Question: When a cuck is larger than the bulls

We're more into the hot wife lifestyle and not into cuck offense, she enjoys MFM threesomes. However we've never met any bulls that are larger than hubby! In fact its often the bulls who go away embarrassed because of hubby's large cock and we never see them again. Occasionally the bulls are slightly longer but no where near the girth of hubby. Are there any other couples on this site who have experienced this? Its frustrating as we are continually looking for new bulls and to make matters more complicated she is very picky about the type of guys who join us.

Bigger guys are out there. A lot of smaller cucks like to work the so tiny thing, but, coming as I do from a presentation domination background, the idea that everything is about size is a myth. Few if any of my wives "friends" have been as large as I, certainly none so "wide", yet they were clearly in control. Good luck, and when you find what you are after, enjoy it!

havewifewilltravel Thanks for your comments. Its not that we're looking for anyone larger. In fact QB would probably find any larger painful! We're just interested to hear how other couples deal with this situation. Especially about how some bulls will feel a bit diminished and some don't return for seconds.

My girlfriend and I have these same issues too, but so far it hasn't stopped anyone from repeat visits. Heh!

It's not that I'm particularly huge, I'm only 6.75-7" long, but I'm rather girthy which means I have to wear larger sized condoms...which means if a bull comes over he's either gotta be big enough or he's gotta bring his own condoms (now we just keep a set of regular sized on hand).

But it's interesting really, my girlfriend and I aren't into the offense thing either, more the hot-wife/swinging angle, and we're both familiar with dominance/presentation play which doesn't rely on cock-size at all really, so I'm sure the cock-size-play isn't as big an factor. That being said if another guy came and fucked her with a truly massive cock I'm not sure how I'd feel about things. It would be hot as hell, regardless.

have a friend who is quit the accomplished bull, yet he sports something a bit less than 6". But he does have attitude...

I have an average size endowment a thick 6" and I know how to please a lady and in particulare my wife. We have met bulls larger who have no idea and some smaller who were incredible lovers.

My wife relaxs with other men not because I cant please her but because she like men, confident take controle men who make her wet befor there clothes ever come off. So many on this site focus on the act of sex but cuckolding starts well befor that, forget the cock size of your bull and look at the man.

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So far my wife hasn't been with anyone larger than me. Unfortunately, the last guy she was with was downright small and she is very picky, so it may be years before her next encounter. But I keep hoping she finds someone who puts her over the edge and keeps her begging for more.

My wife will never let me see her have sex with her GF's but she tells me that I am much larger then both of them.

I'm in the same situation. As an example of what I mean you can read my post "Her lover fistfucks my wife and I don't" on https://www.cuckoldplace.com/2_58326_0.html
cornido

I am larger too. We look for bulls on permisterality and if they understand the game. For us cuckolding is a mental state of mind.

As an aside Mistress says I am by far the best sex she ever had but does enjoy trying to find new bulls too.
Again, again, again.

I definitely see how this can be a problem, it can be very empowering for the bull to see that he has a bigger cock and that will bring out that attitude.

The other way around might diminish that attitude.


I know that you are sort of into the hotwife thing rather than cuckolding, but have you thought about making fun of/humiliating your husband in front of the bull about his big cock? Just like saying that he is too big for you and that he can't even fuck you anymore because it doesn't fit. Or that he has no idea what to do with it which is why you need the bull.
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good for the cucks huh..lol..who cares as long as she cums...not everyone has to be huge to be a good lover...though being big doesnt hurt I guess my wife never complained about big sept when it hurt..lol..but she was happy with a few dudes smaller than me cause they worked for it

I think the cuckold marriage is even hotter when the cuck has a big dick, and the bull is only average or less. All you have to do is lock the well-hung cuckold husband in a chastity device, and then the bull can feel his oats without any reservation. The wife can mock her hubby because he has a huge cock that is useless! All his friends admire him for his big package, not knowing that he is not even allowed to TOUCH it without his wife's permission! It would be hot for his wife to get down on her knees and suck off the bull's little five inch pee pee while her cuck husband watched with his big fat stud cock twitching helplessly in it's cage! To me this is an even hotter scenario than the usual one! I think we need to use our imaginations a bit more sometimes, rather than just doing what everyone else is doing.
Looking for a hands-on type woman who wants my hands off.

The chastity cage is a great idea!

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I've always had a good sized manhood. Yet I've been cucked in the past, read my story of the first time it happened.

The offense I can enjoy, but not the small-willy cuck thing, I don't think it always applies or has to.
I don't dress in girls clothing nor would I ever lick a creampie. Just not my thing. I always retain my masculinity, even if I go sub.

Then again I've become more dominant in recent years and I've had a couple of hotwives too and sent them home to their hubbies with the evidence. Really enjoyed it. I gues I'm a bit of a sub/dom switch, just like lots of people into the fetish scene can be.

Thank you! This has been on my mind for so long. It's deeply frustrating to be physically well endowed yet sexually and psychologically a cuckold. It's almost a bit like how a transgender woman can feel 'trapped' in a man's body. I feel trapped with a big dick and get intense feelings of jealousy when I see you guys parading your tiny packages on here. it's like an unexamined underground of an underground: tiny envy cuckolds.

I wouldn't feel trapped. More men than will ever admit, some pretty macho guys too, have fantasies of their woman going with someone else.

Plus if you're decently endowed, your woman may sometimes - not always - be happy to stay with you and not leave you, even though she fucks other people sometimes.

I think it's been bottlenecked by the internet media into an unnecessarily narrow field, where cucks necessarily have small willies and want to eat creampies. I have no issue with those who do, I'm open minded sexually. Just not my gig. Before I'd heard the word cuckold, I was aroused by the idea. There was a story in 1986 from a sex mag in which a hubby let his wife pull a man on a night out, then afterwards at home the hubby wanked into her panties as she stripped and touched herself while teling him all about it in detail. There was no extreme offense or creampie eating etc, just the excitement of her being a dirty bitch, and his own jealousy turning him on, to think of what she's done and become a wild exotic sexual creature. She'd become Lilith and no longer Eve, in a way!

It can sometimes be even worse if the guy your wife fucks is smaller than you. Just depends, everyone has different fetishes and they too can change in time.

My wife's first husband was twice the size I am, but she came to me, during their whole marriage, for orgasms. So like others have pointed out, the size thing is complete BS.

Also, my wife would rather I join in, than just sit there and watch (though I have done that, just to experience it).

Anyway we have found that if the guy with the larger cock makes good natured jokes ("I club baby seals with this in the off seamister" or such) and that the wife makes comments of how good a smaller one feels and such, that male will be more than willing to return for more.

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I'm sure you're right in the broader sense BC, I should have been only speaking for myself: I have a larger & useful one and have long yearned to have a smaller & useless one. This sentiment could be resticted solely to me for all I know. I shouldn't have tried to make a wider social argument. now I just feel lonely!

what cock size hasto do with cuckolding?

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A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

rosetta9

No you're okay! Don't worry.

I'm sure you're not alone, maybe unusual but not alone. You could post another thread asking people's opinion and if anyone has similar feelings to you?