Wives introducing their husbands to cuckolding

Another update for those interested.


Danny
Things are going well with Danny. He regularly stays over two nights’ midweek and I am starting to stay over at his every other weekend. The sex is always good and we are working away through the Kama Sutra DVD. We left the bedroom door ajar on Monday night and hubby stood outside watching, rubbing himself. We were practising the Tigress position (me on top with my back to him, for the uninitiated).

Danny is getting more relaxed with having hubby around and if he fancies shagging me while we are watching television he will tell hubby to switch it off and leave the room. Hubby has been getting a few creampies in the mornings after Danny has left and he has to take care of the bed laundry now, making sure there are clean sheets next day.

I have also moved some of my clothes into Danny’s flat. I made hubby pack some things up for me – not a lot of things but just enough to make sure I have a few changes of clothes and underwear. Hubby will also be decorating Danny’s bedroom over the August bank holiday while Danny and I have a weekend break with his youngren. Danny has a typical bachelor’s bedroom – nothing feminine at all about it, so I want it re-done. Hubby will also be getting a dressing table for me, for all those smalls and feminine things!

I will be staying over at Danny’s tonight. It is his weekend for to have the youngren and I will get to meet them tomorrow morning. I will also get to meet the ex-wife – which should be interesting.

Malcolm
I finally got to spend time alone with Malcolm last week. We missed out last time because his pregnant girlfriend was unwell. I feel a bit guilty about relaxing with him because of the situation. She is 19 and is due in a few weeks. He says she knows about us but I know what guys are like!

Hubby was there with me the first time he came to see me. I made hubby help me dress. I wore a short pleated kilt skirt with a tight top. I just wore stockings without bra or panties. We did the introductions and then I sent hubby off to work, telling him to ring me first before he left the office. Malcolm was quite surprised with the way I had him under control.

Malcolm was a bit disappointing the first time. I was expecting the rough, rugged, name calling sex but he was pretty timid. I had to do most of the running and although the actual sex was good I was missing that aggression. I suppose it had all been an act of bravado in front of his mates. The next time was different though. I had already spoken to him about my disappointment over the phone and I had told him that next time I expected to be treated like a slut bitch. He didn’t disappoint. On Tuesday I ended up with torn knickers and a few bruises but the orgasms were out of this world. I was glad that Danny wasn’t due over that night because I couldn’t have taken him.


Hubby
Hubby is living life on the edge at the moment; having two men vying for my body and affections, but he is loving it. Full sex with him is out altogether now but I take him regularly in hand, taunting him and teasing him about my lovers. He cums very quickly and is often ready to cum again. I know that he hurts when I stay over at Danny’s but I also know that it excites him too. I sometimes phone him just before we head off to bed and tell him what we are up too and about to do. I know that while I am lying there in Danny’s arms he will masturbating. He also gets a blow by blow account when I get home and a good helping of TLC….so he never feels left out altogether!

Hey, so in your mind is full intercourse sex out with hubby forever? Or would you only do it to simply taunt him and show him what he is actually missing? If you were to start dating and commit to Danny emotionally, would you expect hubby to still be completely faithful to you and the only sex he ever gets are handjobs?

Val_Gal, it sounds like things are getting serious with Danny, what with you moving things into his place. Is he still on you to separte with your husband?

Have you brought up to your husband the idea of still living with him but being "just friends?"

I have to say your story keeps getting hotter and hotter.

I would never rule it out forever but when he does make a play for me I gently move his hand away and tell him that 'it' belongs to Danny and Malcolm now and that he should not be touching me without their permission. Of course, I know that he would never ask.

And yes, it is taunting, and I enjoy it very much.



Of course he has to be completely faithful to me, handjobs or not!

Fun_Gall you moving your husband's hand away is very, very erotic.

Does your last sentence imply that handjobs may become a thing of the past?

It really does seem like the days of you and your husband being a romantic couple are coming to an end.

I am not moving in with Danny and if the relationship got to that stage he would come to live with me. I sometimes stay over and it is nice having a change of clothes there istead of taking an overnight bag all the time.



Yes but I am not ready for that yet



We have touched on it but things are a long way off on that scene at the moment.

Oh, I didn't mean you'd be moving in with Danny. I just meant keeping some stuff at his place is a positive step in the relationship.

How have you touched on the "just friends" thing with your husband and how did he react? Did he get hard?

How do you feel when Danny presses you to make the separation official. Does it turn you on? Make you feel wanted? Or make you feel pressured?

I agree. I love doing it. I love letting him kiss me and when his hand wanders down there, either moving it away or giving him a look of disapproval and asking him to stop. It lets him know that what I once gave to him, I now give to someone else, and that which was once his belongs to someone else now. It gets him very excited too. He will sometimes say "I bet you don't stop Danny touching you?" and I will tell him "Of course I don't it's his now!". He gets really hard at that!



I can't see me ever stop giving him a hand job but he also cannot take it for granted that every time he is horny, a hand job awaits. Sometimes I touch him and don't take it further and other times I might start to masturbate him and then stop. Make him plead and beg for it before finishing him off.

Dude this is supposed to be a supportive forum. If you - like many of us - like what Fun_Gall has to say then let her know. If you don't then just move on.

You know they old saying "Don't say anything if you don't have anything nice to say."

What's the point in coming here and giving people cuckolds brownie - unless your kink is being a judgmental prick?

Fun_gall had the right idea from the beginning--this denny asshole is nothing but a pathetic control freak who has to piss all over anything he can't wrap his sweaty paws around.

Reamistering with a troll is out of the question. You see that red x next to his user name? I urge everyone enjoying this forum to click on the x, then fill out the reamister why this prick is so annoying--just like I did.

And to denny--bye-bye, asshole.

Rock on Cageme.

Denny is a self absorbed twatwaffle.

wow, hot and exciting yet tears my heart up

Thought you guys might like to know that I will be off to the US soon for a couple of weeks. I think I mentioned a while ago that I have been chatting to a lady from there that lives the lifestyle (She married her black lover and her ex-husband lives with them). Anyway, I have got to know her quite well over the last while and she has invited me over. Her ex will be going to stay with his brother and his family and I will have his room. Her husband will be off-limits but Mary has promised me that I will be taken well care of!

I thought long and hard about it and after discussing it with hubby and Danny I have decided to go. I wouldn’t say that either of them is entirely happy with my decision but I am sure they will get over it! I will be going alone of course and I am no doubt in for a good time! I will keep you guys posted.

Meanwhile, I will be staying with Danny this weekend……it will be his last weekend with me for a while so intend to make it special for him!

Has this lady given you any thoughts about eventually making your husband your ex husband but still living with him?

When you talked about it with your husband and Danny, whose opinion was more important to you?

Did she give you any insight into how her husband handled becoming her ex?

Are you still off birth control? If so how would getting pregnant by Danny effect your relationship?

Are you starting to consider yourself single instead of married?

Yes, most definitely!



He handled it very well apparently but I hope to have a good chat with him about it and get his persepctive. I know from Mary's point of view she found it very exciting. He ex was the best man as well!



It was about the same. Hubby is disappointed that he can't be there but very excited at the thought of me having African Americans fucking me. Danny is a little jealous and hurts too but he knows I am a free woman.



Yes I am still off birth control. If I get pregnant now it could be either Danny's or Malcolm's. Danny is not bothered about who the man would be...as long as it wasn't hubby.



Single

God, your responses are so fucking sexy.

I wonder if your husband knows you don't consider yourself married to him anymore?

It's almost like in your mind he's already your ex.

I am certain that deep down he does. I don't wear his ring anymore and I don't let him touch me. So it is obvious........he is probably too afraid to ask the question because he will have to confront the issue then.

If he asked the question what would you say? If he brought up the idea of being "really separated" how would you respond?

Denny,
I remember when I spoke up against fungall. She tried to spank me too. Time for this eagle to cuckolds brownie again....

Fungall can't handle criticism. Her fricken post is littered with self-absorbtion. She doesn't give a cuckolds brownie about her husband. For some reamister - She NEEDS him! When that's done, she'll kick his ass to the curb.

My disapointment will be when this all comes crashing down. The board will never hear about it.

You know, the suicide attempt?
The red and guts sprayed all over her bedroom, with the note that says "I love you, but I can't have you". "I can't take it anymore" "Goodbye"

What's that worthless piece of skin around a vagina called?
Oh ya, FUNGALL!

I hope I'm not the only one who just reported that last comment to the moderators.

I am trying to work out whether or not you are just a nasty piece of work or a simpleton under the influence of take or something............

Just to make it loud and clear.....I DO CARE ABOUT MY HUSBAND If I didn't care about him I would have left him a long time ago and still be doing the same things as I do now. Just because the fundamentals of our relationship has changed doesn't mean to say I don't love him. There will also be no 'kicking him into touch'. He will always be part of my life for as long as he wants me to be.

In caring about him I also make sure that whatever I do he is able to handle it. I know him better than anyone and I know just what buttons to press and when to press them. This has been a journey of discovery for both of us. When I started out wanting something 'extra' in my marriage I had the choice of doing what countless others do, like my sister, have affairs and cheat with complete disregard for their husbands/partners I didn't want to do that because I love him and didn't want to hurt him. Instead, with the help of CP I brought him on board. I gradually introduced him into the world I wanted to go into and as we have journeyed I have always had thought for his well-being. Hubby is where he is now because that is where he wants to be. If he wasn't enjoying the ride he would have got off a long time ago!

Oleeaglefeather
You need to get a dose of reality. You seem to be living in a strange and gory world. And as for the anatomy of a Vagina.....It is obvious to me that your biggest problem is not being able to get one for yourself! Perhaps if you were a nicer permister you wouldn't have this problem.

As for not being able to take criticism.....I am a lawyer and I can mix it with the best of them. Just be sure you have a very thick skin because my tongue can be like paint stripper!

Fun_Gall you are awesome.

Sometimes I wish I was your husband.

True, but clearly you aren't one of them denny1970. Rarely have I seen such adolescent behavior on this site as you exhibit. Your most recent post makes those Republican and Democratic commentators who scream non-sequitur talking points and back-handed insults at each other on US talk shows. Indeed it is so hyperventilating - in the "did not and you are too and besides what is wrong with that; oh I always knew you liked him best" manner - as to be almost unintelligible.

But let us at least start with this one, as it is the heart of the matter:



Let us review: You intruded upon a civil discussion with an unrequested, harshly judgmental, mocking attack. In the course of that attack, quite aside from various implied faults, you accused fun_gall of outright dishonesty. Have you checked the definition of "castigate" lately?

It is depressingly common for people to justify their rudeness by saying that they were "only giving their opinion," or "just being honest." Let us be clear: unsolicited criticism is rude. It has been considered so in Western society for a very, very long time. It is particularly rude when what you are criticizing is people's private conduct and relationships. (It is not as if fun_gal has suggested a political program here.) I would also add that criticism is not the same as opinion. To be constructive and contribute to a conversation, it needs to be written respectfully. (In case you weren't sure trashing people for not having made "smart decisions," and calling them liars, is not respectful.)

The invitation implicit in a bulletin board like this is to enter into civil discourse, not to use your anonymity by being rude. Fun_gal, who is our hostess here, if you will, made it very clear to you that your tone was unacceptable and your advice unwanted:



At this point, etiquette offered you two options: You could apologize and change your tones to suit this thread, or you could leave it and find some other corner of this large site or vast internet where you feel more comfortable.

Instead, like a takes who's been cut off, you got courser and louder and more obnoxious. I know you are safe (as we all are) behind your screen name, but that is no excuse for making a scene.

You say you have no control issues. Good. Prove it by leaving the thread. Show us you don't need to dominate this discussion by leaving us in peace to return to our civil discussion.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Yes, perhaps it is the way I have put things across that may have confused you. I do tend to be perhaps brief and impermisteral and this might come across as being uncaring. And yes, perhaps I should encourage him to pen his feelings and explain things from his viewpoint.

I am not sure though that I would describe him as having the time of his life - in the way that I would feel in his place. I am starting to learn a lot about emotional masochism. I know a bit about physical masochism but I knew little about emotional masochism till I started cuckolding him. I know that he has all the normal feelings a permister has such as jealousy and hurt but at the same time he gets so turned on by it all. I know that he finds it hard to explain and understand why he should get so excited about me being with another man and be so jealous at the same time.

It was for OleEaglefeather

Thanks for your comments.

Putting hubby in petticoats or womens clothing is not something that we have tried or ever will. Hubby is not into that and it's not something that I would like to see either.

Glad that it works for you both though.

I love your posts fun_gall.

I know you are reluctant to post pix, because it could potentially increase your chances of being recognised. But it would be SO nice if you share a 'non-facial' shot or two with all your admirers!

It sounds like your sister has a similar sex-drive to yours!

I can't wait to hear about her last weekend with Danny.

Maybe in the future



Yes she does....she's not into black guys though. I love my Sis but I don't like the way she puts her marriage at risk.

Hello fun gal,

I just want to compliment you on your thoughtful and generous posts. I also hope that you will not let any negative commentary dissuade you from continuing. Emotional masochism is fraught with misunderstanding due to the incredible emotional complexity of a true cuckold marriage. Nobody has the right to judge you publicly, and you have no need justify your life and your marriage to anybody. We simply fortunate that you share with us.Few people have ever been as sentient and spot-on as yourself. My compliments.

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