I need everyones help!

I have been an original poster in the Subconscious Stimulation area. What has happened this week needs much more attention and I am asking for a “all hands on deck” to help me with this.

I have been trying to convince my wife to fuck another man for about 15 years. We have been married for 25. She has shown very little interest and I have had mixed results with my attempts in bed. I have verbalized and role played at various frequencies between a couple times a year to once or twice a month. Sex is typically very aggressive and I am very verbal. She always orgasms but never plays along willingly.

I have had good luck with the Loving Whisper but never a break through. I had really taken the summer off from LW and just started over the Labor Day weekend. I had a couple of sessions and then on Labor Day evening around 1:00 am I was working the program. I tend to keep it simple and match her breathing with phrases like…..Kathy you want big thick black cock deep in your married white pussy. Some variations but that is the central theme. I have always had good luck with getting small changes of breathing and have done it off and on for about a year.

I got really horny during that session and reached over to wake her up with some slow caressing. Usually, she knows when I wake her up that it means some dirty sex. Suddenly, she whips off the covers and says that she had had it. I am done with you and this is the last time she is doing this. She said that she heard me talking about it (LW) and it is not normal. I will spare you the details but it was about an hour long fight and divorce was brought up several times by both parties. We rarely fight and have a fantastic relationship so deep down this was just bluster from both sides.

When things calm down she wants to go ahead and have sex. I am holding her off because I felt bad for making her feel so bad. She was just offering it out as “make up sex”. Then it happened. She climbed up on me and said that she just needed to remind herself that it was just the two of us. Then we proceeded to have some of the wildest cuckold role playing sex EVER!

I could go on for pages but she agreed to let me bring another man in. Her only stipulation was that he was “Not Black”. Unfortunately, that is my main fantasy but went with the younger man scenario. She went wild and was actually verbalizing proactively. She was sucking my fingers and hand talking cock and licking balls. Her pussy was SOAKED and she was air humping. She answered everything I said with a resounding YES. Very passionate. I told her I wanted to clean her up after and when she came for about the 5th time I asked her if she needed cleaned and she said yes and get every drop. UNBELIEVEABLE.

Many more one liners but I am looking for support and advice. This could be it but I do not want to lose the momentum or screw it up.

It took me some time to convince my wife to cuckold me. Through out the years before, my wife would sometimes play along, and sometimes get angry with me for bringing it up. Then it happened. It was what she and I both agree, a special situation. It happened between my wife and our best friend/neighbor. It went on for about a year and then stopped. As with many here, the fantasy involved a black guy, me getting to watch...etc. When it came down to it, our neighbor is white, and I never got to watch. I took what I could get, and I suggest you do the same.

I obviously still have the fantasies, but at this point she does not play along at all. She gets upset or just ignores my comments most of the time. She tells me at this point its just not going to happen again.

My suggestions to you are:

Talk to her outside the bedroom. You two should be able to speak about it, if she is serious, without getting under each others skin.

Make sure you two set up ground rules.

Make sure she is not doing this just for you, its for both of you, well to honest, mainly for her to get the "main course" and you the "left overs".


Basically, you just need to have a "real" conversation about this. Not an angry, charged up conversation.

In my opinion, the best type of cuckold relationship is the "loving cuckold relationship". You might want to at some point show her this site.

Good luck, keep us posted.

Go with the younger man idea and don't push her about black men
Agree you should discuss this outside of bed
Had she been awake for long during Lw and was she freaked by it?
Were all here to support you

Thanks for everyone commnets.

Karencuck.....I believe that she had only been awake for a short time and not for any of the other sessions over this past year. She did freak out and it was the catalyst for the blow up. She has always been a sound relaxer and I believe the LW has been effective to a point. I know many people have been afraid that this might happen and when you are busted like I was it is pretty bad.

However, it all worked out great since she really took off this week at a level that is incredible. I first wondered if I was dreaming. We have had twice a night sex for three days straight that has been initiated by her. During this weeks roleplay she has said things that would make me believe that she had been cucking me for years. I pretend that I am the bull and she is screaming fuck me, saying that she loves cock, moaning and groaning like a slut, air humping. I make her tell me how small her husbands cock is and how much she likes mine. I set back and make her play with herself to orgasm and tell her how much I love watching her with other men.

I think we need to take a few night off however, not to wear it out. I of course have already made a misstep by getting a dildo for night three. I have had several over the years and although she says she is not a fan.....On the other hand she has had some great orgasms over the years also. It was too big and did not work out well and was a mood *******er for a bit. Made a nice comeback and climbed on top of her inserting the dildo just a little and making her tell me over and over that the bull owned her pussy.

Sounds like u have broken through a wall so to speak and both Feel the better for it
Next stage is to get her planning how to meet someone while she is open to the idea before she reverts to type
Best of luck