wanting some strange but hubby likes to talk and but no do!

he talks about it , during sex , then when we are finished he says he was kidding , but 5yrs of talk and thats all i think about!!!!

Have you told him that you would like to make the talk come true? Maybe he is nervous about how you would take it if you thought he was serious.

which part of the fantasies are most appealing to you, which are most appealing to him? if you figure that out could be a good place to start.

Have you told him you need more? If he was to say no, not at all, is it worth losing him for, to find a man that will?

You cold try tuff love, start witholding favors to him, rewards tied to small steps twards your fnatasy.

I think he just not in the mood to do it after we are done sexing it up. If i just set it up before hand i think he would do anything,, but i am nervous he is just all talk.

ill keep you guys up to date,,,,,,,i have a plan

He's the type that once he cums, he loses all interest. You need to start fooling around with a chasity belt for him.

Make him wear it all day for two days to get him horny. Then dom him lightly when he comes home, make him kiss your feet, help you change, etc.

Then have a stud come over, power your hubby to kneel in the corner and watch as you give him a massage and hand job. Start with just that, nothing more. Tell your hubby before hand that it's only a handjob and that most of your clothes will stay on. No matter what, just do the hand job.

When the stud cums and leaves, you finally let your cucky out of his chasity belt and then allow him to jack off while sucking your toes and thinking about what he just saw.

Guaranteed to work.

Then each time after that, you do more with the stud. Blowjob, tit sucking, etc. Until on about the fifth time, you are full on fucking him while your cucky kneels in the corner with his chasity belt.

From an other thread I posted in:
1. Start with some photoshopped images of you with other men. Show him what they could be doing to you while he watched.

2. It is a very big step from talking the talk to walking the walk.
So you might want to try baby steps:
a. having phone sex with an other guy, or having web cam sex.
b. giving the other guy just a blow job while hubby watches.
c. if hubby isn't comfortable about being there when the other guy does you, then you could have hubby listen in and send him camera phone shots. You could also video you and the other guy then give hubby the video.

3. Maybe hubby will never feel comfortable watching. So you might have to find a guy who just wants to watch and clean you, or both of you, up afterward.
So few walk the walk!!
If I could have even 1 wife for every 100 dreamers, I would have a guy's wife every night!

So how did your plan work?

I'm a hubby who's spent at least 5yrs talking about it, going over the fantasy while we fuck ,sometimes she'd even tell me about guys shed fucked before we were married, that would get me so hard knowing she was telling me the truth about what a bad girl she was for these guys ,she would even call there names and beg them to fuck her harder, while we fucked, so I could imagine what she sounded like when they were in her, it got to the stage were I could only make love if we talked about this fantasy, we then progressed onto phone sex and although the experience made her cum four times, it also brought up a lot of insecurities in our relationship I hadn't realized how frustrated I'd made her, ONLY talking about it almost ever time when we made love, and that she also didn't really want to do it ,and felt uncomfortable with the hole idea. especially not liking me asking about old boyfriends ,I'd been so wrapped in my own fantasy that I failed to notice how unhappy she was with it, that was one year ago we don't mention it now, but it hasn't stopped me getting turned on by it, I still have to imagine her sucking and fucking other guys just to make myself cum only now I don't share it, I've got to be honest and say I'm having difficulty understanding myself because as turned on as I get the desire only lasts as long as I've got a hardon and as soon as I've cum I lose interest in the fantasy and often feel guilty about it, I know I couldn't handle it for real, when I read your thread it occurred to me that maybe after talking about it for so long that maybe that's all she can think about to, but I don't feel it would be good idea to ask,

hey your not my wife are you? lol

Um, the mental piece becomes huge as this evolves. It is far more than "when I have a hard on." Your mind becomes the ultimate sexual organ....

Please let us know what your plan is and maybe we can help refine it.
As cucks our selves we all have our own ideas but you will have lots of options to choose from
Just a thought
Licks And kisses

I'm the same way, but for about a month or two I had to 'get into the mode' so after someone had their way with her I'd be ok with it. I never thought I'd be ok with it but she snuck one in on me while we were fighting and said she fucked her ex, my emotional shock was off the charts.

Not bad of course, but like you just got knews that your friend ran over your dog. "No... you didn't... did you?", lol. I reached down there shoved a finger in and yep, nice and wet.

Anyway, off my story and onto your predicament - being the permister that I am, and the permister you have now, you have to make a judgement call on that permister. Atleast, in my humble opinion. I'm a very jealous permister, and she knew me well enough to know when to spill the beans.

if you truely want to see how he will react why dont you just go out for a night and TELL him you fucked someone else....you dont actually have to do it right away but if he thinks you have then you will truely SEE what he thinks about it now wont you?? or do things like set up a hotmail account in a mans name and send yourself emails and say its from someone you were with....you can try different things before you go out and screw someone else to find out just how much of it truely IS talk because once it is done you cant take it back.....thread very carefully!! if both parties are way into it then i say go for it but by the sounds of it...he is ok with just thinking another man is having you but not all that sure of how much he wants to share!!!!

Um, If you're going to tell him you fucked, you may as well do it for real...

umm this would be the case if she knew he wouldnt leave her ass if she DID fuck someone else...all i was saying was experiment without going all the way that way if he doesnt like the idea no harm DONE!!!!!

Well seems to me if the chance is good he react badly, then why "experiment" with a lie? You'd likely get the same result if it was real or fantasy. So I suspect she needs some more prelim work first, no?

i dont agree...fantasy is one thing...bringing it to life is quite another....with fantasy there are no hurt feelings and if it happens its NOT what he is into then no harm done and she KNOWS without a doubt!! you start bringing others into it and your crossing a line that you cant go back on!! best of luck to her!!

Mistress_Lynn


SO you recommend that she lie......nice.


either drop it and don't think about it at all...or be honest.


Lie...me thinks not.

Are you people nuts???? You really think this is a woman?

No, most everyone here is a male, then there are think they are's and wanna be's.

then there are think they are's and wanna be's. females, that is

Neahotchick reveal yourself! I don't know if yr a woman or not - but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt... I do understand someone who is massively turned on by the idea (so am I) but just think of the moment just after you, have come, and then she is in the hands of a stranger being done deep - while you have lost your steam and are helpless... That moment I can understand that you may feel you've lost her, that she does not belong to you any more: hence, fear. If you can overcome that moment, it's sheer pleasure after that....

My opinion? Discuss it with him in foreplay, talk with genitals alert and get him to agree on some first step (as someone above said), e.g. cam

Go for it!We only live once!
Panos

No, Neahotchick is off to the closet to wank........wack wack, wack......