Advice needed. why won't she tell me???

I would love some advice from some of the wives or more experienced cuckold hubbys out there.

Over 6 months ago my wife and I came to an arrangement whereby she is allowed to relax with other guys. This was a long held fantasy of mine and I am very very happy with the arrangement. The thing is she will not tell me whether she has or hasn't done anything. She teases and taunts me with jokes and little comments but will neither confirm or deny anything. She told me at the time we made the arrangeemnt that she will never tell me, I am desperate to know, what do you think?

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MH

I have the same arrangement with my wife. Except when she brought it up I said ok as long as she tells me everything after. I get only her when she wants me and she can have any one she wants.

well the way to came up, it wasnt possible for me to make that part of the arrangement. So now she wont tell me and its worse not knowing. Well in some ways its worse, in part the wondering is very erotic if you know what I mean

melbhusb

It very erotic. To not know. I had a arrangement with my ex. She told me all. Very erotic too

But, there is a possibility for her using this only to tease you. She know you dream about it. But it could be that she set the condition 'not tell anything' cause she did not plan to do anything. Do you really know that she is fucking around?

Sorry pal if I disturbed your fantaises. But her conditions do not say that she should not give you proof, does it?

So say to her that you are happy with arrangment, but that you need proof that she is fucking other guys.
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Norwegian
I get your point, but the arrangeemnt did not happen because I told her it was my fantasy, she had been joking about having a boyfrined etc etc for quite a while and it was actually her that jumped on a joke by me to turn it serious. So I would say that she was the one who actually asked for teh arragement more so than me. I was of course a very willing participant and rewadily agreed.
MH

My wife was a cheating wife before she became a hot wife. So not telling me anything was ingrained into her behavior. When everything came out in the open, we agreed that she would tell me everything. As it turned out, she started to withhold details and I was even not told about a number of dates. When I eventually found out I was upset, but my wife apologized and told me that she loved the thrill of cheating and that telling me everything took some of the fun out of her dating.

Well, I've never been good at telling my wife no, so we agreed on a don't ask, don't tell policy. She would still tell me about most of her dates, but if she felt she wanted to keep secrets she could. I have to tell you, it turned me on to no end. Just a simple night out with the girls would have me jerking off thinking she was out on a date. Every time I left for work, I wondered what she might be up to. I was turned on 24/7.

The funny thing is, as time went by my wife started telling me more. She became much more comfortable with her sex life and with giving me all the sexy details. So now, I hear all about her dates and although I don't get to watch, I do get pretty graphic descriptions of what she is up to.

Just be patient, loving and a good husband. Your time will come.

Thanks for the great advice. I too find the not knowing very erotic, I work from home, my wife does not tell me where she goes out, she just says goodbye. I love it,

I sit working on my computer wondering is she with someone right now? what is she doing? where has she gone, soemtimes it turns me on so much I can hardly concentrate.

If i subsequently find out she was out with a girlfriend for coffee, I am very dissapointed. I would estimate she is unaccounted for around 8 hours a week

She was put today for 2 hours, don't knwo where she was, just said goodbye, I love it

Well, I hope she was out getting fucked by another guy! Have you thought about telling her how turned on you get just imagining what she is up to? Tell her and even show her how you jacked off while thinking of some other guy between her legs. Perhaps it will make her more comfortable sharing some details.

MH
She does not need to tell you because it is obvious that she is fucking other guys.

She knows how turned on I get, whuch is why she toments me with the jokes etc etc, but she says no ways will she tell me anything.