This is frustrating...

Hello ,
I am getting a little frustrated and am wondering if I should just give up..My hubby came to me a couple months ago and filled me in on his cuckold fantasy. I was more than happy to fufill this for him.Not only do I get a BBC but I have a hubby who loves me no matter what..I am having a really hard time finding anyone who is actually serious about this.I get lots of responses and feedback but it just never happens..I know some of you have been in this lifestyle for quite some time is this normal or is it me? I am an attractive woman and feel I have alot to offer whomever becomes my lover..Anyway just wanted to hear what you guys had to say...

DJ#1

DJ#2

I'm serios, but too far away from you

Cham
The World's Filthiest Man

wish you luck deborah
we put out an ad on craigslist and seem to get alot of possible guys
and not all creeps either some real nice lookin dudes--with permisterality
and --well hung

good luck
the world needs more cuckoldresses

Deborah,

The reality is that it is very hard to find a suitable guy to do this with.

They send phoney pics, lie, show up smelly or rude, flake at the last minute, etc. etc. It's human nature.

You have to play a numbers game and keep at it.

Posting here is pointless as it's world wide, the odds of finding someone here to actually meet is quite slim, although it does happen.

I recommend you try Craig's List for a local.

My wife and I had to go through dozens of meetings and endless flakes before we found a few.

Thanks for the idea's and words of wisdom guys.. It sounds like I better put an add on craigslist.

Yea, we did CraigsList and her ad got flagged. To many people felt sorry for the hubby. Use the language like 'cuckold' and 'bull'. When you get the responses that ask 'what's a bull?' or 'What's a cuckold?'you can leave it.
Vancouver BC, Canada

My wife says that from 100 replies maybe 1 is real

Same here, we've been in it 10 years, she currently has 2 lovers but has been as long as 4 years between lovers due to either circumstance or timewasters, usually both, it's worth the wait when it's right though

If I had a dollar for every guy who said he was eager to fuck my wife while I watched, I would be one of the wealthest men in the world. Alas, only 25 of those guys actually payed off during 30 years of searching. But those 25 guys were worth their weight in gold.

My wife and I discovered that it actually helps not to actively seek out guys but simply allow random chance to work it's magic. Your stud (or studs) might be out there right now. It could be the guy you pass in the supermarket, it could be the contractor working on your house, it could be the UPS or FedEx guy. All you have to do is be yourself. A smile, a wink, a flash of leg or a sultry "Hello" has worked for my wife. And let hubby do his part too. After catching the eye of a stud, have hubby walk up to him and use the standard pitch of a cuckold: "My wife wants to get screwed and I want to watch. Are you game?"
A man has not lived until he watches another man fuck his wife!

we found a guy to hit on my gf (and maybe more if she wants)
from craigslist and hes totally normal and cool with my offense /being a cuck -- and well hung- we had a 3way chat with him in IM last night and it was intense. they kept leaving me in the conf room they setup to go private IM each other

i was hard the whole time

so you can find someone deborah
oh and if you ever want some cuckold caption pics/or'bigger' guy pics
shoot me an email or IM
newshadowz58@yahoo
ill send some over for ya for you and the hubby to look at

Believe it or not, the web IS the world, and that usually means you'll hear from tons of guys that you'll never be with. But it also opens up lots of opportunites, I've caught guys mid-flight, service men that were on leave, and yes lots of locals. I post on local Yahoo groups that specialize (so they know what I'm talking about), Adultfriendfinder has sent a few my way, and of course Dark Cavern,,,the rest I find in adult bookstores and theatres when I'm in a hurry (you've got them trapped and horny, you don't have to worry about them not showing, LOL).

Thanks guys I appreciate all of your thoughts and ideas..It will happen when it meant to.Mary we have joined a couple groups on yahoo so we'll see if that goes anywhere.I have visited the Dark Cavern website also.I have had a couple guys send me pm's on here so we'll see if that goes anywhere...THANK YOU to all that responded...
-Deborah

Our experience.

My gf is turned off by most of the guys on the internet. Too raunchy. The talk is unnecessarily raunchy. She travels and found a guy she likes. Those are the operative words: "She likes".

His dick is smaller than mine, but that is not the point. I have been of the swinging mindset for many years. My experience is that, often, it is not as raunchy as the postings. In actuality, it can be very vanilla and still be incredibly exciting.

The postings are exaggerated. They are supposed to be. The real things doesn't have to be so raunchy. My girlfriend sucking another guy's cock is totally outrageous to most couples. It is enough to really get me crazy.

We think it would be fun if the guy were permisterable, and able to socialize with us. I think that the three of us out to dinner would be totally exotic. I prefer something a little lower key and mainstream. Some prefer wild and crazy promiscuity.

So, if you are like us, just relax and have an open mind. There are a million men out there for a woman as attractive as you. He doesn't have to be black, or 20 inches. Once you hook up with a man, the excitement can still be overwhelming.

Just my viewpoint. Have fun.

I belive that some of the erotica comes from the total honesty. I have always had some sense that the happiest couples were those who were "best friends". When my girlfriend tells me what she is really feeling about another guy, its is clear that it is the truth. And it is intimate. When I make love to her and she comes, I have difficulty seeing it, I am too preoccupied with myself. To see her with another man is a thing of incredible beauty. To think that I can have some small part in her ecstacy is exciting. To realize that it takes some amount of suppression of my jealousy and self-centeredness makes think its not a bad thing.

And, finally, she is happier. Go figure.
I will make you crazy.

Online has its share of fakes, all of the websited listed in previous posts have some real with alot of fake folks. Many really want to live out their fantasy but are afraid to take that extra step. And alot of couples, women, and black men pretend to be something their not in real life, so it makes it difficult to find the real permister, that is who they say they are, and is really ready to meet, add geography to it and it makes it even more difficult. Ive been online awhile, met couples and swfs online, so I know there are a few diamonds out there. Dark Cavern used to be a great place as did Yahoo groups before the pros and spammers took it all over. Now this site, craigslist, niggerworship and a few others have the occaimisteral real couple or swf looking. Im Jay Woods, an unlike most I have the ability to travel as I have offices in 14 states that I visit regularly. Im 6'2", 210lbs, fit, educated, assertive, and hung 10.5" and thick. I enjoy using MWF/SWF either solo or in front of their partner. My email is [email protected]. real as it gets.