New Year's Resolution

This is my first post.

My wife and I are not in a full cuckold relationship. However, she is open to it - it just hasn't happend yet.

But we do practice some mild orgasm denial, where she will deny me cumming for a day or two through to 4 weeks. My problem is that if I orgasm I don't get horny again for about 3-5 days.

Every time we have sex I wear a strapon. The strapon was my idea, I bought it for her to use on me but we ended up using it on her and after that first time we both loved it so much we have used it every single time since (we now have three and another two have since worn out - only vibrating ones will do for us). They are different sizes, but even the smallest at 6 inches is slightly longer and thicker than mine (my favourite is a 7 inch Doc Johnmister).

I can't even begin to describe the pleasures of the sensations of penetrating with a strapon - if you haven't done it, you really must. It feels better fucking with a strapon than with your own dick. And I make my wife cum almost every time.

She normally waits until after she cums to decide whether I'm allowed to cum or not. Other times she tells me right at the start "Just so you know, you're not cumming". It means I have to make the most out of every strapon stroke, as they are the only ones I'm getting. That's fine by me. Watching her orgasm is a sensation that is better than having one of my own.

Don't get me wrong, I'm a guy and I love to cum, but cumming means I loose all labido for ages. I also love fucking my wife with my dick, LOTS. I love the feeling right after she has been expanded by a strapon. Just great. Smooth like velvet. It norally takes half a minute or less to cum after I've fucked her with a strapon because I'm already on the edge by that time.

Over these holidays I took a couple of weeks off work. She told me at the outset that I wasn't cuming until the end of the holidays. After our first weekend when we had sex two nights in a row she said jokingly that I've effectively made myself redundant. She said she now has a man that is always hard for her and always takes her with lust and passion.

That gave me some great ideas for a set of new year's resolutions. Before I present them to her I'm posting them here for feedback.

• I’ll only cum 5 times in 2010. This will keep me constantly horny. I’ve worked a schedule of New Years Eve 2009 then 8 weeks without, and then 5 x 9 weeks without (where the fith one is actually 1st day of 2011.
• I’ll get enough relax every night, take vitamins and minerals and exercise to ensure maximum libido. This year I’m going to focus on being as horny as possible and take you as frequently as you want.
• To make me insane for you I’ll only penetrate you with a strapon. My dick is not allowed inside for all of 2010.
• I’ll literally put my orgasms in your hands. I will not make myself cum in 2010. If it’s a scheduled day to cum and you are too busy or aren’t in the mood, I’ll have to wait. I guess I better be good leading up to those dates (grin).

Let me know what you think.

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I've gone for two lots of 4 weeks - coming up to the end of the second one this week. So I think I can handle 8, but 4 is the most I have ever done.

I have a CB 6000 but I find it a bit tight and I get pain/burning behind my ball sack. Any advice on this? I had a CB 3000 which was a little more "roomy" but broke...oww... But it stuck out too far under cloathing.

I was sort of thinking of piercings - are there any chastity piercings of the penis available? Any that help with chastity devices or any piercings that ensure chastity?

Ta.

Great ideas! I will do wife with a strap on tonight and see if she likes it!
A. Smith

Update - Four weeks down and four to go. It is seriously driving me insane.

I've been screwing my wife every chance with a strapon but I still haven't cum yet. I'm just "burning" to fuck her!

I'm constantly horny and I'm spending most nights edging, watching cuckold porn. Lately I'm just getting off watching guys come (creampie or just masturbating). Cuckold porn gets me too hot too quick and I'm afraid I'll blow my load.

Being this horny is invigorating. It's addictive. It's also giving me some twisted ideas.

I'm thinking of trying out a penis extension device - like one of those andropenis, sizegenetics or jes-extenders.

I've got this crazy idea in my head that if I can make my dick big enough I can make a vibrating dildo out of it (aka clone-a-willy). How hot would that be to fuck your wife with your dick and see her pleasured by it without ever penetrating her with your dick?

Or maybe I should make two coppies - and get her to use one on me. I'd be sucking and being fucked by my own dick... cool.

Do those penis extension devices even work?

Dam this is hard... Three weeks to go! It's been five weeks since I last screwed my wife. In three week's time I'm going to get my wife to fuck me with a strapon until I cum. God I'm looking forward to it. The next time I cum will be MAY!!! I'll probably get my wife to fuck me for each release.

So far she has been surprisingly enthusiastic not to have my dick in her. Every time I start forepay she reminds me I'm not cuming for weeks. Instead I just ejoy the pleasure of making my wife cum buy fucking her with a big strapon.

One week to go

Wow... going this long without cumming is fantastic. I'm laying here totally hard and frustrated while my sexy wife lays relaxing and near naked beside me.

I've changed my plans. Firstly she is definately goin to give me a good strapon fucking. But it is going to be slow and hard. I need to be fucked with our "biggest" 7" strapon so she can give me deep powerful thrusts. I really need that loving dominance.

If I can get away with it I'll try not to cum while she pounds my ass.

Then i'll get her to give me a hand job while sucking my nipples. Then, just as I cum, I'll get her to ruin the orgasm by stopping all contact with my dick and at the same time bite really hard on my nipple. After I've cum I'll get her to give me a more vigorous handjob.

That should empty the pipes while not giving any gratification - and a lot of discomfort.

But I'm thinking more and more that this "whim" to have her fuck another guy is something I should push a bit harder. The thought of her getting fucked in a year I don't get to so much as masturbate to climax seems like a perfect match.

Also, I am defintey getting a penis extender - I'm completely sold on the idea of getting bigger and making a permisteralised strapon as a gift for my wife.

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Thank you so much for pointing that out. Given how hard it has been to now I'm going to need help to get through the rest of the year!

Other news - my wife and I are now actively planning how we can get her one night stands! woo hoo.

We've started looking on adult dating web sites. They are great. You can even specify dick length! How hot is that?

My new year's resolution is over alreay. Why? Because my wife started dating an ex-boyfriend!

Dam it but I once I found out I can't stop masturbating. They are in that early phase of their relationship where they are fucking like rabbits. I'm not getting any at the moment and I couldn't be happier.

She has been really worried and when she first broke the news to me I could see she was nervous. She said she felt really bad cheating on us. I reasured her it can't be cheating when I'm all for it. That help her get relaxed with the situation.

She has started playing dress ups - fancy dress - like a sexy cop, pirate, angle and bunny. It makes me so horny to help her get dressed up for one of her play sessions.

I normally take care of myself after he picks her up, once again later that night and agian the next morning if she isn't back. Even with all that masturbatin (making my dick a bit soar), I still get hard during the day when I think about her and her lover.

Ahhh... this is the life.

She came home last night fairly early - she was working the next day. Without a word she sat me down on a chair, stood over me, held my chin and head firmly and started kissing me.

It only took a moment for me to realise that her mouth was full of cum that was flowing straight into my mouth. We kissed like this for a while, enjoying the taste and licking every last drop off each others lips.

This is the first time I've tasted cum and I have to say it was really nice.

It strikes me a bit funny that I've now tasted a guy's cum who I've never met.

Well. Now I've met him. His name is Chris He is a really nice guy. He arrived before my wife was ready. We sat and chatted for a while over a beer waiting for her to she come down. After some polite conversation he looked at me and said "You know... when I'm with a girl I need her to be monogamous, you know?"

I nodded and said "Yeah?"

"Yeah", he said, "when a girl is with me she only relaxs with me. Those are the rules."

Again I nodded and said "Right. I can understand that."

He looked down at by pants where I clearly had a bulge. He smiled, slapped me lightly me on the upper arm and said "Great."

He stood up, went to a notepad and scribbed something down.

Soon afterward my wife came down the stairs.

We both said how amazing she looked. She embraced him and have him a little kiss. She looked at me excitedly and said "Well, gotta go babe. Don't wait up" and left.

After they left I checked out the note. It had a skype ID on it. I opened up my computer and entered the skype ID. Nothing happened for a while, but later that night a call came through from the skype ID. I took it it was my wife's boyfriend. A note quickly appeared for me to turn off my mic and video.

He pressed some more buttons, adjusted the screen and then walked into the background. I could now see a bedroom and Chris taking his clothes off. When he fully stripped off I almost fell out of my chair. His dick was easily nine inches, probably closer to 10. It was hard to judge because it was so thick that it just looked "BIG".

Soon afterward my wife entered the room, came up to him and started kissing him. "Hang on honey" he said. "We've been having fun so far haven't we?"

"Yes" she whispered back.

"Great. Can you you promise me something?"

"Sure" she said with her arms wrapped around him eagerly caressing his ass.

"Can you promise me that you'll only relax with me?"

"ohh honey"

"I'm serious."

"Sure honey, no problem. I'll only relax with you."

and with that he walked over to the laptop and shut it.


She hasn't said anything about this to me yet but we haven't had sex in ages either

sarracenia

"She hasn't said anything about this to me yet but we haven't had sex in ages either"

Are you going to test her resolve by begging her to have sex? It's not really official until she tells you to your face that you are not allowed because she is exclusive with her lover. tim

Thanks Tiny Tim. I took your advice.

She didn't get to hook up with him over the weekend, or since.

I was snuggled to her in our bed and kissed her on the back of her neck - she normally loves this.

This time she just giggled and pulled away.

I hugged her a bit tigher and kissed the back of her neck again.

She pullled away and turned around and asked what I was doing.

I was already hard because she wears see-through slips to bed.

I told her how horny I was. She asked about my New Year's resolution (to wait 9 weeks between orgasms and not penetrate her with my dick this year). I explained that I couldn't do it and I just needed to have sex with her.

She laughed in my face.

I started groveling, pleading her, but it only made her laugh harder.

When she caught her breath she explained that I had made a New Year's resolution not to penetrate her and she was going to make me stick to it.

I begged some more and suddenly she got a bit angry and shouted "Enough."

She looked me straight in the eyes and said "You are my husband, Chris is my lover. For as long as I'm with Chris, you aren't my lover and I will not have sex with you. Ok?"

"Ok" I said.

So there it is - no sex and I've agreed to it with both Crhis and my Wife.

She explained that if it was a problem I should go into the bathroom and take care of myself. I didn't. I waited until she went to relax, pulled down the covers and masturbated while looking at her near naked body imagining what Chris must do to her.

I took my time and I think it was the best orgasm of my life.

I'm friggin over the moon. This is a dream come true.

After our conversation last night my wife called up Chris and chatted for hours. My wife has just asked me to move my stuff out of "my side" of the wardrobe and bathroom and told me that I have to start relaxing on the couch (pull-out futon).

She told me that he is spending the night tonight!!

She told me that Chris is going to be putting a couple of changes of clothes into our... I mean their bedroom.


... I have to stop writing now... gotta start moving stuff...


Okay - a couple of hours later now.

He arrived with a suitcase, handed it to me and asked me to take care of it. I took it upstairs to the master bedroom and unpacked his stuff. While I packed his bathroom stuff into my old drawer I noticed that he had two packs of magnum XL condoms. I took the liberty of unwrapping the pack and putting two on my old bedside table.

I came downstairs to find them making out on the couch. His hand was up her dress, moving up and down slowly.

I told them it was done. Chris thanked me, they got up from the couch, and as they walked past me Chris put his hand on my shoulder and said that they would like breakfast at 7am.

They went up stairs and I noticed that my shoulder was damp. I smelt it and it is the smell of my wife's juices.

I'm sniffing it now as I can hear them gigling and moving about in the bedroom.

This is all moving so fast, but what a ride!

Gotta go take care of myself now...

Okay - he spent the night last night but today was my day.

The day started well. I made them breakfast in bed before I went off to work. Okay - I got them up early, fed them and left so they would have time and energy to fit another session in.

When I got home my wife told me Chris was going to stay occasionally, but not tonight. We talked for hours about what they had been doing. This got both of us very horny. After a while it was too much for both of us and she asked me to go put my strapon on and fuck her.

I put on my 7" vibrating strapon and slid into her. It slid in really easily. She lalid back with her eyes closed explaining how he had fucked her.

After she came she told me that this had to be our little secret. She didn't consider that I had fucked her because it wasn't my dick, but she told me not to let Chris know.

How's that - I'm my wife's other man.

My wife is acting like a teen girl in love. She keeps saying things like "Chris said this" or "Chris said that'. It's cute.

On Friday they played dress ups. For about four hours I helped my wife dress up as a sexy bunny ahead of Chris turning up. That was so much fun.

He turned up as a police officer to arrest the naughty easter bunny for breaking and enter.

They dissapeared up stairs. They called down every so often when they wanted food and take that I happily delivered. I think they are really in love.

Yesterday we had a barbeque. It was a bunch of Chris's freinds. Apparently they all knew what was going on with our arrangement. As I was cooking a couple of women came up to me and asked where they would find a guy like me, while most of the men just shot me funny smirks.

A great weekend.

sarracenia
Dude!. Get ready to pack your bags your wife dumped you.

If that's what made her really happy then I would be fine with her dumping me. Her joy is all that's important to me.

Chris stayed this last weekend. He made a point of grabbing my wife and bringing her in for passionate kisses in front of me. Saturday night he handed me her wedding band - which I took without a word.

Most of the time he just ignors me - other than telling me what he wants to take/eat.

He is really good looking though, so I think he is used to treating people like that.

Yeah - at the moment I'm still trying to get my head around everything that's happening.

I wear my wife's wedding ring around my neck. On Monday night we were reflecting on the last couple of months and we've agreed that we are probably closer than we have ever been.

This last weekend she has allowed me to help her get dressed for Chris (a sexy black lace bra with fishnets, ultra high Karo shoes and a riding crop. She allowed me to give her ass hole a good long licking making her so hot, horny and wet that when I pulled her little black thong up she almost ran into the bedroom where Chris was waiting.

The next day Chris actually had a word to me about it. He thanked me for whatever I did. He said it was some of the best sex in his life. He said he had always wanted to try anal and my wife finally let him. He said that he loved her tight ass and he said that it was surprisingly enjoyable. He smiled, told me my wife was a little sex rat and that I didn't know what I was missing out on.

While he was telling me this I was so hard and had so much pre-cum that I stained my jeans.

I'm in similar circumstances. My wife deny me but she let me perform some oral. She has two lovers so she get as many dick as she wants.

Chris was over again last night. This morning he said he was having troubles with his camera and asked if I could take a look.

There was nothing wrong with it. There were photos and a couple of videos of them fucking. One movie of him penetrating her ass.

I noticed that he wasn't wearing a condom in any shot.

I have never had my wife without a thick condom, and I haven't had sex with her since December last year.

I wanked so many times looking at the photos on the camera that I've got blisters forming under the head of my cock.

We've decided that I should start saving to send my wife and Chris on a holiday for 4 weeks in January. Chris suggested I buy him a new camera for the trip too.

Interesting

saracenia we sound sooooo alike - and our relatioships too!!!

hit me up on yahoo messenger !! lets trade progress stories
mike000028

this is awesome. congratulations! where do you live, sarracenia? i might be interested in meeting those women that you talked about who want a cuckold boyfriend.

keep us updated please!

hornyboyinsd: She made it clear years ago that we weren't going to have kids. She just always purchased the condoms and they were always the thickest kind, the ones with spermacide (which always hurt my urethera a bit).

I didn't know the condom situation until I saw the picks. I asked her about it and she said she has started taking the pill. She said that she just loves the feel of his dick and wouldn't want it smoothed out in any way.

She explained that it was just the right thickness and length to expand her out. She said that his dick can expand her vagina to the point it "reveals" her g-spot and that his dick is long enough for his head to rub along her g-spot. She said since my dick wasn't long or thick enough for that, tactile sensation never mattered.

She only really came with penetration with me when I wore a strapon.

It's funny you should mention vasectomy - I'm considering getting one.

We haven't discussed having a family.

But all the talk of condoms brought me a very nice present. I asked if he pulled out as he came. She told me I was being silly and that only happened in porn. We got into a whole conversation about how much it turned me on that he was cumming in her. I dropped a hint "my god, what I wouldn't give to lick that out of you."

Well, tonight Chris came over again (does every weekend), and they both retired to their bedroom. I was in bed going though the photos Chris had given me of them when my wife walked in the door naked. She walked over to the bed, asked me to lay further down the bed (which I did) and then straddled my face.

Her legs had my shoulders pinned down, but I wouldn't have moved anyway. Unfortunatly she had positioned herself so that my arms wer pinned and my hands couldn't reach my dick.

I got my first creampie!!!

I must have been there for an hour. I've seen a lot of creampie stuff on the net but I never realized just how amazing and exciting a creampie actually would be. Warm, slimy, salty and sweet all at the same time. Although initially there was oozing wads goop, there was never mouthfulls. What amazed me is the flavours didn't seem to deminish. Maybe because she was still so wet with what I was doing there was a steady stream.

Whatever the case, she came after about an hour, then laid her naked body on me and kissed me, licking around my mouth.

She said "oh - I just love that taste. Chris and I make a great flavour."

I agreed and thanked her. She told me I should have a shower because Chris would recognise the smell of her pussy and if he found out he would (in her words) "beat the cuckolds brownie out of you".

She slipped out of bed and wend back to spend the night with Chris.