Cucks dilemma...advice pls

hi all, you all know my wife and have seen her being enjoyed by blacks. I as a good cuck love to find men for her to suck and fuck as I watch and take pictures. We do discuss sex a lot in bed and out of it. While one of our discussions she asked me if she would let her go alone on a date or take a lover. In my heat I told her I would love for her to have a boyfriend especially, black. My wife told me if she dd have a boyfriend I wont be able to watch as he may not want hubby to watch. I was hot and mentioned I don't mind as long as she comes back home well fucked (no creampies for me as she practices safe sex).

Well, I forgot about our discussion until recently...when my wife told me that at her gym there is a black coach who is hitting on her. She told me he pays special attention to her and was helping her with stretching after exercises...my wife spread her legs so much that he couldn't believe and asked if she can spread them more. My wife told me that he had her hands on her thighs opening them more and she was telling him that she can open them more. My wife says he was sitting in front of her open legs and his cock was all hard pointing up in the air. She looked at it and he got up and she left. I was really hard listening to all this and again after weeks I heard nothing until yesterday.

My wife was all excited when she got back from gym yesterday. After dinner she asked me to sit down as she had something to tell me. She had this excited voice and me being me could not guess what she wanted to share until she dropped the bomb. She told me if I remembered her black coach from gym? I said yes I do, the one who helped her stretch.

To be continued...

My wife was smiling and moved closer to me looking right into my eyes she said, he kissed me today. I was shocked to say the least. She told me after workout he followed her to women's changing room and she was the last one leaving. As she was getting ready he tapped her shoulder, she didnt expect him to be there and no way so close. The moment she turned he kissed on her lips. Acoording to her he was very hot, he had his hand on her ass as he was trying to put his tongue in her mouth. At this point she pushed him and he tried to kiss her some more, but she told him she was getting late. He didnt waste time asking my wife her number which she gave to him.

In my wifes words...he is in early 30s, all muscles, bald as all black men are and taller than her. I liked what she said, he was looking down into my eyes when kissing me. Once done with her story, she asked me again if I was Ok for her to take a lover, a boyfriend who will fuck her, but I wont get to watch? I was shocked, excited, jealous...these were my real feelings. She told me I look jealous. I guess I am, but was also excited listening to this and of the reality of her having a real black boyfriend. My wife told me it was obvious he wanted to fuck her and good news is that she wants to be fucked by him. She said, it was clear that in next few weeks she would be fucked by him and I wont be watching. I was still shocked. My wife noticed the look on my face and commented, I should have thought about it when I told her it was ok for her to have a boyfriend. This was all real and not some fantasy. She went on to say, she likes other men and I always thought she was fucking for my pleasure infact, she likes to be fucked by men she finds sexy and her black coach is one of them. She said, she wants to fuck him and feel his muscled body on her without me being there.

Here is where I am confused...should I let her go alone with him? I feel odd that she will be fucking her coach. My wife was talking about them going out for takes or dinner. We live in a small town and people will look at my sexy blonde wife and muscled black man wherever they will go. What if someone recognizes her? I will become official cuckold and that's scary. She told me she already knows that first time he will fuck her at his place. How will she go to his place alone with him? We never did this and scared for her to be alone with sex hungry black man...her potential boyfriend.

For now my wife is waiting for his message or a call...

last bbc of wife

If I were you, I wouldn´t allow her to do it (if you can still control her).

After all, it is YOUR pleasure that counts.

HWH

Embrace it... It's not so different really. He mainly wants to fuck her and it isn't a real threat. She's a big girl and can be discrete and will be fine in his place. I think it's more important that you trust her at this stage. Consider it a new dimension. If you try to stop her it's sort of a breach of trust IMO and is maybe a step backwards (she might cheat also, which would suck)

You'd be surprised how many trainers fuck their (often married) clients. It's a pretty safe situation all things considered

I remember you had "wife as escort" fantasies too right? (that was good stuff) well.......... This is pretty much it

Of course you should let her, just think how amazingly hot the stories will be when she gets back completely satisfied

OK, I have to agree this is true. Two of my female close friends (not fuck buddies, just friends), both married, told me that they had ONS with their trainers.

After a night of relax, I think you should let her do it, but you should try to set some rules (them being VERY discreet in public - maybe no dinner together in a public place -, that she tells you every detail, and that she continues to allow you to participate in situations with other black men). As I know that you like to dominate the slut, it is very important that she knows that is YOUR will in the end that matters.

But it´s tricky, as I´m sure you don´t want to loose that piece of blonde ass that she is...

This is what permisteral trainers do! They train whites to perform permisteral services.

As her permisteral assistant, you should be making sure she has everything she needs to perform and lovingly sucking her clean afterwards.

Once you can be trusted to be a good slave, you might be promoted to designated driver.

thanks for your comments guys...

HWH my first reaction was like yours, I should not let her go alone to fuck another man afterall watching is my fun. But, thebitbucket has a point, that he just wants to fuck her and not a threat though, he doesn't know or realise she is married...he sent her a message to meet for takes. If he knew she was married why he would? My wife replied she cant today and he called her. She didn't pick up the phone so he left a message proposing to take her out for dinner next week. Shes been asking me what to do. Im not sure about their public meet...if they r out in public people will notice as according to my wife he is quite black and shes a blonde. For now Im just trying to come to terms with the fact that she will fuck her trainer and without me being there...If I dont allow her I also feel it will be step backwards. My wife is expressing her sexuality and I should let her on my terms...what should be or not be the next steps?

I am definitely against them meeting in public specially if you live in a small town.

Tell your slut that she has to tell the trainer that she is married so she can´t be seen with him in public... make her suggest to him to meet at his place (be sure it´s safe before letting her go there!) or make her suggest a hotel room... so he´ll know that she IS a slut ;)

However, another point you have to think about: if the guy wants more from her than just a fuck, if he starts wanting to see her every day etc., this can become a problem for you (and for her, too, if she just wants a fuck).

In any case, talk to her clearly about all the possible consequences.

Are you crazy man, of course you should let her. It is not all about you...it's also about her and now also about him. You let the cat in the door, now you have to feed it before it pisses on your couch.

Lmao.....pisses on your couch.

HWH you are right about them meeting in public, Im not ready for her to do that, but my cock twitches at the thought of it...Today we were discussing and she said they could meet in a small cafe as no one will know her there. If someone sees them, she could say he is a colleague though, after she laughed and said, he doesn't look like a colleague so I guess looks like a black bull. I did tell her about a hotel meet directly i.e no social meet and yes it will be clear to him she just needs a fuck and is probably cheating on husband. Also he may want to take a role of her boyfriend and would want to meet her often. Again I always said, it was ok for her to have a permanent black lover so now she reminds me of that.

draclif I get it that its not about me and I know I have no choice, but to let her fuck him. Shes been like a teenager this weekend talking about him and when I allow her to meet him. She will o him without me there and if I chicken out it will be step backward in cuck lifestyle...? I can later use this to find other black men, her fun my fun kind of thing...more thoughts.

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What do u guys think about the situation? My wife told me that next week she will be fucking him and is still wondering if to meet publicly or not...Infact she would fuck him this week, but she just finished ovulating and is not on pill so better next week. In my wife words, you don't want to find out I'm pregnant next month and then keep wondering for 9 months who's the Dad! I know she was kidding as she would never do bareback, but she is certainly playing with my emotions...well I created my hotwife and look what I got. Your thoughts?

Well...
You know I have no kink about pregnancy, it just doesn't turn me on.
But I guess she is starting to come out as the one deciding whom and when to fuck, and IF you may watch or not. This is what makes me wonder if you will like the outcome...
You should have a very clear discussion with her and tell her what are your limits. YOUR limits.
Do you have a pic of her permisteral trainer for us to imagine who is the lucky guy who will be using that piece of fuck meat that is your blonde Russian wife ??

The thought of pregnancy is extreme so exciting, but not for us...

For sure she is taking the lead. She had a call from him today, but she did not share any details with me. Im thinking of going with the flow...I did imagine her having a boyfriend so my own fault I guess. Sorry dont have his picture and I have not even seen the man who will fuck my wife.

2000 views with few good men keeping the post and forum afloat. Do we have real people here who can advice or only masturbators?

wife called me now. they spoke again on phone, she told him she is married, but he still wants to meet her outside gym...for a talk. She was telling me she doesn't know what to say or do? She was asking for my advice. For now I told her, it was her decision so whatever she wants is OK with me. I want her to take ownership of this affair especially, now as she is having second thoughts. I did suggest that I was ok with it and maybe she should tke it slow and not commit to anything when meeting tonight. Im quite sure he will be kissing her again tonight and he wont be keeping his tongue in his mouth so, hot and wet kiss from her would be boyfriend is certainly on tonight...What should be the next steps for shaky wife and me the cuck?

I have followed your posts for some time now and my advice is to let her do whatever she wants. Once you are with the idea I just know you will find it even hornier than anything else you have done.

Let her go for it.

She doesn't need to lie about him--just say that he's her trainer, which of course is the truth. Anyone who wants to ask more permisteral questions can be replied to with "Why would you ask something like that?"

Christine (a sissy m)

agree, and you will LIKE it.

Thanks guys for ur input. To be honest to you even if I like being cuck on special occasions here I'm fighting with my inner jealousy for some reamister. Though I know it us the right thing to do to allow her to go for the meet and more or my cuckold life is in jeopardy as I'm sure this topic will come back. I hope thrax and others who share his opinion about me liking it are right. Also Christine has a point about her being honest and if someone asks more you ask why?! Her course starts in 2 hours and they mert right after outsude gym. Im even tempted to go and wTch from far though not sure. More thoughts please

Shes already one hour late than usual and still no news from her. Im having strange feeling like stomach turning thinking what they may be upto. I somehow hope it is only kissing tonight or not or more...so confused...

Still no news and no reply to message I sent to her asking where...

Good luck, I am sure you will enjoy whatever happens later.....

I'm sure he enjoy it right now...

Well it's been a whole day, you MUST know something by now! Man you are way too uptight for this kinda stuff. You should NOT be jealous of your woman expressing her sexuality with black men. At least she's not sneaking around and trying to hide her activities. You should also understand that she just can't be herself when you are always there watching. And MOST black men don't appreciate the cuckold viewpoint anyway. My wife's former lover (from before we were married) used to call her all the time, even after we were married...because that's what they do. They don't care if they are married or not once they know that white pussy is open for business. I used to love to sit and listen to them talk, without him knowing. He was a smooth operator. She said he has a SWINGING DICK too...down to his knees! My wife made the mistake one time (when I was NOT around to coach her) of telling him that I was into that sort of thing and would like for them to get it on with me watching. Well that did it...he was throughly pissed off and didn't have anything to do with her for a long time. He still doesn't really. He moved out of state and has tried to call her once I think since all of that. My advice is just to loosen up and enjoy the ride. The more you let her enjoy that Big Black Dick, the better she is going to treat you. You don't always have to be there watching to gain real pleasure. Sometimes half the fun is NOT knowing what is happening. Once my wife fucked another black guy while I was at work. I knew of course and she was sending me pics on her cell phone. My heart was pounding out of my chest, but NOT from jealousy. I was so excited for her as I knew that pussy of hers was getting a pounding. It's really hot when your woman comes home to you with that freshly fucked look, and YOU didn't have to be the one to give it to her. Enjoy! There's nothing like it.

yes, I know now...as she was back late. Well, they did meet in public. After gym the went for a dinner to a small restaurant next to the gym, which is in the same area where we live. According to her they just spoke a lot about useless things or she is not giving all details...lol. He wanted to know if she had problems in her marriage and was surprised to hear that all is well and Im a good husband to her. The good news is that he is married as well, but he did drop a hint to her that he met other people (I suppose women) and they would just tell how unhappy they were. I guess at this point it must have been clear for him that my wife just looking for sex with a black man. After dinner they came out and kissed deep in front of the restaurant. She said, she looked around and there were some random people. She was being cheeky as had a smile on her face. Hope noone we know saw them...

I asked more about him. He is from Tunisia so surprised that he is black. Always thoughts they were only Arabs. So he is Muslim black. According to my wife in her words, "if I saw him on street I would say look at that bodybuilder nigger". I asked her what next and she replied she doesn't know though, I know her enough to feel that she is ready for him. She told me hes on holiday for two weeks starting next week so early next week or after his return they would do the dirty deed Im quite sure...My wife even told me it is not possible at his place as he is married so she is already thinking about plans. I blurted, what about hotel as you would feel like a real whore. She smiled and said yes, hotel is ther only way and as hes just an instructor at gym I should pay for the hotel room. Can u imagine my wife asking me to pay for the room where she will fuck a black man I dont even know?

brunettewatcher thanks for your detailed point of view, this is good feedback. You are right I should not be uptight, but still Im a man and in my days fucked a few married women on regular basis so I know she will be in for dirty sex so feel kind of jealous. Im quite sure there is no stopping now and she would fuck him while I will wait at home. Im mentally preparing myself for choosing her dress, lipstick, panties, etc for that evening. She is not new to blacks so one more or less wont make much difference...trying to say to myself. So, hope to see that freshly fuckd look on her face soon...

Sorry in advance for aquick reply to a long and interesting life report.

Good stuff youre posting and living trhough. Just make sure that whats rolling is what you both want and you should note come out scorched in the end. Happy thrills

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