What are the basic mistakes to avoid when getting started?

Hello!
I'm new to the community here, and we are brand new to cuckolding. We are still doing research, and we are talking with a Bull.
What we need to know, are the basic pitfalls to avoid... realistic, not fantasy.
She's never done anything like this before and is nervous (but is anxious for "good sex"), so any help would be great!!

yes we were into the life style for a year then we decieded to get out

COMMUNICATION AND HONEST!!! THIS IS A GREAT SITE. I SUGGEST DOING A LOT OF READING OF STORIES, TOGETHER AND SEPARATELY,COMPARE FEELINGS, THOUGHTS, FEARS, FANTASIES AND POSSIBILITIES.
GOOD LUCK AND KEEP US POSTED
Who's Your Bitch.single,cuz not man enuf to attract a woman.
Will meet for sissy sex with yor cuck!!

Do not appear to be too keen or she may change her mind. She has to feel that this is as much for her as it is for you. DO watch it may hurt you but it will make you come face to face with the reality of what you have been fabtasising about. If you find the hurt to be a sweet kind of pain then you are a true cuck. If you cannot stomach it, then give it up, it is not for you. BUT how do you stop her once you have let her taste another, better cock? You know her best but there is always a risk when you open that door. Do not leave her alone with the bull, make it so it is your game as a couple and the bull is the extra player in the game. You 2 are the main actors. She may have contempt for you afterwards so. be prepared for it.

Interesting point about the contempt, Sa Tyr.

Tonight she drew up a 1 month behavior contract, with rules and goals. This is our starting point. We likely won't be able to meet our new bull until after that 1 month is up, so this is our cuck relationship between just the two of us getting started.

THANKS FOR THE UPDATE....Newcucks are one of my favorite categories!!! Luv to here about women who are equally into it from the start!! Makes me have hope for the(MY) future
Who's Your Bitch.single,cuz not man enuf to attract a woman.
Will meet for sissy sex with yor cuck!!

edit...Luv to hear about women....HERE,HERE!!!
Who's Your Bitch.single,cuz not man enuf to attract a woman.
Will meet for sissy sex with yor cuck!!

A few years back (when I was 25 and my long-term girl friend was 24) I was intrigued enough by cuckolding from what I read and saw online that I decided to make something happen. It turned me on so much to think about her being drilled by another guy. Our sex was getting boring too - I think she was disatisfied - she just wasn't cumming as often as she used to, and she often rejected my advances. She wasn't open enough for me to really pursue the whole cucking thing, but I was turned on by the idea of her sneaking around behind my back. It just so happened that a good looking guy was interested, and she was drawn to him. She was attactive also which helped (great body), an 8.5 out of 10 I'd say all up, and I was a 6, so I new the temptation was there. I encouraged her to spend plenty of time with this guy and I often hinted to her that it was natural to be attracted to other people. Finally it happened, the jealousy was insanely erotic, but it kind of got out of control, she then wanted "time apart", and that meant of course that sex with me was finished. A couple of times I came home to hear them in the spare bedroom going at - and for much longer than I could ever maintain that kind of bedspring action without cumming. She had never been quite as vocal with me either. I recall sitting on the floor in the corner of our adjacent bedroom sobbing like a baby. Her sessions with him grew frequent, and my pleads to her to stay in my life were humiliating and pathetic. A month later and she moved out.

I have concluded that sharing is a lifestyle I should keep as a fantasy only. I do not have the stomach for it in real life. I applaud those that do. Good luck!