Question - Would you go back if you could?

As a probable cuckold and reading so many posts on here setting out amazing stories of how it all started and what happened. The journey's many of you have taken are amazing, but clearly often don't end up where the couples expected.

My question is, based on where you are today, if you had your time over would you go down this route?

Melbhusb you pose a very interesting question. In a year I went from a normal relationship to being femminised by my wife (initially reluctantly) now and being cut off from her sexually, watching and helping her with guys etc. I wouldnt go back, for I know this is where I am meant to be. It just took my mrs to cheat on me for both of us to realise what we needed.

So yes I would go down this route again. What is your story? what is a probable cuckold?

I would definitely go down this road again. What I would change if I could turn the clock back is the insecurity that made me ask my wife not to see her first toy-boy lover. I should have held my nerve and let her met him again, ideally for a regular supply of eager young cock. Then, hopefully, I think she would have been screwing any number of men these past few years.
Peter C

SB64 I am probable as my wife and I made a deal back last year that she could take other guys if she chose too. Part of the deal was that I of course wouldnt be able to do anything, I don't want to anyway. We also agreed that its my wifes choice to tell me what she does or doesn't do.

So all I do know is that till the date of the deal she had NOT cheated on me, I have soem evidence that she has, but no proof, theerfore my status is probable cuckold

Here is the link to my story

https://www.cuckoldplace.com/25_59829_0.html

Melbhusb, I would suggest where there is smoke there is probably fire, why won't your mrs tell you what she is up to?

Great read by the way, thanks so much for sharing

We've only been in this about a year, but already we are very far from where we started and also far from where I thought it would be. I would have to say though, if I could go back, I would absolutely do it again.

If it works well and everyone's happy, it's great!!
http://indiecuckold.tumblr.com/

If I had it to do over again, I would have suggested my wife openly cuckold me sooner. My wife was very slutty before we met and my lack of experience always made me feel insecure. I couldn't help but wonder if I was as good as her previous boyfriends (I wasn't) and this was a source of angst for many years.

For my wife, she became frustrated and to her credit she tried to be faithful, but her sexual needs became overwhelming and she ended up having several affairs. Eventually I found out and after some soul searching I suggested that she continue to see other guys. At first it was difficult but as I became more comfortable with her dating, I started to notice how excited she was before a date, or how incredibly satisfied she looked after being with other men. At the same time, she still seemed to love me and our sex life was better than ever. She freely admitted that other guys "fucked" her better than me, but she loved cuddling with me and that I was the only guy she "made love" to.

Since then, our marriage has been stronger than ever. When my wife gets the urge she will arrange a date with one of her lovers. I participate in my small way by helping her get dressed, shaving her pussy and basically assuring that she looks as sexy as possible for her dates. I love my wife's date nights and she and I will often orgasm several times each, she with her lover and me with my hand.

I only wish we had started sooner!

What an interesting post, alas I have not been able to get myself cuckolded, but after ebing married now for 20 years, if I could go back, I would have suggested it right at the beginning, before we were married.

Maybe if I has stared talking about it then by now she would be a Hotwife, guess I will never know.

So far everyone postign would not go back

At last someone has asked a very pertinent question, and should be applauded.

This question folks is a lot deeper than it was intended I think.

After a lot of thought, I think 'Yes' would be my answer, all things good and bad considered. I've been cucked in all my relationships, and it was this that kept my interest going. It is integral to my being.

Thank you for asking.
S

After a lot more thinking, I have thus concluded that 'Yes' I would go back and do things twice as much, twice as often and twice as full on than I have done before. My only regret is that my partners although very favourable in carbonsmudgeating ways, did not get the whole 'cucking' idea. They just wanted to fuck!
S

Well Melbhusb,

my wife and I are regretting not entering this lifestyle much earlier. Before our marriage (a long time ago) my wife liked already to tease me with other men. Of course, some tried to steel her from me. However already then, our relationship was very strong.
During marriage we had to raise the kids. After that, having both a good job, she thought, too, being too old for other men.

How wrong she was. She is still attractable and men of all ages are looking for her. She likes all that attention (in clubs) but she has of course her own preferences. She insists me being with her when she makes love with another man, especially with her black friend at our home. It excites her deeply when I (have to) watch. It aren't threesomes. I'm only allowed to watch or sometimes sucking his dick.

I'm very glad to see her having such much pleasure. She knows very well it unlocks also deeper emotions in me. It isn't sex alone. It is also emotion from both sides. Those emotions are expressed in a long written communication about our adventures, already more than 100 pages long. And that after 13 months of cuckolding.

The changed lifestyle of cuckolding strengthened our already very good relationship. Yes, you are reading this very well. That is too the secret I think, a good relationship. If isn't good, you mustn't go in cuckolding.

My comment is therefore very clear: we would do it again but much earlier.
It is our very true story and we are very happy with it.


Dino
(Dutchman, so sorry for my English)

Interesting how so many would go back and do it sooner.

Dino, WifeDates and the others have said it better than we can. We'd echo the "starting younger" comments but then hindsight is always 20/20, isn't it.

bob in sydney here. good question melbhusb, i too would not change a thing, what a great journey it has been for me, my wife and her 'boys' as she calls them. quite a few of our friends know or suspect something is up with us and alot if not all of her girlfriends know. the single ones are always her club buddies and often come back to our place to boast about the nite in front of me. i am not into the wimp husband thing but love that she is into it all and what ever path it takes is all right by me. we live in coogee. see ya mate!

Shamusx, why did you say the question is deeper than i intended, please can you explain it sounds interesting?