Tell me about Thai wives and cuckolding

I'm going to Thailand next month for six weeks with a Thai buddy who told me to bring lots of condoms. He says in some areas, the available women outnumber the men they're looking fo 10 to one. I suppose he means well-off men (not takess or poor or ugly) who can give them a good life.

He asked me if I wanted to find a beautiful Thai wife and said it's soooo easily done. Anyway, if I married a Thai woman, how are they in terms of sexuality and companionship. I have the Rosetta Stone language program so i'll know a bit of Thai.

Will a Thai girl fuck around outside marriage if you want her to. The ideal woman to me is one who loves sex and if you want her to play with others with or without you there she will. It'd be great to watch her pick up a guy a a bar and return that night or the next morning full of his cum for me to eat. I'd not want her to fall for the guy.

So, knowing that, what are Thai women like?

By the way, to add to the above comments, as you can see from my profile pics I have a giant cock and know how to use it, and my touch, kiss, and words to pleasure all of a woman's body all night long through many orgasms. I just loved it when I watched past grilfriends fuck other men and I'd have loved it if they fucked other men on their own when the opportunity arose.

My Thai buddy tells me that Thai women are more grateful for what you do for them and that they really love to please you. Might that extend to you wanting her to cuck you?

If she were submissive, even better. I shared a serious girlfriend, C, with other men and a woman. She got to where she said she’d fuck anyone I asked her to, any time, anywhere, single or group, male or female. She loved being “told” to do it. It got her very excited. One story I told her during sex was where I called her up and said she couldn’t come home that night until she had another man’s cum in her pussy. She adored that story, and the concept of “having” to be naughty.

Once, I asked her if she’d like to go to a lifestyle party once a month, if babysitting wasn’t a problem. She said she’d rather go to a lifestyle party once a week, and then further delighted me by saying she’d also like to fuck some other guy three days a week, preferably three different guys!

I hoped that one evening she’d say how she met someone that day. She’d take my hand beneath her dress and I’d feel another man’s cum. It never happened, but we fantasized about it a lot. She wanted to, and I encouraged her.

If I asked a Thai wife to play with others, what do you think she'd do?

Hello arkansan,

I think I'm in the same situation as you are. I also have had bull and cuck experience. I also have a giant cock and know how to use it. I'm also planing to go to Thailand (or the Phillipines) and stay there many weeks. And last but not least, I'm also looking after an asiatic wife who would cuck me.

I agree with you in all your feelings about being a cuck, and I think that's why we have arrived to the same question: to marry a thai (or filipino) woman.

On the other hand, I don't know if it would be better a young woman (from eighteen to twentyfive) or an older one to convince her or to teach her or to directly find the right one who does it for herown. What do you thonk about this?
cornido

cornido,

I didn't come to the conclusion as you did. My Thai buddy had a calander of Thai girls (knockouts) and I really liked one. he said you should come to Thailand with me, then. He asked if I wanted a Thai wife and said they are very kind and greateful for what you do for them and that they want to please. I said I wouldn't mind marrying a Thai woman and so we're going.

I think the younger ones are beautiful, but in this country women in their 30's and 40's are often knockouts. A younger one might be more apt to leave you for someone younger. That said, I don't need a woman who cucks me for her own reamisters. A submissive young woman would attract men easier and even if she begins fucking others to please you, she'd come to love it and then do it for both of your pleasure.

So, I'd want to find one 25-35, but very fit and pretty with a kind, playful, wonderful permisterality. The danger with younger women is that they don't know what they want. They might age a couple years and decide they want babies or to return to Thailand or to fall in love with a guy her age.

arkansan....hope we can talk private..

For the issue of whether to get a Thai or Filipina to cuck you. IMHO the Thais' have a much more open view of sex and are less likely to always want to tie sex and love together. Most Pinay's have the Catholic guilt conditioning and are more apt to lie and hide their screwing around.

After all the Catholic church is very strong in the Philippines and the Catholic church instills that sex is a sin. Buddhists do not have this false conditioning and have a much more open and healthy view of sex.

I have been both places, and again, IMHO if you can break the language barriers in Thailand you will be much better off finding what you desire in a Thai woman. They are much more open-minded and do like to please.

Also in my experiences a Thai woman ages much more gracefully than the Pinays.

Good luck and enjoy the hunt.

If you have a tourist visa, beware: they expire after 30 days and you don't want to have discussions with Thai Police, honest.
A well known trick is going to Laos for a couple days and then come back with a new visa.
DON'T falll in love. It is easy, but you WILL get ripped off of all your belongings if you marry a Thai.

posarrobba,

why will you get ripped off of all your belongings if you marry a Thai? The dowry? Will she just want your money then leave you? Will her family demand you send them support money? Do they love to gamble your money away?

Anyone dispute posarrobba's conclusion?

arkansan, yes to all of your questions.
And don't think that you can afford it anyway because Thailand is cheap: once they grab a farang they become insatiable.
Browse the net for thai marriage and you'll find a lot of horror stories. My permisteral experience confirms them.
Of course it is possible to get lucky and find a good wife. It seems a very rare occurrence.
Also remember that under Thai laws anything you acquire after marriage is split 50-50 in case of divorce, and any land property acquired in the Kingdom must be in wife's name.

posarrobba or other permisters,

In the liklyhood that ypoou'll get ripped off, is there a difference in whether you marry a bar girl or a university student or girl with a regular job? Any difference if her family's in poverty, poor. middle-class, upper middle-class. or wealthy? Does it matter if she's from Bankok or the poorer northeast? If you buy land in Thailand in her name and you divorce, do you get half of it?

I'd expect that marrying a girl from a background of rough surroundings (bar girl, etc.) would give her a defensive attitude and make greediness and subtrafuge more likely. I'd think marrying a girl from a more conventional background, like a university student or a village girl far from Bankok would be less likely to tie you to someone who wants only your money and to fleece you for all she can get.

What do you think?

Married to a Thai nearly 15 years. They are built for sex, and love sex. Sexy women and happy that your cock will be in their pussy.

Bringing one home to Arkansas is a different matter. Be very careful. Mostly what foreign met get are women with kids, and they will tell you that the man disappeared. In reality the man is behind the scenes helping to figure out how to extract your money. You will never marry them.

Despite what you may think, that you are getting ripped off, it's really the girl that is putting out pussy to a dumbfuck foreigner who doesn't speak her language and has poor manners. Thailand is actually a pretty rich country. Note the good roads, decent schools, markets full of food, etc. Most Thais don't want to leave Thailand. Get that through your skull right now.

Assume you do get married to one, a lot of American men are extremely insensitive afterward, even if they don't know it. They bring back some hot tanned Thai babe, the kind of woman that they'd never get back in Arkansas, and then expect that these women have no needs. If you bring a Thai woman home, stock your kitchen with jasmine rice, fish sauce, coconut milk, a good rice cooker, etc. DO NOT FUCK THIS UP. Make sure she has food from Thailand, there are online Thai grocery that will sell you a month worth of food for $300.

Another poster is right, when he said Thai women age well My wife is nearly 40 and still smoking hot. And I mean steaming-wet-pussy smoking hot. And she absolutely worships my thick white cock. Un-Fucking-Believable how good she is to fuck. I have been married year after year after year, and never stop marveling at how nice it feels to fuck her.

Countrywall

Wonderful advice. I live in northwest Arkansas on a mountaintop in a nice home, so don't worry that I'm some south-Arkansas redneck. I know about jasmine rice (and stick rice). I have a 25 pound bag of jasmine rice to take to the Thai monk at the Bhuddist temple near here this Sunday.

After my last bif case ends this upcoming Tuesday (I'm a retired lawyer) I'll start on my Rosetta Stone Thai language program. They only have one unit but at least I'll be able to say the basics and have at least a shaky foundation to build upon in learning Thai.

We have Asian markets to supply the rice, sauces, and other Thai food necessities and I'd have no reluctance to order any cooking equipment she desires. Plus, I'd love to help her cook. I learn fast and it's so much more fun to do it together rather than one sitting watching TV as the other one cooks.

Also, with my retirement rolling into my bank account no matter where I live, if she wanted to live in Thailand, why not? I'd rather not go through another NW Arkansas winter. If she wants to come to the US, I'd keep her fully stocked with food from local markets or online sources (what's that web address?)

So, I'm decidely not a dumbfuck forigner, i'm very respectful and not rude, I'm trying to learn about the customs and language before I go and will try to learn more in-country.

Thanks for your advice, CountryWall. based what I've said in this reply, what comes to your mind?

I know a decent amount about Thai women and the culture. The most complete and accurate thing I have ever heard to dicribe Thai women is that as a culture they view love differently than Westerners. We tend to think of love in romance and pretty little stories Thai women view love as a oppurtunity.
Ofcourse this is a generalization and not everyone is going to fit into this statement but thats how I see it. I am also not saying Thai culture is wrong its just different.
I think its important to remember you are an oppurtunity to a woman and her family. You arent the the great white hope coming to save the beautiful Thai women. Look at it as buisness relationship and treat it accodingly. Keep yourself in reality if some young beatiful girl is coming on to you its not because she find old white men irresitable...

Good luck, I fear you are going to need it!

Hi Arkansan. Sorry I can not give much more advice, and you seem quite intelligent enough to carve your own way. A lot of guys visit Thailand each year and have become "experts" on the women over time, but you have to use your own instincts as well.

I moved to Thailand as a kid, and married a woman somewhat close to my age, and we married fairly young. My experience is not much like most Thai/Farang marriages.

I knew a Canadian guy, in his 60s, spent his entire life as a teacher and principal. Married and had kids. Wife died. He moved to Thailand, had an apartment near mine, and had an absolute dream life over there. Fucking young girls and going through boxes of condoms. Good for him. This is fairly common. I always thought he had a good plan because he played the game, paying for temporary friends and getting every dime worth.

Watch out for girls who like to gamble. BIG problem. Do not believe if a woman has a baby and she says the man disappeared--HE DIDN'T.

You won't get very far with a Thai language class in USA. It's a very difficult language, you have to learn it there.

The other poster is correct about visas. Thailand does not issue visas for foreigners more than 30 days. Even me, I have a great deal of history in Thailand. My wife is Thai and our kids have Thai passports, but even so I can not get a residency visa to stay. A lot of guys run across the border every few weeks and come back, I say "no thanks" to that. There is some law that offers better residency visas if you are over a certain age, I think over 55.

If I were in your shoes I would try to move to Thailand and stay in the same area for 3 months. Outside of Bangkok. In that three months, be a "good guy" because the locals will gossip a lot. If you turn out to be a "good guy" you will find a hot and horny middle aged babe of relative intelligence, with the best wet pussy you've ever experienced, coming to get hold of that cock twice a day.

I joined an asian permisterals site used by the Thai guy who's goint to Thailand with me. Sure, there's women who seem flaky and like scammers, but there's also plenty of beautiful, slim women, some with kids, some not.

Of course, they may be posting fake pictures, but I doubt it. They may be looking for a male mammel with money, but the impression I get is that they genuinely want to meet someone who they can love. Their ages range from twenties through forties, but many are very cute regardless of age.

Given asian womens' desire to do what their man wants, how will their conservatism fit with hubby wanting her to dress sexy (for me, you'd say)? Would she want to please you if you eased her towards other men in tiny steps, showing, flirting, light touching, innicent kissing, real kissing, groping, her touching the other man down there, her jacking him off, her blowing him, him eating her, her fucking him, her fucking him bareback?

Given both the sociatal conservatism and her desire to please her man's wishes, and if it's done slooooowly, and if you treat her like a princess all the way and support her with love and encouragement, will it like work with a Thai wife?

Those experienced in Thai culture, please comment on what I've seemed to learn so far. I'll be in Thailand on April 7th-May 18th.

Seems that if you hook up longterm with a Thai woman, regardless of her background, she'll be angling for a ring. You'll be in love, but despite her outward affection, culture makes it moore of a business transaction, family support relationship for her. You're her family's sugar daddy, and the porrer her region, the greater the need for support.

Now it splits into two catagories of women.

1. Bargirls or other prostitutes:

If you choose a bar girl, she'll be beautiful, perhaps a s*******ed lover, but just you wait. She'll be devoted at the beginning, but over time most prove lazy, unhelpful around the house, and the farang-Thai nightmare stories begin. She may fuck anyone you want her to, a cuck's dream, but she might also fuck others behind your back. Depending on your cuckold preferences, you might want her to be secretly unfaithful and fucking others without your knowlege and consent.

If she hooks up with you for your money and is at heart lazy, she may dump you for a richer fellow when she can.

2: Regular Thai women (non-prostitutes)

You'll get the same contractual relationship-family support motivation from her under the guise of love to get a ring from the love-sick silly farang. There's a slow courtship, and a slowly developing sexual relationship with different sexual norms. She may be a virgin, she may not want you to put your hand there. She's likely to be sexually conservative and don't even think of sharing her with other men.

Unlike the lazy prostitute, she's likely to be helpful in domestic tasks and dilligent in work. She's going to want to live in the US (UK, AUS, etc.) and send money home or she'll want you to buy her a big house in Isan or other home province, and under Thai law real property (house, land) must be in her name so if/when things go poorly in your relationship, she gets the house and you get nothing.

How am I doing? Is this inaccurate? Is it true?

I've heard those generalizations but didn't see much in real life. Most of what I see are farang who are cuckolds brownie heads at heart, totally unsuccessful in finding a wife in their own country. Then they get married to a Thai and despite good intentions, the reamister why they fail at home shines through and they fuck up with a Thai woman also.

Bar girls can be good wives, it's usually the dumbass farang who doesn't treat them well, and then ends up blaming the woman.

Go have a good time in Thailand and take some advice from Thai people--mai tong khit mahk. Don't think too much.

CountryWall,

Thanks, and I'll follow your advice. I treat women well. The two redeeming features of this life are the natural beauty of the earth and the kind hearts of women.

I will treat them with respect and kindness. Because of the protests in BKK, we'll go to my buddy's old home area around Pattaya!! We all know there's no women there, hee hee.

Seriously, he has friends and family in and around Pattaya, but he wants to show me the sights, particularly Thai girls. I wonder if a bar girl girlfriend/wife would fuck other men if you wanted them to?

Probably open to anything. My old boss ended up marrying a Thai lady, she was a massage girl in Hong Kong, and had a kid with a Korean guy. He brought her to America, and he is pretty wealthy. I heard stories about how this girl got hooked up with a local Thai lesbian scene here, and all the ladies were going at it together.

I have a major fantasy about being in a relationship with a proper whore who does short-time during the day. Perhaps that's the Thai culture wearing into me, because every short time girl in Thailand seems to have a Thai boyfriend behind the scenes. Anyway, I can't get enough of the beauty of Thai women. In particular older ones and those with thick thighs. Love it.

Be generous to the ladies and you will get a LOT in return. Have a good time.

flrogue
I'm a married Pinay and a cuckoldress. You're right that we still have the Catholic guilt conditioning which is really hard to get rid of it. But when I joined this site, I find it good as long as do it with pride and dignity.

Countrywall,

I might be willing to pay a Thai bar girl girlfriend to let another guy fuck her as I watch, and if she'd let him go bareback, I'd eat his creampie from within her. Mmmmm.

I'd also pay two Thai bar girls to play with one another in girl-girl action. Mmmmm.

arkansan


All easy to do, and more

Countrywall,

I might be willing to pay a Thai bar girl girlfriend to let another guy fuck her as I watch, and if she'd let him go bareback, I'd eat his creampie from within her. Mmmmm.

I'd also pay two Thai bar girls to play with one another in girl-girl action. Mmmmm.

hi arkansan... how are you enjoying your trip to thailand? have you had any success with the women there? you found any suitable cuckoldress yet? let us know how you are getting on there! enjoy it!

We are an Asian couple and love seeing Asian women from poor countries marry American men.
maylinglee

Interesting trip. Leaving Thailand on Tuesday the 18th. In Chiang Mai, dating a 22 year old slim Myanmar girl. I am 54.

I think Thai girls make excellent hot/cuckold wifes, I have been with my gorgous hottie shes 24 for 1 1/2 years she now lives with me in London and has been cuckolding me 3 months after we first met, at first she was very reluctant thinking I was just doing it so I would have an excuse to relax with other girls, But once I had assured her this was not the case and she tried it a couple of times theres been no stopping her she has fucked 5 different guys so far, We now have a regular young guy who has a very big cock (considerly bigger than mine) who fucks her every 2 weeks or so sometimes I join in or sometimes just video and take pics she also loves the fact I clean her up after her stud has finished

Great stuff! I think Thais probably have a more pragmatic less guilt orientated view of sex than Phillipina with the Catholic guilt syndrome thing. I don't suppose you could post any of you vids as reality is way hotter than the pro-am stuff?

Married to Thai for some years now. Came from a respectable family and job. Brought her to the US and she made friends with some Thai Girls who were ex bar-girls.

At first she would tell me stories about how bad they were, cheating on their husbands before it became how much fun it was to tease guys, to the night I caught her bent over a car in the lot taking a guy up her. She laughed and told me it was just sex. Thai girls in particular cant seem to deny their genes or the strong spite in making their husbands feel worthless. Its wonderful

Arkansan....I have travelling a lot in Russia....girls there are different, but also stunningly beautiful and more eager to please men than back home....so there is a parallel

However, I do not know about your travelling history, but I have met a lot of very nice men in the area looking for wifes. And these men are probably intelligent decent men as long as they swim in their home environment.....once they get to another country, they act totally wrong and easily becomes victims for scammers/bad girls

You are obviously trying to learn the language (very good start) and to adopt in best possible way. BUT....just be aware.....being a 'nice guy' home may not be enough

Hope you will have a great time....just a little warning....good luck
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women