Told wife of desire and locked up - what now?

Hi All, just after some advice if possible. I'm a 28yo man, recently married and told my wife of my submissive desires, especially chastity. She was a very straight up and down girl and never done anything like it before or had any understanding but said she was willing to try. We started off with her telling me when i can cum inside her when we had sex.

These last three days she locked me up in a cb6000 but did say i would be out in three days. On the first night She made me undress her, massage her back and then her front. i started to strain in the cage. She then made me serve her orally for a while before telling me to get her a vibrator i had bought her for christmas ready for use. She then proceeded to use that in front of me, before telling me to use it on her and serve her orally at the same time. She orgasmed twice that night and said it was the most amazing feeling she had ever had sexually. She then said that she was keen to play more but it would take time for her to learn but that if i had any suggestions she would take them on board.

So i guess i put it out there to you, what should i suggest to her to expand her horizons, keep her interested and make the fun grow? i don't want to 'top from the bottom' but want her to learn.

Permisterally the next thing i feel is needed is to be locked up without been told of an end date. I really look forward to other suggestions though as i am so excited that this life long fantasy is becoming a reality!

Wow! You and I are following the same path. I got a CB6000 just before Christmas and I was locked up for 39 hours before being released on Christmas morning. It sounds like your wife got more into it than mine did.

I have a few suggestions and a few questions.

Suggestions:
Go to keptforher.com and read the "games" section. Some fun stuff in there. There is also a good section called "why chastity" that both you and your wife will enjoy reading.

Questions:
What is your fantasy? How far do you want this to go? Do you want this to be a 24/7 kind of thing?
I am assuming you want her to cuckold you as well (since you are on this site). How do you see the chastity leading into cuckolding? How will you tell her that is what you want?

this sounds like one to watch
let me know what you think of my small cock send message on this please

Well last night i came home to find wife in sexy lingerie. she unlocked me and teased me incessantly. Made me service her orally again for about half an hour. Finally she told me to hop on the bed. She said she wanted to ride me and had me sitting up against pillows so she could rub her breasts in my face. She said i had better not cum.As we were fucking she made me suck her fingers and then she played with herself. It was so hot. I couldn't believe this was the same girl as my once shy conservative wife. She insisted i call her Mistress throughout. It was like all my dreams come true. Finally, once she had orgasmed again she let me cum. I shot bucketloads. It was amazing.

She has agreed to leave the belt off for a while but next time when she does it she will not tell me when it is coming off and she said she will look for other games to play. She said she really enjoyed it. So far so good

oh and for iwmwtcm answers as best i can at moment:
i want to be controlled, humiliated, owned totally. to be dressed in panties and chastity 24/7. i'm still not 100% on total cuckolding but definitely leaning that way, hence i bought her the dildo for her to get used to another 'cock'. i don't think she would be interested in the cuckold thing yet so will take it slowly and see where this journey leads.

but still welcome any other suggestions

A toy you might want to consider, a strap on. It can be used two ways. Either putting it on yourself while in chastity and your wife can experience penetration while you are locked up and tucked. The second of course is her on you. This is a longer way down the road, but you do mention wanting to wear panties (ie be feminized.)

The suggestion to purchase a strapon for your wife and ask her permission for you to use it to fuck her is a very good one. It is amazing how submissive you will feel when while locked up, you fuck her with it on you. Of course there is the possibility that she will enjoy it more than your poor cock but hey, that's what we want isn't it? To serve, to be sexually frustrated and to suffer for her! Delicious!
warren

definitely considering the strap on. is there any that work best while wearing a cb6000 or will any strap on do? just worried some are designed for female wearers only, etc

I have found that strap ons depend on permisteral preference. There are vaious ones out there. AND, all people are not created equal (one reamister for clothing). I am not talking about the dimensions of your "tool."

There are many on line - shop around. One, and just one excellent source of all sorts of "equipment". - ww.stockroom.com The are a tad on the expensive side, but their service and descretion is amazing.

So why not make it part of your "communication" and game. Shop with your wife one line. Get her involoved in the shipping, selecting and build the expection for what is coming ... for her, NOT for you.

FM

I have a cb6000 and my wife just got a strap on but we haven't had a chance to try it out yet. It doesn't look like its a perfect fit, but it will do the job. It is actually hollow so that I can fit inside, except its way to small, which may not be an issue for you. If you think trying to get your excited cock into the cb is hard, this is much harder. But again, it will still accomplish its job I think.

We got ours at amazon.com actually. They have a great selection and are discreet as well. Check out Doc Johnmister, they have a good selection. The other nice thing is you go on and make a wish list and then let her look through those and pick the one she wants.

You can also check out KeptForHer.com which sells the cbs. They use to have an attachment, but I am not sure if they do or not.

Good luck and enjoy the chastised life. Its wonderful.
Let me introduce you to my wife.

keptforher.com had an attachment for the CB-xxxx chastity devices called the "ForHerPleasure". They designed it themselves and had them made in a factory in China I think. It isnt on their website anymore so I dont think it was very successful. It seemed like an awkward product to use. You had to take off the CB-xxxx cage but not the ring or pins. The ForHerPleasure is hollow and fits over your cock and onto the pins and it then gets locked on similar to the cage.

I would think a traditional strapon harness that could be used while still wearing the CB-xxxx cage would be the best choice. However, if you're interested in the ForHerPleasure Im sure you could contact Tom at KeptForHer.com. Im sure hes got one or two laying around that he would sell.

Theres some good advice on this thread. We just got a C6000 just before Christmas and weve been talking about getting a strapon too. Ive done some research and found a few I liked on adamandeve.com. I like the idea of sitting my wife down and picking one out and ordering it - sounds exciting.

Another 2 cents worth. I know and agree on some of the other sites. I recommended the one I did, because the selection, descriptions and pics are excellent. For someone starting out, it gives a better idea of what you are getting than some of the cheaper sites. Also you will find stuff there that you never even thought off. You can order from other sites, but know before you buy.

I prefer the tradition harness, as it is dual purpose. Should she decide to use it on secretaussie ... she doesn't have to buy a separate device.

Be well, and stoke the fires of the mind ... so much nicer when they are burn hot.

FM

ok so looked at some strap'ons for men last night. Two options really: one that is hollow for my penis to go on, but will require cage to be removed, and one that sits on a harness slightly above the penis.

What's people's thoughts on what would be more humiliating and work best?

Leave the cage on.

Cage on, and if she decides that turn about ... or is that turn around ... is fair play, she can use it too.

By all means, leave the cage on. But beware, as you strap on the dildo, it will push your cock and cage down (someone said "tuck" it). I did, and as I was making love to my wife with the dildo, got really hard inside the cage and had what I can best describe (ironically) as a cock's comb as my head protruded from the slit in the end of the CB6000. This rubbed on the sheets as we had sex (or at least she had sex) and I rubbed a big BLISTER on the HEAD of my penis. OMFG!! Well, she didn't have to deny me sex for a couple weeks. I was absolutely miserable.

She ultimately decided that she didn't like the plastic toy, and got herself a boyfriend! Bless her heart, she let me watch.

I just ran across this video in another post here. I don't know if your wife likes "porn", and it is not the best video I have ever seen, but it is an example of what we are talking about.

The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!

awesome video and great to be able to show wife what its all about, if any one finds any more, or even any pics or stories about male wearing strap on i would much appreciate it!

secretaussie

If you haven't seen it you might want to look at:

Strap On Suggestion for training my sub hub

in the bitch wives group.

Last night as we were watching a movie at home my wife went and got a board game out of the cupboard. I thought she must have not been enjoying the movie and wanted to play when she asked me to roll a dice. I rolled a three and she proceeded to say 'right, you get locked up again in three days.' And she said she is not going to say how long it is for!

Awwww man, thats awesome! That sounds like something my wife would say.

Great, she is getting into it. Boy are you in "trouble." :*)

Well i've been locked up for three days and i hadn't orgasmed for two days before that - 5 days is a long time for me still at this stage and it is driving me crazy. i want to cum so bad. So far wife has been teasing me a bit, she actually laughed at my locked up penis, but haven't done anything sexual yet except for flashing her boobs, etc.

with no end in sight, i can see myself turning into a blubbering mess begging for release.

she's getting quite mean, not sure where her inspiration is coming from. This morning she unlocked me and took the cage off. i was so happy. then she stroked me and used lotion . i was hard almost straight away. then out of nowhere, before i can cum, she stops and says 'that will do you, lock it up'.

i've created a monster.

Sounds like she is understandiing her role more and more of the Mistress and controling you properly.

I envy you.

Orgasm denial is very tough at first. You never really get used to it, but you'll find you can tolerate it more as time goes by. My wife is the one in our relationship who enjoys denying my orgasms. If it were up to me I'd be coming all the time. It's a good thing my wife keeps me under control. It makes my desire for her tremendous.

ok, its been five days now and i found i was in a foul mood this morning for no good reamister. do You think it would be related? i don't normally get cranky like this.

Might be ... hard to tell as humans do have emotional swings for many reamisters.

But I can't escape the thought ... watch what you ask for, you just might get it.