Advice on how to approach subject

Hi

I'm hoping someone out there has been in the same situation and can offer advice. I'd love to see my wife fucked by some other guy or if not there to see it, to at least know it's happening. Thing is, I haven't brought up the subject with her. No idea how it will go down and looking for advice on how to approach it.

She did mention some time last year a "what if", so maybe she is thinking the same.

Don't think I'd like her to know it was setup, but would like to organise with someone on here to meet her in a pub/club, chat her up and take it from there.

Ideas?

It's taken me years to get her to know that Id like her to have an one night stand and even though she now knows Id get turned on if she was to f_-k someone - She still hasn't done it!!

I started with me saying " if you had a one off takesen fling- it wouldn't bother me"
Now she reminds me that she can do what ever and who ever she wants and I cant. She tells me about all the people (men and woman) who want her and tells me next time they have a night out- she's not going to behave herself. Every morning (nearly) when she feels my cock in bed she says " I wonder if that's the best cock I'll feel all day,...probably not"
She knows it all turns me on but as yet (years since I started the drip drip effect) she still hasn't even kissed another guy.

lets chat I have chatted up many married women, trust me they think about other guys all the time, often just lack the nerve to take that step, but with a little push from you and the right guy waiting it will happen.

drop me a message we can chat some more

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Thanks for the replys. I can't wait years!! No, I thought it would probably take a lot of work to get her to do it. Just don't know how to approach it.

She did admit to being with a guy when we were together but before we got married. Said that he got as far as getting his hand in her knickers but she stopped it there. She thought I'd get mad, but it just turned me on. This is what got me thinking about it. She did think my reaction was rather odd though.

I've been dropping hints and she's now just said that when she's out she's really tempted to go with another guy. Said she hasn't done anything and feels back for thinking these thoughts. I just played it cool and said that I understand and that it wouldn't be a problem if it wasn't anything serious.

Also started letting me take photos which is a new think

In fact, here's what's on offer if it ever happens

best advice is gently gently approach.. she should think that its her idea.

Firstly.... when making love to her .. you have to under preform.... either have a loose erection... and or cum very quickly. This is the time then to go straight down on her cum filled pussy. If she questions your actions.. you say that you want to please her totally.. its an act of love and devotion.

You will have to keep 'playing' the wimp lover... dont satisfy her via intercourse... give lots of oral prior to and after intercourse.. make the actual penetration secondary to her oral pleasure... always cum very quickly and keep her wanting...

buy her a dildo or a vibrator..... a bigger size than your cock... not too big to scare her.. but enough for her to feel and enjoy the difference. Awlays involve the dildo in your love making.. you say your pleasure is seeing her fullfilled....she must have total satisfaction... impress its an act of love and is for her enjoyment.

introduce watching porn with her... as she watches hung studs.. pleasuring women.. you should always be giving her oral.. dont watch the movies.. enjoy her aroused pussy.. this way she will see that your comfortable with her enjoying hung cock... when she is ready for penetration..use her dildo.. tell her she deserves something in her like what the studs on film have to offer.. get her used to the fact that she is 'missing' out on what other women have.

when the time is right and your fucking is less important in your love making together.... when she is suitably aroused with your touch.. you should gently tease her about how aroused she is when watching hung studs on film.. and ease erotic thoughts into her head of how much she would enjoy a large cock filling her.

if she openly admits to being envious of stud cock.. ask her if she has ever taken a decent cock prior to you meeting.. etc..
let her know your not jealous .. and that your interest is in her total happiness and pleasure....

eventually you can 'look' online or the net at porn pics etc.. then ease her towards sites like this.... then if the time is right .. she will gradually take a real interest,

it maybe a long road.. but not an impossible one...

Hope this helps a little..

Cuckhubby

Hi

I hadn't realised that you had replied, but have gone along with some of your suggestions without realising!

I've been doing as you say and coming a little too soon. This has been the case for a while now. I bought her a vibrator after we spoke about it and agreed that it could be fun. I try and bring that out every time possible and use that to satisify her instead of me. I've also said that it's fine to use it when i'm out or not around as it'll ensure she's getting satisfied. She says she doesn't use it.

Recently things have started sounding good. She said out of the blue that she's always wondered what it would be like to relax with another guy as I'm her first and only. She's brought it up a few times, saying that she'll never know. I've casually said that if she wants to then I'd understand. At first she thought this a little odd and wondered what I want in return. I just didn't make a big deal of it and said that I would be fine about it. I said that if she didn't want to relax with another guy, I'd be fine if she went out and pulled just to see how things go.

I know it'll be a long journey, but it's going in the right direction. I'll post if there are any updates.

Hi Edinguy... Ready to take it further?

All the advise here has been good, simply explain that its an idea that turns you on intensely, sometimes being oneself is the best way!

Thanks for the further advice. I haven't yet said that her relaxing with another guy or even just pulling another guy would turn me on.

Think I'll try this new approach by giving her a real good fucking and then try and bring round the subject that other guys could do that for her too. Think this is going to work out well.

Yes RonUKBreederBull, I am ready to take further, I just need to get her to say OK

When i was married to my first wife she had an affair with a young guy behind my back. Eventually I found out about it and I got her to tell me what they did together. I was jelous and upset as she told me, but at the same time I got a strong erection! I could'nt believe how sexually excited It made me. The wife wanted me to forgive her and she started to touch my cock and I came very very quickly with a really powerful orgasm! Anyway, it got to a point where it felt so good, I was just about begging her to fuck him again! We eventually divorced and I married again. The second wife was surprised when I told her it would excite me if she had sex with another man. She thought there was a catch somewhere, but after the first time she realised how lucky she was! There is no stopping her now, she loves to dress up and get a guy with a big cock to give her a good fucking with no strings attached. I am her willing cuckold and every time we have sex together, I say to her its time for her to fuck another man who can fuck her properly, as I cum very quickly. She loves all the attention she gets and If I wanted her to stop she would'nt now, she loves it too much. Once a woman realises it wont affect them in a negative way and you tell them they are good lovers and they deserve a real man to fuck them properly and that you actually want them to do it, most will grab the opportunity to go for it and get all the extra cock available to them! Good luck to you.