Distraction

What do some of you guys do when your wife is out with her bull? We are new at this and sometimes when she goes out, I have second thoughts and I get angry. At first I'm all turned on by the thought of her been out having sex. Then as time goes by I get those feelings cause maybe I should think about other things to get distracted.

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CuckoldNS
Hi and welcome to the lifestyle. I hope things work out in a way that enables you to learn to accept and enjoy when your wife is out with her bull. As for feelings when she is out, there are no right or wrong feelings and I'm sure these will change over time. Anger? Understandable I suppose but counter productive? Why be angry when you agreed to her dating? Instead concentrate on the delicious feelings of jealousy and your arousal at the thought of your wife in the arms of a stranger, her lover. Imagine them caressing, kissing (deeply and passionately). Think of her pussy moistening, her lips opening and swelling as she wet with arousal. Just think of her lover touching her, feeling her breasts, pinching her erect nipples before moving down with one hand to caress and rub her swollen pussy firstly over her panties, pushing the gusset into her welcoming hole, wetting the material with her juices (maybe something you can enjoy when she gets back, rubbing your nose into her soiled panties) and then moving the material aside so he can access her wet lips directly. Slowly fingering her. Getting her ready for his cock which she is already rubbing through his trousers, feeling it's hardness and length. Will he be bigger than you? Will his cock reach places inside your wife that you could never reach?

These are the things you should be thinking about. No need for distractions. Let your imagination run wild whilst you wait for her to return when you can listen to her as she tells you about her night.

CuckoldNS

We'd been talking about the possibility of me allowing my wife to date and have sex with other men for about 2 years and it finally came about when a lad of 23, a regular customer at the shop she was assistant manageress in, started chatting up my 34 year old wife. She was very flattered by his attention and he wasn't at all bothered about her being that much older, nor that she was married with 4 kids. Having checked with me that it was still alright, she agreed to go out for a dr1nk with him after work the day after her 35th birthday, telling him, to his amusement, that she'd told her husband that they were stocktaking at work and would be late home.

Whilst they were out together I fed the kids and then took them with me to the supermarket to do an evening food shop. Despite the distraction of watching them and shopping. I found it very hard to concentrate. especially once my wife had phoned me from his flat and told me they'd "been busy" - code for "we've just had sex". When she got home she revealed that they'd fucked twice more after that - clearly the stamina of youth - and such was my excitement that even I (aged 41, so nearly twice his age) managed to fuck her twice myself as she told me what they'd been up to.
Peter C