We are in the fantasy stage...

Well, my wife and I are in the fantasy stage. We have talked about cuckolding and at one time she put an ad in AFF, but I chickened out and she didn’t go. She is just talking to a couple of guys via email and text and that excites her and me. She has been trying to talk to one of them on the phone to no avail.

She really likes one the guys and he wants to meet her. I don’t know if I am ready for that, but I am ok with them talking on the phone by now. I have a good career and do not consider myself submissive. Nevertheless, I enjoy the cuckold and submissive husband stories. I guess that fantasy is not as satisfying as reality.

My wife and I fantasize about cuckolding but I know she is very “emotional” and once she starts going with a guy she likes, she is going to fall in love with the guy. I know she loves me very much and she will never leave me, but I know that once she gets involve with a guy, it’s going to be a new situation.

I read many of the posts on this website and share them with her. I am writing this because we were talking about it and she told me I should write about how I feel, etc. I told her I would write if she also writes. So, here we go!!! I will let her say her side of her story.

I tried to register in order to post, but it kept asking me to pay for the registration, so I am posting under my husband’s name. If someone knows how to register for free to post on the forums, let me know.

I am going to share my side of the story or at least how I perceive it. My husband and I have a great relationship and like to share our sexual fantasies. When he first told me of his fantasy to see me with another guy I thought that it was an excuse for him to be with other woman, but he promised me that he was just interested in see me with another guy. Then, I thought that if he wanted me to be with another guy was because he didn’t love me enough, but again he reassured me that this was not the case that in fact he loves me very much and thinking about me with another guy makes him jealous but at the same time excites him. He shared with me posts that he had read at this website and I started to get excited about it.

Finally after a lot of thought I decided to join a website that connects adults that want to have fun… I met a guy and started communicating through e-mails. I was ready to meet him, but my husband had second thoughts about the whole situation for the reamisters he already shared with you on a previous post. So, with much regret I stopped talking to the guy. A few months later I decided to give it a try again and that is where we are right now. I have been in communication with two guys, but only one of them I feel attracted to. We have tried to talk on the phone, but have not been able to do it yet, in the mean time we communicate through e-mails and he is interested in meeting me and I would like to meet him too. I don’t know if I am ready to have sex yet and he knows this, but I am ready to meet him and see if there is chemistry between us. This is where my husband and I disagreed. I want not just sex, but someone to take me out and have a good time. My husband feels that by doing this I will get emotionally involved with him, and I explained that I cannot jump into a bed unless I feel some sort of attraction and connection with the permister. I will never leave my husband I loved him very much and would never do anything to hurt him and he knows this. It is a little exasperating and frustrating to be ready to move into the next stage of this fantasy and being held back by his insecurities. After all this was his idea…

I certainly don't know a lot about this as I am just exposing my wife to these fantasies. I completely understand how your husband feels. My wife is always telling me she could never relax with anyone if she didn't have feelings for them. I want her to separate the feelings for the pure sex. I too would feel threatened by my wife wanting to develop feelings for the other permister.

To your husband, I'd say that your wife wants to have "connection and attraction," but not necessarily emotional feelings. I don't see anything wrong with this.

To the wife, what is your motivation to do this? Is it to enhance your relationship with your husband by experiencing great sex? If so, that should be good enough.

Please keep us up to date as this is where I am at with my wife. I know "inside" she is turned on by the idea, but she thinks she would develop feelings for the other permister and it would destroy our relationship.

I can relate to everything you are saying. My wife had many of the same feelings. She didn't want to just hop in bed with someone, she didn't want to do internet dating. She wanted it to be someone that she was comfortable with. And she also had some of the same insecuritied, that I was putting her up to this so I could do the same or that I didn't love her enough. It took years before anything happened and my advise to you would be to take your time and do what you are comfortable with. If your husband knows your looking, he's gonna have a hard on all the time thinkin about what could happen. When it finally does he'll thank you. I was very nervous the first time my wife went out, but I waited for her at the door when she came home and fucked her silly when she came home. I'd also recommend catching up with old college or high school friends through facebook. That way you may meet someone your already comfortable with but just never had the courage back then to make a move on. Good luck to you both and let us know how things work out for you.

Hello, I want to say, good luck on your journey. I've been there, and although me and my ex loved eachother very, very much, things didn't work out. I don't want to be the boogie man, but have to warn you. If you have questions, just ask...

My wife can only have a lover if she has feelings for him. But let me tell you the feelings you will have if she does fall in love are unbelievably horny. They were for me. Some of the best hand jobs I ever gave myself

Agree with thrax000.

It works for us... dunno if it can work for everyone but if it works it's awesome. My wife fucks a lot better when she has feelings for the guy... she can get into it and enjoy it.

Me & my wife's intimacy is the sharing of that. There's nobody other than me that she can share that with.
Nothing like a sloppy wet & loose wife.

Okay, I haven't done much with the cuckold thing since I'm not even MARRIED yet. But one thought: The FANTASY sometimes turns out to be hotter than the REALITY

People who miss that spend enormous amounts of energy trying to make a fantasy real. Then they become bitter, like my mom, and their life goes down the toilet. They can always blame Global Warming, or BP, but of course it's really right between the ears...

Love,

Jamie

It sounds to me like he is the jealous type and as such should not have brought the subject up. However, now that he did, he should take responsibility for his actions, swallow his pride and let you do your side of it in your own way. My wife prefers to have a relationship with her lovers too and I actually prefer it that way, but it took me years to get into that mindset.

Once I knew for sure that she was not going to leave me, I was happy for her and more open to her ideas of how to proceed. At first she would take on several different lovers in a week, but has settled down to one or two and actually dating them, always followed by sex. Not always followed by sex with me, however...rarely, if you want the truth...be careful of what you wish for!

To the wife of milysub, this is what you should do. Your husband is having problems taking the next step, even though you are ready to do it. He brought the whole thing up, so deep down this actually turns him on and wants it to happen. But, he's jealous. That's natural, and is part of the fun of course. But he needs to overcome that jealousy himself. You need to make him push you to take the next step; rather than you pushing him to allow you.

So, how do you do this? Well, I think that for the time being you scrap all the cuckold fantasies. Do not indulge him with it. Pretty soon your hubby will feel so desperate to have the cuckold life back in play, that he will beg you to go and meet another guy, even if you need to develop an emotional connection with him.

You have to understand your hubby's buttons, and know how to press them

I don't see how you guys could post the holy grail of fantasy stories (i.e. wife wants it, hubby reluctant), garner all this attention, then leave us hanging like this. If this is true, and if you have this level of communication (where you could both post), you are in great shape and shold not worry about the woman getting too attached. My wife just fucks around on me and I use this site as a way to stay sane about it and try to turn it (and my unfortunately embarrasing inability to satisfy a woman)into something sexy for me. If I could participate like the guy here can I would have nothing to complain about.

Either way, don't leave us little dicked pervs left wondering about you. Let us know what you think.

The guy that I have been conversing with e-mailed me today to let me know that he would be in town tonight and Tuesday night and that he would like to finally meet me. After talking it over with hubby I wrote down that I could meet him tonight, but after going back and forward through e-mails I gave him my phone number to call me and he did. We agreed that Tuesday will be a better day for both of us and we will meet Tuesday afternoon for takes. I told hubby that this is just a getting to know each other meeting and that we would not have sex on that day because I don’t feel that I am ready yet, but I also told him that I wouldn’t mind a kiss. This makes me a little anxious but excites me at the same time. I can’t wait for Tuesday to come around.

That's fantastic. Good for you guys. I'll be thinking of this with anticipation just like your hubby.

I'm sure all members here would love to see some pics of you dressed up and getting ready to present yourself to another man. I used to love watching my then girlfriend now wife get slutted up for a night out "with the girls."

Also, if you cared to tell us anything about yourself (what you look like, your sexual appetite, what you think about dick size, what turns you on), that would be great.

I think you should forego the panties tomorrow night.

You really need to put your fantasies and feelings in perspective. When my wife and I were into the swinging scene many, many years ago I found that I enjoyed sex with her so much more than anyone else and that I really loved watching her more than participating. There is a pang of jealousy at first however if you are secure in your relationship you should be fine. You have no idea the sex you will have with her after she has given this a try. Again I have known some who have tried and failed, those who have tried and said, yea that was fun lets go back to the way we were and those that love the change and continue at it.
The term Cuckold wasn't out then and I would not consider myself a submissive today. It is a real turn on to watch her and really reap the benefits later. It is especially a turn on for those women who are now allowed to experience things they only hear or read about and were raised in a very rigid upbringing. They realize there is so much out there.
Actually I think they will love you more for giving them the ability have the experience without the guilt. All I can say is if your secure then give a shot, BUT be upfront with each other and lays the rules. I could give you a lot of interesting experiences we have had that may help in your decision making.

Rgordyg:

Thank you for the advice. Wife is our right now doing her eyebrows. I am sure she is doing this for him. It is true that the jealousy is strong. It is both exciting and hard.

It is not the same to read about it and get excited than to have it happen to you. She will go and see (let’s call him) K. They are just going to meet and have a take. I doubt she will do something on the first day, but you never know.

If we both feel comfortable after tomorrow, we will decide what to do.

I am not writing much because we are both pretty busy. Let’s see what happens tomorrow.

To answer some of the questions that fastfive posted. I am 44 years old with an average body type, brunette with long hair, brown eyes, and 36 DD breast size. I am very sensual and very sexual, I never say no to sex. I have never been with a guy with a big dick so I don’t know how to answer that question, but I can say that the size is not the most important thing to me is how is used that is important. I am not planning on taking pictures tomorrow since this is just a quick meeting, but I am very excited about meeting him. I guess I will have more to say after I have met him.

Thanks for the response. You guys need to give us something to look at however : )

Have fun and please keep us posted.

I finally met my friend "K" and had lunch with him. He was a gentleman and we had a good time. We talked and decided that I will set the pace, he doesn't want to pressure me into something I am not ready for. I liked him and we shared a nice kiss as we said our goodbyes. He asked me to set a date for him to come back so we could go out again. It was very exciting and immediatly after I went to see hubby and gave him a kiss right after kissing my friend, I think this excited him because we are getting frisky as we speak. I will keep you posted

Hi Milysub,

Very hot thread you have here.

How have things gone since the last post!

Do tell!

PS - You sound very attractive, and I'd like forward to seeing a pic, even if blurred.

Well, the fantasy stage will end tonight. My wife never met with K again but found another guy that I will call Jay. She told him straight up what we were doing, and as a gift to her (she graduated with a Master’s Degree), she asked if she could see Jay. She was in her period and told Jay ahead of time that they would not be having any sex, and he agreed.

They met in a club where they talked and kissed. They ended up at his place where they played, she sucked his dick, but he didn’t come. He got naked and she took everything off except her panty. After that she came home and told me what happened. They decided to see each other again tonight to go all the way.

I have read hundreds of posts on this and other websites. I always wondered if the stories were true because they excited me so much, and today, I become part of the cuckold club.

I was away for a couple of days and got home yesterday. She told me that when he spoke with her, he wasn’t very happy that I was going to have sex with her, and she asked me if I would wait until after she saw him before having sex with me, and I said that was fine with me. However, she gave me release through a prostate massage and with her hands.

She got ready, shaved and call me to inspect her before leaving. She shaved her pussy completely for him, and looks great. I am currently home writing this and waiting for her to come back home knowing that she was taken by another man. I used to be very jealous in the beginning. Now, I have accepted it somehow and am at peace with myself. I have mixed feelings. I am excited and I am also a little scared. I cannot describe the feeling. Nevertheless, she told me she loved me and if I ever feel uncomfortable with the situation, she would stop. In the meantime, she will enjoy it. She also told me that, although she wants to do it, she feels a little disappointed that I am letting her do this. (?) Can you guys/girls explain that to me?

Tomorrow she will hopefully write her side of the story. Until then, farewell.

Cuckolding goes against what we as men are tought to be. Your wife is yours and belongs to no body else. As a woman she wants a man that will protect her from all harm. Willingly sending her out to be with another man is contrary to what we are brought up to be. I think that by allowing our wives to get what they need (great sex) outside the marriage shows stronger commitment to each other.

However, it is different for everyone...and she may fall in love with said guy...and who knows? Good luck and hope everything turns out the way you two want it to. My wife and I had a great run for year...may you two get more.

My husband asked me to write my side of the story. I will begin with what happened two weeks ago. Jay and I decided after several months of texting each other now and then to finally meet. Jay and I met through an adult website and he is six years younger than me. The day we met I was still on my cycle and knew I was not going to have sex that night, but I was excited just the same. Jay and I met at a club that is not the usual place I would go with my husband for obvious reamisters. We felt very comfortable with each other and hit it off right away. Soon his hands were on my legs and we started kissing, but because we were in a very public place when he suggested his place for more privacy I accepted. I was a little surprise as to how comfortable I felt around him to the point of going to his place only after a few hours of knowing, but he was a gentleman the whole time. When we got to his place we started kissing and quickly we moved to his bedroom. He removed his shirt and I followed suit. We kissed some more and more clothes came off except for my panties. I sucked his dick and he dry humped me, but he didn’t come. He told me he was holding back because he couldn’t go all the way. I left his place after a few hours and came home to my husband who was waiting for me awake. From that day on we texted each other daily and even talked on the phone a few times. We decided to see each other again fully knowing that this time we will have sex. So, last night was the night and the anticipation of the night was as good as foreplay. I took the time to primp for him and even asked my husband, which I hadn’t seen in a week, to hold on intercourse for after my night with Jay. This time we met at his place and went out for takes, but we were both so horny that after just a couple of takes we decided to go back to his place. Once there we decided to get more comfortable and I stayed on my panties and wore one of his shirts, but I didn’t keep it on for too long. We have talked about taking it slow, but as soon as we hit his bed my panties were off and he started to eat me and I had my first orgasm of the night. He swears that I squirted, but I have never done that before and honestly I don’t know if I did. Before I knew what was happening he was inside of me and it took me a while to realize that he was not wearing a condom, something that I had asked while at the club, but it was feeling so good and I really thought that he would not come inside of me. After a while, he told me he was coming and I told him not without the condom on so he pulled out, but he did come a little bit inside of me. After that he did apologize he thought the reamister for the condom was for prevention of diseases and since him and I both are clean he didn’t see the need for it, he didn’t know that I could still get pregnant, but I was not ovulating at the time. We took a little break to get something to eat, he got the munchies, and after that we went back to the bed and we had sex again. The week prior to our meeting we discussed our favorite sex positions and what we liked and we put it to practice last night. I had several orgasms by the time I was ready to go home. Since we didn’t stay long at the club I got home earlier than I anticipated. When I got home my husband was awake and ready for me. I shared with him everything that happened and we had great sex, then we had morning sex when we woke up this morning and this afternoon. I talked to my friend Jay today and even thought we did not set a day to see each other again, we know it will happened again. I was worried at how my husband would feel after I had sex with another guy, but he seems fine and if sex is any indication he was very excited about it. I enjoyed my time with Jay and would not mind seeing him again, but I do not have any feelings for him and I don’t think he would be someone that I could fall in love with, but he is fun to hang with and have sex. I enjoyed all the attention I got from him prior to our meeting, the daily texting and the phone calls and for me that is what all this experience is for to feel the excitement that someone else besides my husband is having horny thoughts about me.

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My wife and I decided to stay one night out in a hotel without the kids, and we decided to invite J to join us. This would be the first time I would see my wife having sex with another man. We are NOW in the hotel room waiting for him. It will be very interesting to see how the fantasy compares with reality.

I will let you know what happened tomorrow.