Please help!! Hot girlfriend, hung black cock.

My girlfriend and I have been together for about 5 years. Over this time, she has sucked off a few guys for me, cause she knows I loved it. She sucked this black guy she knows regularly in his car / office / his house / wherever.

Anyway here is my problem. The past 4 or 5 months she's been SERIOUS about us being exclusive, and told me she does not want to do ANYTHING with anyone else, but me. I really don't want that, but I know she'll be super pissed and it'll ruin our relationship if I tell her I want her to keep sucking guys off.

But here is the deal, recently she's been talking about how "white rock music" is "dumb", and "the singers are pussies". She then talks about the rap music she listens to and says "Black guys are so much tougher, and say it straight".

This black guy she used to suck off regularly is contacting her again, and she tells me about the texts he sends. She laughs while she reads them, they're like "Come on baby, let's meet up and fool around", "It doesn't matter that you have a BF, I have a GF too... we'll just meet up for fun." I don't say "wow baby are you going to meet up with him?" because she'll prob get pissed and be like "Uhhh no".

She sucked him off on the top floor of her college library. She told me today that she was going to the library to do some research. I decided to send her a text saying, "Wow I remember that time you met up with Darren in the library, that was hot!" She called me a few hours later laughing saying "Aww sweetie you're so cute, did you get all hot and bothered when you thought about it?" I told her that I did get super horny thinking about it. She laughed and thought it was cute.

So what's up with this? How can I get her to love sucking black men / hung men again? I'm 100% positive she's doing nothing behind my back, so I really need some psychological ways to get her into sucking other men. PLEASE HELP!!

Have you tried being honest with her?

I mean really honest? Clearly she's indulged your fantasy and fetish to a degree - but she may not realize just how much it turns you on... Or that she won't lose you even if she does these things. Sure it's non-traditional - most of us are brought up to expect to settle down with someone exclusively; there are a lot of family and social pressures to do so.

You have to make clear that your love for her is unconditional - that you won't be scared away just because she had a wild night with some strange black man... In fact that sort of thing will only make you love (lust) for her more!

Part of what she may be getting at by being exclusive is a need to have you as a safety net. By not formalizing your relationship with an engagement/marriage - and still playing these games - she may feel like she's being strung along. You could get pissed and drop her... On the other hand - by promising her something and backing it up - you may also be able to set her free to be the bad lil slut you've always wanted.

Anyway - you need to talk it over with her. Be honest - let her know how much you love her - and how much more you'll continue to love her if she is willing to be a hot-gf. But you also need to realize that she needs to understand you're committed as well.
She routinely talks dirty during sex.
Verbal fantasies about the doctor, her massage therapist, a pickup at the bar.
Someday soon she'll do it.

Thank you very much! You are a great poster.. lots of help. She knows how much it turns me on.. but I think you're right.. I have to tell her that she's not going to lose me.

Can you recommend a way to tell her? She loves talking dirty while we have sex.. should I bring it up then?

One of the hardest things about bringing it up during sex is that we all tend to get a little carried away with the dirty talk... Typically pillow talk is just that - pillow talk. It doesn't leave the bedroom, and it isn't taken seriously once you each are spent!

It'll probably be harder - but talking about it while you're both "sober" (e.g. not completely turned on, and carried away in the moment) - will guarantee that your intentions are honest.

Depending on how spent you are after having sex (with lots of on-topic dirty talk) - and assuming you're not someone who just curls up to go to relax afterward (and she's not either) - you might want to talk about it after you have sex. When you're laying there in the afterglow...

It might be better to get her to promise to talk it over in the morning.

You also have to understand - that even though she played along - she may not be interested in the "lifestyle" - and so it's really up to you what's most important. I'm guessing she's a great girl - if she's indulged you this much - you don't want to driver her away with ultimatums or unreamisterable demands. Check out Savage Love (just Google for it) for more advice on how to integrate your fetishes into a healthy relationship.
She routinely talks dirty during sex.
Verbal fantasies about the doctor, her massage therapist, a pickup at the bar.
Someday soon she'll do it.

offer to help suck their cocks,,,see if that turns her on..or snowball kiss

Nope that will not turn her on. I had a talk with her last night, and it went EXTREMELY well. We'll see what happens in the future

cool. Get her to fantasize about multiple dicks at once. That would require other guys.

She actually does fantasize about that while we have sex. She loves to talk dirty while we fuck, but while she's "not horny" she hates talking about it, or acknowledging wanting multiple cocks.

do you guys watch porn? I have never seen a woman not get horny from porn. Even if what they are saying does not indicate so. I have had girlfriends make fun of a porn movie for five minutes and then grab my hand to put it on her dripping pussy. Try to find a porn star she likes. My wife is a Shane Diesel fan.

She says she doesn't like super hardcore porn. Is there any interracial porn where it starts off slow, and sensual and then gets hardcore?

Here's a pic of her sucking her ex-boyfriend off last summer

That's always such a delicate balance - when you're horny - just about any little fantasy - no matter how kinky - sounds pretty good. So while she's in the mood, the pillow talk is nice and nasty. But once done - and not in the mood - there can be a lot of reamisters she doesn't want to talk about it.

Embarrassment. As you well know - girls are still very much more on the receiving end of the "will you respect me in the morning?" thing.

Fear. Coming out to anyone about your kinks is scary. They might reject you because of it.

Also - keep in mind that your kink and your fantasies - while seeming entirely reamisterable to you.... Are probably a special case for her. Maybe not - but you definitely have to be prepared to accept compromises. There may also be some quid-pro-quo. Something she likes that doesn't really push your buttons. But if she's willing to do something that turns you on (even if she's not that into it) you may have to return the favor.

Slow and steady wins the race though. Porn and toys are a kind of nice way to introduce themes and additional fun. However, even if you're fantasizing about her fucking a giant black cock - don't go there right away. Don't get her the "BAM" dildo - it's 14" long and as big around as a Coke can! Sure you might like to see her take a cock like that - but trust me it's something she'll have to work up to.

Porn is like that too. It's hard to find sensitive porn. I'd suggest just about anything from Vivid - like those "Pirates" films they made. The production quality is high (albeit still cheesy compared to mainstream) - and while still porn - it's not as in your face as something like the Gangland series or Swallow my pride, or Gaper Maker, etc. On the interracial side - Something about Jack - while not necessarily sensitive - at least the guy has a sense of humor - and usually displays good chemistry with the girls.

But - at least you're talking. The key thing is to let her know - it's something you're into and that you won't drop her with accusations of being a "slut" because of it. In fact - if she's willing to play these games - you'll love her more for it.
She routinely talks dirty during sex.
Verbal fantasies about the doctor, her massage therapist, a pickup at the bar.
Someday soon she'll do it.

Lets see some more of her, unblurred.

I'm not too sure how to get your girl into fucking other guys. I guess you could act less interested in sex so she'll eventually look elsewhere.

I tried to get my ex to see other guys and she finally got into it but it backfired on me. She love the excitement you get when you're with someone the first time and eventually led to less and less sex for me. I broke up with her because she was never horny, always saved it for the other guys, and she didn't feel comfortable with me seeing other women. She was never into porn and only went along with the swinging thing because it made her feel attractive when other guys wanted her and it was easier than being single because I was always there if she got rejected.

i wanna see those tits
This is Mr. Cutiekat Miss cutiekat has her own screenname now lol

your request is my command!! haha here are those skank tits

by the way, she just fucked an old friend last week with a huge cock.. he's fucking wide as hell, i could tell when i fucked her. they fucked for over 4 hours, he came over 4 times all over her face, tits, ass, and stomach.. ill post some vids soon once i get em

her deepthroating my cock

freshly fucked

her ex fucking her doggy style

Nice pics huh? I'll be posting more soon.

Grate pics! Did you have the chance to taste her fucked pussy?
Cuck who loves a creampie.

Hell yes I did! It was amazing. The guy she fucked was moving to Florida, so he had NO running hot water, and only running water in one room! She never cleaned up at all.

He came over 4 times she said. One on her pussy, face, ass, stomach. She came a couple times and had explosive orgasms. She told me I fuck her better though.

She's going to be fucking a nigger that she's been sucking off for the past 2 years pretty soon. (Before she graduates)

Cant' wait to post the pics of my hottie slut taking a big nigger cock ;)

I want my girl to service a big nigger cock, just like this one in the picture. Looks yummy huh?

Come on I need some feedback! Is my girl nigger worthy?

That's funny...she doesn't like hardcore porn but she'll allow herself to be photographed sucking dicks. Women...can't help but lust for them but they are fucked up in the head for sure. By the way your girl would look outstanding cumming all over a black dick...she's gonna love it.

I know right? Women are so fucked up, but they are all secret sluts ;)

Speaking of her being a complete pig slut, and taking pics while she fucks / sucks other men.. here's a before and AFTER shot for all you perverted fucks out there haha

this is her ex boyfriend destroying her nice pussy last july..

Come on!! There's gotta be comments out there! Look at this fuckin slut! I just checked her txts while she was in the shower, and she's going to meet up with a local nigger and fuck him in his office. She goes to college, and he works in the IT department ;)

Fuckin nigger pig slut! Pics to come soon.

From the first pic posted she has that look of a black cock slut. I can see her being one for a long time and being used by her main bbc along with friends he shares her with. She does look like a great cock sucker overall but is more truly versed to black cock. I bet it looks so naturual in her mouth.

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