Self-emposed Chastity

This is your final inspirational cap..........

Task #1

Tell your wife you've decided to make a New Year's resolution to be more attentive to her needs. You may word it in your own way and disclose it to her at the time of your choosing, provided it is prior to Midnight New Year's eve.


...once completed your month of self-emposed chastity has begun, you may only cum with your wife, additional tasks will follow, Merry Christmas.

I was too excited to wait. I went into the bedroom and told her almost immediately. I said that I wanted to treat her as she deserved next year, and that my resolution was that I would be as considerate and dedicated as possible, that I didn't want to take her for granted. I felt a delicious shiver up my spine as I told her. At this point I am more excited than anything, but aware that this could become much harder very quickly.

Excellent tms4278, task #1 completed in record time. The next few days will be difficult, but get through the next week or two one day at a time and it will be worth it. Since you completed this task so quickly I'll pm you some additional duities for you specifically to fill in this week for you.

sissy has begged her Owner to locker her in chastity for as long as She desires. sissy told Her that she would be much more attentive to Her needs if sissy was locked up. Thank You.
sissy analinga

Ok. It is done. I shared with Lisa exactly what you instructed....that I want to be more attentive to her needs and give her a more fulfilling January. I told her I wanted to be a better husband for her.

She patted me on the cheek, said "good boy", smiled and kissed me.

It was great

You guys are doing great!! Remember no more wanking... unless you can persuade her to do it for you. Task will be given on a weekly basis, with polls posted later for those who prefer anonymous responses. You will only receive the full 'benefit' of this opportunity if you remain 100% chaste outside of your wife's control, do not fail, you can make this your moment.

Anxious

For those who have completed task #1 we are pleased. It is too long to wait until next week to see your progress therefore you will complete task #2

Fill in this week by doing extra things around the house that she usually does, vaccum the house, wash her car, make the bed, laundry, etc. How much to do is up to you, but it must be enough for her to notice a change and that you are sincerely making an effort. However, you must remember this is something you are going to keep doing it is not just a one time thing, ie. if you vaccum the house, that now becomes your responsibility for at least for the month of January, perhaps beyond so pace yourself, most importantly be consistant, she'll notice.

Several of you shouldn't have cum for several days now. You will be experiencing a new awarness of your balls, more sensitive with each step. You will be tempted but don't fail, this is only one part of your cuckold experience, yeilding control to her is another. Now just imagine if she was fucking someone else while you suffered without....more to come...

Complete you new tasks around the house with pride; enjoy the experience of serving her.

Quick update...I remain 100% chaste except for with my wife. I haven't cum since she masturbated me on Christmas Eve. And the orgasm was amazing...truly amazing. I've been locked-up much of the time, except when she wants me out (some nights, though I've been locked much of the last 2 days). She allowed me inside her for about 3 minutes yesterday, but did not allow me to cum. I'm feeling that energy building in "her" balls & cock. Definitely starting to ache for her. She just got home from work, and isn't in the mood now at all, so guess I'll remain locked at least thru the rest of the day. I'm actually eager to beat my 7 day record without orgasm...but that is for her to decide

We have been away for a few days so there hasn't been much call for domestic duties or opportunity for online wanking, but I have been attentive. I ensured that I did all i could to help our hosts so she wouldn't feel under pressure to do so. Last night she got a little takes and I thought she was in the mood to let me fuck her, there was lots of kissing and rubbing in the dark. Unfortunately she asked me to go and get her a glass of water and when I got back she was already fast arelax and I was left hard and with nothing to do with it.

For those of you who got started early; here's a cap from one of the girls as a reward for jumping in early; don't disappoint her.

The following is the poll for the last week of December for the anxious ones. You can select ALL answers that apply, but DO NOT answer until the end of this week. Future polls will be posted at the end of each week, I just wanted to give you a little look ahead.

Only a couple days left to let you wife in on your new committment to her needs. I'm a little overwhelmed with work right now so, post on this thread will be limited to a couple times a week for me. Keep it going by sharing your experiences in the process. You will be given tasks at the beginning and a poll at the end of each week. Maybe a reward for those who succeed.

Well We have been spending the holidays at her folks place so there hasn't been much opportunity for action. But of course I was sneaking off every now and again to check in on here. That is how I found this challenge. Grear idea!

So on the 27th I told her how i planned to be more attentive to her needs etc in the New Year and she gave me an extra tight snuggle and was clearly pleased.

Since then I've just been trying to help out a bit more and she is wondering why I'm being so nice to her. Unfortunately cause of a combination of we've been here, its that time of the months and this self-imposed thing. I haven't cum since the 20th Dec! and I'm away with work until the 3rd week in Janurary so there isn't any chance of getting some from her anytime soon, no matter how nice I am! curses.

Still challenge going well at the moment.

Happy New Year

i'm locked up in a nice new Black cb3000 since just after Boxing day, and frankly after a few adjustments, am loving it. my fiancee initially thought i was wierd but now loves the control, i've not cum for 5 days now and am desperate..... definately doing more chores and being attentive to her and definately want her to take the next step of a lover....

Congratulations on those who remain active in the challenge. I'm not sure it gets easier, but as she notices and appreciates the changes she see in you and you allow yourself to experience the pleasure of the fantasy of her complete control of your orgasms, you experience your fantasy in a way far more powerfully than a quick wank to a video.

For those who started early the tasks of this week will be an extension of the activities of last with a mild addition. The following week things will step up, but the foundation you are building now is important, consistancy builds trust, as she trust you more she will allow your 'new attitude' to more of a part of your relationship, enjoy the journey.

Continue with the program and this week she will notice, importantly, when she comments positively about your efforts towards your resolution, let her know you enjoy doing it and you think this is one resolution your going to keep. IMPORTANT: Take this opportunity when she comments to let her know you've been reading up on making her needs more of a priority. Don't try to explain at this point just flash a friendly smile and tell her she'll see, you got some more 'research' to do.

Take time to post your poll results for December. January is only 31 days, do it, you'll be glad you did.

I have remained focussed and have stuck to my "resolution" to not cum without her, but as luck would have it, for the first time in a long while she offered to kiss me and show me her cleavage as I wanked off two days ago. There was such a thrill attached as I knew that I should savour every moment because it may not come again for a while.

I have done all the cooking for the last week and she has commented on my efforts favourably. I am still very excited and very onboard for this.

today my fiance agreed to sex, her on top, and after i came quickly, had my cock locked up again in the cb3000 for the "next" time, whenever that is...

You are doing very well. Be sure to take note of the IMPORTANT message listed above and work it into your conversation this week, the importance of it will be apparent to those who succeed later this month.

You deserve a little fun for all the hard work, but only to a point.

Ok so you have unleashed a monster, thanks very much! My wife is really enjoying the helpful nice husband she has ( I should stress I wasn't an asshole before lol). So now everytime I tease her about something she teases back, "I thought you were meant to be being nice to me?!"

So I told her I'd made it my new year resultion to be more attentive and that I thought this was one I could keep etc. She squeezed my hand to let me know she is happy with that.

We've just returned from overseas so I was horribly jetlagged, ended up being awake from about 1am till 6am last night. So of course I spent it mostly on Dark Cavern And here. Now I'm not going to deny that I wanked but I didn't cum, which I think is the important bit. But I can tell you 5 hours of wanking without Cumming means my balls were very very sore when I finally went to bed.

I'm going away with work tomorrow morning for two weeks god I hope I get some tonight. She seems to have been acting sexy so it's looking hopefully. My only concern now is rule 3 from above, " if she does let u fuck her make sure she cuma before you do". Jesus you know how to makerhings difficult for a guy don't you. She likes it hard and fast if she is going to cum, and I haven't cum in about 12 days, chances are if I try to go hard and fast I'll be done for, quickly! Oh well wish me luck!

You're quite welcome for the monster. Wanking WITHOUT cumming will actually be encouraged at times by the girls of this thread. The fact that you and others will do it a little more often is to be expected and frankly doesn't conflict with the ideas behind this thread at all. In fact, wanking without getting off regularly may actually make those participating in our little challenge more willing to go the extra mile for their wives. In your particular situation, you actually have a great opportunity to tell her you want to make sure gets off, but you want her so badly you don't know how long you're going to last long and suggest maybe you should get her off with your mouth first. If you last long enough to get her off again she gets two for one. Worst case, it is critical she gets off, her sexual satisfaction must always be the priority. Some wives have been known to use the husband's denial to intensify his pleasure to the point he cums prematurely for her satisfaction as a means to 'power' him to go down on her to take care of her needs after he cums. Just saying...

Just saying?? Lol you know full well the seeds you sow.

The good news is that it did happen, we switched the tv off straight after dinner and went bed. I kissed her, flipped over and went down on her, she's actually not that a big a fan of oral so I did it until she was wet then she pulled me up and in. Obviously it had been a long time for both of us so we got hard and fast pretty quickly. I did mange to make her cum (I think, as much as any man knows if it's real or not!) and I came afterwards. About 5mins which we were both spent after!

Then later something awesome happened. Normally I have a horrible reaction time, it's a couple if days between hard ons (not what I guess u expect for a26year old). Maybe it was cause we napped or something but at 11pm I woke again, rolled over, a few minutes of fingers and I was on top of her again! Twice one night! It's true you last longer the second time, I was able alot faster and harder for longer, probably about 7mins, before she was shouting "cum with me, cum with me". I picked up my pace and as she set off I was able to ride her wave for bit before joining.

Needless to say i was very proud of myself and I told her to expect more of the in the future! She had a lovely relaxy grin on her face as I left work this morning.

Congratulations, my usual kidding aside, your deprivation for the past 12 days may very well be a factor in your new found quicker recovery.

I know this week doesn't have a lot of spice, but it is an important foundation for what comes next. Stick with it, if some of you think your ready for the next step let me know.

I am still being very attentive and am eager for an opportunity to let make my hot little wife orgasm before I get to cum (normally she isn't interested and just kisses me as I wank myself off) but no opportunity has come up. I normally only get to wank with her a few times a month so I may not have a chance this week. Presumably putting her first and being the perfect husband means not constantly pestering her to let me cum too?

I'm away with work so we are communicating via Facebook chat. Here is me fulfilling the latest task.

[Me]
man i'm tried now
stuffed with curry
might go to the gym at 7am again
[Wife]
21:43
want to come over and jump in bed with me
??
[me]
21:44
hmm that would be a good workout instead
i like it
especailly if we go twice!
sorry i take that mutty comment back
not very chivlrous
[Wife]
21:46
wow, you're taking this resolution of yours quite seriously.
[me]
21:46
i'm trying
[Wife]
21:46
i'll only let you in the bed if I get a full body massage first
[me]
21:46
i've been reading up on how to better please you
[Wife]
21:46
and what have you been consulting?
[me]
21:47
lol i can't say that but needless to say i have more reading to do
[Wife]
21:47
please me how?
are you reading cosmo?
i'm concerned
[me]
21:47
lol no don't worry about it
[Wife]
21:47
hee hee
[me]
21:47
please you as a lady, as a wife, be more chivilrous
[Wife]
21:48
since this is messaging i can't tell whether you are serious about reading up on the subject
i'm assuming not.
[me]
21:48
no i am
[Wife]
21:48
what?
[me]
21:49
don't know what you should be expecting but we'll see huh
[Wife]
what are you reading?
[me]
21:49
this and that
internet things
[Wife]
21:49
this is highly suspect
the purveyor of all knowledge

[me]
21:49
haha
are u enjoying it?
if you have been enjoying it then you don't need to worry
[Wife]
21:50
well, i always enjoy you.
[You]
21:51
diplomatic, but i like it

Outstanding share....With the way you are going about this it could go as far as you want it to. If everyone is working this as quickly and as well as you are I may be dishing it out a little too slowly, but I suspect it may be not going quite as quickly for others.

ck your pm....

I've just read this post and love it as i've been doing this with my girlfriend since I met her 2 years ago. I've only ever cum with her for the last two years. I do masturbate daily and bring myself to the edge of cumming but never allow myself that final release. The longest i've been without an orgasm is 7 weeks while my girlfriend was ill. The intense feelings of complete hornyness is amazing and I find myself getting hard over the slightest thing.

Hopefully others will find the same to be true through this experiment....

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