manhood" and sexuality. How does that make you feel to do that and how do you want him to feel? I know he gets hard at you doing these things but theres also something else happening to him as well.

Dear 4 inches,

I can appreciate your questions, as I know, sometimes, our little lifestyle is not atypical.

beta is not my husband. He was, at first, a submissive I met at a bdsm/swingers party about 4 yrs. ago. We got along so well that we became a couple, so to speak. Nonetheless, I was always his domme'.

I make no bones about wanting his presentation to me. I love the feeling of being placed so highly above him. I love everything he does for me. I manage to get all this, and more, by taking things away from him. I found, that taking the kind and amount of pleasure that he used to enjoy with me, was far more beneficial to our vanilla and bdsm lives.

As an example, letting him cum (at all) really diminishes his level of attention to me. He is not as fast to respond to my requests. He forgets to open the car door for me. He is not a respectful. It is hard to get him dressed for bed at night and he doesn't want to relax on the floor.

Why in the world would I want to let him behave like? I can get so much more out of him when I don't let anything out of him. It makes perfect sense to me. (I have to giggle with that tidbit.)

My enjoyment comes from two directions. (1) I love that feeling of having that undivided attention, all the time. He is always thinking of me.......He can't help himself. Ask your wife or girlfriend. She will tell you the same thing.

(2) I love having him suffer for me. I am truly free, to enjoy staying home with him or go out with my boyfriends. For instance, I love getting dressed up in matching, sexy underwear, soft flowing dress and some nice jewelry. I only do this for my boyfriends, now. beta only gets bluejeans and no make-up. He is well aware of, what and why, I do this to him.

beta suffers terribly. It's a troured existence for him. (How about that?)

You are probably right that I should not use the word "***" like I do. As it is, I have only a limited command of the English Language and it's the easiest modifier that I could use to describe his day to day struggles. I will work on that in the future.

4 inches there are so many more examples that I could tell you about.....I have a digital picture frame. Many of those pictures that rotate through are of my two boyfriends. None are of him. beta can't help but look. I like making comments about them. When friends or other condo owners meet here, they see it too. The offense beta feels is wonderfully exciting. I am going to guess you know the reamister why. LOL

Just sitting in the condo, lets say watching TV, is difficult for beta. There is no effort on my part, at all, yet he is reminded every minute as the pics scroll by with my lovers and me smiling back at him. It's a constant reminder of his place with me.

You know, if I stopped going out my boyfriends, today, and never did anything again, beta would still have to endure that picture frame......over and over.....forever.

The physical part of our relationship, pales by comparimister, to the mental side of the equation. The anguish beta must work through makes him the most devoted, beautiful, hardworking and accepting cuckold any women could want. I love him dearly. He is just not allowed to have me. That's what boyfriends are for, LOL.

Does that sound like *** to you? LOL

Our lifestyle is based on love and respect with lots of communication and understanding. Our commitment to each other is probably better than a lot of marriages which is more like quid pro quo. (I'll do this only if you do that)
"Cheating," for us, in reality, would be like eating dog food when the steaks are on the grill. We/I like rib eyes.......marinated with onions and mushrooms. Why settle for Alpo?

~Savannah

I thought I might jump in here as Savannah has taken most of the writing and explaining.

In particular, I thought I might give 4 inches the best explination of the bullet and raincoat milking technique.

I am not sure when this started. Maybe a year ago? Something like that.

Savannah wanted me to have some relief/release but wanted very little to do with it. She wanted no cum to touch her. She wanted to make sure there was no physical or emotional contact with me. My release was to be almost completey void of anything except the desired effect of separating her boyfriends from myself.

This kind of milking was certainly that.

With the raincoat in place Savannah tapes the bullet into place with a two inch wide sticky medical, hospital gause.. It's very flexible.

There is a small button on the end of the bullet and once we are settled down she just pushes the button. Then, she turns her back to me and say's, "I hope you enjoy your milking tonight. You do know, this is not how I treat my boyfriends." And....."Don't make a mess when your done."

And that's pretty much it. While the time varies somewhat. In about 3 or 4 minutes I cannot stop what has been put in motion. I am grabbing for the button immediatly afterwards because of my sensitivity after cumming.

I can hear her chuckle when the whole process has run it's course. I am undone with the whole thing. But she has no real input or investment. Other than falling arelax there is nothing but a pat on my shoulder for everything that I went through.

This happens about once a month. Her boyfriends know I am treated like this. they like the fact, she stays very clean for them even if there are long periods when they don't see each other.

beta

Hmmmm....how far do I want to take this? Not sure to be honest. I am quite happy to keep things as they are at present. Hubby a large part of my life but having the freedom to take lovers. In the longer term I can see that we might end up in a Mary, Jo and Steve situation. Me with a black male as my partner but hubby still around, but that is a long way off at the moment.

I would disagree with you about him not being a large part of my life and taking my hubby's manhood away from him. He is still very much at the centre of things and without his participation I would not be getting the enjoyment that I am doing. As for his manhood that is still very much intact. He is probably having the horniest time of his life at the moment.

Can you please explain exactly what this technique is.....perhaps my hubby would like to try it!

Hey fun gal,

About a year ago, Savannah dreamed up this method. I am not sure where she got it from, however there is a FemDom Club for Women and I do suspect that was the source.

There really is not that much too it. She knows I am "full" and believes that some relief for me is OK but she wants does not want any emotional or physical contact with me. Since I don't get off by myself, she does like to "direct the action," so to speak.

I am stimulated to attention. I roll a raincoat over "Fred," and she tapes a small cylinder vibrator to the very end. This is right under my button. We both know the outcum. Within minutes I am squirming with a numbing orgasm that leaves me drained and terribly empty.

This is nothing compared to what her boyfriends get. The process is sterile and empty.

While I enjoy getting off. There is something that is wildly missing when this kind of "milking" takes place.

As a note, I only wear one raincoat when this happens. I wear two raincoats if she allows me in her.

beta

I hope this thread wont disappear into obscurity

Please update us soon fun_gall, its been a while.
Thanks