Need Some Advice!

WIMP2U: EXACTLY! When my wife and I first got into this MFM thing we had (and still have sometimes) a lot difficulty finding a guy who doesn't chicken out at the last minute, or just thinks the husband may be bi and doesn't trust the situation.
What we did was to have my wife go out by herself on "dates" with good looking guys that would hit on her at bars, lounges, and at work. She would give them our telephone number, leading him to think she was single. She would then go on a date with the guy and then break it to him gently that she was in fact married, and that her husband approved of her having sex with other guys, but with one condition...the husband (me) would get to join her and her boyfriend for (at least) watching the action and keeping her safe from harm. I figured that later as we got to know him better I could also participate as a 3some. Sometimes the guy would right away run for the hills, or just refuse, and if he so refused she would cut him off immediately. No pussy for him unless he agreed to have me present. In this manner we managed to establish relationships with a couple of horny guys who we used every now and then to satisfy my wife's horniness, and my erotic voyeristic needs to see her in action with another man.
The main thing to remember about letting her temporarily branch out on her own with guys, is to make it clear to her that it is only being done for the benefit of the BOTH of you. Make sure she understands that she cannot go out and start falling inlove with any guy or your marriage could be in jeopardy. She must agree that as soon as practical she has to give the guy an ultimatum...have my husband with us or he can just hit the road! If he's really into her he will agree with the arrangement and you guys will have yourselves a steady contact you can give a bootie call to whenever you're both getting horny for a 3some.
Hope this info helps you. It has many times worked for us.

Pitfalls? Well, for one, its almost assurred that she will almost always go for "one on one," leaving you out in the cold.

Likely, you'll end up with you cum in your hand, she'll end up with some other guys' in her womb. If that's not a pitfall to you, encourage her to go for it!

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