How did you start as a cuckold?

My initiation into cuckolding started in college. I am bi now, though had never done anything with another guy at the time. I had a black dorm roommate. His regular girlfriend was "saving" herself for marriage (this is 1970s) and he would come home with blue balls after their intense makeout sessions.

He complained to her and she suggested that he get relief from his white roomie. One night, he came home frustrated as usual and I had been takeing. He told me came out of the shower naked with a nice boner and told me what she said. He walked right up to me sitting at my desk and I saw that nice, hard black cock inches from my face and just opened my mouth and took it in. He didn't last a minute and I was swallowing a warm load. It was weird at first.

It became a regular thing for me to take care of his blue balls after his dates with her. She started coming in after dates to watch me suck him off. It was pretty damn hot!! I was lucky enough to meet my future wife who got into the lifestyle easily. He was her first bull and I continued taking care of him by fluffing him for her and cleaning them both after their fuck sessions.
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she must have loved watching you take care of him
joguy

is this cuckolding? you are bi and love to suck cock...so what?

how is your wife into the lifestyle? I mean cuckold lifstyle, or just watching you sucking cock?
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

I guess the cuckold lifestyle may start as a voyeur thing even before you are married or have a steady relationship with someone. For instance, one may find interest in watching a pretty neighbour with her bf when they're making out or in bed.

They have these things called dictionaries which you ought to check out. Look up cuckold. While you are at it, look up fellatio. Look up bisexual or gay or homosexual. Sucking a dick has nothing to do really with cuckoldry. Don't believe me, check out Merriam-Webster (it's a dictionary, duh).

Hi Again

There is a link that describes this in a goo way I think....here the definition of a hotwaif....if you have a wife/gf in this range, you definetly are a cuckold

The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

One point can be set here: if you have an unfaithful partner (wife or gf), and you know it and consent with it, then you're a cuckold - no matter if you have homossexual or bisexual tendencies or not. Actually, you may start as a cuckold because you have such tendencies, or life may guide you that way for other reamisters. A friend of mine who's a cuckold said so!

Well name, you are right to an extent. Actually, if you have an unfaithful partner, whether you know it or not you are a cuckold, according to the dictionary. It doesn't matter whether you know it and consent, or you are clueless. A cuckold is simply a man whose partner is screwing someone else.
But obviously if you didn't know about it, you'd be unlikely to be in places like this site posting comments! LOL

By most definitions you have to be married to be a cuckold. You can fantasize your gf is your wife and then you can fantasize that you are a cuck old but alas you are not a cuckold in the strictest sense.

"The normal definition of a cuckold is a married man whose wife cheats on him with or without his knowledge"

Not saying any of us are normal here ;) I think if your girlfriend cheats on you well then she is a slut and i love her for it.

I would like to add my little story. I already posted it in the stories section , under "OUr cuckold evolution" . Do please check it out! I would love to hear comments and questions.

Something involved with the question which gives name to this thread is the exact moment and the way it happened. I do believe there are two basic types of cuckolds: those who became cuckolds just by accident or even ***ly - and those who seeked that status or even powerd the situation. In the first case, the moment is, by definition, uncertain - and there could be several ways for it to happen. In the second, most guys (or women) look in the ads, try the internet, go to swingers' clubs and stuff like that to make it happen. However, when they let the situation go on, they tend to become the same type of cuckold: the one who knows and consents with that situation.

It started at a Pig Roast and keg party.
Both her and her friends and me and my friends were early arrivals.
We met early in the day and bumped into each other all day.
She was cute, younger than me, and I swear she flirted with me.
Skip the boring part here.

So much later that night I ask her for a date and her phone number.
Looking back, I guess I groveled and begged.
Ok she agrees to dinner out in a few days and no phone number yet.
Boring stuff here also.

It was at Dinner she said "Look we need to talk" and I knew this was serious.
She told me straight out that there are 2 guys that she occasionally has sex with.
She has no plans to give up either one of them.
Of all the guys she ever slept with these 2 were by far the best lovers.
One of the 2 she hadn't gone 2 months without having sex with him since she was 18.
And at the end she throws in they are both black and have big dicks.
Then she goes into how she thinks I'm really "Sweet" and would love to spend time with me.
She said that if we were to date, she wanted all this on the table up front.
She said all her friends and family have met these 2 guys and know they are her lovers.
So if we were to date, everybody will know she had black lovers.
And she told me she refused to hide it from my friends and family either.
Then she looked me in the eye and said:
"Now Willie, do you still want to date me?'

Gosh, that seems like 100 years ago.
Any way, with in 6 months we moved in together.
We are still together.
So there you go, that's how it stared.

3inchwhitewillie

A close friend told me he learned he was a cuckold one afternoon, when he got home unexpectedly early. His wife was in bed with a younger black guy from a local delivery store and he decided not to interrupt them, chosing to watch it without making any sound and remaining unnoticed. When his wife discussed the matter with him time later, after she had been seing the guy for almost a year, he simply acknowledge the fact but told her he preferred to go on with their marriage, even if he had no longer the ordinary 'marital rights'. Now he just watches them from now and then, when his wife and her lover are in a good mood and decide to let him watch.

My wife and a coworker of hers flirted often at work. One day he stopped by the house on his lunch hour (she was off, I was at work).
I got home that afternoon and she greeted me with a BIG wet kiss and said she had "company" earlier. She dragged me to bed and as we had sex told me how she had sucked her coworker off while he played with her pussy!
From there we have progressed to her getting fucked in front of me and having me clean her up.

By talking. talking. talking....one day she (my ex) initiated the talking...later admitted that it turned her on...later, well, I was a cuckold
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Actually my sister was the first one to tease me about my small penis and cause me to get excited by it. She had only seen mine before she started dating but after her third or fourth boyfreind she started teasing me about how much smaller I was than the other guys she had seen and didn't I get embarrassed when I was in the shower with other guys. I started to get errect when she would tease me about it and when she saw this, she would tease me even more.

So drdneast: you have a small dick...bad/good for you

But, what has that to do with cuckolding, and how did it start for you?

I myself have a big cock...but I am still a cuckold....
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

While we were dating (and fucking), my then girlfriend admitted that she loved variety in cocks and would always do so. I thought she was BS'ing me as I was naive enough to think that she loved my thick, 7" cock so much that why would she need other ones. Until I chanced upon her in her bed, her legs spread up and out, while the guy next door, a school chum, was rapidly sliding his cock in and out of her very wet and very eager pussy. I jerked off what was then the biggest and hardest erection I ever had while watching them. When I saw him tense up and blast his load into her welcoming cunt, I blew a record load! I knew then that the cuckold lifestyle was for me and that I had to have this slut marry me.

The erection and load records were broken the first time I saw another guy fuck and breed the slut who was now my wife.
A man has not lived until he watches another man fuck his wife!

Actually most people have it wrong. Actually a cuckold is one who has an unfaithful spouse and he rarely knows in advance of her infidelities. A Wittol is one who knows and encourages his wife's extramarital indiscretions. Either way the wife normally comes home with a red swollen cum dripping pussy that she shares with hubby.

You're the first I have heard this from other than my wife telling me that was what I was to be was her Wittol. Very few people know the term. When my wife told me that, I agreed and had to look it up. She knew exactly because we had agreed she would keep having sex with other men and would have no problem with it. She says it comes from a term meaning a Witless permister in old English and basically means you agree with her keeping her lovers.

Thanks Scubarogue, I try. I think most start out as a cuckold then one of two things happens. They can't handle it and seperste from their wife or they accept who she is and in time become a Wittol. From reading most of the post on this site I would say most are Wittols.

Mine started when my wife found out I fucked someone else. She went out and got even. When she was telling me about it she saw how hard I was and she said I was a sissy and asked me to put her nylon stockings on. I did and then she made me eat her pussy. I came without touching myself. She said that she would never stop and has been fucking a regular boyfriend since. She buys me lingerie and I wear it when she comes home to make me eat her pussy. I wouldn't have it any way. I love it!other

So she was teasing with the witless part? Sounds like her. I asked and she just laughed and said that was what most thought of men who enjoy being a knowing cuckold. Men get all her good and you just lick around the edges after everyone is finished. Then we agreed to keep everything the same and the girls could keep thinking I am witless if they prefer. She made it sort of a turn on the way she explained it and finished saying, after all, everyone knows you can't fuck. I had to admit I like the way the women act and will talk openly knowing I'm not a possibility sexually and that she gets her from her men.

I don't think anyone is necessarily being a commando for trying to clarify things a little. The definition of cuckold has become so obfuscated that it's lost much of it's meaning. Nowadays anything kinky is becoming known as cuckold.

I'm seeing MFM gay ads now looking for cuckold play. Another guy posted on here that he was doing the next door neighbors daug/hter, and that was cuckolding. Everyone forgets that there should be an unfaithful wife at least somewhere in the storyline if you're gonna call it cuck... LOL
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker