Conservative to Considering It???

I am 44 yrs old and have fantasised about watching my 38 yr old redhead wife fuck another man for a long, long time...when we were first dating back in 1999 we went through a short period of time when we were doing the long distance thing, and I could get her to tell me a story about her fucking a co-worker. Her stories were kind of lame though...

We got married a couple years later, and my desires only got stronger. I would drop some hints about wanting to watch her with another man, but it didn't really seem to generate any interest from her at all. She's a pretty horny gal when she wants to be, but is shy, and conservative. She only recently let me start finger fucking her right asshole while we fuck, or as I eat her pussy.

Over the last couple of months I've been a bit more upfront, kind of jokingly, with my desires. A couple of weeks ago I jokingly told her how much I'd love to see her fuck another man...once again she laughed it off. I repeated myself, and she looked at me kind of confused and asked me if I was serious. I told her it would be the sexiest thing I've ever seen, and I'd fantasizes about it forever...
She told me I was crazy, and went on with her day, but I could tell I caught her off guard, and got her thinking (at least slightly).

Well that night she said she wanted to have sex, and was really being kind of aggressive in expressing her desires to fuck me. The way she went about it was out of character for her. I started to suspect I had probably got her juices flowing. As we started to play I whispered how horny I was at the thought of her with another man. She became very serious and asked me if I was serious. I told her I was, and that I had obsessed with it for a long long time. It was my fantasy. She asked me how I would react to seeing her with another man...I told her it would only be sexual, and would only bring her closer. She asked if that meant I wanted to swing, and screw other ladies (I assured her that was not at all what I was interested in, and did not turn me on at all, as I know her jealousy would not be able to handle that)...
So I clearly expressed to her what it was I wanted: simply to watch her fuck another man. She powerd me into her, and her pussy was soaked. She stopped talking to me and I suspected she was getting shy/embarrassed, but I told her a fantasy, in detail, which would take place in a nice hotel...
I came inside her quickly, and then went down on her pussy eating our love...she had an intense orgasm.

I joked about the subject later, but she predictably replied she was only saying that for me, bc she knew it turned me on. She is sticking by that story...
But at lunch time today she told me she had booked off work next Fri, and we were going to Vegas for the weekend. My wife hates Vegas...

When she told me that, I responded by saying "great...maybe we can fulfill some of our fantasies together." She ignored my comment the best she could, but I saw with her reaction that was something she had already considered. I have had a raging hard on since lunch time, as I now realize my fantasy is now becoming hers as well. I think she totally wants to get fucked by another man.
It may only be in the fantasy stage for her, perhaps something that may take some more time to get her to act on (I suspect she is thinking about actually following through though)...but I do know with some holy water she will let me take her out to a bar, dressed really provocatively, and flirt with some strange men...I think it is just a matter of finding someone that turns her on enough to make her follow through.
The thought of it has me almost creaming myself. I think she is really considering this, and can be nudged towards bringing a strange man into our bed where she will fuck him while I watch.

I never would have thought this was possible. She's 38 now, but still looks good. 5'9" and 133 pounds. Small tits, but nice long legs, a nice ass, beautiful silky smooth white skin (the contrast witha black mans would be especially sexy).

I will come back to post some anonymous body pics in the next couple of days (don't have any nudes, as she won't let me do that).

Interesting story, and very much the same as with us...

My wife refused any talking about this in the beginning, but now she is very turned on by the idea (I can tell from her juice overflow when we have sex and we tak about this....)

For me, it has also been a process of making her feel sexy...bought her lots of sex cloths/tops/skirts...high heels....pearls...etc...which she is wearing...I have asked her to stop wearing bra under those almost see through blouses...she does (not at work, but when we go out for a beer)...and as I say to her: the more sexy you feel, the more response you willl get from men...which again will make you feel even more sexy...

she tell me I am right...

Now, how to take it to the next step?

I have asked her to find a lover....she is blushing when I say this, but have 'agreed' to do so...my believe is that she should pick a guy and start dating...then things will develop by itself...I hope...

Anyway, my thing is nt necessarily to watch....but rather that she do...and then tell...

I think that rushing from 'conservative' to a porn star for you in bed is a very very long step...if you can make her, good for you...just remeber that most men will probably not pick her up in a bar if the setting is that you should come with them and just sit there in the same room...here at this site, we may look upon this as 'natural', but be aware that most people find such thins repulsive...

I have been a cuck (ex-wife - she was all in for this, and sometimes I was allowed to watch....but not men that 'we' picked up in bars), a bull for several married woman (men have been watching me and their wifes...but again, not relation made over a take in a bar....) and now I am a wannabe to my wife...been there/done that...

When I was watching my ex having sex, this was eigther guys we met on dating sites (we all knew that was the setting) or guys she/we had relation to over time...

If watching is the big thing for you...I thinnk you have to find such guy on internet, use a close friend, or...maybe the hard one for some men...let her fuck around untill she find one man who will allow you...

Just som eadvice based on years of experience...
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Great story sweet and really looking forward to your follow ups on this topic. Very best of luck.

Sounds like you are in for a good time. Keep us informed PLEASE.
Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut

Yes, sounds like the start of something great!

I was out having lunch earlier today when I received a text from her saying "maybe we should go to Palm Springs instead of Vegas"...
I responded with "I'd prefer the closer drive, but there is a better sex scene in Vegas...you know what what they say about what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, right?
There was no reply.

I texted back again saying "I'm cool with either place, as long as the night ends with you laying naked on your back with a complete stranger on top of you"...

Her reply is simply "make sure you delete these texts"...

When I got home (after a couple beers) she said that she would really prefer Vegas (recall that she has always really hated Vegas). I respond with "great...Much better choice for what we are going for..."

Up until now I'm not sure if she's just humoring me, or if she's into it...she responds with "you're a pervert". Knowing her, that was when she would have put an end to it if it wasn't a consideration. Her response is what I was hoping for...I know she knows what I'm thinking and she too is intrigued with following through with this at least a little further.
I then feel confident enough to say "I want to to take you shopping for some clothes to wear to the bar...you know the kind of clothes you wouldn't wear out around here. Something a tiny little bit slutty, but really sexy. I want you to really look sexy when we go out to the bar in Vegas." She says "what do you have in mind..."

Now, I'm 100% certain she is really into this, at least as a fantasy. As conservative as she is, two things work to my advantage in terms of getting her to follow through this next weekend...
1) she is a follower and can be easily persuaded
2) she has a tendency to really step outside of herself and become a fuck monster when she is takes. I know she will get takes next weekend (something that doesn't happen often here at home)

The ace in the hole is that I now know that she is fantasizing about this as well as I am.

I think it will simply come down to finding someone who intrigues her, and is into our fantasy.

I did put an add on CraigsList last night. Numerous replies. I'd prefer to just meet someone in a bar more naturally, but the downside of that is they are more likely to now want a husband watching.

She's really horny and wants to fuck. She's showering up and getting her pussy all fresh for me. Is she excited by all the talk???

I am going to give her a strong take, and really work her up. I am then going to come out and ask her directly what she thinks about what I've talked about over the last couple of days. I know her and she wont come out and admit she wants a strangers fat cock in her wet pussy...what I'm hoping for is that she questions me about the details. "you really want to see me with another man?" "That really turns you on?" "You really won't get jealous?" "How far would you want it to go?" "Are you going to ask me if it's ok to fuck another woman?" "How would we decide on who to do it with?"
The last two questions are the most important. If she feels confident that I won't want to fuck another woman (doesn't even turn me on anymore...all my fantasies over the last 10+ years are always about her getting fucked, not me), and then setting up the logistics to make it happen. If she asks about that I am in.

Let's see how horny I can get her. I will try and take some pictures of her so I can post them for you guys in a couple of hours.
Stay tuned...

We're all tuned in, and eagerly waiting for your updates!

So Saturday night went as planned. We came home a little takes, and had a couple takes at home...
She was horny. We both got showered up (I love eating fresh pie and ass) and lay down together. She brought it up by herself, asking me if I was serious by what I had kept bringing up. She asked the question, but acted surprised by my very obvious response. I could see the wheels turning in her mind. But, I also wasnt buying the act. While I think she was genuinely surprised that I wanted to see it through, I think she definitely has known for along time that is something that really turns me on.
We must have talked about it for 30-45 minutes. She was excited, nervous, a little disgusted, curious...for awhile it seemed like I really offended her, but just when it seemed like she might be repulsed at the idea, she would ask me a follow up question like how we would find someone, and say something like 'what if someone saw us'? suggesting she was at least thinking it through to the next level. She would say "I don't think I could ever do something like that...what if someone saw us...?" or 'I don't think I could ever do something like that...how would we choose the right permister...?"
So, while I knew she was aroused by the conversation, I was surprised that I didn't get an obvious 'we can try maybe, but I don't know if I'll be able to go through with it (or something like that)..."

But we had incredible sex after the conversation. Maybe the best sex we have ever had (at least since we have been married).
I decided not to press the issue, as I didn't want to turn her off by being too powerful. So when I awoke the next am, I didn't mention it at all. I think she was expecting me to.

Before the conversation the night before I had mentioned to her a couple of times that I really wanted her to go out shopping and by some sexy clothes and heels (she never wears heels) so she would look irresistible in the bar when we went out trying to find a stranger to mount and cream her sweet pussy. Sunday afternoon, after the conversation appeared to not go as well as I hoped, she says "I also have to go shopping today and get some new clothes that you want me to wear."
As I was shaving she asked me if it would also turn me on to shave her pussy for her before we leave for Vegas. She has never shaved her pussy since we have been together.
So, I think she is intrigued by the idea, and the fantasy part (at the very least) is exciting her. At the very least I think she will want to get takes and can be talked into dressing sexy/slutty enough to attract attention to her. She loves going to bars and dancing with random guys who always try and bounce off her butt. That is a scenario that is quite probable; if she happens to have the right guy do the bouncing, and he strikes up a conversation...???

Thnks for this great update, you should have quite an interesting week and week-end ahead
It is hard to see how far she is ready to go, but as long as what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, she might well surprise you
Good luck, enjoy the ride!

So tomorrow am we are leaving for Vegas for the weekend.
She was under the weather the last couple of days, but completely over it today. She has been very frisky with me all day.
I bought her some lingerie today and told her this was what she was going to wear for whatever new man she brings back to the room. She looked into me eyes and gave me the naughtiest look with a devilish little grin on her face. I was taken aback, as our conversation about her fucking another man didn't go as I anticipated on Sat night.
She tried the lingerie on and modeled it for me. Again I said she will look so beautiful in that for a complete stranger.
She didn't respond (at this point she looked so hot, I know she was making herself wet)..I said this weekend is all about making fantasies come true.
Her response was that we should then also discuss her making her fantasy of watching me with another man come true. She has brought that up, half jokingly, a bunch of times in the past, but not for a long time.
With her involved, I think I would actually love to do that...

Tonight when I got home from work she comes up to me and says "I booked a massage and mani/pedi at the spa...they asked me if I had a preference if it is a man or woman who does the massage, and I told them I definitely wanted a man. I know it would turn you on." She is normally very insecure about that and will only receive a massage from another woman.
I immediately sprung a woody. I looked at her, and she was blushing.
She later asked me to make sure I shave her pussy before she goes for the massage.

I went up to her and gave her a kiss and put her hand on my hard cock. She said that "it's only a fantasy...I'm not really going to have sex with anyone." But there was nowhere near the same level of "no" involved as when we discussed it on Sat night.
I told her she didn't have to do anything with anyone, ever...but I just wanted her to know, if the right guy ever comes along, and if she's feeling frisky and wants to do it, I fully support her and would love for her to follow through with it. She was absolutely silent.

I think she is thinking this through. She is not a parties. In fact she's an early bird, even when we go away. She told me today she has to take a nap tomorrow if I want to stay up late and get crazy. She would never go to a club with me. It's clear she is already planning for that.
I think her and I are on the same page as how this would happen if it happened...we go to a club, and she goes dancing while I sit on the sidelines and watch (which is normal for us the few times we have gone to a club together). She's a pretty girl, and invariably guys always end up grinding on her. Maybe that's as far as it gets and her and I come home and have the most incredible sex bc we both know we were open to meeting a stranger to bring back to the room. Maybe that possibility is enough for now to make for great sex. Or maybe we do find her Mr RightCock.

Thanks for all these details, and sharing your thoughts , this should be an exciting week-end whatever happens, I do hope that you will both enjoy very much stepping into new territory! (including sharing a man ? )

Good luck with your trip. Hope she opens up and finds a stud to fuck her silly.

I look forward to the updates and would love to see some pic's of her.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

We are driving to Vegas right now. Still a couple hours away.
We had a very open conversation as we started the drive.
She has changed her tune dramatically since the first conversation. 15 minutes into the drive she says she I better not want her to have sex with someone way older or younger." "I only want to be with someone around my same age"....
She then says "you realize not every man will want to have you watch...."

She then says "how will we find someone"? I say it will be difficult perhaps, but likely many guys who are experienced will be into it...or, we could always go to a Vegas swing club."
She responds with "No...would you want to go there.?" She sounds disgusted so I say "no"...she says but that sounds like the best place to find someone"...
I suggest we should go check it out...see if we see any men she is interested in...if so we invite them back to our hotel room....if not, we go home and high like bunny rabbits bc we are so turned on by all the men hoping to fuck you."
She says only "how do we find a place like that?"

30 minutes later we stop for lunch....snd as I'm looking at the menu she says "there he is"
I say "who?"
She says "the forest guy I'd like to relax with."
Shes driving while I type on my phone. she has no idea I'm posing this. Shes still a little shy, but it is now her fantasy too. She wants to fuck a complete stranger!!!
It may our may not happen this weekend but it is on. She wants to feel a complete strangers cock bw her legs!

We have talked non stop sex. She told me he would have to wear a condom. Not for oral, but for penetration.

Thanks a lot for the update, il looks like things are progressing quite faster than you were expecting them to
She's amazing
Please keep posting like that if you can, that would be super!

This thread is moving in a great direction! Best of luck to you both.

We checked into our hotel and went out...
As we were out she asked me to point out men who I'd like to watch her with. I asked her to do the same. She couldn't come up with anyone, and really, neither could I. We were just sitting on a bench people watching outside.

Tonight is our party night. Last night we came upstairs early as we were both tired. Tonight we are going to hit a comedy club to loosen her up, and then she says she may be open to checking out a swingers club out here, " just to see what it is like." I would say there is no chance at her having sex in there, but she herself suggested "that seems like the kind of place we could find a man that is into that type of thing."

She has moments where she seems to really desire to follow through, and other moments her good girl side says no. But what matters is arousal plus holy water because she definitely wants it, but is scared and shy.

She just left for her massage. She pulled up her skirt and asked me to eat her pussy before she left. It was soaked...I'm sure it is the thought of the male masseur that has her going. I told her to take my hotel door key card and give it to him, so he can come into the room and fuck her while I'm powerd to wait in the hall. That's when she asked me to eat her.

We had great sex last night, and again in the middle of the night.

great thread.. good luck

Thanks for the latest update, and good luck to both of you!

I hope you both get the time of your life. Thanks for sharing.
Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut

She has agreed to go to the swingers club. She even wants to go shopping to buy a new sexy dress for the occasion.

When I saw her after her massage, she said her masseur was ready good liking but gay...i knew she was turned on, so I played it really cool...i told her I was over it, snd last nihht was enough for me. We didn't have to have any more sex.
She, somewhat startlingly, was ready disappointed, and said "what about all the sex talk, and going to that swingers club...you really dont want to do that anymore?"
That i's what I suspected....shes really turned on by this but teething really hard to play it off like it is just me.

As we were leaving our room, she says to me "would it turn yiu on yi watch me suck another mans cuck?"
I was shocked. We were not in the midst of a sexual conversion, our anything. If that would turn you on, yiu know how much I like to suck cock."
I was breathless. I played it off as best I could under the circumstances. I think if I act like this is a huge deal, she starts to second guess herself.

We are now laying in bed for a nap sfo we can stay up late tonight she i's ******. My cock i's too hard to let me relax. She is arelax bc she wants to make sure she doesnt get too relaxy to go to the swingers club after our comedy show (which ends around midnight)...

Before falling arelax now she said "I'm not going to fuck anyone tonight." But she already said she wants to suck
cock...she is sober and not horned up...i think she i's going to be in for a huge surprise what happens when her sex hormones take over her every thought, while she already has decided that it i's ok to suck another mans cock.
If she stays in the club for 30 minutes (ie doesnt get disgusted and want to leave right away), I'm betting she fucks in the avtual club tonight, with more than just me watching...

cannot wait to see how this turns out

+1, hope you had a great evening!

That's a very long wait
Was the evening ok, different from anticipated, better, worse, great...

Hope your evening went well.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

Nice thread I hope it develops into a ccuck night ;)
Cheers
abitloon

Sorry for the wait guys...

Got her really takes, and she agreed to go to the swing club. She was so nervous. She said she was more nervous than our wedding day, as we took a cab over there. I think she was ready to go through with it. It was such a turn on!
However once we got there it was extremely disappointing! Not to sound judge mental, but the crowd was nothing either her or I were into. Quite literally many of the people were old enough to be our grandparents.
She was very disappointed, as was I.

We hung out for awhile and went home.

The next am she told me she never wanted to do anything like that again, as she would never be into having sex with those kinds of me. She said she could only have sex with someone she was not only physically attracted to, but also felt an emotional connection to.

I said that is what I would want anyways. I would want her to really want the other man. I suggested we post an ad on CL, or something like that. She said no. I explained that what we could do is filter through potential applicants, and when we find the right guy, we could get a hotel room at a nice place, and meet the permister for dinner/takes...if she finds the permister and scenario turns her on, we could go upstairs and see how far she wants to allow it to go.
She was quiet.

After a little while she asked if I wanted her to blow me while I was driving. She went down on me on the highway...came up for air and said "let's do it..."

So while the weekend was ultimately disappointing, I would say it exceeded my expectations because now, dead sober, and without being in a perverted hyper sexual state, she is not only openly discussing the subject, she is talking about the details that would need to go in preparation for a successful night, and also being very detailed on the things shed like to do, and have done with a complete stranger. She's a very shy inhibited woman, and to hear her open up to me about her fantasies is not only extremely rare, but mind blowing. I actually had her talking to me about guys we both knew that shed like to fuck. Extremely sexy!

We had the best sex of our lives that night. She talked into my ear, giving me a play by play of how she would proceed with him. She then set up a mirror so I could see my cock in her from another vantage point and said "that is what it's going to look like when he's fucking me...does that turn you on?" I filled her with so much cream...she whispered in my ear "I love the way that hot cream feels inside of me. I've never told you that, but I love that feeling."

Anyways, this will take some time to find the one, but it will be mind blowing when it happens.

Thanks for the detailed update; I was getting worried after a few days without news, and I am delighted to see how things seem to be going , it is better to take your time, and organize things carefully together
Good luck for the coming days!

So what's new???

Well, since the Vegas trip she's playfully brought it up a few times. We have been having more sex than usual, and it has been way better.
Something is different with her. She's too shy to say much, and still plays like it is my fantasy, but without her telling me so, I think this has become an extreme turn on for her.
We had incredible sex after Vegas. It was then that time of the month for her...since she finished that, she has been Horner than I've ever seen her.
The first night she made a comment about a threesome, and I gave her my iPad, and told her to read what I had been reading (stories about wives having their first times)...
I thought she might freak out, but instead she grabbed the iPad and started reading in bed. She went silent. I crawled down between her legs and proceeded to eat her soaking wet pussy until she had an intense orgasm.
She woke up in the am and said she couldn't relax at all last night because "I really got her motor running."
The next day I chose another story for her and we did it again.
Tonight, she said we are going to go into the city for OctoberFest and spend the night at a friends. I jokingly suggested "why don't we get a hotel room instead, and we can see what else we can come up with to do (as I gave her a wink and very mischievous smirk)."

Her reply (her face all red from embarrassment) : "ok, let's do that...and I'm giving you permission to do some research to find someone I might want to do that with."
My chin dropped, and my cock sprung to action so fast, I thought I might pull a tendon in there.

I asked if she was serious, but by the look on her face I could tell I didn't need to. She was in.
She said I could look on Craigslist. I told her I had read AFF was the best place to look. She said go for it.
Stay tuned.